I Don't Have a Bff

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    does life really evolve around BFF'S?!!!

    Every year of my life, i grew closer to someone that i didn't know before. we would laugh together, we would enjoy life together, but by every end of that year, my bff would just leave me, forget me and just leave me in the dust. for the past 13 yrs of my life, i've had 13 bff...
    Butterfliescanfly Butterfliescanfly
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 24, 2010


    Something I not only feel but know Im unlovable and dont want to look for a bf cause i know it will only confirm my issue Though a part of me feels wronged I have health issues and sequel that will keep me from normalcy for life I had a very abused/neglected childhood and later...
    defectivemoonbunny defectivemoonbunny
    22-25, F
    Aug 26, 2011

    I Need a B F F

    I used to think it was syrupy and unrealistic, but now I wish I had somebody I could always have around to love me forever, apart from my Mum. *sigh* It must be the "in my 30s" thing.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman
    31-35, F
    7 Responses Feb 11, 2009

    Bffs Makes Life More Flavorful

    I never really had  a best friend.  Well, I take that back.  I had one, but she was in my life very briefly. The friends I had besides the exception weren't even my friends really. Best friends or friends in general are suppose to build you up, support...
    jbunny597 jbunny597
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Apr 24, 2010

    How Things Change

      It's funny how things change. My bff from 2nd grd-she was like..I THOUGHT..gonna be my bff for life. I used to think you HAD to have a bff..that something was wrong with you if you didnt. But  boy have my opinions changed on that. As of now, sure, i'd love to...
    lostprophet lostprophet
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Feb 11, 2009

    Idk Loneliness Controlling Husband?!?

    My husband is a jerk and he's so controlling he doesn't want me to ever even leave the house he has ruined any friendships I've had he dont even like me to be around my family. He works for several months at a time in different states and I get lonely because he's the only person...
    bonz33 bonz33
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 17, 2013

    It Sucks.

    I don't have one.  Not a "real" one.  I used to say, for years, that my best friend was a girl I've known since we were born.  But, we would only see each other once or twice a year.  We never talked any other time.  In our early teens, we would...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Apr 8, 2009

    They Always Go Away

    My most chronic social problem is of not having a BFF. I found it hard to make friends when I was at school and any close friends I had always seemed to be conditional. Some were shallow enough to dump me when someone cooler or more interesting came along. Others held me...
    fatcow fatcow
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jan 21, 2008

    What Is A BFF Like?

    I have not had one since the 8th grade and that was child play.. But since then and now a senior in college I still have yet to have a best friend. The idea of a best friend sounds amazing. I have a boyfriend but that is not the same as a best friend who is a female. Where we can...
    af621 af621
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 28, 2013

    There's More Than Panties..

    My BFF for a long time was my friend across the street until I was about 13. Then I moved and found a new life..at a high school where i knew no one. The only friends I have had since then have been boyfriends/girlfriends or people that want to be intimate with me. I just wish I...
    punkangel47 punkangel47
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 23, 2010
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