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I Dont Forgive People After They Have Hurt Me

If you have been hurt, and you can't forgive the person you can find support here 118 People

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    When people hurt me I never forgive cause I've learned when I do it only turns around and bites me in the ***, because it only happens again
    unforgettable77 unforgettable77 36-40, F Jan 26, 2013

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    I Forgive With Words And Actions, But Inside I'M Still Hurt...

    Or I'll avoid the person still afterwords. I forgave my boyfriend for the turmoil, the ups and downs he's put me through, the insults the cruel comments, the raging, throwing fits, the relapses... But I can't seem to let it all go. It's like a natural mechanism for people, when...
    ArtofSunrise ArtofSunrise 22-25 1 Response May 24, 2013

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    I Don't Forgive You If You Hurt Me

    Most people meet my nice side, and that's the side they like, but a lot of the time that side of me is taken advantage of. I won't forgive you if you hurt me. You meet the side that's cold and hates people. I won't talk to you I won't pay attention to you. I won't even make eye...
    Lilwolf12 Lilwolf12 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 22, 2012

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    I accept people as they are and wish the same in return. Please accept me, just as I am.
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    No. It does not work like that. You do not forgive because you want people to walk right over you...even though sometimes it could be interpreted that way and they call you a...
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    why do people need to become a sheep or make themselves look like others i prefer them as themselves :)
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    masks "she had blue skin and so did he. he kept it hid and so did she they searched for blue their whole life through, then passed right by--- and never knew
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