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I Don't Get Child Support

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    Scott Free - Every dog has its day.  I am strong and capable and I will not be defeated by my mistakes.  I made them.  I made my bed.  I lie in it and deal...
    ichooselife ichooselife 36-40, F 8 Responses Mar 26, 2009

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    Maybe One Day? - My ex sends me money when he thinks that he's somehow bribing me to come back to him. I recently asked him if there was ANY way he could help me fix my car...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 6, 2008

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    You Would Think I Would Get Over It By Now - My ex left me and my boys to move to Europe to work, in 2004.  What he failed to do at that time was to make sure that he had a...
    Bloopurple Bloopurple 36-40 Jan 3, 2010

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    I Really Could Use The Child Support But I Know I Wont Get It - My son will be 4 in Nov and I havent gotten child support since he was 2 years old. Right now the balanced owed to...
    SarkasticBeauty SarkasticBeauty 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 26, 2012

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    I Was Told By Family Support My Case Has "No Hope" - My husband walked out when I was seven months pregnant.  After being married for two years I thought at least he would pay...
    nikir nikir 36-40 3 Responses Jul 1, 2009

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    Deadbeat Dad - Though he wasnt always, he gave me a very hard time when I was getting child support. I worked 60 hours a week just to make ends meet and when child support saw my...
    MegJgeM MegJgeM 31-35, F 9 Responses Sep 19, 2008

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    My Son Wont Pay His Court Ordered Child Support... - I love and miss my son but I am very disappointed in the fact that he will not pay his court ordered child support.He also will...
    SadMadMom SadMadMom 56-60, F 4 Responses Sep 8, 2011

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    Dead Beat Mom - honestly, i never wanted her money anyway.  She was happy enough to get it form me every chance she got.  She even manipulated our kids so that they would...
    thatweirdromanguy thatweirdromanguy 46-50, M 2 Responses Sep 19, 2008

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    Can Anyone Suggest Me About Vendetta - Hello I need information any vendetta book that help to child support Please reply me now Regards steve
    steve003 steve003 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 5, 2012

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    From Neither Father - My daughter Lachlan's father doesn't even know she exists so I can't blame hi,  for not paying.  But I bet he wouldn't if he knew.  The...
    ItsAllMakeBelieve ItsAllMakeBelieve 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 25, 2009

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    Child Support - Child support,Never had it,Ain't life a bugger,Trouble is,No kids,So,How in the hell,I'm gonna get it,I don't want kids!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Aug 6, 2012

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    Heres Your .04 Cents - my ex was fianlly tracked down after (living in the same house) 16 years and forced to pay child support and I kid you not the first two checks were for...
    librakitty05 librakitty05 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 5, 2008

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    A Vindictive Miser - I left my control-freak husband when I lost all trust in him. By that time he knew that the only way he could hurt me was by using our daughter as his 'weapon...
    Mrsb1995 Mrsb1995 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 1, 2012

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    I Never Got Child Support - Ya know,i'm reading these posts,And i have been 19 yrs without a dime from my daughters dad.Did she deserve to get support?Yes she did,but facts are ,i...
    1prettygirl 1prettygirl 31-35, F 10 Responses Jun 26, 2013

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    My daughters father paid for about 3 years. When she turned 11 he stopped being any type of father to her. No calls, no visits, nothing. I have a great father & brother who have...
    sami345 sami345 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 23

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    Help Me - please help i am lost i have trial for child support next month now i have placement an custody of my 2 daughters i work full time an part time when i dont have them now...
    steeleran steeleran 31-35 Feb 14, 2012

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    Losing Faith In United States - I am owed over 10,000 dollars in child support and retroactive he owes me more than that the bas@#^& does not want to pay. I was told if I file...
    thoughtshopefull thoughtshopefull 31-35 Jan 14, 2013

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    I Was Told By Family Support My Case Has "No Hope" - My husband walked out when I was seven months pregnant.  After being married for two years I thought at least he would pay...
    nikir nikir 36-40 3 Responses Jul 1, 2009

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    Shared Custody - We share custody, our son is with me one week and with his dad the next week. I carry the insurance and we are supposed to split the expenses. I hate this...
    ijustneed2talk ijustneed2talk 41-45, F Oct 1, 2012

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    I don't feel connected. I can speak and act and pretend, but I don't feel it. And I don't know what connected feels like. Not really. I can't keep a relationship. I've lost...
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    I'm a 16 year old girl. My whole life I have been trying to make my parents proud, but I've never been able to socialize properly with kids my age, I was always numb or upset...
    AGirlSearchingForAnswers AGirlSearchingForAnswers 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    We met because I started working at a university in a new city and he was my supervisor. After two weeks there we slept together and I became pregnant with twins. When I told him...
    valkyriebird valkyriebird 36-40 Apr 3

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    This was something I thought was a phase, but the more I grow older, the more I realize that I truly would find more peace without being in a marriage. I'm going to turn 23. Today...
    franny21 franny21 22-25, F Apr 9

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    ....tell me what I should do. Please please please is there a way to fix this?.....Is there a way.....to keep from ending everything?..... .....I hurt you if I stay, I hurt you if...
    BlackRosesTurnBlue BlackRosesTurnBlue 18-21, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Where do I begin. This whole story being my life is quite a long loopy one, and if anybody has the energy to read this and respond, I thank you - in return I will just cut to the...
    spiderchris spiderchris 13-15, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Right now Iam with him but all is wrong I don't feel like me... I don't know I keep hanging with him if he don't love me. Iam hurting myself I only want that he loves me but he...
    Luna0902 Luna0902 36-40, F 1 hr ago

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    I read here in this experience about people who don't want to have children because being a parent isn't for them or it's just how they feel about the matter, which is fine...
    charlie4edwards charlie4edwards 16-17, F Apr 9

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    I know I am a good person. I am always there for people when they need me. I go out of my way to help anyone, I do this on a daily basis. I am always supportive and try to give the...
    alaskanrose90 alaskanrose90 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    One percent of all human beings act primarily out of Inventor Instinct. We are born that way. Perhaps the reason why we don't feel like we belong, is because there are so few of...
    InventorInstinct InventorInstinct 56-60, M Apr 3

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    This is something I think about every now and then. I have PCOS which doesn't make it impossible to have children but in some women it can cause infertility. So I have adjusted to...
    hayleyRebeccaE hayleyRebeccaE 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Hi. I'm not sure what I'm doing here - but I do know I'm tired of I don't know. That's been the answer since I was a kid. Seriously. My mother is a professional cook - and is...
    BariSag BariSag 22-25, F 7 hrs ago

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    I am Christian. I don't support gay rights. I am not a horrible person. I love gays and straights equally. Gays are human beings and deserve to be treated as such. Just because I...
    preachersdaughter98 preachersdaughter98 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    I have a distaste for people who say things like "I was hit as a child and I turned out fine" or "Children need to be disciplined". There are so many ways to have discipline...
    baconrind baconrind 26-30, M Apr 9

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    I've gotten past everything in my life that broke me. But I still don't know what to do. I'm no longer 'Cold' just to cover up my scars; they're all healed now. I'm no longer...
    FrenchRotterdammer FrenchRotterdammer 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    I've been with my 10 yrs older than me fiance for few years now. When I met him I was young and already had a child. He loved her like his own. She calls him daddy. 3 years after...
    KJJ1 KJJ1 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 5

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    My father died of cancer last year in October. I am an only child and since I was small, I have never been able to get along with my mother. She is a very good human being and has...
    anxvar anxvar 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    Omg my ankle hurts I would walk on it then it will start hurting I hope it doesn't hurt tomorrow I have to work I don't wanna call in n whatever
    lovesmakeup lovesmakeup 22-25, F 19 hrs ago

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    I can't even take pictures of myself. I hate the way I look now. I've gained 60 lbs in the last year. I don't like who I am anymore. ( I know this is a bad pic but its the most...
    DestructionAmistOthers DestructionAmistOthers 18-21, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    Since I was young, I have never wanted to have children. I feel like females are expected to follow the footsteps; grow up, go to university, get married, have children and then...
    MellifluousMilkshake MellifluousMilkshake 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 8

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    I hate following trends. I don't wanna be another clone girl walking around looking like every other girl. I like to make my own trends. Stand out from others.
    Cozy01 Cozy01 18-21, F 3 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I feel like I'm very ugly and disgusting :l but I'm always told otherwise, I just don't believe it.
    Missmayicx Missmayicx 16-17, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I don't get it... My whole life I've heard guys saying "oh man, I just want a girl(friend) who gets how important (for example) Star Wars is for me, that plays PS3 and like to...
    ineedtogowest ineedtogowest 18-21, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Why do they make you feel like they love you. But they really don't.
    deviness deviness 13-15, F 4 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I don't know what I want anymore, with school that is. I have always wanted to provide, but I just don't see that happening what with how my college grades are turning out. I just...
    CryingAndStressed CryingAndStressed 18-21, F Mar 20

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    A group of persons from a village went to a holy man, a Saint, who was meditating in a cave in the mountains. They were very scared and complained to the Saint about large venomous...
    22ndRow 22ndRow 41-45, F Mar 28

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    I am already in my early twenties and I still get bothered and stressed out that my parents don't like each other. Ever since we were little, though they didn't fight in front of...
    ayumiofaries ayumiofaries 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    It's difficult everyday just looking at myself in the mirror. Currently I'm emotionally drained because I don't feel accepted by anybody and my family does not understand me so I...
    AngelK2010 AngelK2010 22-25, F Apr 4

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    I don't like seeing rude comments anywhere! Come on people - step it up a little. People who come here and poetically pour their heart out don't do it to get rude comments! They...
    GeekyLittleThing GeekyLittleThing 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I don't talk to my dad either probably never will He did some very bad things to me growing up. I won't hold onto it. I will make sure that when I have children they will have the...
    brinaadams brinaadams 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 21

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