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I Don't Cope Well With Death

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    What Do You Say?

    What can you say to someone who's lost a loved one or relative? Anything I might say sounds lame and pointless. But you can't just pretend nothing's happened.
    fadiva fadiva 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 11, 2008

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    Try To Ignore It...

    I act like it doesn't happpen, when someone I care about, and Love, have died. I don't cope well at all, I do anything, and everything to forget that it even happened, I don't talk about it, I don't think about it, I don't do anything that has to do with coming to terms with what...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 29, 2010

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    My Dad

    My Dad, When he passed away, I was so sad, I couldn’t cope, Needed help, Still, I miss him every day.
    startinover1 startinover1 46-50 Apr 2, 2012

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    Oil and Water

    I don't deal well with the deaths of the people around me. At all. For some reason I have trouble processing the fact that someone is gone...and then I'm terrified of who's going to be next.  Ironically, I'm not as afraid of myself dying as I am of my siblings or my mother...
    vinividivici21 vinividivici21 22-25, F 7 Responses Aug 10, 2008

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    Is This Normal?

    I have such a strange way of dealing with death. This has happened with my uncles passing and also my grandpa that just died today. Ill try to ignore it and ill be fine until I have to see family. Once I go to a funeral or wake I feel extremely uncomfortable and get really...
    Christysweet268 Christysweet268 18-21 1 Response Apr 8, 2013

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    I'm Not Able

    It seems to me, that having gone through the loss of loved ones many times since I was 8 would  have given me some kind of insight.  Knowing what people need from us in their own time of loss.  But it did not give me any insight.  Nothing ever made me feel any...
    DumpyFrumpy DumpyFrumpy 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 2, 2008

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    Hard.

    I know this May sound Pathetic or Crazy Even. But Death isn't something i cannot Cope with at all. The death of Animals, People. I just can't Cope well with it. Today I lost my Kitty. I been crying two hours About it. Childish Maybe. But I Feel like every time I get close to...
    matthewsmommy matthewsmommy 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 10, 2008

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    I really don't get along with my Mum, please don't get me wrong I'm still proud of her soo much but she really got a bad mood swings always.She is a closed minded person in all...
    Kaaaaaaaamm Kaaaaaaaamm 22-25, F Jul 1

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    We don't get along with each other and when I talk about something, she responds with a subject that is so different and she does that all the time. She puts my sister first but...
    kiarna811 kiarna811 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I don't get along with my mum all the time..and it's not some adolescent thing I resent her for the things she's done and some of the bad choices she has made she chooses her...
    saskialara saskialara 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My phone and wallet lol I don't leave home without those items
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Don't get me wrong I love my dad to death. But he's always lying to me. He's on drugs. And I haven't seen him since my 13th birthday. He hasn't really been in my life since my 7th...
    Smileeboo Smileeboo 16-17, F Jul 20

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    Have a bad mom but she's a great grandma to my son. In my teen years, I went thru a lot of self hatred and self punishment for something that happened to me as a child. She didn't...
    ShelleyShell ShelleyShell 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 2

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    Me and my dad were best friends now we don't know anything about eachother. I call once a year. Oh well, I'm doing me. I just hope I'm not a cliche for girls with daddy issues
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F Jul 20

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    Last conversation I had with him and it was barely a conversation was over 2 years ago. I was 18 and hadn't accepted any known contact with him since I was 15. He somehow obtained...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 20

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    It is said that we should love our parents. Mother is uniqe. Only one of her kind. But my mother is a person who hurt me the most in life. Because of her i've been crying the most...
    viktorija99 viktorija99 16-17, F Jul 1

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    Me and my mum aren't very close and so I can't talk to her about anything because she tells me I'm being stupid. I love my mum but I don't think she cares about my feelings at all...
    sadtimes sadtimes 16-17, F Jul 21

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    My 17 yr old mother gave me to my grandmother as a baby and never looked back. I still smile at the pain she feels about losing her 2nd child, which she thought was better than me...
    Desculpas Desculpas 26-30, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My mom treats me like a piece if **** and I don't wanna be here anymore
    heatherm10 heatherm10 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    I do love him. I just don't like him. He's a compulsive liar and I had to find that out the hard way.
    oxLalaxo oxLalaxo 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    Cheapskate that loves charity. My mother is a cheapskate who loves charity, because she's so poor we have a huge refrigerator filled with food. When I was about 16 years old, she...
    animallover110293 animallover110293 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I never thought this will be me, I had never understood how people couldn't get along with their mothers; someone who is meant to love you unconditionally, someone who is meant...
    bittersweetlemonade bittersweetlemonade 16-17, F Jul 21

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    My soul is being ripped to pieces by life and there's nothing I can do about it... I cut myself today for the first time in years... The torment inside of me is persistent with...
    Anonimaninja Anonimaninja 22-25, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Hated Every Moment Of Visitation- "Take me home!" 5 or 6 year old me whined in English. "Speak Serbian." My father warned gruffly. "Mommy says I'm Black not Serbian." I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 19

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    Is it normal that I hate my mother so much? I grew up thinking my mom was a «hero», but when I reached my teen years, I discovered her hypocrite side. She usually says what's...
    Khating Khating 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 13

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    My father was not there when I was born. He did not show up until I was 4. My mother hadn't heard from him and thought he had left Germany and sneaed back to somewhere in former...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 20

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    Once when I was 13 my ankle was twisted or something and a month or two later my mom said she would call the doctor. We went in twice and they said I might want to go to physical...
    Aquathemermaid Aquathemermaid 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    My phone is an essential necessity, my keys because I wouldn't be able to enter my house again and my wallet.
    Mi5h Mi5h 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    So I just got off the phone with her and we fought because she doesn't like my boyfriend but she hasn't even had a real conversation with him -.- so let's just say I was sticking...
    l3x1l0v3 l3x1l0v3 16-17, F Jul 2

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    It gets tiring to talk when you see someone is putting all his might to contradict and prove you are wrong.Also when your words are missunderstood or understood the worst way...
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F Jul 6

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    My family is the kind that you'd see with all the more popular people at school. I, on the other hand, you'll see me living in the library.
    RoddyB7589 RoddyB7589 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 8

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    My mom always get on my nerves. I put up with her bullshit every time she complains about something. I'm always the one that has to apologize first even if I didn't do anything...
    wantingperfection wantingperfection 16-17, F 9 Responses Jul 9

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    She is the most bullheaded person on the planet. Right now we are trying to plan a yard sale and she will part with NOTHING. We have an attic and an entire 4 car garage FULL OF...
    catbug91 catbug91 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 10

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    Dear Dad, For 25 years I have refereed your and mom's relationship with the constant on again off again battle. As I have aged your cycle has become so clear to me, making it...
    jhib jhib 22-25, F Jul 11

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    Me and mom disagree on everything .. I want our relationship to be way different then it is now i dont know what to say or do i feel like ive done everything she wants me to live...
    faith1998 faith1998 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    My mom has absolutely no filters! She's so insensitive towards others, but sensitive towards self. She makes jokes and pick fun of me with people (sister, especially) as if it's...
    PixieStixs PixieStixs 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    My dad is the most controlling person that I know. He won't allow me to make any decision by myself. It really stinks...
    Brooklyn211 Brooklyn211 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 20

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    I hate when you are actually agreeing with with someone and only adding to their point but they are to stupid to realize it and are so caught up in trying to be right they are...
    TroyPaladin TroyPaladin 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 21

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    I can't stand her . I barely talk to her .
    FaceYourFearz FaceYourFearz 13-15, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Keys, cell, wallet, sunglasses, car charger, and eos lip balm.
    dolceharajuku dolceharajuku 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    phone, deodorant/perfume, makeup bag, and wallet.
    RebeccaLouise224 RebeccaLouise224 16-17, F Jul 7

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    hi hate my mom never lets me do anything
    tiffany13fun tiffany13fun 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    I love my mom but some things she says & do always kills my mood😐😒
    heyliyaaaaah heyliyaaaaah 16-17, F Jul 8

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    My mom told me "No one in our family likes you. They only talk to you, so they can get to me"
    MaggieTaylor22 MaggieTaylor22 13-15, F 11 Responses Jul 8

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    i hate my mom never lets me do anything
    tiffany13fun tiffany13fun 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 8

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    my mom like the worst cant do that cant do this
    tiffany13fun tiffany13fun 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    Dad your a stuck up asswipe
    baseballuno baseballuno 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 11

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    i hate my mom never let me do anything allway home work clean ect...
    tiffany13fun tiffany13fun 13-15, F 3 Responses