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I Don't Get Along With My Mom

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    I've had enough. I'm done with her.

    i give up trying to see the good in her. why? she's mental. she's f**king mental I've tried to see and be positive. "oh. she must be having menopause. ""maybe she's stressed or her family is giving her issues? " yes but you don't have to be a f**king d*ck over little things...
    hazedmemories hazedmemories 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    Our relationship has thawed considerably in the

    last year, but nonetheless our history has been tumultuous, to say the least. I'll admit that I take more after my mother than my father. This goes for both personality and facial structure. Additionally, she passed onto me a lighter form of the depression she had, which in term...
    RustinCohle RustinCohle 18-21, M 4 Responses Nov 13, 2014

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    One time, when I was 12,

    my mom suggested that I should help her cook everyday. NOPE.
    reivven reivven 13-15, F Apr 10

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    I bet many people can relate to what I have

    been through. I at least hope someone can relate in some way. My mother has always tried to get under my skin and she sucks at it. When I say this, I mean she doesn't take things easy with me anymore. After she also cheated on my father with some random guy she met in college, I...
    JK7448 JK7448 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I obviously do love my mom

    so much. I mean she is my mother. Lately we haven't been getting along at all. I'm 24 and had my first son at 14. My mom and him have a very special bond. They're VERY close. Lately he has been in some trouble, so we grounded him. He got mad and locked himself in his room to...
    SexyTattedMom SexyTattedMom 26-30, F 5 Responses May 7, 2014

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    Documenting Documenting 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 24

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    I am a 14 year old girl

    who doesn't get along with my mum. Me and my mum would get along maybe 10% of the time, the other 90% we fight or don't talk to each other. I really want to improve my relationship with her but i dont see how i can, i feel agitated most of the time i am with her. I can be rude...
    coolgirl2112 coolgirl2112 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 10

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    tonya13 tonya13 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 7, 2014

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    I love my mom so much,

    but I just don't know how to show it. She thinks I hate her but I really don't. We fight almost everyday. She says really hurtful words to me. I told her if she hates me this much why doesn't she just put me up for adoption . She says she would but I will just spend my whole...
    Ihugzminniemouse Ihugzminniemouse 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    Hello everyone, I just want to start off by

    saying i'm not looking for pitty or anything, its just that a lot of things you guys are going through with your mothers i am going through as well. I need some advice on how to handle this situation. She screams at me for everything, she gets mad when i speak to her (just...
    Doctorwhodat Doctorwhodat 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    I don't really know what to do anymore.

    At this point, my mom is the main trigger to my depression and anxiety. I don't like being around her, but I don't want to hurt her. She's my mom, I know she loves me, and I love her too but I can not stand being with her for more than a day. I decided that I wanted to stay at...
    dickdurk dickdurk 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 7, 2014

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    Yes, I love my mom and appreciate her

    but there are times where she is just unbelievable. She puts so much pressure on me to do well in school, get good grades, go to a really good college, etc. But you know, she's not encouraging. She doesn't give me inspiration and she expects me to do everything perfectly without...
    minjjangxx minjjangxx 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    OK wow I've never really had a chance to

    actually vent about this but here it goes: I love my mom but she can be extremely difficult to deal with and it's not just me who feels this way, it's with my brother and dad too. she doesn't really understand when she's being inconsiderate at all. I was in the counselor's...
    sleepyphotograher sleepyphotograher 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 5

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    I haven't spoken to my mom in over a year.

    The last time I saw her was at my grand fathers funeral. My parents split up over twenty years ago when mom left my dad for his best friend. I understand why she left dad but never thought she would leave her three children behind. I have friends who have gone through the trauma...
    GBMUM GBMUM 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    My mom keeps saying I'm going to end up with an

    abuse person just like her and grow old with them because there is no one better out there to be with. When she said things like this I feel like life just isn't worth that much if that's what will inevitably happen. sigh, I just need to move out.
    DuchessDelilah DuchessDelilah 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 23

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    I feel she is the source of 90% of my problems

    in life. Your mother is supposed to be your guide and protector. Since I can remember mine has belittled me no end. Told me I'm not good enough and a bad person. She has never loved me maternally and tells me this regularly. She has made me feel so inferior all my life I am am...
    Annajuliett Annajuliett 22-25, F 7 Responses Sep 28, 2014

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    I dont really have a mom

    but i guess you could say that. She seemed pretty nice at first then it started with glaring, then cussing, then beating. When ever i do something rong she will slap me and scream at me. It doesnt get any better but ive been thinking about a few things anyways i hope it will...
    cece14779 cece14779 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    tiffanyclark13 tiffanyclark13 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    My mom thinks I dress slutty

    but it is what all us kids wear?????
    jenn1386 jenn1386 16-17, F 7 Responses Oct 1, 2014

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    my mom and i have had

    so many arguments over things especially when i turned 18 and it's gotten to the point to where i can't trust her with anything personal because she'll get mad about it when she doesn't like the idea and now i anticipate it with everything. so my bf and i are planning a trip to...
    ysimm23 ysimm23 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 25

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    My mom is the only thing holding me back.

    She treats me the worst out of her kids. My older brother is in college so she misses him, my little brother is her "baby" so nothing he does is wrong, and then there's me. I've struggled with Anxiety and depression for over a decade, and it came to the point of me trying to...
    Doublebubble64 Doublebubble64 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 6, 2014

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    Now please tell me why leggins should be

    "totally inappropriate" at my age?????? why????
    jujeju jujeju 13-15, F 7 Responses Sep 17, 2014

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    My Mom Really Hates Me.

    wow. where do i start. my mother really dislikes me. at times i think its cause im not that pretty, but my sister whom is pretty shes jealous of her. and doesn't like her neither. but my mom is sooooo nice to everybody else. i dont understand. shes also afraid of...
    veronica4ever veronica4ever 26-30, F 12 Responses Feb 15, 2010

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    Don't get along with is an understatement.

    Our relationship is so ******* dysfunctional its crazy. She hurts me and I hurt her. Its become a habitual cycle. Its sad how the one person that you love and cherish the most is the one that hurts and disappoints you the most. I wish that I wasn't so vulnerable to her but its...
    15ShadesOfBlue 15ShadesOfBlue 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 2, 2014

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    We just plain don't like each other.

    I don't even know why. I mean, I'm moving soon but I've lived with her for the past year and we are at each other's throats all the time. It's been like being trapped in a hateful marriage.
    Theodred996 Theodred996 26-30, M Feb 17

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    I don't get along withy mom.

    Because I have a boyfriend who is 26 years older than me and 3 years younger than her. She doesn't even give him a chance to prove that his intentions are clean. She would never talk, meet or get to know him no matter how hard i tried. She used to get mad at me everytime I go...
    selfiefreak14344 selfiefreak14344 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    honestly I don't know

    why she's my mother. I got my drivers lisence yesterday and she asked me 5 times if I passed I told yeah she thought I was lying or joking smfh cause she was so surprised smh . forward today my aunt called me and was praising me on how I got my lisense but my moms like don't...
    Mizo0217 Mizo0217 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 29

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    My mom always get on my nerves.

    I put up with her bullshit every time she complains about something. I'm always the one that has to apologize first even if I didn't do anything. She never appreciates the things I've done when she's at work, helping out with my sister, doing household stuff, cooking for her etc...
    wantingperfection wantingperfection 16-17, F 9 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    AHHH!!! I can't ******* take this anymore.

    she absolutely hates me, and is always teasing me or yelling at me. she makes me feel like a worthless piece of ****.
    pxthetic pxthetic 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 1

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    The history with my mom is horrible!

    To be honest I don't actually consider her my mom, but the woman who was the host for me to grow in. First of all she wanted a son not a daughter and boy was she heartbroken and surprised when she got me instead. Every day she made sure I knew she didn't want me or had plans to...
    Blackbarbie1987 Blackbarbie1987 26-30, F 15 Responses Dec 22, 2014

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    First of all, I love my mother to pieces

    but we simply don't get along. Ever since I can remember, we would bicker all the time. She seems to single me out and blames whatever she possibly can on me. It's sadly too obvious because my father, brother, boyfriend, and close friends all notice this. She's gotten physical...
    Untamablespark Untamablespark 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 25, 2014

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    My mom is so mean and unfair.

    I'm not just saying this because and fifteen and moody. I'm saying this because she's so mean to me. Yesterday I was fighting with my older brother. He got mad and pushed me into the wall. I knocked over a vase. My mom came in and started yelling at us. She told us we had to...
    Linsey14 Linsey14 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 21

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    she acts like she is some pure better

    than thou entity when really shes just another ***** bringing differnet men into the house evry night that i have to listen to her bang. and then she wonders what happened to me.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 18, 2014

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    My mom and I have never gotten along.

    Due to an inability to accurately express myself, differing views and moodiness on both sides we are usually mad at eachother. I love her with all my heart. She has always been there for me, even when I blamed her for the divorce when I was 2(not her fault.). But we just can't...
    fogandcopper fogandcopper 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 19, 2014

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    i never got along well with her.

    she often exaggerates and freaks out over little things. when nothing goes her way she throws things. today i came back from school and i told her about a few things in school like applying for a leave earlier since my father have booked a flight. at that instant ny dad...
    hazedmemories hazedmemories 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 13

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    This is something I wish I could read to my

    mother, or at least, memorize it, so when we get into another argument, I could scream this at her. I'm Sorry Written By: Unknown I'm so sorry I'm not the daughter you wanted I'm so sorry that I'm a ****** sister I'm so sorry that I'm depressed And I cry alot And I hide...
    SweetcakesJr SweetcakesJr 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    Ummm... About 3 weeks ago I found my moms

    pregnancy test and it was positive - she's hasn't even mentioned it to me or told me about a boyfriend or anything. We usually fight about stupid **** so I know this we cause hell and I don't know what to do?
    QueenRianH QueenRianH 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 14

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    Me and my mom haven't been getting along.

    Ever since our family decided to move she's been a jerk. We got in a fight the other day and it got intense (she beat me for the first time) and she likes to point out my flaws (I do that to myself as well) and it upsets me. Her verbal abuse has pushed me to self harm. I've been...
    SammyTheBroken SammyTheBroken 16-17, F 8 Responses Sep 10, 2014

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    I'm a 20 y/o Arabian (not muslim)

    and I come from a rich cultural back ground and my mother is from the most royal family from my country. I'm going to be 21 in less than 6 months and I am still not getting the freedom and privacy I deserve and it just puts me in such an anxious, stressed and depressed state (I...
    psychedelicblues psychedelicblues 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    We were very close when I was growing up,

    but as I got to seventeen it began to change, our relationship. I grew closer to my father, and I suppose many would think me a Daddy's girl. Certainly, my father has helped me decide on my career where my mother was more traditional, and by her own example she believed a good...
    Astrucbmt Astrucbmt 22-25, F Jan 31

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    We just don't get along.

    Sure they may be those moments where we're happy in each other's company, but they are just so rare lately. Most of the time we're never on the same page. And honestly speaking, I think we'll never have that mother-daughter bond like most people have. She done and said too many...
    henal216 henal216 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 14, 2014

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    My parents always wanted to have a daughter.

    First they had 2 boys then finally had me. I'm the youngest. Growing up, I constantly felt the pressure to be and look perfect. In college she decided what my degree would be. When I introduced my boyfriend to her, she decided to introduce me to a guy she felt would be a better...
    CGA1982 CGA1982 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    ahhh, she is always so strict

    and self center, she thinks she knows everything better than anyone and everyone must listen to her, she makes too many rules for me and always tell on me to dad when he comes home, she also talks all the time and never listen to what i have to say, i dont know what to do,
    mariere16 mariere16 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 23

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    She's the only person

    that has made me so mad in my life that I actually had to hit myself in order to express some of my anger. I can't stand her. I just Can't. I know she gave birth to me, she's my mother and I should feel lucky to have one, but enough is enough. She's not good for my health, my...
    Real2Ann Real2Ann 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 23

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    Is it normal that I hate my mother

    so much? I grew up thinking my mom was a «hero», but when I reached my teen years, I discovered her hypocrite side. She usually says what's bothering her straightforwardly, but never acknowledge the good. She sees what bad about a person so easily, that she misses what's good...
    Khating Khating 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    She gets mad at me for not being like her

    and she thinks that I'm actually trying not to so that I can upset her . She thinks that her way is the only way . News Flash Lady!! I don't know you well enough or care enough to be or not the be like you and NO MATTER WHAT I will be okay .
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 10

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