I Don't Get Along With My Mother

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    and yes i don't get along with her

    because most of the time as long as we start a conversation an argument begins. she is like 59 this year and i am only 16. The age gap is wow i know but guess thats normal yes no idk. Anyway i am a single child and i tend to want to get along with my mom but sadly we can't. I...
    nicole155 nicole155
    18-21, F
    Jul 31, 2015

    It has occurred to me

    for the umpteenth time that I can no longer have a conversation with my mother, today being umpteen twelve. I don't know why I continue trying. Is it because I'm temporarily staying with her? Or am I just nostalgic for the times when I used to be able to converse with her...
    gemstar2k1 gemstar2k1
    31-35, F
    1 Response Dec 4, 2015

    I hate mother's day. There is no card at the

    local market to sum up the sort of message worthy of my unmother. OH Mother Here's a wish From me to you Oh bringer of pain And torture too Please leave me alone Free slave that you own Every day I grieve For your birthing me why did you choose bear me not end your pregnancy...
    ubasti ubasti
    3 Responses Dec 26, 2013

    Well it started when i was 3

    or 4. My mother was very rude to me but not to my sister...well sometimes. ever since i started the fire. i lied saying my sister did it. thats when she hated me. til i was 10. i keep saying the truth but she dont do anything nice. she thinks i lied. so thats when she hit me...
    howcanibesoalive howcanibesoalive
    26-30, M
    Dec 6, 2015

    she just told my little brother she wishes I

    was never born... she never wanted a girl.. well I just hope once I have my kids in the future I am never like her. ever.
    blackskyline blackskyline
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 19, 2016

    my mother is i guess abusive.

    i didn't really know until i was thirteen and i was talking about it and someone called me out on it. i thought every mother was like mine. she liked to try and destroy me emotionally. now i live with my dad thank god but whenever we get into an argument he threatens to send me...
    Limle Limle
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 13, 2014

    I just really don't,

    and I'm not even gonna try to anymore. i don't hate her, but I'm done with her. I'm sick of her breaking her back to help every family member she has but she can't lift a finger for her grandkids. I'm done with her! just done.
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic
    36-40, F
    1 Response Aug 7, 2015

    I Cant Get Along With My Mother.

    Over the years I have never been able to get along with my mother. Ive tried believe me I have. But how can you respect some one that is always putting you down. I have an older sister that my mom adores and in her eyes she can never do wrong. It drives me insane. I try to...
    Dazed520 Dazed520
    22-25, F
    66 Responses Mar 19, 2008

    I understand that your parents are your parents

    and that's never going to change and don't get me wrong I love them ,but my mother and I always bump heads. I know that even when they're wrong they're right but it makes me so angry my mother never lets me express myself that's why there's all this pent-up aggression. I get so...
    niasmith niasmith
    18-21, F
    Apr 3, 2016

    So, I am 16 years old,

    and I know that is young and all teenage girls don't get along with their mothers. But, my story is unique. Up until 5 years ago, I was daddy's little girl, and my mother and I never got along. She yelled at me, and called me names, and I was a little demon right back at her...
    BaylieBriMcGee BaylieBriMcGee
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 17, 2014

    Not Being Worth The Try......

    I think what hurts the most when mothers and daughters don't get along is having others in the middle of situations and it becomes exhausting for those people. They get tired of hearing the same 'ole - same 'ole and basically start tuning out your vent. I, just like many, don't...
    Orkaprol Orkaprol
    41-45, F
    2 Responses May 21, 2012

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    driftingalone driftingalone
    18-21, F
    Feb 2, 2016

    My mother is the most narcissistic person ever

    known to mankind. She makes every situation about her, and she doesn't care about other people's opinions except her own. I started dating my current boyfriend last year, and to this day she does not accept him and promises me that she never will. My boyfriend is 3 yrs older...
    frankiesangelxx frankiesangelxx
    22-25, F
    Feb 23, 2014

    I have been in stress

    since morning. My mother is coming tomorrow and I can already hear the shouting....It makes my heart beat faster...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Oct 2, 2015

    Why most mothers hate their daughter?

    I mean what's wrong here? They love their sons but hate their daughters?? Why
    GravityFall GravityFall
    22-25, F
    4 Responses May 2, 2014

    I haven't seen my mother fourteen years.

    When I was three my parents got divorced, on christmas day. She was a lazy woman, had my eight year old sister feeding and changing me and she never left the couch. When they divorced she took me to Florida with her and two months later sent me back to my dad. Two months with...
    Jess9798 Jess9798
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Feb 1, 2016

    But We Love Each Other...

    I suppose this is one of those hard experiences that I tend to never try and think about but is a constant thought in my mind. We love each other, worry about one another and care for one another.  It was her that first used the phrase that has come to epitomise our...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Oct 13, 2008

    So this happened , I think my mom is being

    unfair . I think she hates me . My mother treated my siblings real good but she treated me so badly . I feel like I'm being neglected . Whenever my siblings talk to her , she will sit back and listen carefully but whenever I tried to talk to her , she will just ask me to go away...
    lillly72 lillly72
    22-25, M
    1 Response Aug 29, 2015

    My Mother

    my mother is the most manipulative person ive ever known.true to her gemini sign she can treat you like gold one min. then make you feel like the lowest scum on earth the next.my whole life she told me i was jst like the 2 people she hated more than anything--my dad & my aunt...
    LiBrAGiRl0930 LiBrAGiRl0930
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 20, 2012

    Me and my mum aren't very close

    and so I can't talk to her about anything because she tells me I'm being stupid. I love my mum but I don't think she cares about my feelings at all sometimes.
    sadtimes sadtimes
    18-21, F
    Jul 21, 2014

    Mum And I Are Much Too Different To Understand Each Other

    I swear all I ever hear mum talk to me about are things like this: "You can get a job like this...." "I really want you to get a job with a good secure income...." "Everything is so expensive these days" "Life is all about finding a living, you have do whatever to find a living...
    lgk0129 lgk0129
    26-30, M
    Jun 29, 2012

    My wonderful mother kicked me out

    after I told her I was self harming and depressed. She screamed at me while she packed my bags, calling me sick and many other things.
    LoneBlackLycan LoneBlackLycan
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Sep 10, 2015

    Grr!! I ssooo hattee her.

    All she does is say things that really make me feel so little.
    jhaylynskie jhaylynskie
    16-17, F
    1 Response Mar 26, 2016

    Last night was tumultuous.

    I can't drive quite yet, and I was going to a cafe to meet up with some of my dearest friends whom I hadn't seen in a very long time. I felt as though I needed to be around people that I could talk to and confide in. Since I didn't have a ride home, I asked my mom to pick me up...
    Em518 Em518
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 6, 2014

    Food As A Language Of Love That Suffocates.

    I don't really know how to tell this story. I never really talk about this  because I don't like to badmouth my mother. I love my family too much to share this comfortably with my friends as a over lunch topic. However I need to let this out. My home and my family was never...
    autumnsparrow autumnsparrow
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 20, 2013

    ...I Wish I Did Though.

    I think once upon a time, I believe my mother and I were somewhat close. She is always reminiscing about my childhood, talking about how much she enjoyed the days when I was younger. I can't really say when we started to grow apart, or when that wall between us started building...
    HopeInConstruction HopeInConstruction
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Feb 16, 2012

    We don't get along with each other

    and when I talk about something, she responds with a subject that is so different and she does that all the time. She puts my sister first but actually I need her attention. Somehow because we just don't click, I shut her out because I don't know what else to do. Then she blames...
    kiarna811 kiarna811
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 28, 2014

    Never know her! She couldn't handle having a

    child like me so she left! Can't complain to much because I have the best father anyone could hope for! I've put him thought a lot and he's always been there for me!
    deleted deleted
    Feb 3, 2016

    Mom and Me

      The very event of my birth set into motion a complicated and often tumultuous relationship between my mother, Carolyn B. and I.  She was a 19 year old girl who had already experienced more of an adult life than most 30 year olds.  Her own difficult beginnings...
    Skyler Skyler
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Mar 31, 2008

    I really hate my mother

    when all she do is boss and ridicule me around. She practically treats me as a slave.
    jhaylynskie jhaylynskie
    16-17, F
    Mar 23, 2016

    I became an emancipated minor

    when I was 15. My mother caught me watching gay **** when I was 13. From that day on she was physically and emotionally abusive. She removed all the doors from my bedroom and the bathroom so I had no privacy and called me her sodomite son. Haven't spoken to her in over...
    gaybrat96 gaybrat96
    22-25, M
    7 Responses Jan 7, 2015

    Over the last 5 years,

    the relationship with my mother has gone south. WAY down south. So much so, that I no longer want to be around her anymore. Since she retired, all she does is stay at home and drink, smoke, and watch TV. She has no friends and doesn't go anywhere. I very rarely watch TV, which...
    gemstar2k1 gemstar2k1
    31-35, F
    Jul 28, 2015

    Hi. I never been close to my mother.

    but recently shes been putting me down a lot making me feel unwanted and like dirt. my boyfriend and I were planning to get engaged next year and planed on moving in together. today she asked me what's my plans and when we want to get married and all stuff like that, that I have...
    chantelle1600 chantelle1600
    18-21, F
    Nov 22, 2015

    Sometimes it looks like my mother always has to

    find something to yell to me about... Just now she went out and said see you later, and I answered but apparently she didn't listen - she does this a lot, sometimes we are right beside her and she doesn't listen because whe's jus thinking about something else and so completly...
    escapemyreality escapemyreality
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 5, 2014

    My mother is a special woman.

    I don't mean that sarcastically surprisingly. She is special- she just also did the equivalent of killing me. She is an awkward, emotionally confused person. Growing up she never showed me or any of my siblings any love but her favorite response to our claim was "Of course I...
    Anaihsohs Anaihsohs
    22-25, F
    Nov 11, 2014

    My mother doesn't even say she loves me .

    .and when I do all I get is what do you want
    Braceface22 Braceface22
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 20, 2015

    My mom thinks I'm an irresponsible ungrateful

    burden but really I try my hardest to respect everything that she has done for me. I make dinner when she's too tired and I clean the when she's at work and I pick up groceries and I encourage her to use dating websites but she still thinks I'm irresponsible and she doesn't...
    Fuckmerite Fuckmerite
    18-21, M
    Aug 30, 2015

    After she found out I was into guys

    and girls, she kicked me out of the house saying I was a sinner. I cant help who I am.
    TheseBrokenSmiles TheseBrokenSmiles
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 3, 2015

    she doesn't get along with me,

    cuz she doesn't want to : (
    deleted deleted
    Aug 29, 2015

    I don't understand...

    why does she get to ***** out on me, ignore my feelings and make me feel like **** and that I'm living in hell? but I don't ***** out in her or state why I don't want to go home because I don't want to hurt her feelings. like yes you are a single parent and it's hard to raise...
    RebelFighter RebelFighter
    16-17, F
    Aug 29, 2015

    She's a narcissist and I can't be around her

    so I cut her out of my life a year ago. I get flack for it but I've got to do what I've got to in order to be happy.
    deleted deleted
    Aug 29, 2015

    I also don't get along with my mother.

    .. I love heavy metal but for a while she didn't know this. After a while she found out and got so freakin mad at me. I guess she thinks just because I listen to that I worship satan! ( I don't!!!) she is a girly girl that won't wear anything besides pink. Anyways back to the...
    Summer3456 Summer3456
    26-30, F
    Aug 11, 2015

    So I just had to go out

    and buy a few supplies I needed and when I get back my mother had already come home from work and as soon as I close the door she goes all annoyed asking were I went and complaining that I could've brought bread - we actually have bread at home, but that's beside the point. It...
    escapemyreality escapemyreality
    26-30, F
    Oct 24, 2014

    If Someone Told Me My Mother Was Dead I'd Stand Up and Cheer. (i've Already Sumbited This Story In I Hate Someone But It Apllies Here Too)

    I hate people in general but one particular person is the apex of my hatred for mankind. That person is my mother. Holy hell do I hate that woman. I've hated her since I was in kindergarten. She is nothing but negative, unsupportive, obnoxious, ignorant (while thinking...
    Dimebagage Dimebagage
    8 Responses May 13, 2008

    I don't want to be like my mother.

    ... Well I don't want to take from her the negative traits that she has. It's so difficult because her and I are the same people. We're the same zodiac sign, Pisces. The older I get, I see myself being controlling, angry, a little insensitive to other people's feelings...
    swyns swyns
    22-25, F
    Jan 10, 2016

    I wish my mom would just LEAVE ME THE ****

    Funkystronglover Funkystronglover
    22-25, M
    Apr 11, 2016

    I Never Did

    I don't think I've ever really gotten along with my mother.  Everything I have always done is wrong in her eyes.  I have 1 younger brother.  He has always been the perfect one in her eyes.  I don't remember my childhood but, my memories from 16 on of  our...
    boarderline boarderline
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Oct 13, 2008

    **** her. Die you *****.

    Wish you were never my mom. I really hate you to the bones. Die 10000000000000000x
    jhaylynskie jhaylynskie
    16-17, F
    1 Response Mar 26, 2016

    My mom can't understand what I'm going through.

    I passed my project last Tuesday. It was rejected because there are things wrong with it. Everyone did, not only me. She gave an extension until Monday. The fact that I spent my entire Christmas break trying to do my project while attending to my family's vacation as as an act...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 10, 2016

    There's nothing more painful

    than being out in public and seeing a mother truly and genuinely bond with her daughter. Hugging her and kissing her...genuinely smiling at her with all the love you can ever imagine...I thought about that yesterday. That my mother has never genuinely smiled at me like she loved...
    ImaPrincess344 ImaPrincess344
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jul 5, 2015

    Yes mum... I know I need to lose weight.

    I know I need to study. I know I need to get outside more. I know I need to find a job. I know I need to start planning my future. If you'll stop for a minute and realise you're not the only one who's thinking about all that, you'll realise I'm working on a few of these. I...
    Kurlzz3Tears Kurlzz3Tears
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Oct 28, 2015

    So apparently my mother flips out

    when I told her I wasn't a Virgin, she keeps denying it.. What if I'm not. Apparently anything dealing with relationships makes her flip out despite me doing pretty darn good in school.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Oct 18, 2015

    One night after my mom was done yelling at me

    and my brothers and they all went to their rooms (cause it was late at night) and I was still there but I over heard my mom say"Sometimes I wonder why I ever had children". And then a few years later I ran away from home but when I came back (I was only gone for barely a day...
    deleted deleted
    Jul 12, 2015

    I told mom that I was going leave

    and be a street person because I don't want to live with her rules and I am disabled and cannot work and she was crying and begging me to come to my senses and to stay am I wrong
    spanked96blue spanked96blue
    18-21, F
    Nov 15, 2015

    So this week is final exams week at school,

    and all my grades are nearly perfect -- except for calculus. Maths has never been a strong point of mine. I like it well enough, I can see its applications, and I'm not that bad at it; when I'm doing homework, or just working on practice problems, maths is actually enjoyable...
    thetitania thetitania
    18-21, F
    Jan 21, 2015
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