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I Don't Commit to Anything, Unless I'm Absolutely Sure

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 135 People

    Be For Real!

    Hey this isn't directed at anyone here personally but they're some people who just 'do it' spur of the moment. Sometimes they have a great trip and on others they crashland. Now I not like that - I will weigh up what something involves - the time, emotional investment maybe even...
    CarolineBelinda CarolineBelinda 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 25, 2009

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    Just Won't Do It

    my father says that i should be more reliable but i just don't want to lead anyone on
    bemmie bemmie 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 18, 2012

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    I Look Before I Leap!

    First off... I want to start this with the following fact. This story isn't directed towards anyone in my life now or on EP. Heehee! I was thinking about the people of my past, just now, and felt like sharing something true about me. So, enjoy reading and don't feel like I'm...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 15, 2009

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    Why Not?

    And even if I AM sure, I'm still really not. I always think about the road not taken, sure that the moment that I made the friggin decision it was the wrong one. Needless to say, I'm usually crippled my indecision.
    Tuva Tuva 31-35, M Jun 21, 2010

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