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I Don't Care About Anyone's Sexuality

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    Its All About You.

    love yourself be what you want do what ever makes you happy pass time the way you want and do as you please if you have someone to share all of those things as well as the things you love to do then its all good,if a person is happy with who they are then its nobodys business...
    nuttyrocker nuttyrocker 26-30, F Mar 29, 2010

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    bbrucee bbrucee 51-55, M 1 Response Aug 14, 2014

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    Completely True For Me, Except...

    My only exception is paedolphilia.... I don't care that like everyone one else, they're born like that.... they should be locked up and tested and studied to find a cure....NEVER in society!!
    rockyj rockyj 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 31, 2008

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    I feel that people shouldn't be judged by whome

    they may fall in love with or be attracted too.
    theperksofbeingcaitlyn theperksofbeingcaitlyn 13-15, F 4 Responses Apr 11, 2014

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    Can't Guess Why This Would Be An Issue

    Thank God this category is here, so I may contribute my two cents' worth to the conversation.  It's very simple, really.  What your sexuality is is not even on my mind when I meet people or consider someone a friend.  I've worked alongside and got to know both gays...
    UnderEli UnderEli 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 28, 2009

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    Love Is All You Need

    I agree with the other comments here. It's love,and that's all that matters. It doesn't matter to me if you are of the same sex..
    cryingoveryou cryingoveryou 41-45, F 1 Response May 9, 2009

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    UnfinishedStar UnfinishedStar 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 23

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    Not At All. In Fact...

    I applaud people who are brave enough to admit it! They really are amazing people and it does take guts. This isn't a slam at the people who aren't ready. I wouldn't be able to either to be honest. But I do think that people need to stop focusing on what "society" thinks is right...
    Bunny214 Bunny214 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 23, 2013

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    Shouldn't Matter.

    It shouldn't matter who someone wants to bring to their bed unless that person is you or someone they really shouldn't (like a child) I think. Why would anyone want to go poking into someone else's private business just to say "I don't like you"? I believe...
    axelval axelval 18-21, T 1 Response Nov 23, 2008

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    Couldn't Give a Damn ...

    If I like someone, then I like them regardless of how they choose to make love or with whom ... why is it any of my business?  Your sexuality is your own, you own it, it's your own preference, your own affair.  You can tell me about it ... I will listen ... I'll be...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 15 Responses Sep 5, 2009

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    Each to Their Own

    Sexuality is very much a personal choice and an individual expression of identity.  As long as all parties involved are consentual, there is nothing for anyone else to be concerned about. What I do in the bedroom does not define how I will act in my job or studies.  My...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Nov 28, 2008

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    Who Cares?

    I don't see why anyone would care if gays want to get married.  I think they should be allowed to because they are human just like everyone else.  I thought it was really shameful when California took away that right after all those people went out and got married. ...
    amahaterita amahaterita 26-30, F 1 Response May 10, 2009

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    Sheesh.

    I'm writing to this group because I saw something on another site that annoyed me quite a lot. There is a young man who does makeup tutorials and he's BRILLIANT. Does some really creative work. Just so happens he's attracted to other men as well. The majority of the comments on...
    lastleafoffall lastleafoffall 26-30 4 Responses Feb 21, 2009

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    It Matters Not

    I am a woman, I fancy men, some men fancy other men. Some women fancy other women, some women want to be men, some men want to be women. Some women want to be men and fancy women. Some men want to be women and fancy men.   God gave us these bodies, he gave us a...
    SapereAude SapereAude 26-30, F 4 Responses May 15, 2008

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    I Don't Care

    I don't care,Who you are,What you do,If you're not hurting me,Or are a friend of mine,Sexuality don't matter to me.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Dec 18, 2011

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    Doesn't Matter

    My view on different sexualities is similar to my view on different religions: as long as you don't try to change mine, do what (or who =P) you will. I don't think its wrong or immoral or any of that other nonsense...I believe its just another form of Love. And that is...
    vinividivici21 vinividivici21 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 2, 2009

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    The only thing that's awkward is

    when you accidentally ask if they have a boyfriend, and they say "I like girls" and you're like oops now I feel stupid.
    Xeniabolton Xeniabolton 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 14, 2014

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    Who am I to judge what is "normal"

    when it comes to sexuality. There is no such thing! I'm a girl who lines guys. How is that any different from a girl who likes girls? Aren't we all just a human who likes another human?
    Astro314159 Astro314159 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 10, 2014

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    A Gender Isn't A Lifestyle.

    My gender laws: Males must have XY chromoesomes Females must have XX chromosomes I don't think "male" or "female" are lifestyles. They're just what your DNA says you are. My DNA tells me I have brown eyes, but that doesn't determine at all how I should act or live my life. I...
    itsjustme1001 itsjustme1001 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 24, 2010

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    People are still people,

    no matter what sexuality they are! I don't care about their sexuality unless they shove it down peoples throats to get their points across. That unfortunately happens a lot.
    DamoiseauDynavolt DamoiseauDynavolt 16-17, M Jul 6, 2014

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    Ilikepi314 Ilikepi314 31-35, M Mar 10, 2014

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    No Opinion

    Don't care if you're straight, polyamorous, bisexual, lesbian, gay. None of that matters to me. None of it. What do you with your body and your life is perfect for you, and my opinion matters not. In fact I refuse to have an opinion on that.
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F 5 Responses Oct 3, 2008

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    So please keep it clean

    when you contact me. Thank you very much!
    HelenInTheUK HelenInTheUK 51-55, F 2 Responses Feb 22

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    Lately (meaning in the last few years) I have

    been seeing young people (meaning children in their early and mid teens) seemingly in horrible angst about whether they are gay or straight. Hey, young'uns, chances are that you're getting a bit ahead of the horse you're trying to drive. Why shouldn't knowing whether you are...
    cornbreadandsorghum cornbreadandsorghum 70+, F 1 Response Sep 5, 2014

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    Nope,

    I couldn't care less who you are attracted to.   That would not change my opinion about anyone.  The only thing that would make me think less is if they are fake.  I cannot stand fake people, but that's a different story!
    BamaBabe87 BamaBabe87 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 7, 2010

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    New Husband

    One of my grandmothers favorites: I grew up without a maternal grandfather, he'd died a few years before I'd been born, and divorced from my grandmother after she switched teams. I was a smart kid, sometimes too smart but I understood things many kids didn't, or never do. I was...
    LamaTwo LamaTwo 22-25, M May 20, 2013

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    Never An Impediment

    I have never let anyone's sexuality be an impediment in a friendship. This doesn't mean that if you are of the diaper wearing, child *********** defending bizarre crowd that you will gain entrance to my circle. It just will not happen. That being said - I've had friends who are...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 8, 2009

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    How come when babies are born they're

    automatically assumed to be straight? (most of the time) how come there has to be an 'in the closet stage' how come it's not a 'figuring out who you are stage' and then instead of 'coming out' it's 'defining your sexuality' so like when you're born you're a blank slate and...
    dreamer0800 dreamer0800 13-15, F 3 Responses Oct 28, 2014

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    I Think I Have Said This Before...

    But love is love. People are people. And as long as its between consenting adults I don't care what you do.  
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Sep 15, 2008

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    Its Just a Little Piece

    There is so much that makes up a person. It is very foolish to judge someone based solely  on this one aspect. Personally i think its great if people just try to be happy and be with whoever they want. As long as everyone is consenting and your not asking me to ... like...
    Tacit Tacit 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 15, 2008

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    If u like the same sex I'm fine with it,

    if u like the opposite sex...I'm still fine with it. It's your choice on life and I don't judge a book by its cover
    Smexyshannonxo Smexyshannonxo 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 4, 2014

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    It's Personal

    My sexuality is personal, so is everyone elses. It's not easy to discuss for me and I never really have discussed it with anyone but myself. I've tried to explain my self in another story I wrote (http://www.experienceproject.com/uw.php?e... ). It is very personal, not just for...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 1 Response Nov 23, 2008

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    Gay Straight Les Bi, Who Out There Cares Less Than I?

    Who you prefer in bed is your own business. I am tired of meeting people who have adopted a stereotype and call it a personality instead of having any substance or depth.
    Tak88 Tak88 26-30, M Oct 2, 2013

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    As a matter of fact my boyfriend is decently

    bisexual, as am I. I love how open he is about it. He doesn't mind telling me about ex boyfriends n whatnot..
    Hersheychic Hersheychic 18-21, F May 7, 2014

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    WOW!!!

    The picture - icon for this group is HOT. Is her finger in her butt?
    Monique08 Monique08 41-45 2 Responses Nov 29, 2008

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    JUST Don't Lie to Me

    IF UR MY FRIEND IT'S NONE OF MY BUSINESS BUT IF UR TRYING TO GET AT ME/SLEEP WITH ME THEN THAT'S IMPORTANT... ESPECIALLY WITH ALL THE **** GOING AROUND NOWADAYS AND ALL THE CRAZY FOLK GETTING STABBED AND KILLED AND STUFF.    
    fukkboii fukkboii 36-40, F 1 Response May 10, 2009

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    Its About Bodies For Kripe Sakes

    while we are SOULS traveling through life in the VEHICLE of our bodies. and what REAL person ever got interested in your car without checking out the person behind the wheel... (never mind where they were going and how they conducted themselves) ON THAT WINDING ONE WAY ROAD?
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 26, 2012

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    Own It...

    why should we use our time to debate wether or not someone is doing something right with their own sexuualyity or not. I am a lesbian. I havn't expressed this long but Ive known for a few years now.. I just don't understand why people think its such a big issue. Its love... why...
    sindayla sindayla 18-21, F 5 Responses May 8, 2009

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    Kinda Makes Me Sad

    Today I read that the courts have upheld the ban on gay marriage in California.  It kinda makes me sad that people can't let other people be happy.  I don't see how any of that can make one little iota of a difference to heterosexual people.  Why do the religious...
    amahaterita amahaterita 26-30, F May 27, 2009

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    I'm Not A Troll

    Here is how i see if i don't care what your sexuality is no matter if you are guys/girl, i am a very open minded person and i have friends of different race and even different countries and my self even have some of really good friend gay and lesbian so its not a problem with me...
    Thewarriorofheart Thewarriorofheart 18-21, T Jan 25, 2012

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    Everyone Is The Same To Me!!

    i dont care wether you are straight or gay or whatever you are, its all ok with me, not that anyone needs my permission lol!!
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M Jan 26, 2012

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    I don't see why this is an issue. But no worries from me. We all have our likes wants and desires. Don't let anyone stop you from being happy.
    Averageguy41074 Averageguy41074 36-40, M Feb 10