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I Don't Get Along With My Mom

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    tinytonya2001 tinytonya2001 13-15, F 5 Responses Nov 30

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    I never knew how hard it was to have your

    mother call you fat . I know it may seem like nothing but it hurts . For some damn reason it made me cry. It felt like my own mom was bullying me at the time . Like she had nothing better to do . But it's like they say what doesn't kill u makes you stronger .
    Yovanna Yovanna 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 1

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    Don't get along with is an understatement.

    Our relationship is so ******* dysfunctional its crazy. She hurts me and I hurt her. Its become a habitual cycle. Its sad how the one person that you love and cherish the most is the one that hurts and disappoints you the most. I wish that I wasn't so vulnerable to her but its...
    15ShadesOfBlue 15ShadesOfBlue 13-15, F 5 Responses Aug 2

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    So me and my mom were arguing

    and she ended up saying she wish i succeeded my suicide attempt last year so that she would have to keep waking up to the disappointment of a daughter that i am n i honestly want to try again because just maybe i can make her happy for once
    sweetxxmisery sweetxxmisery 13-15, F 6 Responses Jul 15

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    Me and my mom haven't been getting along.

    Ever since our family decided to move she's been a jerk. We got in a fight the other day and it got intense (she beat me for the first time) and she likes to point out my flaws (I do that to myself as well) and it upsets me. Her verbal abuse has pushed me to self harm. I've been...
    SammyTheBroken SammyTheBroken 16-17, F 8 Responses Sep 10

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    First of all, I love my mother to pieces

    but we simply don't get along. Ever since I can remember, we would bicker all the time. She seems to single me out and blames whatever she possibly can on me. It's sadly too obvious because my father, brother, boyfriend, and close friends all notice this. She's gotten physical...
    Untamablespark Untamablespark 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 25

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    I don't really know what to do anymore.

    At this point, my mom is the main trigger to my depression and anxiety. I don't like being around her, but I don't want to hurt her. She's my mom, I know she loves me, and I love her too but I can not stand being with her for more than a day. I decided that I wanted to stay at...
    dickdurk dickdurk 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 7

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    me and my mum can get along sometimes

    but i think she likes to take her anger out on people alot but mostly on me im 13 years old and this started when i was 9. At 5pm i asked my mum where the printer cable was and she tried to find it for about 2 minutes and said why dont you get your lazy *** up and ******* help...
    ForeverAbsent ForeverAbsent 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 19

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    My mom just decided to wake me up at 7 am on my

    day off (after 2 hours of sleep which she knows) and complained about what I do/have done wrong for 30 minutes even though I was angry and told her to go away many times. She didn't apologize and thinks this is okay. I'm so pissed at her.
    littlemissrainy littlemissrainy 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 9

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    My mum and dad broke up

    when i was 5. Me and my sister lived with my mum but Saw my dad on weekends. My dad moved away so I rarely see him. My mum and sister have their own little club together and I feel left out and not loved
    Ravenosiris Ravenosiris 26-30, F Oct 30

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    She always makes me feel guilty,

    as if everything is my fault. I came home the other day from a bad xc race. I get home to her yelling at me that it was my fault that she threw out a paper. The icing on the cake was that i had to look through the trash, since of coarse it was all my fault. I said "I hate this...
    mnmth mnmth 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 20

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    tonya13 tonya13 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 7

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    she acts like she is some pure better

    than thou entity when really shes just another ***** bringing differnet men into the house evry night that i have to listen to her bang. and then she wonders what happened to me.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 18

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    We have lots in common.

    I honestly don't know why we can't get along. Our peaceful times are honestly just small talk or deliberately avoiding difficult topics provided we're actually holding a conversation. Whenever anything important comes up that required communication between us or in our family in...
    BleedingOrchids BleedingOrchids 13-15, F Oct 30

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    I know I am supposed to love my mom

    but I just get annoyed but look of even her name.
    suesueee suesueee 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 30

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    My mom is the only thing holding me back.

    She treats me the worst out of her kids. My older brother is in college so she misses him, my little brother is her "baby" so nothing he does is wrong, and then there's me. I've struggled with Anxiety and depression for over a decade, and it came to the point of me trying to...
    Doublebubble64 Doublebubble64 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    We just don't get along.

    Sure they may be those moments where we're happy in each other's company, but they are just so rare lately. Most of the time we're never on the same page. And honestly speaking, I think we'll never have that mother-daughter bond like most people have. She done and said too many...
    henal216 henal216 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 14

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    My mother and father are fervent Opus Dei

    Catholics. They believe in punishing their children, and my mother used to whip me a lot. When you think your mother should be the bastion of your defence against the world she never was for me, she never has been! I can't say I despise her actions, but certainly she has broken...
    Mstroig Mstroig 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    My boyfriend broke up with me Saturday night.

    We had been living together for a little while but because of issues he had going on he ended it and needed to concentrate on his issues. Something that, while really quite upset about it, I could genuinely understand. So as you can guess I've moved back home.... My mum storms...
    HaightStreet HaightStreet 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    I love her but she makes it really hard to get

    along with her. She makes everyone mad except the people she puts an act on for. Like i know shes my mom and all but gosh. Shes so stuck up. She stays on the computer all day. When i try to talk to her she tells me to go away shes busy. But shes "busy" all the time. I tell her...
    Monami13 Monami13 13-15, F Jun 20

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    My mom always get on my nerves.

    I put up with her bullshit every time she complains about something. I'm always the one that has to apologize first even if I didn't do anything. She never appreciates the things I've done when she's at work, helping out with my sister, doing household stuff, cooking for her etc...
    wantingperfection wantingperfection 16-17, F 9 Responses Jul 9

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    My mom told me "No one in our family likes you.

    They only talk to you, so they can get to me"
    MaggieTaylor22 MaggieTaylor22 13-15, F 10 Responses Jul 8

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    My mom and I have a very strange relationship.

    I guess compared to my other friends parents she'd be considered quite strict. I love my mother and I know she loves me as well, however I feel like she absolutely hates me right now. We've had our fair share of fights in the past which have left me feeling entirely depressed...
    grl16 grl16 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 26

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    We are always arguing.

    .. She is so bipolar one min she fine the next she screaming at me. Well we always arguing because we both are just alike we both don't like to be wrong we always disagree on things
    lizbethx3 lizbethx3 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 22

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    I obviously do love my mom

    so much. I mean she is my mother. Lately we haven't been getting along at all. I'm 24 and had my first son at 14. My mom and him have a very special bond. They're VERY close. Lately he has been in some trouble, so we grounded him. He got mad and locked himself in his room to...
    SexyTattedMom SexyTattedMom 26-30, F 4 Responses May 7

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    Well its obvious my mom can no longer stand me,

    and I can't stand her either.I'm the youngest in my family and I normally sit in the living room because I STILL don't have my own room,and here comes my mom yelling at me telling that we don't help her.I understand that lots of moms do this,but if she's going to yell about all...
    belovedcandy belovedcandy 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 30

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    In the morning I tell myself I am going to be

    nice but when I see her face I suddenly get so angry. I don't want to be a ***** but I just can't help myself. Too much had already happened and obviously both of us can't get over it.
    VivienHope VivienHope 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 30

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    We keep on fighting..

    She always tried to run away, I was always the one who had to chase her back. Today, I told her that i gave up on her. Probably this is the end of our relationship. I really want to be alone right now. There's a part of me that wanted to keep this relationship, but there's also...
    missperiwinkle missperiwinkle 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 17

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    I feel unwanted and hurt I have

    so much rage I don't know what to do. The older I get the more it seems like she hate me. The arguing and the fights im better off alone !
    KorranBlunt KorranBlunt 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 17

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    everything i do is wrong.

    i can never do anything to please her. It's never enough
    ftash ftash 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 4

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    I'm new here to the experience project

    and so I'm not exactly sure how this works so here goes. I'm currently living with my boyfriend, boyfriends brother and three animals. Sounds dandy right? Well it pretty much is. Here lately I still find myself feeling lonely even though I'm around all these people. I've tried...
    justmicki justmicki 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 22

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    For most of my life, we have been estranged

    from each other ever since I moved away. It was 24 years and now we have not been in touch with each other for almost 2 years. It began almost 2 years ago, when we had a falling out and we could not resolve our differences I imagine it goes all the way back to when I was a...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 2 Responses Jun 6

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    Just got back for thanksgiving break last night

    and I ended up storming out of the house cause she just went too far, but I still love her
    sarcasticgirl sarcasticgirl 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 26

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    I just feel so sad because I want to have a

    good relationship with her but it is just so hard.. The other day my boyfriend asked me what memories I had of my childhood with my mom and the only one that comes to mind is one where I was jumping from bed to bed in my room trying to get away from her trying to hit me with a...
    roomii roomii 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 28

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    Our relationship has thawed considerably in the

    last year, but nonetheless our history has been tumultuous, to say the least. I'll admit that I take more after my mother than my father. This goes for both personality and facial structure. Additionally, she passed onto me a lighter form of the depression she had, which in term...
    RustinCohle RustinCohle 18-21, M 4 Responses Nov 13

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    I feel she is the source of 90% of my problems

    in life. Your mother is supposed to be your guide and protector. Since I can remember mine has belittled me no end. Told me I'm not good enough and a bad person. She has never loved me maternally and tells me this regularly. She has made me feel so inferior all my life I am am...
    Annajuliett Annajuliett 22-25, F 7 Responses Sep 28

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    My mom has a mental disorder

    and is an alcoholic we argue every day and I get yelled at for no reason she has done horrible things to my family in the past and ruins every family Holliday I try to forgive her for the things Shes done but I can't today I just started crying and pretty much had I break down...
    puplepsndazzz puplepsndazzz 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 28

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    My mom has picked her boyfriend over me

    countless times. Just this year in fact. But it was the last straw for me. I'll never understand how a parent can pick a person who has hurt their child, over their child. I left the state to get away from her and her child molesting boyfriend. They are both sick. But...
    dissolution dissolution 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 29

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    My mom and I were really close growing up,

    or as close as you can be when you're one of seven kids. I think my mom naturally favored the girls, and my older sister was basically a hellion so that left me. When I got pregnant at 17, though, our relationship really turned sour. To this day she'll make comments along the...
    katinbell katinbell 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 30

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    I am just so tired and extremely exhausted from

    fighting all the time. When will it end? #SoDone
    Emin3mx3 Emin3mx3 18-21, F Jul 27

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    she's so annoying. she acts like a little kid,

    and i'm the one who is supposed to do that. she does stupid things that just agitate me.
    xenababy7 xenababy7 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    Now please tell me why leggins should be

    "totally inappropriate" at my age?????? why????
    jujeju jujeju 13-15, F 7 Responses Sep 17

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    My mom and I have never gotten along.

    Due to an inability to accurately express myself, differing views and moodiness on both sides we are usually mad at eachother. I love her with all my heart. She has always been there for me, even when I blamed her for the divorce when I was 2(not her fault.). But we just can't...
    fogandcopper fogandcopper 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 19

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    I have the worst relationship with my roommate.

    (That's what I call my mom) She treats me like a child, I am 17 years old. I'm not allowed to stay out late past 11 and I'm always either locked up at home or at work. I don't even have my own car and it's hard getting to work and to soccer practices. My roommate doesn't...
    disneylover3 disneylover3 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 14

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    My Mom Really Hates Me.

    wow. where do i start. my mother really dislikes me. at times i think its cause im not that pretty, but my sister whom is pretty shes jealous of her. and doesn't like her neither. but my mom is sooooo nice to everybody else. i dont understand. shes also afraid of...
    veronica4ever veronica4ever 26-30, F 13 Responses Feb 15, 2010

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    It is said that we should love our parents.

    Mother is uniqe. Only one of her kind. But my mother is a person who hurt me the most in life. Because of her i've been crying the most in my life. And why? I'm not a bad daughter. I've never done something really wrong. Don't smoke, drink, take drugs, don't go to the...
    viktorija99 viktorija99 16-17, F Jul 1

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    My mom thinks I dress slutty

    but it is what all us kids wear?????
    jenn1386 jenn1386 13-15, F 6 Responses Oct 1

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    i love the fact that my mum has decided to kick

    me and my 2month old son out because she doesn't want me part of her family which my i say her partner who has a ********* case on him by his ex. the amount of abuse i get from her and the fact she says "i should of beat you harder like you dad did and i should of sent you to...
    blackspirit1 blackspirit1 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 13

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    I wish we were close

    but she has done so many things to hurt me it's hard to respect her and get along. I love my mom to death but it gets so hard sometimes being around her and I snap. I feel so bad for everything that I've done to her. I wish I could change it but what's done is done. I hope she...
    ZaquoyaTinsley ZaquoyaTinsley 13-15, F Nov 20

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    My mother and I used to be best friends,

    then I turned 15. When I was younger, I would tell my mother everything! Even when I did something wrong, but she was always understanding. When I got into high school her and I grew farther apart. My junior and senior years of high school were the worst! My parents are not...
    XxNightRavexX XxNightRavexX 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 4

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    I don't get along with my mom.

    Of course i want to have a good relationship with her, as she wants it to. But sometimes i feel soooo pissed of with my life and there are days that i don't want to see or speak to anyone..and she come to me, like, 'what do you have?' 'who made you unhappy?' or smth like these...
    feelingaloneee feelingaloneee 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 26

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