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I Don't Enjoy Traditional Sex

Am I alone with this issue? 15 People

    Will I make the same mistake thrice?

    I hope not. There's a girl at work who started about a week and a half ago. The second day she was there she worked in my area. We laughed and connected on a few levels. After being alone for almost 6 months it was like a breath of fresh air. We made each other laugh and I...
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    1 Response Jul 31, 2014

    Something To Think About

    I had my third session with my therapist last week. So far we've found that I get distracted easily. My wife likes it when I work on her breasts during foreplay. I actually get a little turned on by this. Penetration just kills it for me as it always has. I don't like the...
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    Oct 18, 2009

    Last night my girlfriend brought over a black

    petticoat she had. I put it on along with my garter belt and stockings. Try as I may I still can't fasten the garters to the stocking tops. She fastened them for me and I walked around, pretending like I was a pin up secretary asking for a raise. "Ma'am, I've been with this...
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    1 Response Jul 2, 2015

    New Poll

    I just created a new poll. Go to the top panel where it says "more" and scroll down to "polls" Please contribute. C.
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    Oct 1, 2012

    Things Are Not Good

    My wife and I went to Lowe's to get some things and before we left the parking lot we were in an argument. A huge one where she declared "this marriage is over". It's not just about the sex it's about the over all person I am. She said I'm such an old man when it comes to so...
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    Sep 3, 2009

    A few weeks ago my girlfriend brought over all

    of her nighties and put them in my closet. She knows I like wearing them. One night we were sitting playing cards in the living room. I had a gun metal gray one on and she wore a dark blue one. I'm so happy I can share this with her.
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    1 Response Sep 1, 2015

    What's going on here with EP?

    Are they finally shutting it down?
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    1 Response Mar 25

    I tried creating a tumblr account last month

    and couldn't seem to get it to work. There's an email they send you to confirm everything and I never got it. I looked into in again this morning and found that I had entered my email wrong. Ok. Simple enough, right? I enter my email correctly and it flags me because it and the...
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    Jan 19, 2014

    Last Friday

    My wife told me she really misses being ******. She says lately that's all she's been thinking about. Right now she's on her period so we won't be doing anything right away. Years ago I went to my doctor and gave him a general explanation of the situation. He gave me a...
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    Sep 1, 2009

    A Glimmer of Hope

    We've talked about things many times since that Sunday. We even tried making love this past Tuesday. She scheduled me an appointment with a GP for tomorrow to hopefully prescribe some Viagra, a session with her therapist for next week and she'll send me a list of sex therapists...
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    Sep 10, 2009

    Found A Place

    A week and a half ago I found a 1 bedroom that works at a good price. It's 4 miles from work and within walking distance of a lot of restaurants and some stores. So for the past week I've been moving my stuff out of our house. My wife and I have decided that getting back together...
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    Jul 25, 2010

    A Sexless Marriage/relationship....

    A marriage or relationship deficient in sex and intimacy is an inherently unstable entity. One so unfortunate as to populate such a union should be at all times fully prepared for its sudden demise, even if one has no immediate intentions of leaving.
    ssjlynn ssjlynn
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Apr 6, 2012

    The Stories Are Gone

    I don't know why but they've vanished, like the polls did a while back. At some point I'm going to start a new group that I hopefully will be able to continue on a similar theme. C.
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    Nov 9, 2013

    Yesterday EP dropped a bombshell on us.

    The first group I created was taken down and replaced with a long letter from the EP staff about the "improvements" they've made. Apparently, my group violated their guidelines. In the last couple of months I noticed little things like the polls disappearing and now questions...
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    Jan 12, 2014

    The Ex

    Last Wednesday I was taking a break from preparing an Indian dish for dinner when my ex opened a chat window on Facebook. She asked about dinner and said I never made anything like that when we were married. I said I didn't think she cared for Indian food from what I recall. I...
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    3 Responses Dec 11, 2011

    Well it's been almost 8 months

    since my girlfriend and I have been together. It's been amazing so far. It the last couple of weeks we've been busy with attending events and haven't been "taking care" of each other lately. Last Saturday I took care of her and Sunday morning I took care of myself. I was...
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    Oct 18, 2015

    It'S Been Awhile

    Nothing really new to report. My girlfriend and I are looking for places to live. We've been at it since last December. There hasn't been much available since then but the market seems to be opening up again. We really want to live in a house but the prices here are so high. We...
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    Mar 30, 2013

    Recently my girlfriend started asking me "are

    you happy". It seems like when a question like this gets asked their not happy. So I took the bait last week and asked what her feelings were. She said we make great "best friends" but she misses the intimacy of lovers. She said I'm great in all of the other areas except for...
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    Jan 18, 2014

    Went to the Doctor

    I explained my situation and he understood the immediate need so he wrote me up a prescription for Viagra. So far we haven't tried them out yet. Been too busy. We found a therapist in our network that sounded good. Tuesday I went to the first visit. She was an older, pleasant...
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    Sep 24, 2009

    After texting with my ex wife I decided to

    really try and figure out who I am. Over the following weekend I took some online tests and ruled out the possibility that I was gay. I took an asexual test and it sort of fits me. A few days went by and I started questioning that possibility. My ex wife asked me why I needed...
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    3 Responses Oct 28, 2014

    Something New

    Two weeks ago tomorrow I met this girl at a Starbucks near my place. We met each other online through one of the free dating sites. We had coffee and went to have Chinese food for dinner. After that we played a few games of pool and air hockey. We were still having fun but I was...
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    Feb 17, 2011

    A few days ago as I was getting ready

    for work, the thought of wearing a skirt, fishnet stockings and high heels sounded really appealing. When I got to work I texted my girlfriend. She became concerned and thought I was moving towards gender reassignment. I assured her nothing like that was going to happen. I...
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    May 22, 2015

    A couple of weeks ago my girlfriend

    and I decided to go thrift store shopping. We did this on vacation in another town a few weeks prior and had so much fun we decided to try it locally. We've been looking primarily for a plastic raincoat for her but for anything that catches our eye. We went to five stores and...
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    1 Response Sep 1, 2015

    One Year

    Today marks one year that my girlfriend and I have been together. It has been an amazing and fun experience. We met for coffee and got to know each other a little. Things were going well so we grabbed dinner at a Chinese restaurant. Then we played a few games of pool, went to...
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    Feb 4, 2012

    A Good Question

    Last night my girlfriend and I were sitting around my apartment after watching Magic Mike on DVD. She asked me what turns me on about a woman. I was a little surprised at the question and asked if she was serious. She said she was. I said I like the "whole package". She said...
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    1 Response Sep 3, 2012

    Last Weekend

    Let me first explain that I love wearing the classic women's silky nylon briefs since discovering my mother's in my early teens. While I've kept most of my panty wearing to the evenings when I'm home I wanted to try something different: I decided to wear panties under my clothes...
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    Nov 11, 2012

    Almost 4 Months Now

    Wow. That still amazes me when I think about it. Things have been going ok so far. We had a problem a couple of weeks ago when she revealed that she slept with a guy she met at a bar. She didn't tell me about it until a few days later. She was crying and said she couldn't lie to...
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    Apr 30, 2011

    What Happened To My "Experience"?

    Ok so now different groups and stories are appearing on my page. Why is this? C.
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    Nov 15, 2013

    I Just Don't.

    The title pretty much says it all. I'm certain that I am heterosexual. I have no desire to try otherwise. I was 20 when I had my first girlfriend. We tried making love but I never came. To keep the relationship going I always made sure she could ***. Eventually that got old...
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    Jan 16, 2009

    Plugging Away.

    Between today and my last post I think I've gone on one date. After three months of trying it's going to be a lot tougher than I first thought. Many of the ones I thought were genuinely interested were not. I can't help but compare it to my experience being unemployed. For a year...
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    Jan 22, 2011

    Recently

    Looking back through my stories, I was surprised I hadn't posted this yet. Last month I started thinking how long it had been since my girlfriend and I had any sex together. It's been a busy Summer and for the most part we have been taking care of ourselves alone. We needed to...
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    Sep 15, 2012

    Continuing

    We continued to build upon our relationship. She convinced my to try a **** ring. That was a disaster. I went to a uroligist. He said everything seemed to work. So is all of this in my head? Who knows? We've since gotten married and continue to live our lives without traditional...
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    3 Responses Jan 17, 2009

    New Dates

    Last weekend I had two dates. The Saturday one went very well. We spent a few hours together talking and then before the end kissing and holding hands. Sunday was even better. We met at a restaurant, had lunch, went to play pool, air hockey and Foozeball. Had dinner and as we...
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    Feb 1, 2011

    Good Weekend

    This past weekend my wife and I wanted to celebrate the anniversary of meeting each other and our wedding day. We spent the night at a nice hotel and the next morning we made love. As mentioned before the doctor gave me a sample pack of Levitra. I took one of the pills and took...
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    Sep 28, 2009

    Wow. I hadn't realized it had been

    so long since I last wrote. Let me bring you up to speed. I finished off the year feeling that being single was the best thing for me "right now". In January one of my single hiking friends showed up with a new man. I had "secret hots" for this girl since I first met her and I...
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    1 Response Apr 17, 2015

    This morning my ex wife posted something on

    Facebook saying how happy she was with her life and her "new" husband. I knew it wasn't directed at me but I decided to send her a text saying that the "one thing that I will always carry with me was that I could never be "that man" for her or anyone. She immediately informed...
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    Oct 9, 2014
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    May 22, 2015

    How time flies. It's been five months

    since I moved into my apartment. Things are good. I went on a, I can't really call it a "date" but more of a get together with one of my sister's old friends from high school. We connected a couple of months ago and became friends on a well known social media site. Last...
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    Jul 19, 2014

    This Is Really Strange

    I had about 3 years of my experiences written here and now they're gone. I created this "experience" and had sole control of the page. Very odd. C.
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    Nov 4, 2013

    Beginning The Process Of Separation

    I saw the therapist until late April. As of June 1st she was no longer covered by my network so my wife and I agreed to just drop her. In all honesty it didn't help our situation. Mostly because neither one of us wanted to try anything. If that doesn't say something I don't know...
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    Jul 7, 2010

    I'm on Tumblr: http://cracklewalk.

    tumblr.com/ and on answer mug.com. C.
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    Jan 25, 2014

    Went On A Date

    It's been five months since my wife and separated. She's moved on with her life yet we remain friends. I'd been casually checking out some of the ads on craigslist for almost a month now. My wife suggested signing up with a couple of sites. I signed up with one on Thursday...
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    Nov 9, 2010

    Tonight after my girlfriend got out of the

    shower I was going to try going down on her. I already knew what the answer was going to be but I approached her anyway. She looked at me funny and said no. I'd also had a suspicion she might be seeing someone so I asked her if she was. She said she has been seeing her IT guy...
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    Jan 23, 2014

    4 Dates Now

    4 dates in about two weeks. Last Tuesday she came over to my place for the first time. We'd planned a movie night. Unfortunately, I don't have a couch or a TV but I was able to borrow blankets and use my laptop to play the DVD. We were in the middle of the movie and I asked why...
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    Nov 21, 2010

    Love

    Last Sunday my girlfriend and I spent the afternoon wine tasting in another town. We were taking a break sitting by the fire and I was telling her that I was ok with where I am in my life. She said she liked where I was too and that she loved me. It might have been helped by the...
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    Dec 22, 2011

    Looking For A Place To Live

    My wife came home tonight and said I should start looking for a place to live right away. She said its best if we do this now and not wait because it will help both of us begin the transition. I found a couple of places and emailed them. Maybe I'll be able to see them tomorrow...
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    Jul 9, 2010

    The Latest

    My girlfriend and I have been living together for about four months now and the sex we actually share is pretty rare. I think we've done this four times since living here. Most of the time we just take care of ourselves. When I talk to her about it or suggest doing it she says...
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    Sep 14, 2013

    Does Anyone Want To Share Their Story Or Experience?

    There at 17 members here. I can't imagine I'm the only one who feels this way. C.
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    Aug 21, 2013

    I had a dream last night I'd like to understand

    the meaning of it better. I was with this woman, following her along through her adventures and was getting to know her better. We knew each other from somewhere in the past, perhaps childhood but I'm not sure where. Anyway the more I learned about her the more I liked her. I...
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    Mar 25, 2014

    Somehow I "violated" EP's guidelines with the

    update I was about to post. I'll try it again. I guess we're entering into the "ugly" stage. Earlier this afternoon my girlfriend came home from work. She got out of her car and I went to kiss her. She made a face as I did so. I asked what the face was for. She said I "never...
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    Jan 19, 2014

    A lot has happened since I last wrote.

    So after I discovered what had been going on I decided it would be best if I moved out. There's no way I can afford the rent the house on my own and I don't want to deal with finding roommates. I found a 1 bedroom apartment not too far from where I work. It's not as nice as the...
    cracklewalk cracklewalk
    46-50, M
    1 Response Mar 12, 2014
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