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I Don't Feel Needed, Wanted, Or Loved By My Husband

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    Post Affair With His Co Worker

    A year ago he had an emotional affair with a girl that he worked with. He stayed nights at her house, took her camping(to our honeymoon spot) and recently he was secretly being friends with her at work again. He has never been honest about her. I feel like this, if he is willing...
    tammybengel tammybengel 31-35 1 Response Nov 1, 2010

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    Don't Feel Loved, Wanted Or Happy!

    I liked to test people in my life. It comes from issues as a child when my father walked out and left us. If he can do it than why won't my husband? I try to ignore my insecurities but its hard sometimes. I spend my time being an employee, a wife, a mother and a homemaker and...
    Shortie82 Shortie82 31-35, F 5 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    I Think We Are Heading Towards Marriage Guidance

    Last night after meeting for lunch with one of my close friends, I mentioned to my husband that he never cuddles me anymore and I have to ASK for affection. He denied this but he still had his back turned to me in bed, although he did lay his arm over body, it was not a cuddle...
    Shortie82 Shortie82 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 15, 2013

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    i am always wondering what my spouse thinks of me. it's an obsession. who cares what it's called. and i'm worried about what a potential employer is thinking of me, if anything. i...
    cosmosdrift cosmosdrift 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I am okay. and I don't mean it in a dishonest way, or telling you what you want to hear so I don't need to explain myself. I am okay,happy and relaxed typing this. I have finally...
    kiki2016 kiki2016 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'm 23. I have two kids. I'm engaged (when she feels like it). I completely ****** up my life. I had every hope in the world. I was 19, tall, very handsome, and a generally...
    Superg507 Superg507 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    but it is not an option...never was and never will be! nature has made life this way because without end there hardly can be any beginning, but does this wisdom of knowing and...
    snuffal snuffal 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I don't know i seems can't madly in love no more. I've loved once, first love that wasn't sweet at all. He didn't love me back even he hated me just because he knew i had a feeling...
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    I don't know i seems can't madly in love no more. I've loved once, first love that wasn't sweet at all. He didn't love me back even he hated me just because he knew i had a feeling...
    fragilegile fragilegile 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    Here is my story... It's kind of a long one so I apologize in advance. I met my ex when I was 18, had just gotten out of my first serious relationship. We were friends for four...
    pollyphonetic pollyphonetic 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    7 months ago, I met this guy and I felt like we clicked. Unfortunately, we had sex the first time we met. I learned that he was going through a divorce. We got close very quickly...
    EmberBishop EmberBishop 26-30, F 13 Responses 4 days ago

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    kitkat0216 kitkat0216 31-35, F 5 days ago

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    I have been with my husband for just about 7 years. I do not feel the same for him at all. Him and I want separate things in life. We have always been different. For the first...
    Humannature101 Humannature101 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Let's start with the beginning: I am the last child of 3. My childhood was not pleasant nor sad. My dad took care of us while my mom was working. My siblings were protecting me and...
    GirlWithNoFamily GirlWithNoFamily 22-25, F a week ago

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    AngelicLights AngelicLights 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    matthew3187 matthew3187 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 25

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    Not sure what to say... Feel like we took a step backwards not where I want to be... Not at all... When I say things... I truly mean them I need to see if I'm worth the effort...
    HisBeautifulDisaster HisBeautifulDisaster 36-40, F Aug 24

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    I feel like my dad thinks that I am an angle and he always disappoint me he never ask me what I like to do in my life he thinks I am not good at anything he never approve my love...
    maryooomaal maryooomaal 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 24

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    Married for two years and my husband says that he isn't that sexually attracted to me for various reasons (he comes up with something new each time that lack of sex is brought up...
    jerseylady0714 jerseylady0714 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 24

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    Big decision to make and I need some advice. So allow me first to give you some background. I first met my wife not too long after a really bad heartbreaking relationship where I...
    TiredDaddy TiredDaddy 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    Big decision to make and I need some advice. So allow me first to give you some background. I first met my wife not too long after a really bad heartbreaking relationship where I...
    TiredDaddy TiredDaddy 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 24

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    Zaxel Zaxel 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 20

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    ugolliii ugolliii 36-40, M 3 Responses Aug 19

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