Post
Experience Project iOS Android Apps | Download EP for your Mobile Device

I Dont Forgive People After They Have Hurt Me

If you have been hurt, and you can't forgive the person you can find support here 231 People

    I can't! It's impossibile

    for me! I don't understand girls who forgive their boyfriends after they have cheated on them! I think that if someone really love us , he'll never hurt us! So if u'll **** up i can't forgive you!
    mael95 mael95 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 4, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Forgive With Words And Actions, But Inside I'M Still Hurt...

    Or I'll avoid the person still afterwords. I forgave my boyfriend for the turmoil, the ups and downs he's put me through, the insults the cruel comments, the raging, throwing fits, the relapses... But I can't seem to let it all go. It's like a natural mechanism for people, when...
    ArtofSunrise ArtofSunrise 22-25 1 Response May 24, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    No matter how hard I try to forgive I just

    can't it wouldn't be the same either way if I have forgiven you Cus I remember how you hurt me
    cristina44 cristina44 22-25, F 1 Response May 17, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Not Happening

    When people hurt me I never forgive cause I've learned when I do it only turns around and bites me in the ***, because it only happens again
    unforgettable77 unforgettable77 41-45, F Jan 26, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Don't Forgive You If You Hurt Me

    Most people meet my nice side, and that's the side they like, but a lot of the time that side of me is taken advantage of. I won't forgive you if you hurt me. You meet the side that's cold and hates people. I won't talk to you I won't pay attention to you. I won't even make eye...
    Lilwolf12 Lilwolf12 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 22, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    In 2004 I came across a guy

    who got me mad .i do not want to mention his nationality for safety reason but he is a white man from a Western European number and I have an Indian look .im dark skinned and I had always had a sketeltel build .since he spotted me working in the same hotel he was angered and...
    Anonymous79ea Anonymous79ea 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 27, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Actually I do not get hurt easily!

    , and when it comes into forgiveness, I could only forgive the ones I love for the small mistakes they do unintentionally, but for those who give me a reason for not trusting them, I just treat them like they have never existed!.
    Loly11 Loly11 22-25, F May 17, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    3 whole years to this very day

    and I'm still full of resentment and hatred. 3 years since my dreams were shattered. I just don't know when i'll stop my resentment.
    Paleandpolluted86 Paleandpolluted86 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 4, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I think the one thing I've always struggled

    with was my boyfriends forgetting my birthday 2 times in a row. We've been together for 3 years so it does hurt and it does make me feel like he doesn't care about me. He doesn't remember the simple things. Like my fav colour, food, drink stuff like that. Yes I do remember...
    Anon2721 Anon2721 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 27, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I've only held one grudge

    and that's towards my mums brother and his son; my cousin. Although I was in the wrong I was happy to talk about the issue I realised they weren't the sort of ppl who talked things out. Instead they swore at me and suggested to never talk to them again. So rather then talk about...
    heyitsabike heyitsabike 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 27, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I have to admit that holding a grudge is one of

    my faults. I acknowledge it and try to temper it but that adage of fool me once always seems to stick in my head.
    Nuovinzi Nuovinzi 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 27, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    I first started when I was younger I would smell my mothers and sisters pantyhose the foot area and then went to trying the girl next door I love the smell of pantyhose feet ever...
    lovetoesinhose lovetoesinhose 56-60, M 3 Responses Jan 2

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I love people as they are. I think it is so important to accept people the way that they are because that is, well, the way that they are. If someone likes pizza and hates card...
    ainsley022 ainsley022 22-25, F 6 Responses Dec 31, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I accept people as they are. Why not? they can't help who they are and who they became. Only one thing that keep me away is negative people. I can't accept that because I don't...
    ladylare ladylare 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 19

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I accept people as they are. This doesn't always mean that I enjoy who they are... but I don't expect people to change for me. There are so many personalities to explore and try...
    Petunia2015 Petunia2015 31-35, F 10 Responses Jan 20

    Your Response

    Cancel
    People shouldn't have to change. I believe if you don't like a certain aspect about someone, you shouldn't try to change them. They are who they are and it isn't fair to them. I...
    upupandaway24 upupandaway24 18-21, F 17 Responses Jan 5

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I so wish everyone or at least most people could have the attitude of accepting people as they are. It would make live easier for everyone. But even more so for people like me who...
    DawnR59 DawnR59 51-55, T 4 Responses Jan 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    i accept people as they are. their age, gender, race, colour and other traits don't bother me until their behavior makes me judge them
    ifaizanm ifaizanm 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    They have the rights to choose what they want to be. They as in we. And I am not one to judge.
    nonymousee nonymousee 16-17, F 7 Responses Jan 15

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I guess since I forgive others it makes me a target for mean spirited people. I have no choice though, If I harbor the badness then I hurt myself. It just eats at me when I feel...
    Stuart3 Stuart3 51-55, M 3 Responses Jan 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I thought that I was stuck with the hurt done to me by people no longer in my life. I thought that there would never be any resolution or closure. Eventually I realized that...
    padraig17325 padraig17325 51-55, M Jan 15

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Psychology says, men tend to forget but never forgive. Whereas women forgive, but never forget.
    shanmashal shanmashal 26-30, M 5 Responses 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    If you do then you are sick and wrong and should be locked up. Think if someone hunter came after you. You wouldn't like wouldn't you? That's how animals feel. We should safe...
    Wolfy14 Wolfy14 13-15, F 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Do they pity the orphan? Do they like the heartless, insecure girl who always picks the wrong man to trust? Do they wonder why I am not bonkers? Do they find me intelligent, or...
    astute99 astute99 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I accept anyone but what the hell is up with these new people talking and saying they are fat and want to get super fat and gain weight?!? Wtf.. Do they wanna get diseases and die...
    DonaldC123 DonaldC123 13-15, M 5 Responses Jan 20

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I never block people- I just use a wide range of vocabulary until they leave on their own free will. It's quite funny the responses I get on occasion. So I let them be themselves...
    Maihowl Maihowl 22-25, F 21 Responses Jan 5

    Your Response

    Cancel
    This is easy to say but not always easy to do. I really try to do this, but sometimes it is hard to just accept that people are who they are. I think finally understanding that...
    enviouseyes enviouseyes 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't judge people! I wish people didn't judge me! I wish a guy could look at me and say, "woah..she's beautiful" not, "ew she's fat" I want to be wanted and I want to not be...
    BeautifulDisaster98 BeautifulDisaster98 16-17, F 6 Responses Jan 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    cganakya pandir says: A king get respect in his country only. but a scholar get respect everywhere. people respect him whereever he go. knowledge is great thing. never can be...
    iskdel iskdel 31-35, M 3 Responses Jan 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My only rule with people is that they are nice to me. Their skin color,race,religion,weight,size,or sexuality don't matter to me. You be nice to me, I'll be nice to you.
    Slimshadysgirlx Slimshadysgirlx 13-15, F 5 Responses Jan 5

    Your Response

    Cancel
    No one truly does this completely, even if they think they do
    ilikemovies172 ilikemovies172 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Hello accepting people I'm kinda in a long distance lil relationship God I never done this before and it sucks or it just may be her all I know I don't like it
    daddylove4u daddylove4u 51-55, M 5 Responses Jan 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    The personality that defines a person is directly influenced by the environment he/she interacts with. It is influenced by the day to day happenings around that individual. As a...
    Valory23 Valory23 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I really don't care if people are gay, black , white, christian, muslim or whatever. This seriously doesn't matter, but all they should have is a good heart and that's enough for...
    Boraboo Boraboo 13-15, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    If you're gay, that's ok If you're straight, that's ok If you swing both ways, that's ok If you're transgender, that's ok If you're christian, that's ok If you're atheist, that's...
    Rourou19 Rourou19 18-21, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Two things to remember in life. Take care of your thoughts when you are alone, take care of your words when you are with people.
    shanmashal shanmashal 26-30, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    When I wear pantyhose it's like all the guys want to know how they feel on me and they seem to stare a hole through me I guess guys just like them a lot
    Stephhpets Stephhpets 22-25, F 19 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    But apparently some people don't. I had a fairly long conversation with someone last night that hearted something I said about being in a sexless marriage. We seemed to have a...
    Wizard4 Wizard4 46-50, M 4 Responses Jan 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Gay or str 8 - no prob as long as they like to **** and ****
    Bigboy379 Bigboy379 51-55 1 Response Jan 19

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Everyone have their reasons to be who they are. So as long as there is no harm to others I don't care about your little thing!! :)
    man0z man0z 26-30, M 5 Responses 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    With this new year I have decided to start this new blog. One which I hope will be around for many more years to come. Thank you all for your support, and for being a member of...
    LegStyles LegStyles 26-30, M Jan 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    The only thing that would contradict this philosophy would be if someone was a serial killer or rapist...That, I would have a problem with
    EvoxNeon EvoxNeon 16-17, M Jan 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    There's no real definition to perfection. Everyone is different and unique in their own ways. What right do we have to judge anyone? This is with exception to murderers/rapists...
    mewmy mewmy 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 18

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Unless your opinions are stupid then I don't have time for accepting you ....
    Jusjellybean Jusjellybean 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have a question that i am hoping someone has advice on. When my husband was 19 he had a daughter with a woman that has refused to allow him to see the child since birth. He was...
    hinton5 hinton5 31-35, F Jan 1

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Makes me wonder... Like really wonder...
    EmojiGirl EmojiGirl 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel