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I Don't Do Relationships

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    I just haven't opened myself up in that way. I would have once, but that is a past story.
    Arorin Arorin 22-25, M 15 Responses Mar 19, 2010

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    (relation)ships...seasick?

     First of all. I'm not disappointed in love, or broken hearted. But ones I got this sort of a deal , haha, I really can't pick a better word for this situation: A: So...we're having a good time, I like you and (blah-blah-blah). Are we like a couple now? B: Do I have to sign...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 30, 2009

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    I've seen two pathways to relationships: 1) Get

    and Keep One or 2) Find Yourself With Somebody. We've all heard of the "Dating Game". Why is it called a GAME? When did loving a person for who they really are become PacMan or Warcraft territory? Ever since somebody said, "if you want to find a spouse, you'd better...
    OnAlert OnAlert 56-60, M Jun 17

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    Hmm

    I've tried a few times and I gotta say it sucked. After about a month women change they become this whole other person who wants you to give them input on every detail of their lives. I would rather just take a girl out a few times when they are still trying to convince...
    Blizzake Blizzake 22-25 1 Response Sep 30, 2009

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    ithappenedtome2 ithappenedtome2 36-40 1 Response Jun 28

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    Single and Loving It! When you don't have a boyfriend or a girlfriend (I'm being fair to everyone here) it gives you plenty of time for YOU. You can hang out with your friends all...
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    Once again I'm back and sadly about the same topic as before, my brother. Sadly he continues to not accept any responsibility for his actions. He and his spouse have ruined a few...
    DannyBoy1972 DannyBoy1972 36-40 Jul 9

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    I feel bad because when I'm around my mother it's very obvious that I don't like her. But idk. There was never a strong bond established between us. I see her as a provider...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F Jun 23

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    Or whether you love it when your boyfriend tells you how much he loves you. Seriously. Why the fück would I care? Don't take me as insensitive, but seriously, girls who do this...
    TheAverageIdiot TheAverageIdiot 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 1

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    I really don't get people sometimes, especially those who claim to love and understand you, who claim that they care about you, they know what hurts you but they do it anyway, and...
    LoneDovahKiin LoneDovahKiin 22-25, M Jul 5

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    I don't want kids because I know I wouldn't be a good mother. I would rather go out and have fun with friends instead of stay at home and change diapers. Does that make me a bad or...
    ashiz ashiz 22-25, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I don't believe in evolution. I don't have to, because it's fact.
    KatieTreat KatieTreat 51-55, T 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I'm 19 years old and I've never experienced sex or even kissed a girl. I know I'm not a talkative person but it's still strange and unfair. Am I really that bad? Everywhere, every...
    jakob95 jakob95 18-21 2 Responses Jun 28

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    I'm 31 years old and I can say that I've truly loved only two people and unfortunately they were to the wrong ones. My close friends are all in long term relationships and getting...
    ownomore ownomore 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    It's not people I don't trust, it's relationships and friendships. The people themselves are usually fine, it's easy to find people you can trust once you know what lies look like...
    sammykins101 sammykins101 22-25, M Jul 5

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    After what I've been through with relationships, It's hard to trust anymore. When I try to start one I doubt them and I think anything they're saying is a lie. Not calling all gals...
    MacgyverSmith MacgyverSmith 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Unfortunately, My husband and I were pretty much pushed into it by both our families. I had a baby in high school and the biological Father took off. I was friends with my...
    HotBoxDatRocks HotBoxDatRocks 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    I finally did today. I forgave my ex for all the hurt. I feel so content and after meditating and praying on it I feel like I'm ready and it's time to move forward with my life...
    lalalapolkadotsmmbop lalalapolkadotsmmbop 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Honestly I'm sick of the damn search. I've been trying to find myself probably since middle school, and my confidence has dwindled and dwindled and dwindled to the point where I...
    SkyVision SkyVision 31-35, F 2 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    I don't understand why people portray themselves to be something that they're not. Why would a person assume that acting one way and then doing things that go against everything...
    butterflibabe butterflibabe 26-30, F 2 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    I have never been into makeup. The reason I'm against makeup is because it is making people into something they're not. I once had a friend tell me that it's fun because it's like...
    misskp misskp 22-25, F 1 hr ago

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    Well, how do you say it anyways? It's almost appropriate for some people who feel that way. The feeling is impossible to describe, everyone feels different. Some people ask me some...
    Roy186 Roy186 18-21, M 3 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    If only it were as easy as telling myself "don't", then everything was ok.
    reelman4372 reelman4372 31-35, M 11 hrs ago

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    I have a question, is Homosexuality and/or Bisexuality against the bible? Is it the devils work? I don't know much, but two of my friends are struggling to tell their parents about...
    HighOnMisery HighOnMisery 13-15, F 3 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I get waay too jealous waay too easily and I don't want to be like this anymore. If anyone knows how I can work at not being this way anymore, or even if you're the same way...
    trysten778 trysten778 13-15, F 10 hrs ago

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    I just don't have a reason to live. Anymore
    Idonthaveanameanymore Idonthaveanameanymore 18-21, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    Who always has something bothering them.. Who's always stressed about one thing or the other.. Who's always mithering. . That one person who never copes with anything.. Always has...
    Quanitta Quanitta 26-30, F 3 hrs ago

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    I know I put the experience title as such above, but at the moment I would put myself on the borderline of not liking his actions and/or just not caring any longer for him...
    Paintbrushes Paintbrushes 16-17, F Jun 27

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    This past year has been the hardest experience of my life. I went through a break up, my parents' divorce, and a transition from high school to college all in a span of 8 months...
    lifeinthecity lifeinthecity 16-17, F 6 Responses Jun 24

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    I'm tired of having my heart broken, creating expectations for nothing, walking miles for people that wouldn't cross the street for me, etc. Don't get me wrong, I'm usually a very...
    slonim slonim 18-21 Jun 28

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    I'm a Christian and I support you all. 2 days ago, I saw to men holding hands, they weren't afraid or ashamed of it, I looked at them and you know what? They looked happy! Many...
    MysteriousBlu10 MysteriousBlu10 22-25, F 11 Responses Jun 29

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    My parents worked abroad when I was a small kid. It was my grandparents and aunt who raised me. I went to study abroad where they work. I was excited that I can be with them and be...
    alilight23 alilight23 13-15, F Jun 29

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    It's definitely not for me and not my thing. For one, I don't drink, don't smoke, don't take drugs and don't like being around those kind of people at the clubs and bars who do. I...
    texaschic35 texaschic35 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    I don't know how or why but you take the edge off and i don't think I'm choosing not to feel i just think you're making it easier on me because she's gone and you're here but I...
    catsoncatsoncatsss catsoncatsoncatsss 16-17, F Jul 2

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    So I have the ex from hell. We were long distance and it ended TERRIBLY. His best friend kept me sane during all the fights and heartbreak. I hadn't seen him in four years but we...
    sugarsweet88 sugarsweet88 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    I don't want to do anything anymore. I no longer see a point. I don't find anything fun to do, or entertaining. All new things I try fail miserably, no matter how much I practice...
    Guest4111 Guest4111 13-15, M Jul 3

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    Ducky3209 Ducky3209 18-21, F Jul 3

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    loveyourselfalwaysxx loveyourselfalwaysxx 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    Katastr0ph3 Katastr0ph3 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 8

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    I do wonder what would happen after my death. Who would care. Who would be at my funeral. Would they be able to afford a casket or a funeral? I feel like what would mostly be said...
    lekrap lekrap 22-25, F Jul 9

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    I came to this realization today.. I do not like my job.. It's too random and you never know where your going with the task, you end up repeating it multiple times different ways...
    ThePeach ThePeach 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 9

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    I am (technically) a Christian. I believed in god until the age of 11. Everything began to mess up from then forward. The first time I cut myself, the first time I misbehaved, the...
    Jas4001 Jas4001 18-21, F Jul 9

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