I Dont Have a Best Friend

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    I Don't

    I don't have that close friend I can tell everything to, or that close friend I can go to every minute and tell what's happened. Sometimes I get lonely, really lonely and this is why I have blogs and own a diary. I express my feelings to it as if it's actually a real person.
    dianeemarybouu dianeemarybouu
    13-15, F
    Jan 30, 2012

    Ups and Downs Without a Best Friend

    I haven't had a best friend since 2005. It's been lonely, but I'm getting by. I'm in between friendships that are wonderful and right. Then I have my shear moments of doom and hurt. Ups and downs without you. I just can't connect anymore
    LylaRocks LylaRocks
    26-30, F
    Oct 3, 2008

    At school me and my friends have a group,

    with 5 girls Alex, Adelaide, Brenna, Grace and Me and I am the only one without a best friend. Adelaide has a best-friends called Saqkara and Alex has a best-friends called Kate and Brenna and Grace are best-friends And I don't have one I am really close with saqkara but...
    bryannnnaaa bryannnnaaa
    16-17, F
    1 Response Apr 11, 2014
    tartlove tartlove
    36-40, F
    Sep 27, 2011

    I'm Afraid I'll Never Have A Best Friend

    I've been friends with a girl since 5th grade, but I can tell we're drifting apart. It's nobody's fault, we just have different lives now at different schools and different states. It just really sucks to not have that best friend I can go to and talk to about anything. My...
    dieyoungandhappy dieyoungandhappy
    1 Response Oct 31, 2011

    I did,but women are subject to change.

    we are barely even friends now. i no longer believe anything a woman promises.
    deleted deleted
    Feb 22, 2014

    Me Neither

    I'll make friends - the type that seem to make friends easily.  They usually seek me out, then spend lots of time with me then all of a sudden it's once in a while.  Then when I want to do something they're busy or not interested.   I wasn't looking to go back...
    Morgause Morgause
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jun 22, 2008

    Since I was young, I usually played outside on

    my own in the country. Then moved to the city. I made some friends but I was always the tag along. Then in teen years, I had friends but ended up being used as I would bend over backwards for them. I even gave up guys I like for my friends because they liked them. I...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jun 30, 2015

    It really sucks, I used to have one

    but he doesn't talk to me anymore.
    Hamza787Aj Hamza787Aj
    13-15, M
    Jan 16

    I'm not really close to anyone actually.

    It really sucks not being known by someone and not knowing someone. It's lonely and cold and filled with pretenders. If I was ugly, no one would talk to me considering my only "friends" are male. It wasn't so bad when I had a dog but now it's so ******* painful.
    emmmybloo emmmybloo
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 21, 2014

    I had lost 2 best friends,

    no they didn't die. One I walked away from and the other lied to me over and over and over again. Even tho I told her just to tell me the truth. I wish that I had a best friend!!
    themagijudal themagijudal
    26-30, F
    Feb 12, 2015

    I Have A Hard Time Trusting Them

    I've been used by "friends" before, so I have a hard time trusting anyone enough to consider them a best friend. 
    Brinckmyster Brinckmyster
    26-30, F
    9 Responses Dec 2, 2009

    I don't have a best friend,

    mostly because I have a hard time meeting trustworthy people. To be frank, I'm a **** magnet when it comes to friends and at twenty years old I am worried I will never find my best friend.
    gangstabreath gangstabreath
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 3

    I did but she moved. We barely talk now,

    I'm not close with anyone anymore. I'm becoming ok with being independent although my parents are going to leave for vacation and I have no where to stay and my mom asked if I had a friend I could stay with. Sadly, I don't have anyone close enough
    jacithepanda jacithepanda
    13-15, F
    Oct 1, 2014

    Y I Dont Have A Best Friend

    the thing is it hurts when someone says that SO AND SO is my best friend.i am sensitive ,shy but is it that bad quality.does it mean friendship requires selfishness,use and throw nature
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Feb 8, 2013

    :/ it's kinda true I don't really have any

    close close friends I wish I did
    bbygrldifferent bbygrldifferent
    16-17, F
    Oct 24, 2014

    I lost my best friend

    because i did something that she didn't like ( it was something to myself and it didn't affect her in any way ). She doesn't even talk to me like before and i don't know nothing about her life anymore. It's really sad because we used to do everything together and we grew up our...
    Morfina Morfina
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 20, 2015

    Very deep, intense, Passionate

    and caring guy here who respects women. Ideally, looking for a genuine woman with similar views who appreciates that to be friends. I don't judge, so message me if your that person
    Tannedguy007 Tannedguy007
    26-30, M
    Jul 25, 2015

    26 and No Best Friend

    I turn 26 in 3 weeks and I dont have a best friend.   I am married and sure my husband and I are best freinds but im talking about a female best friend. and i really need one.   My husband works away. hes in the navy. everyone i know is always going out with...
    blueskye blueskye
    8 Responses Jun 22, 2008

    I'm pretty close with a lot of people

    but never 100% with any of them .
    lunaluna13 lunaluna13
    18-21, F
    Mar 18, 2014
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 8, 2015

    I'm a 45 yr old woman.

    Talking to people makes me anxious and embarrassed. I have lots of nice acquaintances but no friends I am comfortable being open with. I do have a loving husband and kids but I miss having a close female friend.
    112lorax 112lorax
    46-50, F
    1 Response May 4, 2014

    A kid told me yesterday

    that "you should be able to count all of your true friends on one hand" I couldn't name one I couldn't even name a friend, they are all just people I know
    sm1ttay sm1ttay
    18-21, M
    1 Response Oct 5, 2014

    I still have yet to find a person

    who will actually want to be around me. I thought I found someone--I was damn hella wrong... and that's all I want to say about that:-).
    hazellmo0n hazellmo0n
    18-21, F
    Mar 7, 2015

    In all honesty. There is no one on this earth

    who I would consider a true best friend. I have close friends.. But not a best friend. I don't have a person to confide my darkest secrets to, or have laughs with, or share interest with. Most of my friends leave me behind.. Or go off to find anyone better. My only best friend...
    distanceandspace distanceandspace
    18-21, F
    Jan 17, 2014

    actually i do. i have 37.

    there my cats. my favorite is darla she just so fluffy and adorable. she has been valentine for the past 4 years. i dont need friends when i have cats.
    ErIng9971 ErIng9971
    16-17, F
    Feb 17, 2015

    I Used To Be Able To Get Along With Almost Anybody

    When I was young, my parents were afraid to let me go over to anyone's house. So one by one I watched as the friends I made became better friends with kids that lived closer and were more accessible after school. I never learned how to make true, lasting friends, but I made a lot...
    May 27, 2011

    I have someone who calls me their "bestie".

    I'm her best friend and she tells everyone that but she's not my best friend. I don't have one. I don't tell her that she's not my "bestie" cuz I don't want any harsh feelings and whatever. I'll just let it slide
    Chocolateloverteam Chocolateloverteam
    13-15, F
    1 Response May 4, 2014

    But I Want To..

    I have only two people I can call friends. they're best friends for each other. And i understand that it was silly to think that they'll call me their "best". And sometimes I can't understand their behavior to me. Mostly they're nice and all, but sometimes they can hurt my...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Dec 26, 2011

    I don't have a best friend.

    I used to have one, a girl, and I fell for her. But suddenly she's gone. I have no one to talk to, and I need to imagine someone to talk to.
    noa4321 noa4321
    13-15, F
    Dec 16, 2014

    Mines passed away recently been hard to get

    over it took me almost 3 years.
    nana2085 nana2085
    22-25, F
    Dec 27, 2015

    I really need to get some friends

    that enjoy going for hikes, camping, trekking, interested in off grid living etc. i am not into spending a ton of money on doing things. Just hard to find people my age willing to get to know and open up from there tight groups. Days like today I feel lonely. Day like...
    deleted deleted
    Jul 24, 2015

    It saddens me to not have anyone to call a

    "best friend". I actually envy those who have. Shallow but true. When I'm exhausted, bored, hurting or happy, i have no one to share it with. I got no one to call. I have friends, but i need something different.
    Califa Califa
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Sep 6, 2015

    Best friendships are about forgiveness

    understanding & standing next to each-other when ever they need you..
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Dec 17, 2014

    I Do Now =D

    So , I have alot of friends .. I mean ALOT ,, but once I was asked : "who is your b.f.f. ? " .. At that moment I realized all those friends were not best friends ,, just friends .. & there was that girl who was shy ,, I thought she was lazy ,, & she never talked with me .. Now...
    flying1 flying1
    13-15, F
    1 Response Feb 8, 2013

    I don't have some one I can tell everything; I

    don't have someone I can go to to vent; I don't have someone that I can be myself with. I don't have anyone to go to for help if I need a shoulder to cry on. Which is okay, I guess. My pillow takes the tears just fine...
    PapaSun56 PapaSun56
    18-21, M
    Jun 19, 2015

    Best Or Pest Who Knows

    i do not have best friend because i do not believe in buddy stuff..someone knowing all my secrets, sharing things and friends, using the same lipsticks, going together shopping and as a result going around weaaring same sneakers like ...oh thats so silly, discussing guys reading...
    cherrymood cherrymood
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Sep 27, 2008

    I have always seen best friend do everything

    together, even after high school they are still together. I had friend in high school but know of them really stayed with me, we talk every now and then but none have really kept up with, its almost like I don't exist anymore.
    ashleyd10117 ashleyd10117
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 11, 2014

    I Hate The Term Best Friends

    I don't beilive in "best friends". In fact I hate that term. Best friend dont exist. Eventually they all end up hurting you in some way. I cant tell you how many people have told me that I was their best friend only to turn around and hurt or ingore me in the end. Like the most...
    ladysora ladysora
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 3, 2010
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