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I Don't Enjoy Sex

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 23 People

    Can'T Stand It

    People just don't get it. I don't like sex, there is nothing enjoyable about it, and it's nothing but a control mechanism IMO. I hate the intensity of *******, yes I get them, but I don't like them. It's pointless except for procreating and procreation only makes for a useless...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jun 25, 2013

    I Am Rarely Interested

    I also only get small urges at certain times of my cycle (two weeks after the first day of my last period usually and then just before my period starts). The rest of the time it just doesn't interest me.
    sarahd1988 sarahd1988
    22-25, F
    Sep 24, 2011

    Am I Stupid For Not Enjoying It?

    My best friend is a bit of a ****, well - she used to be, I guess. Now she has a boyfriend and me, him, her and a few of our friends were all sitting in her living room talking when the subject of sex came up. She said anyone who is in a relationship and doesn't want to have sex...
    anonymousabomination anonymousabomination
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Mar 11, 2012

    Me Either

    I really do not like having sex (though sometimes I do enjoy it a little just because I am close to the person I am in love with) and this is the reason my soon to be ex wife left me. I wish I did like sex but it just does not do anything for me and it sometimes I do not...
    Socialgood Socialgood
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jul 31, 2009

    I Hate It

    Sex has never been pleasurable for me. I either feel nothing or pain. I have never felt pleasure from sex. and I have never, ever orgasmed. I've even tried a vibrator. nothing. any ideas?
    cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 12, 2008

    Something Wrong With Me...

       So...its kind of embarrassing to say, but I've only had sex with one person and I've never really um...done that by myself. Not a lot anyway. Mostly because it doesn't work for me usually. But when I was having sex, I really never enjoyed it for reasons stated in a previous...
    WanderingKitten313 WanderingKitten313
    22-25, F
    Oct 13, 2011

    I Love My Husband But I No Longer Like Having Sex

    My husband and I will be soon celebrating 20 yrs of marriage and I can honestly say that I no longer enjoy sex yet my husband really enjoys it.When we met, we were both in our early 20's and both had raging hormones. We couldn't keep our hands off each other.  Now that we are...
    JillyP JillyP
    46-50, F
    1 Response Aug 3, 2013

    I Only Have The Date Rapist To Compare To... But

    i think overall i dont like sex as much as the thought of having it with someone i desire or like in my fantasies... like movie or pop stars n famous people, or even men i know... if my first experience had of been with a nice looking young man who i had got to know n fell inlove...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals
    36-40, F
    Feb 21, 2011

    I Still Can't Even Stand Saying It Out Loud...

       I've only been with one person, the guy I'd given my virginity to. And from the start, I didn't really want to do it that much. And it only got worse throughout the three years we were together. Everytime we'd have sex, I would have this overwhelming feeling of...
    WanderingKitten313 WanderingKitten313
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 25, 2011

    I Can't Believe This

    I am the founder of this group.. Sad!! I bet no one's gonna join.. haha..   I think there's a difference between making love and having sex. I completely don't enjoy sex.. For making love, well, i do kinda.. but I prefer cuddles.. because, um, how can anyone fully enjoy...
    21butterfly 21butterfly
    22-25, F
    14 Responses Nov 11, 2008

    Sex V's Love

    It's just not the same, gimme love without lovemaking rather than sex without love any day! ;-P
    ip4fun ip4fun
    Feb 15, 2012
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