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I Dont Forgive People After They Have Hurt Me

If you have been hurt, and you can't forgive the person you can find support here 169 People

    I can't! It's impossibile

    for me! I don't understand girls who forgive their boyfriends after they have cheated on them! I think that if someone really love us , he'll never hurt us! So if u'll **** up i can't forgive you!
    mael95 mael95 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 4

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    Actually I do not get hurt easily!

    , and when it comes into forgiveness, I could only forgive the ones I love for the small mistakes they do unintentionally, but for those who give me a reason for not trusting them, I just treat them like they have never existed!.
    Loly11 Loly11 22-25, F May 17

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    I Don't Forgive You If You Hurt Me

    Most people meet my nice side, and that's the side they like, but a lot of the time that side of me is taken advantage of. I won't forgive you if you hurt me. You meet the side that's cold and hates people. I won't talk to you I won't pay attention to you. I won't even make eye...
    Lilwolf12 Lilwolf12 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 22, 2012

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    No matter how hard I try to forgive I just

    can't it wouldn't be the same either way if I have forgiven you Cus I remember how you hurt me
    cristina44 cristina44 22-25, F 1 Response May 17

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    Not Happening

    When people hurt me I never forgive cause I've learned when I do it only turns around and bites me in the ***, because it only happens again
    unforgettable77 unforgettable77 41-45, F Jan 26, 2013

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    I Forgive With Words And Actions, But Inside I'M Still Hurt...

    Or I'll avoid the person still afterwords. I forgave my boyfriend for the turmoil, the ups and downs he's put me through, the insults the cruel comments, the raging, throwing fits, the relapses... But I can't seem to let it all go. It's like a natural mechanism for people, when...
    ArtofSunrise ArtofSunrise 22-25 1 Response May 24, 2013

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    I don't forgive and I certainly don't forget,

    people say I'm stubborn, I say it's easier and better to cut you off like you never existed.
    JackNJ JackNJ 36-40, M May 17

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    I forgave _____ like ten minutes after because they made me laugh. I didn't forgive them exactly ... Just kinda let it go, and now I have the exact same problem .-. Great.
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    sumara21 sumara21 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    EP - people are different and have different beliefs but verbally attacking people on what they believe such as they are werewolves need to stop. It's childish disrespectful and...
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    Tilou420 Tilou420 13-15, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I think all people are same. I cannot understand how people hate other people because of their skin or religious belief
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 23

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    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 9

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    Urrrggghhh! Many people just shouldn't have kids! Especially if they live like pigs themselves! Gosh! I'm sick and tired of seeing clothes on the sofa, napkins, tissues, socks, and...
    destinii3 destinii3 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    honestly I don't believe it like when someone says tells me they think I'm beautiful or hot or whatever I say thank you but inside I immediately think they are joking or crazy or...
    nikkilicious143 nikkilicious143 13-15, F 6 Responses Aug 11

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    Be kind to those who are not. They are the one's that need it the most.
    medialahem medialahem 18-21 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    We can't judge people unless we know their entire background hostory. We shouldn't even judge them then. We have feelings and we're all humans on a mission. We all have...
    lifeafterdeath7 lifeafterdeath7 51-55, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Every time I have to check to make sure they are talking to me.
    KaylaJackie KaylaJackie 13-15, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    hahahahahaha every tiiime 👌 always try to win people over with personality lol
    rruser27 rruser27 13-15, M 4 days ago

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    Not only does it surprise me when those of both genders say I'm attractive, but the fact that when they feel my skin or touch my hair, they are mesmerized by the feel. Apparently...
    JohnBobMac JohnBobMac 16-17, T 2 days ago

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    I accept people but why don't thy accept me?
    rushman5 rushman5 13-15, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    2luvjocy 2luvjocy 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    I have no idea why, I guess I just don't see myself as being attractive .
    alyssabay alyssabay 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 11

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    Lol I don't think anyone finds me attractive physically I'm all freckly and don't have boobies :/
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    I have no respect for women who put their selfish needs before their kids. It's even worse when they put their "man" first...
    kmm95 kmm95 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    I believe strongly that people with unresolved anger issues or past abuse should strongly consider counseling before becoming parents. It would be nice if you needed a license...
    Dutchess68 Dutchess68 41-45 4 Responses Aug 4

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    tsg96 tsg96 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 1

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    And yet I don't assume I have the right to dictate who should and who should not be procreating.
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    Those sick bastards just **** me of
    killerinstinke killerinstinke 13-15, F Aug 1

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