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I Dont Feel Like People Want to Know Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 177 People

    I Know People Don't Want to Know Me

    It's not that it feels like people don't want to know me. I've been told so for most of my life. Either in words, or actions. When people don't want to be around you, you know. They avoid you. Or leave you out of things (and then resent it if you try to take part, which just...
    Cursedboy Cursedboy 36-40, M 6 Responses Oct 30, 2008

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    Feeling

    I get this feeling that no one really wants to know me or even really cares, might be over reacting but its just a feelin I get........
    tatteredwings tatteredwings 36-40 Apr 22, 2009

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    They Can't Handle It

    sometimes i feel that the people in real life don't want to know the real me. they just want the me that they currently see because the real me would be much too different. i don't think people can handle the real honest truth, everyone just makes  up their own truths that...
    beltroyse beltroyse 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 20, 2010

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    Set In For A Loss Already..

    Ive usually been the happy yet, quiet type of person. Growing up, I became angry. I am happy at times, but I remind myself how alone and ignored I am and the feeling makes me feel immature. I think its so pathetic that people only look on the surface as apposed to looking deep...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 22, 2011

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    I Seriosly Don´t Know

    In fact I have been used by friends since I was a child. I remember that nobody in the kindergarden wanted to play with me, because I had not a mother ( !!!!!! ) Yes, they bullied me all the time that I had not a mother. I was not shy as kid, but I was very worry to get close to...
    Lilly78 Lilly78 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 10, 2012

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    Only If I'm Happy

    People only wanna know me if I'm happy, can only deal with me if I'm positive. They only want to know me if i think the most dire of situations will work out, theirs or mine; they only want to know me if i can see the world through the same rose colored glasses they do...
    tulick tulick 31-35, F 18 Responses May 29, 2008

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    I  Don't Think Tha...

    I  don't think that people want to know each other a majority of the time
    evilkittymew evilkittymew 36-40, F Nov 8, 2008

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    Use Me...

    It feels regularly like people rather use me than actually get to know me.
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F Feb 10, 2009

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    I Want to Know You

    I didn't join this group cause i feel like people don't want to know me. I do not feel that way. I joined so i could share with people who feel this way that you are not alone and if you'd like to message me, i'd love to hear from you and talk with you and tell you---i'd like to...
    darleen darleen 51-55, F 1 Response Nov 17, 2008

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    sometimes i think people think im too clingy. im shy and reserved unless i like u and we r friends. but then i feel like i bother people and then im afraid im going to push them...
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    A lot of the time I feel like no one understands me. My parents don't understand me. My friends don't understand me. I do have one good friend who is my best friend and I feel like...
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    I am a strong person the rock or stability in many of my relationships. People depend on my strength so I feel like I can't cry in front of them. Is that wrong of me?
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    Ok im just going to vent here, I hate people who critisize you for making mistakes, Its a part of life, the people who judge you makes mistakes, you as humans are not perfect, like...
    Kayzza1 Kayzza1 13-15, F a week ago

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    Blanche08 Blanche08 31-35, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    DeIuxedEdition DeIuxedEdition 18-21, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    I often feel like im not good enough for others and myself. Like people need more than I can give them or something. I have always been told of everything I did wrong but noone has...
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    Mdmi Mdmi 18-21 Jun 21

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    I feel like if I tell people how depressed I am or show how sad I really am, people will think I am an attention seeker. It's not attention i want, it's understanding. Even writing...
    thissworld thissworld 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 21

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    I don't know why but I feel like I'm bothering people here with my questions.
    WWYDfan WWYDfan 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 20

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    I really wonder whats with these people saying LOL, ROFL, etc. If you feel like laughing loud and then just laugh already instead of telling it thus halving the fun.
    Maaren Maaren 16-17, M Jun 20

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    as a matter of fact, I think I did for awhile. Spent too much of my younger childhood telling unnecessary lies and stories, more than just for attention, maybe to make me feel...
    AprilMay32 AprilMay32 31-35, F Jun 20

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    When I look in the mirror, I see a girl nor boy, but a being. I see someone that plastered a smile on so well I sometimes forget that it is fake. I see a monster looking back at me...
    nathanielphantomhive nathanielphantomhive 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 18

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    I don't like people who bully because it's disgusting to see someone push others around with force , there ignorant and savages , at least when i make people do things for me I...
    SocioFuck SocioFuck 18-21, T 1 Response Jun 17

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    You ever feel like your there but your not there like your body is being inhabited by someone else that's how i feel a lot of the times.
    lay1 lay1 16-17, F Jun 17

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    SpiritWolfe741 SpiritWolfe741 41-45, F 3 Responses Jun 17

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