I Don't Get Along With My Mom

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    Hello everyone, I just want to start off by

    saying i'm not looking for pitty or anything, its just that a lot of things you guys are going through with your mothers i am going through as well. I need some advice on how to handle this situation. She screams at me for everything, she gets mad when i speak to her (just...
    Doctorwhodat Doctorwhodat
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 23, 2015

    hii guys i just wanna write what in my

    heart I'm 14 years old i know I'm young but for a young person like me is haven't being a great life I'm just tired of me and my mum i mean she never understood me and always having a argument about something I'm just never that good for her its just killing me i don't know...
    reem138 reem138
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jan 19, 2015

    She pretends to be a good person.

    I am not religious, in fact, I think all the problems of the world are because of religion. We get into fights about things that I say. I have opinions, and I want to express them. I don't care if they make my mom mad, or if they embarrass her when we're in public. To be honest...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 22, 2016

    So I saw my mom today,

    and I almost never see her because she works 2 full time jobs. But even just visiting for a few hours made me sad because I get nerves around her and usually end up messing up something I say. Well she's the kind of person who seems to criticise me about everything. She always...
    CannibalisticUnicorn CannibalisticUnicorn
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 3, 2015

    My mom is so mean and unfair.

    I'm not just saying this because and fifteen and moody. I'm saying this because she's so mean to me. Yesterday I was fighting with my older brother. He got mad and pushed me into the wall. I knocked over a vase. My mom came in and started yelling at us. She told us we had to...
    Linsey14 Linsey14
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Feb 21, 2015

    mom doesn't see anything good in everything i

    do. all she sees are my flaws. its discouraging.
    embracetheheat embracetheheat
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 4, 2016

    Mother's day is tomorrow an I couldn't be more

    depressed -_-. Im never gonna here the end of it from her tomorrow about how ungrateful and hateful I am and how she deserves something for being a "good" mother. It hurts... I envy and salute people who have good mother/daughter relationships
    leadmenot leadmenot
    18-21, F
    4 Responses May 8, 2015

    I lost my voice. And the second it comes back

    it's gone. my mom thinks I'm faking it.
    JustLikeFirePink JustLikeFirePink
    16-17, F
    Apr 16, 2016

    Me and my mom haven't been getting along.

    Ever since our family decided to move she's been a jerk. We got in a fight the other day and it got intense (she beat me for the first time) and she likes to point out my flaws (I do that to myself as well) and it upsets me. Her verbal abuse has pushed me to self harm. I've been...
    SammyTheBroken SammyTheBroken
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Sep 10, 2014
    heatherheadly2000 heatherheadly2000
    16-17, F
    Feb 10, 2016
    heatheridk heatheridk
    18-21, F
    Feb 22, 2016

    I've never had a month in my life

    where we haven't argued over SOMETHING. I've always been a forgetful person and she doesn't really understand that fact that I can't help that. she would punishment for forgetting to off the light or she would punish me for missing the smallest f*cking crumb when I would clean...
    janeybear janeybear
    16-17, F
    1 Response Apr 16, 2016

    I don't really know what to do anymore.

    At this point, my mom is the main trigger to my depression and anxiety. I don't like being around her, but I don't want to hurt her. She's my mom, I know she loves me, and I love her too but I can not stand being with her for more than a day. I decided that I wanted to stay at...
    dickdurk dickdurk
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 7, 2014

    I'm a 20 y/o Arabian (not muslim)

    and I come from a rich cultural back ground and my mother is from the most royal family from my country. I'm going to be 21 in less than 6 months and I am still not getting the freedom and privacy I deserve and it just puts me in such an anxious, stressed and depressed state (I...
    psychedelicblues psychedelicblues
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 29, 2015

    I'm sitting behind the wheel waiting

    for my mom to get in. The first thing she does when she gets comfortable, while ordering me to start the car, is light up a cigarette. I stare her down, she finally caves. "What?" She asks. I point to her cigarette and say, "I want one." She repeats her question, this time...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Mar 23, 2016

    AHHH!!! I can't ******* take this anymore.

    she absolutely hates me, and is always teasing me or yelling at me. she makes me feel like a worthless piece of ****.
    therealsydster therealsydster
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 1, 2015

    I used to be close with my mother

    when I was young. After a while my siblings started causing problems and her attention shifted to them. I found myself being the forgotten child. I stopped sharing my feelings with her, only telling her what she wanted to hear. It has lead to me constantly lying. I have burried...
    veranique veranique
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 20, 2015

    My mom told me "No one in our family likes you.

    They only talk to you, so they can get to me"
    MaggieTaylor22 MaggieTaylor22
    18-21, F
    10 Responses Jul 8, 2014

    This may be something petty,

    its definitely something smaller compared to some of other people's experience but nonetheless I'm sure most of us are familiar when they completely twist our words, hell even our weird groaning and teenage whining sounds, and suddenly everything becomes your fault. I'm totally...
    BlackSilence BlackSilence
    18-21, F
    Feb 7, 2016

    I obviously do love my mom

    so much. I mean she is my mother. Lately we haven't been getting along at all. I'm 24 and had my first son at 14. My mom and him have a very special bond. They're VERY close. Lately he has been in some trouble, so we grounded him. He got mad and locked himself in his room to...
    SexyTattedMom SexyTattedMom
    26-30, F
    8 Responses May 7, 2014
    RainbowCrayon666 RainbowCrayon666
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 25, 2016
    heatheridk heatheridk
    18-21, F
    Feb 22, 2016
    madlymaddie madlymaddie
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 17, 2015

    I don't really like her

    but I still need her money and house to live in. Sigh.
    deleted122 deleted122
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 9, 2015

    I really feel like I am way too old to be going

    through this with my mother. I have been to hell and back with my family especially my mother. Growing up my mother was so angry all the time and would take it out mostly on me especially when my father was not around. And when my father would return home from work or wherever...
    BlackLilly BlackLilly
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 2, 2016

    My mom expects me to be the way she wants it's

    so fcked up. She does a lot for me but the torture is too much. I think I'm starting to hate her really.
    QueenOfQuirk QueenOfQuirk
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 14, 2015

    She gets mad when I want some food.

    She gets mad when I don't want any food.
    RainbowCrayon666 RainbowCrayon666
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 3, 2016

    OK wow I've never really had a chance to

    actually vent about this but here it goes: I love my mom but she can be extremely difficult to deal with and it's not just me who feels this way, it's with my brother and dad too. she doesn't really understand when she's being inconsiderate at all. I was in the counselor's...
    sleepyphotograher sleepyphotograher
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 5, 2015

    Its not so much that i don't get along with my

    mum, its more a case that i can't talk honestly with her about much any more. She chooses to see the negative in everything from us choosing to go on holiday to Disneyland Paris, to deciding to have another baby. Pretty much everything i've ever done where my son is concerned...
    nikinokers nikinokers
    36-40, F
    Feb 2, 2016

    The history with my mom is horrible!

    To be honest I don't actually consider her my mom, but the woman who was the host for me to grow in. First of all she wanted a son not a daughter and boy was she heartbroken and surprised when she got me instead. Every day she made sure I knew she didn't want me or had plans to...
    Blackbarbie1987 Blackbarbie1987
    26-30, F
    10 Responses Dec 22, 2014

    It's tough. I am an extremely strong believer

    in equality— gender, marriage, opportunity— and it's our right as humans to obtain that, we deserve it. Discrimination is a sign or weakness and a waste of time. I'm a teen, and sure, you can say teens make stupid decisions, they're moody: hormones. I believe in equality...
    popmasha popmasha
    16-17, F
    Feb 16, 2016

    my mom always tells my secrets to my dad I

    specifically ask her not to and she does. I want to trust her but when I do she always breaks them.
    laurenjohnson laurenjohnson
    16-17, F
    1 Response Feb 17, 2016

    My mother and I's personalities are very much

    alike, because of this we're always bumping heads. We get angry at each other easily and have very different opinions. Most of the time she doesn't even feel like my mom, just an old friend that comes and goes.
    PiggieCutie PiggieCutie
    16-17, F
    1 Response Nov 11, 2015

    my family dont love me.

    . i feel alone with parents. i cut my wrist vein to sucide, then after took lots of medicines, again i ran from my home, still they dont care. how i feel cant explain. they took my all money which i was saving from last 3 years. my mothers brother came home and they said i am...
    Gaurav85india Gaurav85india
    31-35, M
    1 Response Jan 7, 2016

    Don't get along with is an understatement.

    Our relationship is so ******* dysfunctional its crazy. She hurts me and I hurt her. Its become a habitual cycle. Its sad how the one person that you love and cherish the most is the one that hurts and disappoints you the most. I wish that I wasn't so vulnerable to her but its...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Aug 2, 2014

    Disrespectful To My "Mom" She Doesn't Even Feel

    Like A Mom I Mean She's Never Even Really Done Anything For Me , Not For Birthdays Not For Anything , She's The Reason I Had Dayveon , Because She Was Never At Home , Never There For Me And I Mean I Honestly Never Got Disciplined , Every Single Day Of 2016 There has Been...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jan 25, 2016

    I feel she is the source of 90% of my problems

    in life. Your mother is supposed to be your guide and protector. Since I can remember mine has belittled me no end. Told me I'm not good enough and a bad person. She has never loved me maternally and tells me this regularly. She has made me feel so inferior all my life I am am...
    Annajuliett Annajuliett
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Sep 28, 2014

    Me and mom? Dont even try to make things work.

    We dont talk anymore because when we do its all arguments and fighting and insults. My dad is rarely home so he thinks things are fine but really i just want out
    alexforever0321 alexforever0321
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 3, 2015

    She just makes me so mad,

    I don't know if she really loves me :/
    sadgirl1666 sadgirl1666
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Dec 19, 2015

    She is condescending.

    She is hypocritical. She gives my opinions and thoughts little to no regard whatsoever (what to eat for dinner, what clothes to buy, etc). She is always in my business. Yeah, whatever. You can say that moms are supposed to be involved in their child's life. She takes it too far...
    Termanus Termanus
    16-17, M
    Mar 22, 2016

    Most of the time, no.

    But at the same time, I couldn't thank her enough for all that she has done for me!
    ModifiedMamaofTwo ModifiedMamaofTwo
    18-21, F
    Aug 10, 2015

    My Mom Really Hates Me.

    wow. where do i start. my mother really dislikes me. at times i think its cause im not that pretty, but my sister whom is pretty shes jealous of her. and doesn't like her neither. but my mom is sooooo nice to everybody else. i dont understand. shes also afraid of...
    veronica4ever veronica4ever
    26-30, F
    12 Responses Feb 15, 2010

    My mom thinks I dress slutty

    but it is what all us kids wear?????
    jenn1386 jenn1386
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Oct 1, 2014

    I have a history of being mean

    and aggressive while drunk, and I do realize it is a problem. However, I find it hard to control myself in parties and nights out, and I am figuring my way through this problem.. Last night, I came home drunk, dead-drunk, blackout drunk, and apparently, I was insulting my mother...
    theonewithaproblem theonewithaproblem
    18-21, F
    Mar 13, 2016

    My mother had an affair

    for 11 years and completely ripped apart our family and ripped out my dad's heart. She picked her boyfriend over her family. I would be perfectly fine if I never heard from her again.
    hunibunny hunibunny
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 16, 2016

    I'd like to first start off by saying I'm a 16

    year old female that's been having severe family trouble. I just wanted to come on here to vent and ask what I should do because I honestly just don't know anymore. My story is really long (sorry!) but I want you to read it and understand why I need help. Everything has been...
    AwkwardSloth AwkwardSloth
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 23, 2016
    heatherheadly2000 heatherheadly2000
    16-17, F
    Feb 10, 2016

    Then comes a drunk man.

    My relationship with my mom was improving. I was raised in a Christian home. So of course imagine my surprise when I turn 16 years old and my mom starts dating an alcoholic. A man I'd never met or even known about prior too. We've always had a rocky relationship since I wanted...
    Nirvanist Nirvanist
    18-21, F
    Mar 15, 2016

    Now please tell me why leggins should be

    "totally inappropriate" at my age?????? why????
    jujeju jujeju
    16-17, F
    5 Responses Sep 17, 2014

    My mom is the only thing holding me back.

    She treats me the worst out of her kids. My older brother is in college so she misses him, my little brother is her "baby" so nothing he does is wrong, and then there's me. I've struggled with Anxiety and depression for over a decade, and it came to the point of me trying to...
    Doublebubble64 Doublebubble64
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 6, 2014
    RainbowCrayon666 RainbowCrayon666
    18-21, F
    Feb 15, 2016
    vivianescrooge vivianescrooge
    Apr 1, 2016

    Well. She verbally abuses me,

    uses me like a tool, and treats me giving an opinion on anything as an insult then chooses to play the silence game instead of talking out the problem. I don't see how we COULD get along.
    10786y 10786y
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 31, 2016

    My mom is emotionally abusive,

    rude and will do anything to bring me down. She will tell me she's going to kill herself, and just other things to abuse me. But if I try to call the cops, she will guilt trip me back in by saying I don't want to live in a foster home at that I will get killed with a foster...
    beck102 beck102
    16-17, T
    2 Responses Jan 10, 2016

    I love my mom so much,

    but I just don't know how to show it. She thinks I hate her but I really don't. We fight almost everyday. She says really hurtful words to me. I told her if she hates me this much why doesn't she just put me up for adoption . She says she would but I will just spend my whole...
    Ihugzminniemouse Ihugzminniemouse
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 4, 2015

    For the hundredth time,

    she went hysteria, spat abusive words and walked away. i tried to hold on but i realize im holding on to thorns.
    GuineaPork GuineaPork
    Apr 20, 2016

    I'm an active person.

    When I'm in a good mood, I would sing or dance. But every time I'm in a good mood, my mom would say," you must be very happy." She makes it sound like, being happy is wrong. Sometime she doesn't say it, but she expresses it on her face. When I'm home I'm always in my old and...
    JulieK8 JulieK8
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 25, 2016

    I was always good in everything.

    I was always an enthusiastic person with high range of positivity. On the other hand my mom is a sick manipulator and an abusive person. All through my life the only thing she tried to do is making me lose everything. She destroyed everything I was good in. She poisoned every...
    hatemom12 hatemom12
    16-17, F
    Apr 11, 2016
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