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I Don't Cope Well With Death

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 43 People

    My Dad

    My Dad, When he passed away, I was so sad, I couldn’t cope, Needed help, Still, I miss him every day.
    startinover1 startinover1 46-50 Apr 2, 2012

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    What Do You Say?

    What can you say to someone who's lost a loved one or relative? Anything I might say sounds lame and pointless. But you can't just pretend nothing's happened.
    fadiva fadiva 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 11, 2008

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    Oil and Water

    I don't deal well with the deaths of the people around me. At all. For some reason I have trouble processing the fact that someone is gone...and then I'm terrified of who's going to be next.  Ironically, I'm not as afraid of myself dying as I am of my siblings or my mother...
    vinividivici21 vinividivici21 22-25, F 7 Responses Aug 10, 2008

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    Is This Normal?

    I have such a strange way of dealing with death. This has happened with my uncles passing and also my grandpa that just died today. Ill try to ignore it and ill be fine until I have to see family. Once I go to a funeral or wake I feel extremely uncomfortable and get really...
    Christysweet268 Christysweet268 22-25 1 Response Apr 8, 2013

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    I'm Not Able

    It seems to me, that having gone through the loss of loved ones many times since I was 8 would  have given me some kind of insight.  Knowing what people need from us in their own time of loss.  But it did not give me any insight.  Nothing ever made me feel any...
    DumpyFrumpy DumpyFrumpy 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 2, 2008

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    Hard.

    I know this May sound Pathetic or Crazy Even. But Death isn't something i cannot Cope with at all. The death of Animals, People. I just can't Cope well with it. Today I lost my Kitty. I been crying two hours About it. Childish Maybe. But I Feel like every time I get close to...
    matthewsmommy matthewsmommy 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 10, 2008

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    Try To Ignore It...

    I act like it doesn't happpen, when someone I care about, and Love, have died. I don't cope well at all, I do anything, and everything to forget that it even happened, I don't talk about it, I don't think about it, I don't do anything that has to do with coming to terms with what...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 29, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    Yes, I love my mom and appreciate her but there are times where she is just unbelievable. She puts so much pressure on me to do well in school, get good grades, go to a really good...
    minjjangxx minjjangxx 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    Hello everyone, I just want to start off by saying i'm not looking for pitty or anything, its just that a lot of things you guys are going through with your mothers i am going...
    Doctorwhodat Doctorwhodat 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    I haven't spoken to my mom in over a year. The last time I saw her was at my grand fathers funeral. My parents split up over twenty years ago when mom left my dad for his best...
    GBMUM GBMUM 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    She gets mad at me for not being like her and she thinks that I'm actually trying not to so that I can upset her . She thinks that her way is the only way . News Flash Lady!! I don...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 10

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    This is such a loaded experience. I can honestly say I don't have a normal relationship with my mother. I think most people come to respect their mothers at some point and strive...
    Allforaview Allforaview 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 19

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    My parents don't allow anything. Especially being myself. They think metal is bad for you and my music is too 'loud'. I asked if one day I can get a nose piercing( a tiny dot one...
    txmakii txmakii 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I bet many people can relate to what I have been through. I at least hope someone can relate in some way. My mother has always tried to get under my skin and she sucks at it. When...
    JK7448 JK7448 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I often state MY feelings, thoughts and beliefs about MY love and truth of God and then devil worshippers come on to MY EXPERIENCE and day "don't tell me what to believe in"...um...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    This is something I wish I could read to my mother, or at least, memorize it, so when we get into another argument, I could scream this at her. I'm Sorry Written By: Unknown...
    SweetcakesJr SweetcakesJr 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    I always tell myself one more minute..that's why my bf usually will throw cold water on me if I don't. So I just get up anyways xD
    PartyGuy21 PartyGuy21 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 4

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    I started debating others when I was in high school. I was a member of the high school debate team. I learned at an early age not to debate with idiots or morons. Generally...
    joan1976 joan1976 36-40, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    In my alone time, my mind goes crazy. I can think so clearly, i figure **** out, i make changes. I get my alone time at night. So instead of sleeping, i sit in my chair pondering...
    ForeverJashinist ForeverJashinist 18-21, M Apr 3

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    every day it's always the same around my house!! my mom always HAS to be right every time and will do anything to make herself happy and others suffer. and my brother helps her...
    randomgirl42 randomgirl42 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    And yet I still get messages and friend requests from people with a multitude of sexual experiences! A small amount is okay, but more than 10 is a bit much.
    udamansteel udamansteel 16-17, F Mar 22

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    My parents always wanted to have a daughter. First they had 2 boys then finally had me. I'm the youngest. Growing up, I constantly felt the pressure to be and look perfect. In...
    CGA1982 CGA1982 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    he's a great person, but not that good of one. I can't explain it. I can't stand him sometimes. he ticks me off and starts my dominos down the spiral. eventually I want to just get...
    TheCroissant TheCroissant 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 26

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    I dont really have a mom but i guess you could say that. She seemed pretty nice at first then it started with glaring, then cussing, then beating. When ever i do something rong she...
    cece14779 cece14779 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    Many debates turn into arguments. If I get into a debate, I want to throw persuasive facts and maybe even some opinions back and fourth. It is possible to do that without insulting...
    moose73630 moose73630 16-17, M 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    😊😃😲Just had a fight with my alarm clock.It wanted me to wake up, I disagreed.Things got violent.Now the alarm clock is broken and I'm wide awake.Not sure who won.
    expressomarkie expressomarkie 46-50, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I got home today around 4:45 and attempted to eat something. I ended up in my room asleep around 5:15... I just woke up about 10minutes ago... I still feel light headed and dizzy...
    Sarabell00 Sarabell00 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    My brother aggravates me so much! Just because he's older, he thinks he can just push me around whenever he feels like it. I've pretty much had enough! DX
    henal216 henal216 18-21, F Mar 31

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    i hate my mom i dont tell her anything all see do is *****
    tiffanyclark13 tiffanyclark13 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    ugh, ditto. and I am a woman!
    amydextrous1 amydextrous1 41-45, F 8 Responses Apr 6

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    One time, when I was 12, my mom suggested that I should help her cook everyday. NOPE.
    reivven reivven 13-15, F Apr 10

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    I mean, who am I amongst all of those people? Just another one? I'd rather not.
    Axonos Axonos 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    Marriage is the grave of love.
    TCL009 TCL009 41-45, F 2 days ago

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    It takes an idiot to know an idiot, anyone can contribute to your wealth of knowledge, let alone it be a animal. The term idiot, is perceptive, to one a idiot might be the next...
    GlassySky GlassySky 18-21 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Some people are so thick it's like trying to bowl under water. Sometimes it's like talking to a bowling pin. But, man, I just want to strike them!!
    TooInnocent333 TooInnocent333 26-30, M 2 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    we were working on a game I created, just an old fashion dice football game. pretty cool for 1988, if I didn't create it in 2015. but he won't listen. he doesn't understand the...
    trent74 trent74 36-40, M Apr 2

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    I don't feel well too. I am not ok . I do need God.
    Thedepressedgirlatthewindow Thedepressedgirlatthewindow 16-17, F Mar 23

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    I don't fit in with people who harass others online.A friend messaged me yesterday she does not come online as someone is harassing her.One should understand that telling people to...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 4 Responses Mar 31

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    I never understood some peoples hatred of the "friend zone". Not everyone is going to want to be with you, and having friends is great. ._. Maybe it's because I barely have any...
    Knixveus5 Knixveus5 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 22

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    I'm feeling like life has nothing for me. It's a mix of emotions. I feel stressed, overwhelmed, numb, apathetic, bored, anxious and sad. I feel like I don't fit in with anybody, I...
    WanderingMind752 WanderingMind752 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    My fiance is dead set certain that Nibiru is on it's way and is going to cause massive tsunamis and earthquakes as it passes by. Like religion, I don't believe it without evidence...
    KSPerson KSPerson 46-50 21 hrs ago

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    After I found out the worst thing ever I just can't love him anymore, I mean I guess I do love and care for him but I'm not IN LOVE with him no more, im hurt so deeply and I don't...
    SefysMommy SefysMommy 16-17, F 5 Responses 7 hrs ago