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I Don't Feel Beautiful

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    Ugly.

    is it important to feel beautiful? i don't even feel pretty, desired, attractive, good enough, etc. etc. etc. i don't want to be the girl who needs plastic surgery to feel good about herself. i know that this is only one type of beauty, but i am not stupid...it's the only one...
    TheRealMimi TheRealMimi 31-35, F Mar 27, 2010

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    Never Have_never Will.._x

    i have never felt beautiful.. i used to wear glasses and i used to have braces, these combinations didnt help. i don't have them any more but it doesn't change how i feel.. my friends and family tell me im beautiful, but they are bias.. i want the truth, but ive never felt...
    FromTheHeartOfaWoman FromTheHeartOfaWoman 22-25, F 6 Responses Oct 26, 2007

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    I Just Dont Feel Good About Myself...

    Some days I feel pretty and I guess that makes me feel awesome. But a lot of the time I feel ugly and really down on myself. I just don't understand why I feel so badly about myself and I give myself no credit. I'm in college and it's really hard to be around really attractive...
    smp885 smp885 18-21 2 Responses Nov 17, 2010

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    Is It My Looks? Or Is It My Personality?...

    I am a teenage girl and I feel very insecure. I feel that I am not attractive enough and I am always trying so hard to make myself look good. I hate to say this, but I even get jealous of better looking girls. I feel like this because I think that no guys are interested in me...
    SamMandala SamMandala 16-17 4 Responses Oct 24, 2010

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    thissexygirl thissexygirl 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 8

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    Me? Nah

    I'm average.  My daugther is more beautiful than I.  So.
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F Apr 24, 2010

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    thissexygirl thissexygirl 13-15, F Jun 7

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    I Never Felt That Great But I Feel Even Less Now

    I never thought I was pretty but I could get to a point where I just accepted the way I looked was the way I looked.Most of the time I didn't enjoy looking at my face in the mirror but there were some days where I thought I looked good.And I usually had guys after me and that was...
    Scheat Scheat 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 22, 2010

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    This Is Me..

    I don't feel pretty because I have acne and I have a little chub on my tummy and I just feel gross. I know there are a lot of girls out there who have much bigger flaws they deal with but I just can't help it. I feel disgusting about myself. I get complimented a lot but I can't...
    HiddenBehindClosedWalls HiddenBehindClosedWalls 16-17 Sep 28, 2012

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    Doesn't Matter What They Say

    I don't care how many men tell me I'm attractive, how much weight I gain or lose, how much plastic surgery I have . . . I don't think I will ever be at peace with my appearance. I scrutinize every feature, every extra pound.  Think about how I look in clothes, and how...
    sassyg1rl sassyg1rl 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 28, 2010

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    thissexygirl thissexygirl 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 10

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    Who Is Beautiful?

    she is she is she is ballerines also are beautiful they are beautiful...
    amysangels amysangels 22-25, F 14 Responses Apr 24, 2010

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    Im Not Really Sure Why I Don't Fee Beautiful..

    but all i can say is... I really don't. i feel fat. i hate my teeth because they aren't perfect. they cross in the front... i tried to get braces but the dentist insisted that my teeth were lovely as they were, and that there was no need. and if i was to have them.. it would...
    LawRaJayne LawRaJayne 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 29, 2009

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    Poem From The Heart

    Beauty is what's inside Not the skin I tell myself that all the time but yet I don't feel a thing I look in the mirror when I'm alone and my eyes start to cry I see my ugly face and say your ugly i tell myself it's better to admit it then go on and lie. She's so beautiful why I...
    Alixox Alixox 13-15, F Dec 13, 2012

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    Sometimes

    I sometimes don't feel beautifl but I know I am I just need to stop comparing myself to others and though I know beauty has to do with your inner self I sometimes feel like I'm not a nice person because I do some stupid things though it's not purposely they still end up getting...
    sleepingangel sleepingangel 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 22, 2009

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    thissexygirl thissexygirl 13-15, F 13 Responses Jun 26

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    I Used to Feel Beautiful

    i can remember when i used to feel confortable about myself, i never thought i was ugly but i didnt think i was anything special, i was quite happy with the way i was, but all relationships seem to end with them going off with other people, and now i just dont feel there really...
    RebbieShane RebbieShane 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 30, 2007

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    No

    I hate the way i look.  i hate that as i get older, i just gain weight.  i hate that my face decides to break out at the worst time.  I hate my nose, and the fact that my lower lip sticks out just a bit more than my top lip.  (from years of pouting i'm sure...
    Dani21208James Dani21208James 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 28, 2010

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    A Changed Person

    I was reading some of the entries in this group and I started getting teary... Because I feel this way and I feel alone in it. Over the past few years I have gained weight. As a kid growing up and playing high level sports I didnt have to think about what I was eating, as I...
    kk18 kk18 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 22, 2009

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    Not Beautiful

    Most of the time I don't feel beautiful. I think people would refer to me as "cute" instead and to me, that's the kind of word you would use for a baby or a child, not a fully grown adult. My mum always says that people she knows think I'm beautiful but I'm sure she's...
    TheatreGirl TheatreGirl 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    Naaaah. I know that feeling attractive all

    starts with the self, but certain things people have said & done has lead me to believe otherwise. The reactions I've gotten recently aren't exactly doing it for me. That's cool though. Hopefully there is someone that will.
    Plutonianbabe Plutonianbabe 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 25

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    I Just Don't. Feel Beautiful.

    I try. But Being With You. I Just Don't Feel It. Being With Her. I Feel It. You Use To. Make Me Feel Pretty. Say Things. Which Made Me. Feel Special. You Gave Me. That Amazing Feeling. And I Smiled. And I Miss That. Because Now. I Just Don't Feel It. Those...
    nivanvc nivanvc 36-40, M Jul 3

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    thissexygirl thissexygirl 13-15, F 6 Responses Jun 11

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    Im a guy and i constantly feel like no girls

    view me as a good looking guy. They all think I'm just a nice guy. I guess one day we will all find the person right for us.
    Alexzoz Alexzoz 16-17, M Mar 2

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