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I Don't Get Along With My Mom

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    So me and my mom were arguing

    and she ended up saying she wish i succeeded my suicide attempt last year so that she would have to keep waking up to the disappointment of a daughter that i am n i honestly want to try again because just maybe i can make her happy for once
    sweetxxmisery sweetxxmisery 13-15, F 6 Responses Jul 15, 2014

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    My mom has a mental disorder

    and is an alcoholic we argue every day and I get yelled at for no reason she has done horrible things to my family in the past and ruins every family Holliday I try to forgive her for the things Shes done but I can't today I just started crying and pretty much had I break down...
    puplepsndazzz puplepsndazzz 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 28, 2014

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    My mom just decided to wake me up at 7 am on my

    day off (after 2 hours of sleep which she knows) and complained about what I do/have done wrong for 30 minutes even though I was angry and told her to go away many times. She didn't apologize and thinks this is okay. I'm so pissed at her.
    littlemissrainy littlemissrainy 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 9, 2014

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    tonya13 tonya13 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 7, 2014

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    Ever since my mom got married she changed.

    . ALOT. She wasnt the loving mother i once had Instead she was now a woman that wouldnt let me have my freedom. My stepdad is always influencing her decisions and he hates me. i dont know why but its probably because i resemble my dad. I really dont know what to do. I give up
    niginaga niginaga 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 21

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    Now please tell me why leggins should be

    "totally inappropriate" at my age?????? why????
    jujeju jujeju 13-15, F 7 Responses Sep 17, 2014

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    i never got along well with her.

    she often exaggerates and freaks out over little things. when nothing goes her way she throws things. today i came back from school and i told her about a few things in school like applying for a leave earlier since my father have booked a flight. at that instant ny dad...
    hazedmemories hazedmemories 13-15, F 4 Responses Jan 13

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    Our relationship has thawed considerably in the

    last year, but nonetheless our history has been tumultuous, to say the least. I'll admit that I take more after my mother than my father. This goes for both personality and facial structure. Additionally, she passed onto me a lighter form of the depression she had, which in term...
    RustinCohle RustinCohle 18-21, M 4 Responses Nov 13, 2014

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    My mom officially hates me.

    Today she kept on yelling at me all day. I can take this anymore! I just wanna leave this world!
    Ihugzminniemouse Ihugzminniemouse 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    I don't get along with my mom.

    Of course i want to have a good relationship with her, as she wants it to. But sometimes i feel soooo pissed of with my life and there are days that i don't want to see or speak to anyone..and she come to me, like, 'what do you have?' 'who made you unhappy?' or smth like these...
    feelingaloneee feelingaloneee 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 26, 2014

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    I love her but she makes it really hard to get

    along with her. She makes everyone mad except the people she puts an act on for. Like i know shes my mom and all but gosh. Shes so stuck up. She stays on the computer all day. When i try to talk to her she tells me to go away shes busy. But shes "busy" all the time. I tell her...
    Monami13 Monami13 13-15, F Jun 20, 2014

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    My mother and father are fervent Opus Dei

    Catholics. They believe in punishing their children, and my mother used to whip me a lot. When you think your mother should be the bastion of your defence against the world she never was for me, she never has been! I can't say I despise her actions, but certainly she has broken...
    Mstroig Mstroig 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 6, 2014

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    I never knew how hard it was to have your

    mother call you fat . I know it may seem like nothing but it hurts . For some damn reason it made me cry. It felt like my own mom was bullying me at the time . Like she had nothing better to do . But it's like they say what doesn't kill u makes you stronger .
    Yovanna Yovanna 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 1, 2014

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    Don't get along with is an understatement.

    Our relationship is so ******* dysfunctional its crazy. She hurts me and I hurt her. Its become a habitual cycle. Its sad how the one person that you love and cherish the most is the one that hurts and disappoints you the most. I wish that I wasn't so vulnerable to her but its...
    15ShadesOfBlue 15ShadesOfBlue 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 2, 2014

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    My mom and I have never gotten along.

    Due to an inability to accurately express myself, differing views and moodiness on both sides we are usually mad at eachother. I love her with all my heart. She has always been there for me, even when I blamed her for the divorce when I was 2(not her fault.). But we just can't...
    fogandcopper fogandcopper 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 19, 2014

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    AHHH!!! I can't ******* take this anymore.

    she absolutely hates me, and is always teasing me or yelling at me. she makes me feel like a worthless piece of ****.
    pxthetic pxthetic 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 1

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    Just got back for thanksgiving break last night

    and I ended up storming out of the house cause she just went too far, but I still love her
    sarcasticgirl sarcasticgirl 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 26, 2014

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    I wish we were close

    but she has done so many things to hurt me it's hard to respect her and get along. I love my mom to death but it gets so hard sometimes being around her and I snap. I feel so bad for everything that I've done to her. I wish I could change it but what's done is done. I hope she...
    ZaquoyaTinsley ZaquoyaTinsley 13-15, F Nov 20, 2014

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    It is said that we should love our parents.

    Mother is uniqe. Only one of her kind. But my mother is a person who hurt me the most in life. Because of her i've been crying the most in my life. And why? I'm not a bad daughter. I've never done something really wrong. Don't smoke, drink, take drugs, don't go to the...
    viktorija99 viktorija99 16-17, F Jul 1, 2014

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    My mom has picked her boyfriend over me

    countless times. Just this year in fact. But it was the last straw for me. I'll never understand how a parent can pick a person who has hurt their child, over their child. I left the state to get away from her and her child molesting boyfriend. They are both sick. But...
    dissolution dissolution 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 29, 2014

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    me and my mum can get along sometimes

    but i think she likes to take her anger out on people alot but mostly on me im 13 years old and this started when i was 9. At 5pm i asked my mum where the printer cable was and she tried to find it for about 2 minutes and said why dont you get your lazy *** up and ******* help...
    ForeverAbsent ForeverAbsent 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 19, 2014

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    My boyfriend broke up with me Saturday night.

    We had been living together for a little while but because of issues he had going on he ended it and needed to concentrate on his issues. Something that, while really quite upset about it, I could genuinely understand. So as you can guess I've moved back home.... My mum storms...
    HaightStreet HaightStreet 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 17, 2014

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    everything i do is wrong.

    i can never do anything to please her. It's never enough
    ftash ftash 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 4, 2014

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    We are always arguing.

    .. She is so bipolar one min she fine the next she screaming at me. Well we always arguing because we both are just alike we both don't like to be wrong we always disagree on things
    lizbethx3 lizbethx3 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 22, 2014

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    Is it normal that I hate my mother

    so much? I grew up thinking my mom was a «hero», but when I reached my teen years, I discovered her hypocrite side. She usually says what's bothering her straightforwardly, but never acknowledge the good. She sees what bad about a person so easily, that she misses what's good...
    Khating Khating 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    She always makes me feel guilty,

    as if everything is my fault. I came home the other day from a bad xc race. I get home to her yelling at me that it was my fault that she threw out a paper. The icing on the cake was that i had to look through the trash, since of coarse it was all my fault. I said "I hate this...
    mnmth mnmth 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 20, 2014

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    I love my mom so much,

    but I just don't know how to show it. She thinks I hate her but I really don't. We fight almost everyday. She says really hurtful words to me. I told her if she hates me this much why doesn't she just put me up for adoption . She says she would but I will just spend my whole...
    Ihugzminniemouse Ihugzminniemouse 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    My mum and dad broke up

    when i was 5. Me and my sister lived with my mum but Saw my dad on weekends. My dad moved away so I rarely see him. My mum and sister have their own little club together and I feel left out and not loved
    Ravenosiris Ravenosiris 26-30, F Oct 30, 2014

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    Me and my mom haven't been getting along.

    Ever since our family decided to move she's been a jerk. We got in a fight the other day and it got intense (she beat me for the first time) and she likes to point out my flaws (I do that to myself as well) and it upsets me. Her verbal abuse has pushed me to self harm. I've been...
    SammyTheBroken SammyTheBroken 16-17, F 8 Responses Sep 10, 2014

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    My mom is the only thing holding me back.

    She treats me the worst out of her kids. My older brother is in college so she misses him, my little brother is her "baby" so nothing he does is wrong, and then there's me. I've struggled with Anxiety and depression for over a decade, and it came to the point of me trying to...
    Doublebubble64 Doublebubble64 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 6, 2014

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    My mom told me "No one in our family likes you.

    They only talk to you, so they can get to me"
    MaggieTaylor22 MaggieTaylor22 13-15, F 10 Responses Jul 8, 2014

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    I know I am supposed to love my mom

    but I just get annoyed but look of even her name.
    suesueee suesueee 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 30, 2014

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    I feel unwanted and hurt I have

    so much rage I don't know what to do. The older I get the more it seems like she hate me. The arguing and the fights im better off alone !
    KorranBlunt KorranBlunt 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 17, 2014

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    My mother and I used to be best friends,

    then I turned 15. When I was younger, I would tell my mother everything! Even when I did something wrong, but she was always understanding. When I got into high school her and I grew farther apart. My junior and senior years of high school were the worst! My parents are not...
    XxNightRavexX XxNightRavexX 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 4, 2014

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    I have the worst relationship with my roommate.

    (That's what I call my mom) She treats me like a child, I am 17 years old. I'm not allowed to stay out late past 11 and I'm always either locked up at home or at work. I don't even have my own car and it's hard getting to work and to soccer practices. My roommate doesn't...
    disneylover3 disneylover3 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 14, 2014

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    First of all, I love my mother to pieces

    but we simply don't get along. Ever since I can remember, we would bicker all the time. She seems to single me out and blames whatever she possibly can on me. It's sadly too obvious because my father, brother, boyfriend, and close friends all notice this. She's gotten physical...
    Untamablespark Untamablespark 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 25, 2014

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    The history with my mom is horrible!

    To be honest I don't actually consider her my mom, but the woman who was the host for me to grow in. First of all she wanted a son not a daughter and boy was she heartbroken and surprised when she got me instead. Every day she made sure I knew she didn't want me or had plans to...
    Blackbarbie1987 Blackbarbie1987 26-30, F 16 Responses Dec 22, 2014

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    she acts like she is some pure better

    than thou entity when really shes just another ***** bringing differnet men into the house evry night that i have to listen to her bang. and then she wonders what happened to me.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 18, 2014

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    My mom thinks I dress slutty

    but it is what all us kids wear?????
    jenn1386 jenn1386 16-17, F 7 Responses Oct 1, 2014

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    For most of my life, we have been estranged

    from each other ever since I moved away. It was 24 years and now we have not been in touch with each other for almost 2 years. It began almost 2 years ago, when we had a falling out and we could not resolve our differences I imagine it goes all the way back to when I was a...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 2 Responses Jun 6, 2014

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    I obviously do love my mom

    so much. I mean she is my mother. Lately we haven't been getting along at all. I'm 24 and had my first son at 14. My mom and him have a very special bond. They're VERY close. Lately he has been in some trouble, so we grounded him. He got mad and locked himself in his room to...
    SexyTattedMom SexyTattedMom 26-30, F 5 Responses May 7, 2014

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    In the morning I tell myself I am going to be

    nice but when I see her face I suddenly get so angry. I don't want to be a ***** but I just can't help myself. Too much had already happened and obviously both of us can't get over it.
    VivienHope VivienHope 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 30, 2014

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    My mom always get on my nerves.

    I put up with her bullshit every time she complains about something. I'm always the one that has to apologize first even if I didn't do anything. She never appreciates the things I've done when she's at work, helping out with my sister, doing household stuff, cooking for her etc...
    wantingperfection wantingperfection 16-17, F 9 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    We just don't get along.

    Sure they may be those moments where we're happy in each other's company, but they are just so rare lately. Most of the time we're never on the same page. And honestly speaking, I think we'll never have that mother-daughter bond like most people have. She done and said too many...
    henal216 henal216 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 14, 2014

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    I never have and probably never will.

    Everyday is a constant battle with her. Out of all the ****** people in my life I sadly admit she's the worst. I envy people who have great relationships with their moms. I could never talk to her about most things going on in my life she never understands. And half of the time...
    musicforlife0321 musicforlife0321 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    It brings tears to my eyes.

    I want to love her...I want our relationship to be better but It's not. Of all the things she put me though and all the things she allowed to happen to me.All the things she's said.How she called me evil and hateful and said I was going too hell if I die.How I sat there....as a...
    irreelevance irreelevance 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 3

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    My Mom Really Hates Me.

    wow. where do i start. my mother really dislikes me. at times i think its cause im not that pretty, but my sister whom is pretty shes jealous of her. and doesn't like her neither. but my mom is sooooo nice to everybody else. i dont understand. shes also afraid of...
    veronica4ever veronica4ever 26-30, F 13 Responses Feb 15, 2010

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    We have lots in common.

    I honestly don't know why we can't get along. Our peaceful times are honestly just small talk or deliberately avoiding difficult topics provided we're actually holding a conversation. Whenever anything important comes up that required communication between us or in our family in...
    BleedingOrchids BleedingOrchids 13-15, F Oct 30, 2014

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    tinytonya2001 tinytonya2001 13-15, F 5 Responses Nov 30, 2014

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    I never really got along with her.

    I feel like she doesn't understands me all she cares about is beauty. She doesn't understand my feeling and she's not a person i can talk to. She doesn't even act like she's my mom. She hated my boyfriend just because he had alot of tattoos,he was calling him a bad guy and a...
    Tessa3 Tessa3 22-25, F Dec 4, 2014

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    Today me and my mom watched The ride Demi

    Lovato. Demi was talking about self harming and my mom was telling how Demi is crazy because of that and stupid and she had to be in hospital. I loked at my arms and i thought in my mind how my mom have cutter in her house.
    staystrongandlive staystrongandlive 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 29, 2014

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