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I Don't Handle Betrayal Well

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    This past month has been a roller coaster of emotions. After my husband finally admitted his affair, I have gone through so many emotions. My husband said he was sorry, he loved me, and would make it up to me when he returns home from the Middle East. I have been so lonely...
    Teacher3 Teacher3 41-45 2 Responses Apr 6, 2013

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