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I Dont Consider A Persons Gender Important To Me

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    It Should Not Matter To You Either

    A persons gender should not be important.If that person is good and kind,thats all that is important.How that person lives his or her live is not important,as long as it doesn't hurt any one.If that person is a male wearing a dress,it's not important.It's whats in their heart...
    cindyloulove cindyloulove 56-60, M 2 Responses May 22, 2012

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