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I Don't Gossip

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    ~road Toll~

    I never understood what gossip really meant until I was around 15 and came across this quote somehow; and I told myself there and then to never let it be me..."Gossip runs down more people than cars"
    JustLikeLouise JustLikeLouise 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 25, 2011

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    I Try Hard Not To Anyway

    I really dislike gossip because you're talking about someone behind their back.  If it's good that's one thing but it usually isn't.  I've been on the other side of being talked about and it doesn't feel good and sometimes people will actually make things up and you...
    tenderheart08 tenderheart08 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 19, 2010

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    I Used to Do It, But I Stopped

    I don't gossip because I found out the hard way (on many occasions) that gossip tends to backfire on one. And it just isn't a nice thing to do. I do talk about things and people at work with my family or with friends out of state who don't know any of the subjects of my stories...
    Aeolosoma Aeolosoma 56-60, F 1 Response Aug 13, 2008

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    I Don't Want To Know!

    I hate gossip in every possible way.  Why do people gossip?  A recent example of this at work. Three women enjoying a discussion about a female colleague,  who as a married woman "apparently" was having an affair with the maintenance man!   Ooh, wow, how exciting!!.....not...
    teeny09 teeny09 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 8, 2011

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    Gossiper

    Usually when a person gossips it turns out false facts anyways.  It can be 10% true and the next 90% all crocks.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Jun 24, 2011

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    I can never understand it. Why do I think this way and why do I act this way? Sometimes I forget why do things and look back thinking "why did I do that?" There's no way of...
    Owlshirt Owlshirt 16-17, F 23 hrs ago

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    So my mom sent this(last message).. And I don't know how to feel/respond..
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    A dark presence is within us all, It's those who fear the night that make the call. The darkness covers your eyes making you fear, There are more of them; soon they'll be here...
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    AdventureHunter AdventureHunter 13-15, F 17 hrs ago

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    How can I know that my husband is my soul mate. I am so much in doubt and so frustrated how my life has become. I really do not want people to judge me or look at me like I am a...
    Elzjrz89 Elzjrz89 22-25, F 11 hrs ago

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    my trust in people is so beyond broken that I really don't see anyone ever wanting to put up with me long enough to gain it
    Persayous Persayous 22-25, F 3 hrs ago

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    Reading has a special place in my heart but I've been so busy with life and it's many quirks that I barely have enough time to read and now I don't feel whole anymore. It's like a...
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    i don't ******* care. i don't care, seriously, please judge me. i am who i wanted to be. i don't care and i don't want to please everyone bcs it's stupid. haters gonna hate. if you...
    dasosleefi dasosleefi 16-17, F Jul 28

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    trarob07 trarob07 46-50, F 4 Responses Jul 28

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    It's just not my thing because for one I don't drink and don't like the atmosphere. I don't like being in a place where people like to get drunk, get high, make a fool of...
    texaschic35 texaschic35 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    I have been talking to this guy named Warner close to 3 years. We would only Skype, text (rarely), and message on Facebook because he lives in another country. I know that people...
    alyjrose alyjrose 18-21, F Jul 29

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    I find no use in meeting people as very few turn out to be helpful, they just pretend to be friends but apparently they are not.I do know that I am in secured in terms of trust but...
    darkheart93 darkheart93 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 30

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    When I was 17, I got pregnant with my oldest. He was a premature baby, so I got little to hardly any time to bond with him the first 3 months of his life. I spent 6 days a week...
    Krissysheart Krissysheart 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    Oh what id give to look into your eyes right now what if give to be by your side and not invisible. Why don't you see, I'm crying inside. You don't act like my best friend anymore...
    Britt199b Britt199b 16-17, F Jul 30

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    So There's this guy.. I'm really tall like 5'9 and he's quite taller than me like 9" taller and I think I like him but it's getting a little irritating that he doesn't talk much...
    inspiredwriterxx inspiredwriterxx 13-15, F Jul 31

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    I've been really down on myself. I just don't feel pretty anymore. I don't think I'm sexy or cute, or attractive. I don't dress like a normal girl. tshirts and jeans are my...
    helreb helreb 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 1

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    I guess there's nothing really wrong with my life. I'm getting decent grades. I don't have nearly as many friends as I did before but the few I have I know I can count on. Of...
    poetess15 poetess15 16-17 Aug 1

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    I have my reasons and those reasons will help me stay out of a relationship at all costs. I don't get why most people want to be in one so badly and make a HUGE deal about people...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 1

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    I don't want to be alone I don't want to be let down I don't want to be misunderstood Who does? I don't want to be neglected Relegated to the space where I'm never thought about...
    faerylight faerylight 41-45, F 4 Responses Aug 2

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    I really don't know exactly what I am doing wrong. For years I have been fumbling with the issue of personal relationships. What happened recently is a pretty classic example. A...
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    NoOneImportantNow NoOneImportantNow 46-50, M Aug 2

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    bobthespider bobthespider 18-21 Aug 6

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    Hmmm there are so many things I really feel inadequate to deal with. stupidity being at the top of the list. I can't. I don't know how to. It's that simple. My passive aggressive...
    Lovinu0429 Lovinu0429 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 6

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