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I Dont Forgive People After They Have Hurt Me

If you have been hurt, and you can't forgive the person you can find support here 164 People

    I don't forgive and I certainly don't forget,

    people say I'm stubborn, I say it's easier and better to cut you off like you never existed.
    JackNJ JackNJ 36-40, M May 17

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    I can't! It's impossibile

    for me! I don't understand girls who forgive their boyfriends after they have cheated on them! I think that if someone really love us , he'll never hurt us! So if u'll **** up i can't forgive you!
    mael95 mael95 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 4

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    Actually I do not get hurt easily!

    , and when it comes into forgiveness, I could only forgive the ones I love for the small mistakes they do unintentionally, but for those who give me a reason for not trusting them, I just treat them like they have never existed!.
    Loly11 Loly11 22-25, F May 17

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    Not Happening

    When people hurt me I never forgive cause I've learned when I do it only turns around and bites me in the ***, because it only happens again
    unforgettable77 unforgettable77 36-40, F Jan 26, 2013

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    I Forgive With Words And Actions, But Inside I'M Still Hurt...

    Or I'll avoid the person still afterwords. I forgave my boyfriend for the turmoil, the ups and downs he's put me through, the insults the cruel comments, the raging, throwing fits, the relapses... But I can't seem to let it all go. It's like a natural mechanism for people, when...
    ArtofSunrise ArtofSunrise 22-25 1 Response May 24, 2013

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    No matter how hard I try to forgive I just

    can't it wouldn't be the same either way if I have forgiven you Cus I remember how you hurt me
    cristina44 cristina44 22-25, F 1 Response May 17

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    I Don't Forgive You If You Hurt Me

    Most people meet my nice side, and that's the side they like, but a lot of the time that side of me is taken advantage of. I won't forgive you if you hurt me. You meet the side that's cold and hates people. I won't talk to you I won't pay attention to you. I won't even make eye...
    Lilwolf12 Lilwolf12 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 22, 2012

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    I don't write letters to those who have hurt me, I have to say. I strategise how I get my own back without using physical violence but emotional shattering pictures or people they...
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    I know no one is perfect but not everyone should have kids. Doctors and laws should get into parents' IQ, whether they have common sense or not, habits, and salary. Gosh! If one...
    destinii3 destinii3 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm probably one of them with my track record. I'm great with other peoples kids and other peoples life's but I can always give the kids back etc but the accolades go on and on...
    jadedover101 jadedover101 22-25 1 Response Jul 3

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    Accept People As They Are..........
    michigan11 michigan11 22-25, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    The only thing that matters to be about someone is that they have a kind heart. Anything else I am not to judge.
    Christy922 Christy922 22-25, F 6 Responses Jun 30

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    It seems odd that with all the people online, people still say they are lonely.
    maggiemaggamuff maggiemaggamuff 36-40, F 20 hrs ago

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    Dear 'cool people' they didn't name you as a candy did they ? Sincerely nerds😋
    fucklovee fucklovee 18-21, F 8 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Maybe it's just because I love the people I forgive but I feel like I need to stay mad at them for a little while and let them say sorry to me. I can't do that though, once I share...
    samcozz22 samcozz22 18-21, F Jun 30

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    I wish I didn't but its kinda hard not to when they just know the right words to say and make me soooooo happy.
    XFallingAngelX XFallingAngelX 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    Dear Colridge, All I asked for was a relationship with a guy that would accept me in terms of personality; both appearance and character and wouldn't hurt me, but you did. A few...
    Samaccino Samaccino 16-17, F Jul 19

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    When I read this story " 'Hell is Love': Inside the toxic world of CEO daughter turned 'call girl killer' Alix Tichelman accused of killing Google exec with heroin overdose...
    rajblr1970 rajblr1970 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 16

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    And yet I don't assume I have the right to dictate who should and who should not be procreating.
    Visola Visola 22-25, F 23 hrs ago

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    When I met him. I fell for him little by little. He was my air that I need to breathe. He was my heart that I wanted to love. He was the man in my dreams that I wanted to come true...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    Hey, im new to all of this but uh, i have been feeling so worthless lately, i have no one to talk to and my life is a mess. its one big fight after another. and im just very tired...
    jenly jenly 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    I may not like some people but I accept them as they are. Hey I am not one to tell you how to live your life.
    TimeTwoBeMe TimeTwoBeMe 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 7

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    If you can't take care of yourself how are you suppose to take care of a newborn? Or a toddler? If you can't sustain yourself then how could you feed your hungry children? I'm not...
    HappyHart5 HappyHart5 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 18

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    Well I think I am weird in many respects, so I try to accept all the different kind of weirdness! LOL! Though I wish more people to be accepting of each other, I don't think the...
    amanyadava amanyadava 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I think all people are same. I cannot understand how people hate other people because of their skin or religious belief
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I may not always agree with some people. That does not make them wrong .I am not qualified to judge anyone as we all see life from our own perspective. There are a few exceptions...
    GreenBlueEyes GreenBlueEyes 41-45 3 Responses Jul 4

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    So many people, so many different backgrounds. Everyone with their own unique story to tell. The past making us into who we are. I cannot judge, as I would like you not to judge...
    donttakeitpersonal donttakeitpersonal 36-40 Jul 11

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    I can't be more accepting. I've dated men of all races, I've had bi-men and cross-dressers. I've been with girls, I date the handicap and deformed. (shout out to my brothers and...
    dirtydarkness dirtydarkness 26-30, F 13 Responses Jun 30

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    You don't tell me who to txt or who not talk to. You just don't. You don't own a person. You don't control them. It's not normal saying that. I'm gonna talk to whoever I want. You...
    juliaek1 juliaek1 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    Hello everyone I'm new to the site and have never done anything like this before but I really feel like I need to get this off my chest ... I'm not the kind of guy who talks about...
    GreatSouthernTrendKill GreatSouthernTrendKill 22-25, M 3 Responses Jul 9

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    Well you just about have to .it is nearly impossible to change someone.
    mrmarine mrmarine 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 20

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    I accepted you for who you are. Even though I knew what you did and what you were doing. A mutual friend would tell me how you were and what you done. But I didn't care. I knew you...
    2luvjocy 2luvjocy 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Who am I to judge? We all have something that makes us different and we should celebrate that daily. Make friends, be open to new experiences, learn about a different culture...
    schultzy650 schultzy650 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 1

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    Have you seen the young Mum in the shop trying to get her young daughter who doesn't want to leave without this toy, that packet of sweets, behave and frustrated she starts...
    Paca24 Paca24 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 7

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    Seriously, some people are just not fit to be parents. A particular 4 year old's mother for instance. It's my boyfriend's son's mother. She can't hold a job, lives at home with...
    xXFemmeFataleXx xXFemmeFataleXx 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I believe that some people should have kids too. I know this lady that beats her autistic child because she can't handle how different he is. She also makes her kids lie about her...
    Samaccino Samaccino 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    There should be an iq test amongst other intelligence tests before you can have kids
    smadathehut smadathehut 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 18

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    “That which doesn’t kill us makes us stronger.”
    joyevaa joyevaa 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    Ugh it's like the lowest of the low.😒😣😫😩😔👿😡😠😟😦😧
    Tyelioo Tyelioo 13-15, F Jul 5

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    Doesn't matter if you're a different race, sex, skin color, whatever...I don't care because inside we are all human.
    CloakedStranger CloakedStranger 22-25, M 3 Responses Jun 30

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    Why are there so many gay boys who are under 18. How do you know your gay at such a young age. Same goes for lesbians.
    truethless truethless 18-21, M 7 Responses Jul 1

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    How to deal with a bi sexual wife..
    johnnystlyes johnnystlyes 46-50, M 7 Responses Jul 2

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    This picture is just very on point I felt like I had to share it
    PhotographyJournalingLife PhotographyJournalingLife 16-17, F Jul 6

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    Because we're all a little ******* crazy.
    Shamrocksalono Shamrocksalono 36-40, M 3 Responses Jul 18

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    Yesterday I was clever, so I wanted to change the world. ...... Today I am wise, so I want to change myself.
    Aryg Aryg 36-40, F 7 Responses Jul 20

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    I don’t place a high value on material wealth, the quality of someone’s personality is much more important to me
    TimEP TimEP 56-60, M a week ago

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    Yes, like an incestuous couple, for example.
    lonachan lonachan 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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