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I Don't Give Up Easily, Get Offended Easily

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    Getting Offended? It's Not My Style!

    I don't remember the last time I was offended.   I have firm boundaries, not fuzzy ones, so in any interaction I take responsibility for myself, what I do and what I say.  If it all goes pear shaped, I won't be blaming anyone but myself ..... And I will probably...
    javeachica javeachica 56-60, F 3 Responses Oct 30, 2010

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    It Takes a Lot..

    It takes a lot to offend me so feel free to share anything with me.  I also won't give up if you need me.  I will stick by you until the darkness passes.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 12, 2008

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    I don't even think about it or even if a woman hold the door for me I don't care if a man or a woman holds the door for me I say thank you I don't think too much about it
    liajip liajip 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    I don't Life to short to be upset
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    jginaus jginaus 46-50, M 1 Response Oct 12

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    Why would I be offended? It's a sign of respect
    itsjustme11119 itsjustme11119 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 13

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    Offended?? No way ! They should be commended! Chivalry is alive but on the endangered list.
    AsteriasAura AsteriasAura 36-40, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    People get offended by this...... **** YOU FEMINAZIS.
    rehn65 rehn65 16-17, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Isn't that what they're supposed to do?
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    Why would I? I would smile and say thank you and have hope again that chivalry isn't dead.
    GetYourFreakOn GetYourFreakOn 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    mickitg mickitg 41-45, T 1 Response a week ago

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    Life is too short, and filled with woes. But listening to what others say is the best you can do. Agreement isn't necessary.
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    I actually fully trust anyone. Not my family, not my friends, and not the woman I love. Only towards my family is my distrust with mild malice.
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    the most expensive thing in the world is trust. It can take years to earn and just a matter of second to lose. -_-
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    When I make a friend, I am a friend for life.
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    Nah dude I'm a relaxed person
    maridoneka maridoneka 18-21, M Oct 1

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    Used to. But even those who swore to never lie or betray you and "you can trust them" change. I've learnt to build a wall up and to be wise. Even with those I love
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 70+, F 3 Responses Oct 12

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    It's just common courtesy. And I hold out doors for other people too, whether they are male or female. It just feels like the polite thing to do.
    WinterSoldierBucky WinterSoldierBucky 13-15, F Oct 13

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    Both male and female do it here. You must be way in over your head if this offense you. :/
    KazeDream KazeDream 18-21, F Oct 13

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    I must be a real lady, because almost every guy I know would hold a door for me or stay away and let me walk in first. Maybe it's the guys I know, they are such gentlemen.
    Theworldisminenow Theworldisminenow 18-21, F a week ago

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    I guess I'm old fashioned like that. I like it when a man is a real man. Not some lazy abusive scumbag.
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    Peoe hold doors for everyone... It's polite... How can people be dumb enough to hit realize this.
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Nope. Me thinks wow a peer who remembered. Courtesy is humane. Humans were created to be humane.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 1 day ago

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    Civility and counters should never be lost for the sake of an 'ism' even feminism. If a guy holds open the door he is not saying I'm weak, or that he desires anything of me, he is...
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