I Don't Feel Attractive Anymore

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    I Don't Feel Attractive

    I have always had VERY low self esteem. i have been to my lowest point, and have HATED myself. i met my husband in 2005 and we hit it off right then. We made our relationship official in 2006. I loved how he treated me. He was very different from the other guys I dated. He was...
    jdg2010 jdg2010
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 12, 2012

    I just don't feel attractive to her anymore

    and it's over the stupidest. Maybe it's me being too sensitive and I can't help the fact that it eats me up sometimes. Every time my girlfriend displays even the smallest hint if a celebrity crush a feel a little voice inside me say "what about me.." And I sink a little every...
    samiaboud9 samiaboud9
    18-21, M
    1 Response Apr 22, 2014

    I'm older now and have gained some weight.

    I'm generally really shy until I know a person, and my self image makes it that much harder to talk to women I like. I get shocked on the rare occasion when a woman compliments me.
    Jarrito Jarrito
    31-35, M
    1 Response Apr 10, 2015

    It's Just Awful

    I'm about to turn 35. I feel so old. I feel like guys don't even look at me anymore. It's so depressing. The clock keeps ticking so fast I'm starting to feel panicked most of the time. I guess because I used to be considered "hot" that it hurts so much not to be...
    sava744 sava744
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 24, 2009

    I Have Tried Everything

    Today was the day I realized that I was not good enough, but it was kind of obvious that I am/was not attractive. No matter how I dressed good or bad, how I acted with confidence or not, if I smelt good or kept my hygiene good or anything that would attract girls after years of...
    kurokineko kurokineko
    18-21, M
    Dec 15, 2011

    My boyfriend hates when I complain about how I

    look. I think any guy hates when their girlfriend does that. But I can't help it. I have issues within myself. Sometimes I feel like I'm pretty and sexy, but most of the time I feel disgusting. I see thin girls and wish I had a figure more like them rather than my curvy, thicker...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 27, 2014

    Most Of The Time....

    I feel like an imposter. Like I'm not really a woman at all. I'll have a good self-esteem day where my hair stays straight, my eyeliner isn't on crooked or smudged, my clothes fit perfectly and hug in all the right places. Then I go out and see all these other girls who are so...
    explainit2me explainit2me
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 13, 2011

    I Feel Like Igor Half The Time!

    I have been told my whole life how pretty i look, how gorgeous, beautiful Etc.But even though i'm told these sweet compliments i don't see it. I never have.Once in a blue moon i will see it but it always goes back to me not seeing itat all. I've been like this since i became a...
    MissSpookiness MissSpookiness
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Feb 20, 2011

    Sometimes I do and sometimes I don't

    because there are moments when I have to remind myself that I'm not 21 anymore. I am glad I still have my bikini πŸ‘™body and I get carded to buy 🍸🍷🍹🍻. I do put effort into it πŸ’‹πŸ’…πŸΎ I use lotions, beauty creams, avocados and exfoliating scrubs to avoid showing...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 10, 2015

    Nope, Not One Bit.

    It could be explained away by my pregnancy hormones but lately I don't find myself as attractive as I once thought I looked, I suppose I can remember feeling this way during my first pregnancy as well.I was telling my midwife yesterday that my other midwife hurt my feelings a...
    CuteInChaos CuteInChaos
    18-21, F
    May 18, 2011

    I feel like my age is stamped across my

    forehead. And "clock is ticking" is also visible somewhere. Lol
    katariffik katariffik
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Nov 25, 2014
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