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I Don't Care What People Think of Me Anymore

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    Sometimes it does matter to me what others think, but I think I'm slowly (and thankfully) pulling away from what other people what me to be and do or think or how they want me to live.  Slow going beating my own path.
    filthydieseltech filthydieseltech 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 1, 2009

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    Almost Bullied To Death

    I was always picked on, i still am. First it was on my looks and now it is on my life style. People get upset when i listen to the music that makes me happy. I use to get called fat, ugly, fat ***, jelly roll and more. Well that lead me to trying to kill myself. But now that i am...
    krazyj krazyj 18-21, F Jun 23, 2011

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    I Am Me

    I used to care what people thought of me.  I was teased all through school.  When I was in high school, I learned to not care.  I used to be very shy. I still am somewhat shy, but not like I used to be.  I am very comfortable with who I am, and no longer care...
    tigerdancer77 tigerdancer77 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 28, 2008

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    No More Voices In My Head

    I`m learning how to do this, I`m learning how to listen to myself more than the voice of the abusers. I lived in a family of such people that thinking about what others might/will think or may or may not do was a primary focus and occupation..it was impossibly to have a...
    gia99 gia99 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 14, 2010

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    Who Cares!

    its my choice!...I dont even care what other people talk about me behind my back,,.its funny to heared that they just belong behind my back,,..they all *****! as long as im happy of what im going and no one hurts(im gonna fight for it),..and im not breathing through their noses...
    Jan 31, 2013

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    And it is brilliant. Yesterday I went out with

    my best friend, and we danced. There was this guy, he seemed familiar to me. So I asked him "From where do I know you?" He said "We once went to the cinema together with S.!" So we started dancing. I just didn't think about what he would be thinking of me, we just laughed...
    happynessischoice happynessischoice 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 8

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    This Will Help You.

    http://video.server.dhamma.org/video/intro/vintro.htm watch the videos on that page with an open mind. Peace.
    tyrian69 tyrian69 22-25, M Sep 12, 2012

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    Past Caring

    I used to really care about what people thought of me. Probably because I live in a small town, and all people do around here is talk about eachother. And then I realised that I don't care about what these ignorant hicks think of me, because they're ignorant hicks, who know...
    j3ez j3ez 16-17 2 Responses Jul 17, 2008

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    I'm Just So Sick and Tired of This!

    I'm so sad i got depressed by thinking of what people think of me every single second! right now today i'm finished with this. i'm just so sooooo sad and lonely and..i'm..i..i'm so weak and i'm so so stupid..i just want everything to come back again, i want to talk to my brothers...
    EverythingBreaks EverythingBreaks 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 1, 2009

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    Its Cost Me Some Friendships

    I don't want to be surrounded with people who have no respect for me any more, because I believe in myself, just enough, to know that these kind of people don't really deserve my time. I like myself, with all my faults, with all my flaws, with all my quirks. And more and more...
    chairmanmeow chairmanmeow 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 28, 2009

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    Wow, This Is A Huge Step To Take In Life

    I am so happy to have attained this knowledge, finally. I finally "get it" thoroughly and completely. I admit I still fall back into old thought patterns, but I do have to tools to correct this immature process now. So many years and tears were wasted trying so hard to not be...
    Wispen Wispen 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 12, 2010

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    They Don't Want To Think Good About You!

    Hello I am English student I live with family to practice language. They don't like me, and I have changed in front of them by time, they are so jealous I used to care about what they do think, and now they think good about me but they "Want to think bad things about me" They...
    Happyryan Happyryan 22-25 Dec 6, 2012

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    I Don't Care What People Think of Me Anymore

    well i'm 25 and for as long as i can remember i've been doing things that will please others but now i'm tired of it, i have decided i've had enough, i now have a new point of veiw, i decided i don't care what people think of me, i didn't ask for any of them to be my friends...
    xxacexx23 xxacexx23 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 21, 2008

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    doomkitty9 doomkitty9 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 4

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    I just don't care any more, I am exhausted in caring what other people think if me.... I have spent calf my life pleasing people...they want me to be this way and not that way...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 1 day ago

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    Today I was talking with one of my EP friends about how a guy on here ignored me for no apparent reason. No matter what I tried to say to him, he wouldn't respond.. I don't believe...
    Tazzu Tazzu 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    Most girls my age want to fit in with everyone but I don't really care if I do. All of my friends say I'm neutral because I don't have a care if you like me or not.
    No1ne No1ne 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Once you stop caring what others think of you, you take a huge step to what is called freedom.
    3dogmatt 3dogmatt 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    It matters not what others think, it matters what I know.
    3dogmatt 3dogmatt 36-40, M Aug 19

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    Everyone i know pretty much allways goes " what r u wearing!!" Or like "dont dance in public youre crazy" but whatever 😄✌️
    ep1093 ep1093 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    I wasn't put on this earth to please you, I was put here to make a difference.
    abbyhh25 abbyhh25 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    Other girls are into make up shopping and nails while im into wearing snap backs backwards and tanks sometimes i like playing video games but thats just me (sorry for my ugly ness...
    desitor desitor 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 5

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    HigherCalling HigherCalling 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    My husband and I are going through something very personal right now and it's slowly tearing our marriage apart. All I can say here is I hurt him and made him feel like I didn't...
    Justalicia Justalicia 31-35, F Aug 4

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    I don't know what to so anymore when I wear something nice and someone say you ain't ****...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    Our beliefs are the only thing we as people can really have as our own. I don't care if you're atheist, christian, Buddhist, Muslim, gay pride, supremacist, shovanist, feminist...
    HeyIThappens HeyIThappens 18-21 Aug 14

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    I just get so frustrated all the time, my life isn't turning out the way I planned. I change something then things are good for a while but I don't get that overwhelming feeling...
    Alwayslost11 Alwayslost11 26-30, F Aug 7

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    I really don't. I find it irritating when people step in and offer one when I haven't asked for one. It may be kind of inappropriate in some circumstances, and I'm good at putting...
    traurigerpanda traurigerpanda 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 8

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    I don't have a Facebook, Twitter account. Id rather talk to my friends in phone or in person.
    whathefuckiswrongwithsociety whathefuckiswrongwithsociety 18-21 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    One of my close buddy leaked my secrets in anger on a facebook group of my school ..He think im embarrassed but he's wrong :/
    stoneseeker stoneseeker 16-17, M 3 days ago

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    **** you you can't tell me what to do
    jujufruit12345 jujufruit12345 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    My boyfriend has been out of state for a month, but we talk every day. We always say "I love you", but he hasn't said it today. I wrote it in a text and he replied with "yippee...
    WiredCritter WiredCritter 22-25 1 Response Aug 5

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    I have many friends that are white, black, Asian, Latino, Mexican, and others. In fact, I am in an active interracial relationship and marriage with biracial children. My black...
    bethanyinusa bethanyinusa 36-40, F 5 Responses Aug 6

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    Today was freshman orientation for school and I went really confident. I thought I looked great and I thought I was gonna make lots of friends and maybe even meet a cute boy or two...
    Fishy2k14 Fishy2k14 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    When I was 17, I got pregnant with my oldest. He was a premature baby, so I got little to hardly any time to bond with him the first 3 months of his life. I spent 6 days a week...
    Krissysheart Krissysheart 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    I don't care what you label yourself as long as you are true to yourself and that you don't step on other people's lives. Btw i'm bi and proud 👌
    CamA7 CamA7 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    I left my husband about 2 and 1/2 years ago. We were together for 7 years and we have 3 beautiful children together, but our marriage was toxic. He was extremely emotionally...
    Octoberbreeze Octoberbreeze 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 27

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    It happened to me yesterday and I still don't know what to think about it. There already is someone I already love (we're not in a relationship though, I wrote about it in my...
    GlowingHeart GlowingHeart 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    When you stay in bed the whole day because you don't know what to think.
    amazing97 amazing97 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    My sleep is so restless. I wake up so early every morning and sit in bed looking out the window for hours until I can feel my eyes close again and sink back down. I wake up once...
    wanderquietly wanderquietly 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 11

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    I'm sooo annoyed about certain online friends of mine always message me things and then get upset or complain when I don't answer them right away. "it took you that long to...
    sugarcakes143 sugarcakes143 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 10

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    I suffer very badly with social anxiety disorder and I feel like its now ruining my life to the point where I don't see the point in being alive anymore. My self-esteem is...
    bobthespider bobthespider 18-21 Aug 6

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    I don't care. I don't care. I don't care. I don't care. I don't care. I don't care. I don't care. I think I don't care, but I can't do as I think. :D :(
    DAOZ DAOZ 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    With all this Robin Williams suicide discussion, I have had a nerve hit. I am 22 years old and lost my uncle to suicide when i was 18. He was only 28 and was very close to me. I...
    MrJosiah MrJosiah 22-25, M Aug 12

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    Have you ever felt like you just want to break down in tears and you don't know why? Only to find you have no more tears left to cry? I feel empty - numb, almost as if existing...
    TaintedSnowflakes TaintedSnowflakes 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    I have many friends who are, or at least have been in a relationship. So, I always get asked as to how I feel about being single. The truth is, I am not missing anything, because I...
    TheAverageIdiot TheAverageIdiot 16-17, M 3 Responses Aug 5

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    (using google translate) Okay, I use to have a google account but someone i trusted a lot lied to me and he pretend to be my friend and told me he don't care how old I am so we...
    Blazingdragon Blazingdragon 13-15, M 4 Responses Aug 5

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    Last Sunday I had another anger episode. I took a baseball bat to the mailbox, I put my knee through some pictures, I punched a hole in the wall, and I said some things I think are...
    IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 13-15, M Aug 9

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