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I Dont Find the Holidays As Much Fun Anymore

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    Alone For The Holidays

    I moved to a city across the country from my at times, overbearing family when I was just 17 years old for college. My family couldn't afford to fly me home for Thanksgiving and Christmas so I only got to go for Christmas as long as I was in school. In the 3 years since I have...
    chocolate323 chocolate323 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 13, 2013

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    Holidays Not As Much Fun Anymore

    Holidays are not as much fun because my parents,aunts,uncles,grandfathers most are passed on the few living are too busy or too far away. Have a little enjoyment with one of my sisters but it's not the same as family getting together for Christmas.
    aquarius3 aquarius3 61-65 Dec 5, 2011

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    Holidays.

    Time has brought on many changes concern the Holidays. When I was A chils I loved, Easter, because I had to learn a speech, for the Easter Program for Church, Holloween, Trick or Treat was fun, Labor day we really had a good time.Oh Christmas was the absoulate the BEST of all the...
    Bluebird777 Bluebird777 70+, F Sep 20, 2009

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    I Don't

        i don't find the holidays much fun anymore .  christmas is more like another day really for me . there are some days that are really hard for me.  my mothers birthday , the aniversary of her death, christmas , thanksgiving , easter .
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 10, 2009

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    I'll Have A Blue Christmas...ah, The Depressing Holidays Are Here Again...

    Medical professionals claim that depression rates and suicides rise during the holidays. One can only suggest that holiday cheer amplifies loneliness and hopelessness in people who have lost loved ones, or who have high expectations of renewed happiness during the holiday season...
    LabRat70 LabRat70 41-45, F Nov 28, 2011

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    What To Do

    i used to love the holidays but the last couple of years it has been kinda crappy like 2 years in a row i lost a grandparent then last year my bother and his wife got divorced and now this year my brother his wife are finally out of the navy and the have decided the  they are...
    dadysprinces1994 dadysprinces1994 18-21, F Nov 22, 2011

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    I Dont Know What to Expect This Year

    i waqs just thinking to myself that im not sure what to expect from christmas this year. I wont be in my home, or in canada at all for that matter and most importantly it wont be a white christmas..which is my favourite part. We are going away for the holidays this year....in...
    cdales cdales 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 7, 2009

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    Too Damn Depressing....

    I don't find the holidays as much fun anymore. I mean, I am no longer a child, so its not like its time of from school. Lots of presents and all that stuff. I still have things that I need to do. I have the everyday stresses, plus more. The holidays are just so damn...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 23, 2009

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    Well, I Don't Celebrate Anyway

    However, whenever I was younger, I used to enjoy the weather the holidays bought along with them. But, nowadays it seems like because of global warming, the weather has drifted from what it used to be. Also, I don't like holidays because I always have to make appearances at my...
    Dimples87 Dimples87 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 12, 2009

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    Holidays.

    Time has brought on many changes concern the Holidays. When I was A chils I loved, Easter, because I had to learn a speech, for the Easter Program for Church, Holloween, Trick or Treat was fun, Labor day we really had a good time.Oh Christmas was the absoulate the BEST of all the...
    Bluebird777 Bluebird777 70+, F Sep 20, 2009

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