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I Don't Do Relationships

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 32 People

    I've seen two pathways to relationships: 1) Get

    and Keep One or 2) Find Yourself With Somebody. We've all heard of the "Dating Game". Why is it called a GAME? When did loving a person for who they really are become PacMan or Warcraft territory? Ever since somebody said, "if you want to find a spouse, you'd better...
    OnAlert OnAlert 56-60, M Jun 17, 2014

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    (relation)ships...seasick?

     First of all. I'm not disappointed in love, or broken hearted. But ones I got this sort of a deal , haha, I really can't pick a better word for this situation: A: So...we're having a good time, I like you and (blah-blah-blah). Are we like a couple now? B: Do I have to sign...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 30, 2009

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    I met this is girl in the most unconventional

    way and we slept together one weekend. I think be both just wanted something with no strings attached which it was as I didn't even stay until the morning I walked back to my room on my university campus. I said to my friends that the sex wasn't that great but tbh I was rather...
    TheBlackPhilospher TheBlackPhilospher 18-21, M Jan 6

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    I just haven't opened myself up in that way. I would have once, but that is a past story.
    Arorin Arorin 22-25, M 15 Responses Mar 19, 2010

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    Hmm

    I've tried a few times and I gotta say it sucked. After about a month women change they become this whole other person who wants you to give them input on every detail of their lives. I would rather just take a girl out a few times when they are still trying to convince...
    Blizzake Blizzake 22-25 1 Response Sep 30, 2009

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