I Don't Fit In Anywhere

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 534 People

    And That's Not Necessarily a Bad Thing...

    ...though sometimes I would like to have a place where I felt I belonged.
    solarxmoon solarxmoon
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Apr 15, 2009

    Maybe I Really Am Invisible?

    I just had a thought while pondering my 'rolling stone' life trying to find where I fit, what feels like 'home' to me. Did anyone here to their knowledge have a difficult, traumatic birth? I know, kind of out there, but, to share, when I was born, the umbilical cord was wrapped...
    guru2214 guru2214
    36-40, F
    1 Response Feb 22, 2012
    Destiny8907 Destiny8907
    16-17, F
    Apr 1

    I am starting to realize

    that it's not that I don't fit in anywhere, it's that I try to fit in too many places at once. Too much breadth, and not enough depth. Because I try to fit in everywhere, I don't feel connected or close with any one group.
    lonelyavenger lonelyavenger
    26-30, F
    Feb 24, 2015

    I Just Never Fit In

    As long as I can remember, I have never really fit into any group. As a child, I always tried to make myself fit in but in reality, I was really a loner. I couldnt except the fact so I continued trying to make people like me and I would do strange things to fit in with my peers.I...
    sevenfold sevenfold
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Jan 29, 2010


    I have very few friends. I'd hang out with one of my closest friend, Jake (not real name) from time to time. Both of us are very different in personality although we share some common interest. Still, at one point or another I would invariably become detached from him be it when...
    leeandersen leeandersen
    22-25, M
    1 Response Apr 23, 2013

    A Misfit Among Misfits

    I was actually told that I was a misfit among misfits by a group of misfit kids in junior high who let me tag along, but decided that I didn't belong with them either. Although the girl was not trying to be hurtful, it was excruciating because of how right she really was. This...
    MisfitChic MisfitChic
    1 Response Nov 30, 2012

    I Don't Even Fit Here

    Finding out what I always knew.I somehow am not like others and now I don't even fit on EP.                               ...
    AngelicRain AngelicRain
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Jan 30, 2010


    As I sit here I feel troubled and paranoid about my future, as my day comes to a close. To summarize my last three days since I have seen the doctor about my condition, they have been meaningless. But it’s very deceiving only to the fact in which my actions seem to be decided...
    Blukk Blukk
    Sep 9, 2012

    I Don't Fit In Anywhere

    I don't fit in anywhere,How can I?I'm in the wrong place,Wrong time,Don't even fit in,Over there!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket
    46-50, M
    Mar 21, 2012

    i don't fit in anywhere,

    and won't anytime soon, but one thing I know is that I'm a lover of your presence.....
    DaydreamingSleepwalker DaydreamingSleepwalker
    41-45, F
    1 Response Mar 31

    I feel like I don't fit in anywhere.

    I hate small talk I find it boring and not many people are honest. I don't like to go to social events like Christian social small groups, all are fake and try to act like they got it all together. Im the odd one out. Not many people want to have deep conversations. People say...
    littleroseze littleroseze
    31-35, F
    1 Response Mar 2, 2015
    Cocrispy Cocrispy
    22-25, M
    1 Response Feb 27

    My Ode To Someone Who Felt 'different.

    your just realising that this world we live in is as bogus as the king James bible who took all the juicy bits out did you really know you were a natural born magician with the power of god in your very own hands? and all your peer group I'm betting are sports freaks or x...
    41-45, M
    Aug 3, 2010

    I see the kids around me laughing

    and making jokes, yet no one seems to even glance my way, even when I'm right next to them. I see the outcasts but I don't belong with them either, because they do much the same as everyone else, ignore me. I always feel like the odd one out, it doesn't matter where I am, it's...
    LikeICare13 LikeICare13
    13-15, F
    Mar 18

    Lifestyle For a Man of God

    timesoftrouble timesoftrouble
    61-65, M
    Apr 28, 2014

    Never Fit

    I am 27 years old, married with two wonderful children, but I feel like the loneliest person on the planet. I grew up never fitting in at school. I had bullies and ppl who alway spread rumors about me because I was shy and never followed conformity. I had one friend for 22 years...
    miragirl26 miragirl26
    2 Responses Nov 19, 2010

    After trying to understand

    why I keep getting offside with people even though I try really hard to be understanding, caring and considerate to others I finally got an answer - I was diagnosed with Aspergers Syndrome. Now at least I know I'm not defective but I am different. My brain is actually wired...
    Ape225 Ape225
    56-60, F
    1 Response Apr 18, 2014

    The Inbetween

    I seem to be living in the inbetweens of the world.Neither in the light, embracing everything and shining through, or the dark, skulking in shadows cowering away from the energy.Nobody knows me because nobody bothers to look in the nooks and crannies.I walk down the street with...
    UnseenBlossom UnseenBlossom
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 23, 2010

    Strength Beyond Strength

    Even though I've gotten "help" physically, the only reason why I'm alive today and have such good friends (very few, btw) is because I've pushed on to survive. No being, human AND not human, has gotten me to "end" what I've endured by committing suicide.  Especially when I had...
    deleted deleted
    Jul 20, 2012


    I dont seem to fit in anywhere, any group devoted to another i have an interest in always has something that i dont quite agree with.I find myself with little in common with others and in fact regard them as far apart from me as possible. I am the outsider of the outsiders. But...
    lmpulsive lmpulsive
    22-25, M
    Dec 11, 2012

    I'm idk..different I guess.

    .I mean I have seen alot stranger people..and alot more normal..I got some strange place in the middle ..like my little remote island from all the types of people..
    Cocrispy Cocrispy
    22-25, M
    1 Response Apr 1

    I Feel Cheated

    I was told all my life that nerdy is the new cool. Unfortunately, by "nerdy" they mean well-groomed normal people with odd interests and not REAL, eccentric nerds. I wondered why I never fit in despite the fact that I went to a "nerdy" high school. I may never recover.
    matrixportal matrixportal
    18-21, M
    Mar 10, 2013

    Always On The Outside

    I am now 54 and still on the outside. Since I was a kid in school that's the way it has been. In school I was considered a geek for many years. Later in high school I started hanging out with the cool kids, the trouble makers, the partyers. I did that for a few years but I began...
    jerrysheart jerrysheart
    51-55, M
    5 Responses Apr 22, 2012

    I don't fit in anywhere.

    At work, I'm the youngest. I'm not old enough to go out for drinks with coworkers and too young to understand their conversations. The only person I can relate to is my 30-something- year old manager because he's a man child. At home, I'm the weird one. No one gets my humor or...
    Dreana12 Dreana12
    18-21, F
    Feb 26

    Well I fit in at 1 place my old home.

    I moved away from all my friends outta the ghetto into a preppy place. I go to a preppy school. I get picked on. only have a couple friends. they r ghetto. they understand me. I hate the school. I've been in and out of the principles office for stupid stuff. I got 3 more years...
    BabyK16 BabyK16
    13-15, F
    Mar 31

    Waiting For The Flip

    I call it that, Waiting for the flip, because all my life I have been waiting for just that ...the flip. The point in time when I will feel like I am part of this common human experience that is going on. I had a pretty normal and good childhood and grew up in a stable home...
    solowalk solowalk
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Sep 10, 2012


    I don't know why i feel don't fit anywhere, no in my family, friends, boyfriend and all the time i feel dont fit anywhere, so confused and scared. I don't know what i must to do. I not eases and not secure. What i must to do? sometimes i want escape from this but i don't know...
    plecea plecea
    26-30, F
    Oct 5, 2013

    i really don't fit in anywhere.

    not even my own skin, i've lost so much weight from not wanting to eat. and just the general feeling that comes with not wanting to be in your own skin because it hurts too bad to be there. i really wonder if i even fit here. i don't belong anywhere.
    DaydreamingSleepwalker DaydreamingSleepwalker
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Mar 13

    New Here, Don't Judge Me By My Looks,

    I Have A Better Personality Okay? I'm Shelby, I'm 16, I Joined Because Of My Gorgeous, Amazing Friend Sara (sbubbles2). My Pics Won't Be Quite As a Racy Or Attractive As Hers But I'm Just Here a To Have Fun, Meet New People. :) Thanks For All The Adds! Kisses xx Shelby
    xLovexPinkx xLovexPinkx
    18-21, F
    Jan 18, 2014

    Don't Fit In

    This  group suits me perfectly.It's true, I do not fit in anywhere. I'm different to the other people out there. I don't share the same interests as other people. I don't do the same things as other people. At work I feel like the odd one out sometimes. Maybe it's because I...
    Mediocre Mediocre
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Jan 31, 2010

    Reason Why I Feel I Do Not Fit In Anywhere ...

    The reason is many . One is I see things in a different way then many people .How ? I do not consider it a bad thing . I just see beauty in everything . I find there is a lot of negatives around and negatives will always be around . Yet , with every negative there is a positive...
    Silverowl36 Silverowl36
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Apr 8, 2012

    I Can Never Fit In, And I Can Not Stand It.

    I really don’t fit in at my school. I kind of have some friends in school, but I NEVER AT ALL invite kids over to my house or go over to theirs. Every boy at my school loves to play Xbox, and loves football. When they are outside with friends, they play football. I know...
    confessionstotell confessionstotell
    13-15, M
    4 Responses Dec 13, 2010

    Let me clarify that it FEELS like I don't fit

    in anywhere, esp. right now in my life, but I know I fit in somewhere and have fit-in society in the past. I live in America, the most diverse and progressive country on earth, so to be considered unusual, different, atypical here REALLY puts you in a small corner demographic.I...
    relating2u79 relating2u79
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Oct 31, 2014

    What On Earth Am I Doing Here?

    My life sucks. I never fit in anywhere. I work at the hospital everyday from 6:30 am to 3:00 pm. And very often i found my self wondering what i'm doing here???. I never get in touch with anyone...even with my girlfriend. I don't understand if i'm the problem or it's just the...
    starkiller12 starkiller12
    26-30, M
    Oct 13, 2013

    I'm Not Normal

    Because of my past, I'm capable of seeing beyond the walls that people put up between their true selves and the person that they talk with. My experiences have trained my eyes to view the truth of people that the average person can't see until it's too late.But this can be a...
    deleted deleted
    Jul 18, 2012

    Sometimes I Think I Do, But It Never Lasts.

    I don't know what it is. Maybe it's the fact that I'm quiet and introverted, or because I'm a little different than everyone else, or maybe it's because I never want to let anyone in, but it's starting to really bug me. I was fine with where I stood in life until recently. A co...
    anonymousabomination anonymousabomination
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 29, 2012

    Seriously, Don't Try

    But if you do decide to try to friend me on here, it better be for a god damn good reason. You also better prove to me that you're serious about wanting me as a friend.  Otherwise, if you're not human (for whatever reason) and if you're not already in my "Friends" list, don't...
    deleted deleted
    Jul 18, 2012

    I Can't Live Here Anymore.

    I don't even want to share my story, I feel so ashamed. I'm ashamed that out of all the scenes I've unintentionally became a part of, that in the end I've belonged to non of them. In the end, I lost friends, I lost my mind and I lost myself in the midst of this mess of...
    TheHogwartzJanitor TheHogwartzJanitor
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 11, 2013

    I'm Nobody.

    I've spent so much time of my life trying to 'fit' with people, trying to have friends... that I don't remember anymore what I am, what I like, what are my interests... and I didn't even gain any friends in the process. I'd like to know, do somebody know a method of 'getting to...
    Bugxter Bugxter
    1 Response Oct 13, 2013
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 31

    Don't Fit In

    I often fill like I don't fit in anywhere it's like I'm a square peg trying to fit into a round hole its like people just think i'm strange.if anyone else fills like this please leave a comment .
    katemum katemum
    3 Responses Oct 29, 2011

    It'S A Chore

    I have autism which means that social interaction for me can be a bit of chore as is trying to get a job since autistic people cannot work. Sometimes I feel that not many people can relate to me at all.
    Monstermaster13 Monstermaster13
    22-25, M
    1 Response Apr 23, 2013

    It's True.

    I never fit in at school. Even among my friends, I feel like no one "gets" me, with a few exceptions. I definitely don't fit in on the internet, and probably won't fit in here.Here's to not fitting in: ouch! yay!
    sequinedfan sequinedfan
    31-35, M
    9 Responses Feb 2, 2010
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