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I Don't Care What Color My Friends Are

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    I dont really think race matters in how u

    should interact with people. I have friends that are black, asian, mixed, indian. Hell my girlfriend is half native american. If i actually cared about how people look and what their race is, than i would t be with the best gf in the world
    ForeverJashinist ForeverJashinist 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 2

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    Why would i care? Color doesn't make the

    man/woman.. personality does!
    TheNippledMan TheNippledMan 36-40, M 2 Responses Jul 6, 2014

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    "Hey you're going to the movies with me right?

    " my best friend asked. "Of course, it's the only fun thing I have planed for this weekend." I respond. "Well, ummmm, a lot of my black friends are going too..." he says shyly. I pause, laugh and say, "You're black you know, if I had a problem you wouldn't be my best friend."
    lostfollower lostfollower 16-17, F Apr 21, 2014

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    I honestly don't care what color they are,

    it doesn't make a difference to me
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 11

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    there is some people

    when i lie to them thaey think im good man but when i be honest with them they think im bad boy by the way im honest with everyone because i don't have what i lie about then plz Do not judge on people u don't know
    Viali Viali 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 18, 2014

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    Who could discriminate?

    Who could limit themselves? Everyone is welcome.
    ChizzyVanGogh ChizzyVanGogh 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 7, 2014

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    bubblelife bubblelife 31-35, F Dec 12, 2014

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    I saw a video on youtube

    and it disappointed me. People, each of whom was there, helped a white kid who suffered from child abuse, while people did not do anything to a black kid who suffered from child abuse too. This is seriously so unfair and upset me. Does color really matter? Does color matter...
    sunny11o sunny11o 16-17, F 5 Responses Mar 31

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    I am very color blind

    when it comes to the color of my friends. Color means nothing to me. I am very friendly and would love to have more friends of any race.
    amberbethcoed amberbethcoed 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 6

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    I Taught My Mom Something!!!

    I am mexican american.  I grew up in a very prejudice home.  In most of my cousins  homes, we had mexican moms with white dads.  Not all, but most.  I'll never forget the time that my little brother brought home a little black friend from school...
    TexasLily TexasLily 51-55, F 18 Responses Aug 22, 2009

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    It Doesn'T Matter

    I always remember being colorblind when it came to choosing my friends. It truly doesn't matter what color your friends are as long as they are true friends. There for you no matter what. My two closest friends are white and Indian, judge the personality not the looks!
    jTat jTat 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 31, 2013

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    Rebecca321 Rebecca321 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 16, 2014

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    Open your eyes and take in everything

    that you see Look at all the colors, red, yellow, blue, and green We can take an airplane and fly across the globe Look down upon the colors, everyone come on, let's go Because Love, love, love, la la love La la love makes the world go 'round! Love, love, love, la la love La la...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 27

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    Friendship Is Blind

    The friends we have are an extension of who we are in life. Much like the eccentricities that embodies our unique souls, so are our precious friends.  Many of us are lucky enough to have many friends that; when combined, exudes a rainbow circle!  To judge a friend or potential...
    Cryssy1980 Cryssy1980 31-35, F 15 Responses Oct 2, 2012

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    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 2, 2014

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    The girl in the bed I feel myself floating I

    look down below The girl in the bed Is someone I know It took a few seconds Before I could see The girl in the bed I realize is me I’m lying there still Looking asleep My parents beside me Sit there and weep I mouth words of comfort I shout I’m alright Willing my body To put...
    sworrall1 sworrall1 46-50, F Jun 7, 2014

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    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F Nov 4, 2014

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    I don't care if they tattooed every inch of

    skin they have purple, as long as they are nice I will take them in as a friend
    Padresfan Padresfan 16-17, M Aug 10

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    you could be green with rainbow polka dots

    and id still be your friend
    FloralSmoke18 FloralSmoke18 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 9, 2014

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    what is friend really means?

    the one who are happy for u when u r happy? or the one who makes u sad when they left u and makes u realize how important they r? the one who are always positive? or the one who hates this world and make u learn how to be real human? I hate them. but I love them.
    inspirit05 inspirit05 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    I kinda care. Not because I hate specific

    colors. I want a Blue friend! Make it happen! :D I'd Be your best friend forever!
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 28, 2014

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    I never have cared. I was raised with parents

    who travel a lot. We have spent time in Ghane, South Africa, India, and in Asia. My best friends in my life are a rainbow of cultures. Racism has a color too. Colorism has a color too That color is ignorance. Anyone who can disclude my friends or ppl different than...
    Tasha15Girl Tasha15Girl 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 1, 2014

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    I have dorky friends.

    I have super-saint-innocent friends. ppl said you are the mirror of your friends. then, what it makes me? I know I'm totally not so innocent *dark aura* but I'm not totally *******. I guess I'm fake.
    inspirit05 inspirit05 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jan 20, 2014

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    i have friends all color i love people

    for them not the color when do we stop looking at color if you want to be my friend treat me like you want to be treated if i see a man i see the heart first i dont look at size shapes GOD made u and love us we are his flowers so he picks the best ever color size shape all
    lisaheavy lisaheavy 51-55, F 14 Responses Mar 31

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    I have many friends that are white,

    black, Asian, Latino, Mexican, and others. In fact, I am in an active interracial relationship and marriage with biracial children. My black husband shares me with other black men in our circle of friends on weekends.
    bethanyinusa bethanyinusa 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 6, 2014

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    They're all perfect in their own ways.

    ..Colour does not change any of that...
    SammySnm SammySnm 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 17, 2014

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    A lot of people act as

    if they want to make friends and seem open but really I think people only want a certain type of friend that matches their skin color. I don't have a problem making friends from any other race and would not rule someone out because they don't look like me. I think some people...
    MisunderstoodGal30 MisunderstoodGal30 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 25

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    My aunt teaches a dance class

    and she's the only black person in the class , it's all kinds of nationalities in the class .. So as a goof I went and actually enjoyed myself and as a result I keep going and most of the ladies have kids my age , so it's a selling point I guess because most evenings they will...
    Prettibrowngirl Prettibrowngirl 70+, F 3 Responses Apr 3

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    You know what I hate most about society today?

    Categorizing African Americans into lightskin, darkskin, brownskin. Like why??? We're still black. Skin color doesn't base your personality towards others. Saying lightskins are cocky, selfish, slow texters. That's a ******* stereotype. Well I guess lightskins are basically...
    Antonice Antonice 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 25, 2014

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    Better Things To Worry About.

    What color your friends are doesn't matter. I don't see why people base their friendships off of color. It should be character. I guess I'm one of the growing number of people that finally see this. I just hope that in time this continues to be the trend. We have more things to...
    CRD1983 CRD1983 26-30, M 6 Responses Dec 18, 2012

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    I think it is pretty sad

    when we cling to old stereotypes and judge people by race/color. The fear of someone different than us is petty, weak, and unhealthy. And a lot of times that is what the hate or judgement is based on, fear. Bigots and racists are really just scared little ********, or at the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 11, 2014

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    As long as they be real.

    And not betray. Or milk.
    Converted Converted 46-50, M 2 Responses Mar 20

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    I am a solid believer in livening our fellow

    man. But I have such a program about African American people. I love them, now I don't know about reverse racism but if I see a African American person we are automatically best friends in my mind. I grew up as an air force brat. And each year when we moved my best friend...
    flexforchange flexforchange 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 30, 2014

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    Unless they are red with anger,

    green with envy, or blue with cold, or something like that. Then I will certainly care.
    GreenButtercup GreenButtercup 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 20, 2014

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    Skin color shouldn't matter.

    The only important color from a human is their aura.
    jenneruz jenneruz 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 8, 2014

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    I don't care what color my friends are

    but I wish I had a more diverse group. It's just so hard nowadays to meet people and make friends. I feel so much older than everyone. I also don't work anymore so when I was younger that's where I met the majority of my friends at. I miss being besties with my coworkers and...
    VerucaRose VerucaRose 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 28, 2014

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    What are we in the 1800's

    or something? I judge you by your personality not by something stupid like skin color.
    royrock3 royrock3 22-25, M Aug 14

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    I dun care if u black,

    white, yellow, brown, red, orange or even rainbow! You are my friend, no matter what!!!
    TheHetalianPewdiepieNerd TheHetalianPewdiepieNerd 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2014

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    I don't see you differently

    because you are a certain race. If your Mexican, cool. If you're from the Middle East, that's fine. As long as you have good morals, you can be my friend. If not, probably just stay acquaintances. I only surround myself with people who make me a better person.
    watermelonbliss watermelonbliss 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2014

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    Why would it matter what color one's friends

    are? I'm open to friendship with anyone who wants to be a friend.
    zincthink zincthink 31-35, M 2 Responses Feb 15, 2014

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    webalias3 webalias3 41-45, M 4 Responses May 12, 2014

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    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 2, 2014

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    Black, white, green, yellow,

    purple, or rainbow, it's not the color of the skin but the content of the character that I judge. There is good in every race, and there is bad in every race. Don't like it? I don't care.
    pag089 pag089 26-30, M Aug 10

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    I have five best friends.

    Three of them are black. One of them is Asian, the other is white. I am white. And still, there're those a******* that call me racist. WTF???
    ThisIsJustForFun ThisIsJustForFun 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 2, 2014

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    Fatemah97 Fatemah97 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 2, 2014