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I Dont Condone Hurting Anyone Even Those That Deserve It

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    Does that mean people don't get hurt by me? NO! I have been guilty of hurting peoples feelings here, but the whole story is not being told so I won't justify an explanation any further.
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 7, 2011

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