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I Don't Hate My Husband But He Is a Liar and a Cheat

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    My Husband Lying Is Destroying Our Marriage

    I am married to this man for 20 years. I have 2 teenage  children. its been hard living with him. He lies to me practically everyday about something or the other. I am really tired of him because of the daily fights.  The children too have to put up...
    Maryjoan Maryjoan 36-40 1 Response Aug 6, 2009

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    Bros Before Hos

    I don't hate my husband but he is a liar and a cheat.  All of his friends are single so they are always chasing women.  My husband has a long history of cheating on me and I don't trust him.  He's the only man I've ever been with and we have two children.  I...
    desrvbtr desrvbtr 31-35 Nov 7, 2008

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