I Dont Care About Appearances, I See Character

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    Don't Care About Apperances

    I see character too. It's all about character. Character is a big personality to have. Character can be interesting, fun, sometimes funny, serious.  
    mother1983 mother1983
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Apr 24, 2008

    Just Me

    It's so true... I have to love a person for who they are inside. If they can't treat me with love and respect then what does it matter what's on the outside. I've dated a few "pretty boys" in my time but being in love with yourself doesn't work if you can't worship me...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality
    36-40, F
    8 Responses Dec 23, 2007

    What's Inside.....

    To me honestly, whats on the inside is the most important part of a person. I see their character before I see anything else. Today's society is stuck on beauty. I've never seen myself as pretty on the outside. I see it on the inside though because I think I have pretty good...
    picgirl picgirl
    31-35, F
    14 Responses Nov 9, 2007

    Why Care

    I care what's on the inside which is usually you heart LOL> I cant stand when people get obsessed with appereaces. Why care that much about you appereace. YOu are sexy regardless.
    firestarterfairy firestarterfairy
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 4, 2008

    Looks fade....character stays.

    ...I'm attracted to people who can speak there feelings through words....whispers to sooth your pain....eyes that can tell a story....beauty is in the eyes of the beholder....looks don't matter....beauty is deep down....never judge a book by its cover.
    bellaluce bellaluce
    51-55, F
    16 Responses Feb 28, 2014

    Anyone See 'shallow Hal'?

    As for me I never judge people on appearance. I try to learn the person from within. And if it is fine inside externally it will seems to me attractive to. I think it is important that you can talk with a person and that you can share some interests. Also, I think that the...
    Josie06 Josie06
    56-60, F
    1 Response Jul 31, 2010

    I actually prefer girls

    who arent absolutely gorgeous. I find it hard to focus on what really matters, which is their personality. With pretty girls, you have to worry about other guys lookin and flirtin. I want a decent looking girl with a great personality. Someone i can share ideas with and connect...
    ForeverJashinist ForeverJashinist
    18-21, M
    Apr 4, 2015

    More Interesting

    I don't care if you're burnt from head to toe, if you're a nice person with a great character, I'll like you. People don't judge me by my appearence, they go for the character, which is much more interesting :)
    Luangi Luangi
    18-21, F
    Nov 16, 2007

    NOT Me

    I don't agree.  I think that someone with a sense of style, a sense of funk, a sense of hippiedom, a sense of disco... tells me something about them, just by looking.   these are all things that i want to know, about someone!!!  it makes my life, much more...
    FiFiDelmar FiFiDelmar
    46-50, F
    25 Responses Mar 10, 2008

    Different Angle...

    I do not fit in the "normal" perspective of looks.  And that's fine by me.  'Cause I see the world at an odd angle.  Oddities are amusing; I can see the humor in the grimmest situation.  Do I fit the norm?  No.  Do I care?  No.  I...
    SunnyKris SunnyKris
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 5, 2007

    I Like to Think I'm a Good Judge of Character

    but I have been wrong on a couple of occasions, which upsets me when that happens, and then I wish I did just focus on their appearance lol
    GoldieMtZion GoldieMtZion
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Jan 6, 2008

    I'm Blind When It Comes To Appearance...

    I can't really see someone for who they are, till they talk to me for a little while. In some cases I can't even see their faults, until I am around them a while. I met a man online once. We spoke for quite some time. We then did the picture exchange. He was a bit hesitant...
    O38OO2661677 O38OO2661677
    Dec 3, 2012


    We are all human beings, we all have emotions and each of us is different. The outside is just a tiny part of who we are, it's what is on the inside that attracts me. I have dated quite a few guys who by my friends standards are "ugly" - they don't even know them. I can...
    31-35, F
    Oct 27, 2007

    People Noone Is Perfect

    We all have something to contribute in this world, i have friends from all walks of life. It is whats inside that matters not what our sqrewed up society thinks is " good".  I wouldn't trade a minute of the experiences i have had, each person unique. I had to give...
    redheadsrule redheadsrule
    36-40, F
    Aug 30, 2007

    I think this is a mistake on my behalf.

    I must be looking for trouble.
    dontcareforlabels dontcareforlabels
    41-45, M
    Sep 23, 2014

    I don't care what you look like

    if I like you, I like you for YOU.
    natyxo natyxo
    16-17, F
    Feb 28, 2014

    Not a Big Deal

    Is it really a big deal? I mean, we all look different in some way or another some people just are different to a larger extent. I've met people who are probably 6'5 or so, muscular and everything but has the sweetest outlook on life. I also know that small, quiet people like me...
    HanaNoMizu HanaNoMizu
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Dec 15, 2007

    It's Simple, Really.

    Looks fade with time, and if that's all you have going for you, you'll be doomed by the time you hit forty.  Unless you're ridiculously rich and can afford plastic surgery, but then you'll never know if people are with you because of your looks or because of your money...
    TwilightDreamer TwilightDreamer
    26-30, F
    Mar 6, 2008

    A Matter of Perspective

    Beauty is the inside shining through..
    blackspot blackspot
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Dec 15, 2007

    It doesn't matter if he/she has looks,

    but has a bad attitude anyway. Ugly or not, if you have a bad attitude, it all ends up with people wanting to smack your face. XD
    Conrad219 Conrad219
    16-17, M
    1 Response May 29, 2014

    Enough With The Insults

    I have been ragged on many times because a lot of people online seem to hate the way I look, they're a bunch of shallow gasholes. First of all they claim i'm ugly. There is no such thing as "ugly" in my opinion, that's just some stupid fashion propaganda rule set up to make...
    Monstermaster13 Monstermaster13
    22-25, M
    Dec 2, 2012

    I Don't Appear Any Better Than You

    No do I appear any worse. Should it matter if someone is good looking or his manners are more important. Would you rather be with someone scrumptiously handsome, who is mean and unkind or would you enjoy the company of an intelligent fun person who is not the most...
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort
    36-40, F
    3 Responses May 19, 2009

    I Don't Care About Looks

      I have never cared for looks. That is something that has never bothered me at all. I like to believe that what is in the inside that counts. Not what is on the out side of a person. I like what makes a person a person.
    acjf acjf
    22-25, F
    Oct 21, 2010

    IDK Why Should You?

    I could care less what my friends look like. I judge people solely on the way they treat me and the people around them. So don’t worry about your physical appearance because I don’t.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    5 Responses May 13, 2008

    Depending On What You Do...

    Beauty is in the eye of the beholder or as Christina Aguilera "You are beautiful no matter whatever people say." So don't you bring me down today. Not matter where you find that beauty inside you and let it reach further to the other part of you.
    sparklekid sparklekid
    31-35, F
    Mar 3, 2008

    It's What's Inside That Matter.

    Being rejected for who you are sucks. But I think being a part of a crowd where I'm only accepted cuz of how I look is worse. Sure...a pretty/handsome face or sexy body will catch my attention. But if you're a ***** or *******, I don't want to be around you. Inner beauty is far...
    KaBe22 KaBe22
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 12, 2010

    I don't care what someone looks like,

    I only care about what kind of person they are. If you are a decent person, then we will get along just fine.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic
    31-35, F
    Oct 31, 2015


    If there is anything i can be thankful for in being bullied was not to judge people on appearances, able disabled, pretty,ugly, fat, skinny, rich, poor, red hair, purple hair, bald,   freckled, speckled , frog legged, dragon winged or polka dotted. Who in their right mind...
    SilverShells SilverShells
    46-50, F
    1 Response Nov 27, 2010

    **** the "Beautiful People"

    I'm disgusted by judgment on appearance. I'm an artist, & appreciate beauty as much as the next person, but more often than not, I find it a fault in human beings. So you're pretty, that doesn't mean your **** doesn't stink. When you meet someone, & can see there's a...
    QuixoticKidEternity QuixoticKidEternity
    6 Responses Mar 20, 2008


    I am not one for snobs and am very down to earth. This story seemed appropriate for here . I work with one of the sweetest gay men ever. The other day our Fed ex guy came in and he quickly turns to me and says "I can't look ,i love bald men " Me too i said ..not that...
    redheadsrule redheadsrule
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jun 14, 2008


    some of the most trust worthy and good hearted people i've run across were people in jeans and tshirts some clean,some dirty from their hard work.and the most hateful and decieving and ugly"inside" people i've run across were the ones in the top of the line designer...
    hillbillydaddy hillbillydaddy
    36-40, M
    8 Responses Dec 14, 2007

    I love someone with a great personality.

    It sounds stupid but I just really love someone I can relate to or understands me.
    anothersadteen anothersadteen
    16-17, F
    May 28, 2014

    Recently, I was told

    that I have a beautiful soul. Though that may seem simple, that is honestly the greatest compliment I have ever received. Anybody can be called pretty, or sexy. But to me, the greatest compliment is being called unique, being called kind. Looks truly have nothing to do with the...
    rachh4321 rachh4321
    18-21, F
    Dec 16, 2014

    Looks Can Be Born In Hell

    yeah.it's like when you go to hell nobody matters about your looks.it burns and melts when heated in the fire.same as it is eaten by maggots and worms once buried on the land.but when you are good, only your body will be buried.but your soul is up to heaven and everybody will be...
    dantodominus dantodominus
    16-17, F
    Oct 26, 2011
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