I Don't "Hate" Anything

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    It's a very unconstructive emotion. I've gotten into a lot of arguments saying things like "I don't hate racists" - a lot of people can't tell the difference between hating an opinion and hating a person. If you disagree with someone's opinions you'll make a lot more...
    winstonwelles winstonwelles
    26-30, M
    1 Response Nov 9, 2008

    not anymore

     I used to use it for little agitating things, but my boyfriend talked to me about using the word and I decided that using the word hate was not necessary. And really, it isn't. I'm glad that I don't use the word hate anymore, it has a way of fooling you when you use it...
    sasukesnumber1fan sasukesnumber1fan
    18-21, F
    Feb 5, 2010

    It's Difficult to Hate What You Truly Understand

    I have discovered that hatred and fear have a very important thing in common.  Both of them go away when you make an honest attempt to understand its target. So many people think that you can stop hating things by applying "love" to everything, but that's just a...
    Strangeling Strangeling
    2 Responses Dec 4, 2008

    I Dont Have It In Me

    There are people and things that drive me mad, that frustrate me, that I will avoid because its effort to talk to or do, but there is nothing and no one I hate. Even people who have wronged me in such horrific ways... I dont hate them.... I feel very little for them. Maybe its...
    Tesse Tesse
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 5, 2008
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