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I Dont Feel Like People Want to Know Me

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    I Know People Don't Want to Know Me

    It's not that it feels like people don't want to know me. I've been told so for most of my life. Either in words, or actions. When people don't want to be around you, you know. They avoid you. Or leave you out of things (and then resent it if you try to take part, which just...
    Cursedboy Cursedboy 36-40, M 6 Responses Oct 30, 2008

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    Only If I'm Happy

    People only wanna know me if I'm happy, can only deal with me if I'm positive. They only want to know me if i think the most dire of situations will work out, theirs or mine; they only want to know me if i can see the world through the same rose colored glasses they do...
    tulick tulick 31-35, F 18 Responses May 29, 2008

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    I  Don't Think Tha...

    I  don't think that people want to know each other a majority of the time
    evilkittymew evilkittymew 36-40, F Nov 8, 2008

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    I Seriosly Don´t Know

    In fact I have been used by friends since I was a child. I remember that nobody in the kindergarden wanted to play with me, because I had not a mother ( !!!!!! ) Yes, they bullied me all the time that I had not a mother. I was not shy as kid, but I was very worry to get close to...
    Lilly78 Lilly78 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 10, 2012

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    I Want to Know You

    I didn't join this group cause i feel like people don't want to know me. I do not feel that way. I joined so i could share with people who feel this way that you are not alone and if you'd like to message me, i'd love to hear from you and talk with you and tell you---i'd like to...
    darleen darleen 51-55, F 1 Response Nov 17, 2008

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    They Can't Handle It

    sometimes i feel that the people in real life don't want to know the real me. they just want the me that they currently see because the real me would be much too different. i don't think people can handle the real honest truth, everyone just makes  up their own truths that...
    beltroyse beltroyse 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 20, 2010

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    Feeling

    I get this feeling that no one really wants to know me or even really cares, might be over reacting but its just a feelin I get........
    tatteredwings tatteredwings 36-40 Apr 22, 2009

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    Set In For A Loss Already..

    Ive usually been the happy yet, quiet type of person. Growing up, I became angry. I am happy at times, but I remind myself how alone and ignored I am and the feeling makes me feel immature. I think its so pathetic that people only look on the surface as apposed to looking deep...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 22, 2011

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    Use Me...

    It feels regularly like people rather use me than actually get to know me.
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F Feb 10, 2009

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