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I Don't Have a Valentine

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 75 People

    My Dad Is the Only Male Who's Ever Loved Me...

    I've never had a boyfriend. The only time a guy was ever interested in me was when I was about 11, but I think he only said he did because he was dared by his mates, because he'd pretended to like another girl too. I hate it when all my friends are getting boyfriends and I'm...
    forgotten607 forgotten607 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 20, 2009

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    I Don't Have A Valentine

    Never did, and probably never will...
    TheBestMeICanBe TheBestMeICanBe 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 28, 2012

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    Lat Time I Had A Valentine

    Last time i had a valentine was in elementry school. yup elementry school and that was becasue we were forced to give out cards, so i dont think it really counts...................
    Silent20 Silent20 18-21, F Jan 28, 2012

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    Valentine-less kid over here.

    Hahahahahaha. Hahaha. Ha. Ha. Ha...
    pauleen8 pauleen8 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    Breaking the Record?

    Hmm...I think I might have broken the record for the longest time without having a Valentine!  I have officially been single for 20 consecutive years now!  Wºø†!
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 10 Responses Feb 14, 2009

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    Never Been a Valentine

    I have never celebrated Valentine's Day.  Oh, I've had relationships during said holiday, but something has always ruined the day. They'd pick a fight with me so we couldn't celebrate, or we'd break up just before Valentine's Day and make up afterwards. It's always something...
    JennyMcNeill JennyMcNeill 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 11, 2009

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    Eh. Oh Well.

    my ex and i broke up not too long ago. and at the moment i'm not interested in dating anyone else. time to continue to heal i suppose... so no vday happiness for me. but it's okay. i'm not that upset. i have my friends and my family. : )    
    gypsysoul gypsysoul 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 11, 2009

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    I Dont Need One!

    I'll just break my own heart instead...
    thesamwebb thesamwebb 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 11, 2009

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    I may not have a valentine

    but I do have one thing. That is a family and friends who love me. I also have Jesus, the valentine I get to have everyday
    blondechick0130 blondechick0130 18-21, F Feb 14, 2014

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    Wish I Had One.

     I know, I'm young. But I really want someone to kiss. Someone that likes me and only me, and that I like him (or maybe even her) and only him/her.
    BrownEyedMystery BrownEyedMystery 18-21 1 Response Jan 26, 2010

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    We Broke Up Two Weeks Ago.. So No Valentine!!

    yup... we broke up after a long time as each others equals... now, i will have to buy myself some roses just not to remember last year when he made the special meal. arg. Anyone wanna swap? i'll buy you and you can buy me!!! :):)
    Ella06 Ella06 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 4, 2008

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    Valentines Day

    Ok, so I thought I had a Valentine.  She moved in with me the day before V-Day. I bought her roses, a cake, candy, and a card. That night, she kept getting calls from the same guy.. the same ring tone.  When I left the room, she was texting him, then shutting the...
    UncleDevilShow UncleDevilShow 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 12, 2008

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    Valentine.....my Own

    I am 30, the only time I thought I was remotely close to being special as a valentine was @ 23, I received a rose, and a card... I thought I was in love. Well after time, the holidays became hard for, I was like a scrooge-, but as I matured I realized I will not let the giving or...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 28, 2012

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    No One Loves Me

    Come to think of it, I don't think I've ever had one. Even when I had been dating someone I don't remember ever making plans to do anything or getting any gifts or cards. I guess, that shows the quality of my relationships. How sad.
    darlene darlene 41-45, F 6 Responses Feb 14, 2009

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    Nope

    no Valentine for me this year so I'll go buy myself some candy hearts and maybe send myself some flowers to the office just to drive my sister insane wondering who they're from hehe
    GoldieMtZion GoldieMtZion 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 3, 2008

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    I could have a date or guys to take me out on

    valentines day. But I'm just not interested I would prefer my own company. These are guys that would probably take me for a nice dinner then ask if they can come in. *yawn*
    Rhone123 Rhone123 22-25, F Jan 16, 2014

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    Crush Turned Me Down On Asking Her To Valatines Day Dance

    ok im in 7th grade and i have a crush on this girl ive liked her ever since 3rd grade so its been hard she knows i like her but she dose not care so yesterday was valatines day and i orderd her balloons and chocolates for a valatines day present i also wrote her a romantic note...
    marioandlink marioandlink 13-15, M Feb 15, 2013

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    Not Looking For the Traditional Martyr, Either!

    I do not have a SO (Significant Other) to share Valentines Day with this year.  I think I'll just spend the day with a good book!  ;-) I was thinking of sending Valentines day greetings out to married friends (that looks a little sad...), and single friends (but that...
    Yohanna Yohanna 36-40, F Feb 11, 2009

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    Just Me..

    I dont have a Valentine this year..it is just me.  My little girls said they will be my Valentine, which makes me smile, but sometimes I wish I had a "real" valentine..a grown up one..and not for any gifts, just for a simple I love you and a romantic night...
    UnperfectAngel UnperfectAngel 26-30, F 13 Responses Feb 12, 2009

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    But the possibility of 1 is not happening cause

    I'm surrounded by scandalous inferior females with late riot motives n zero dollars... I'm done... If rather master ate n I'm gonna but company sounds nice
    loyal732 loyal732 31-35, M 1 Response Feb 8, 2014

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    I don't have a Facebook.. Or twitter or any other mainstream social media for that matter. It sounds stupid but I've had self esteem issues for a while so around the time fb got...
    Dreamscape98x Dreamscape98x 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 3

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    I need some help, I really don't have any friends. I am lucky to talk to two adults in one day, usually my mom and my husband(who I love). I think I am a good person, I try not...
    momof4goingcrazy momof4goingcrazy 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 8

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    I don't have any real friends that are female, other than my ex sister-in-law. My best friend is a man.
    angierose2014 angierose2014 36-40, F Jan 20

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    I don't have but 2 friends its hard to trust people
    sugarplum44 sugarplum44 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 21

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    This is kinda hard to write about just because it is embarrassing. .. I mean what 18 year old doesn't have friends?? I try and I have tried my whole life but nothing seems to...
    JaneEbony JaneEbony 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I don't know why this is happening right now. I had a best friend for 7 years & we have been through so much together. I have had a really hard life and I don't trust many people...
    Wvgirl20 Wvgirl20 18-21, F Jan 1

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    Don't get me wrong, I love my family to bits and most of them are wonderful and supportive! But... we've just never had that sense of closeness that so many families have. I'm...
    Saiyanprincess Saiyanprincess 18-21, F Jan 2

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    My husband just left me in the house by myself...again. I don't care that he hangs out with his friends but he makes the plans early in the day and won't tell me until a hour...
    Javail5 Javail5 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 17

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    Society has put a pressure on us, the youth and the young adults, to "have your life together." We've been asked countless times when we were kids, "What do you want to be when you...
    elliechickenface elliechickenface 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 8

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    Not sure I have any! I don't go out much. I don't drink. .....?
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Jan 20

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    and I kinda don't want any for a long while ... all of my friends or people I know are either on there first child or second or third which is crazy even thinking about it now and...
    jynx1 jynx1 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I feel like where ever I go I don't really fit in.i feel that they like me and my personality but I never quite fit in to any place
    painfullyloving painfullyloving 16-17, F Jan 4

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    I'm new on this site and my best friend all of a sudden hates me. We first met in 7th grade and we played basketball together and became fast friends. Soon we became best friends...
    Rooknightingale43 Rooknightingale43 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 7

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    every single ''friend'' i had turned out to be fake and every single girl turned out to be a mistake i'm content and happy just being on my own i pleasure myself real good i don't...
    AndeleAndele AndeleAndele 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 11

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    I thought I had a friend but turns out that I didn't. I was just being used....
    Urtech Urtech 22-25, M Jan 8

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    It's been this way for ten years now. He married my mom when I was five and has been unkind to me ever since he married her. I can't take it anymore, being disrespected. It...
    ningqin ningqin 13-15, F Jan 11

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    My mum isn't like other mums... Things I should have done with my mum, my dad had to come with and do because she's too busy being selfish. he even said to me 'isn't this...
    Misscoconut Misscoconut 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 16

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    at a church event. I'm ready to go home. I have no car.
    tinalr tinalr 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 1

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    I am 21 and turning 22 this year.. i am also a member of NBSB. When i turne to this page and find out that there is a community like this, and find out i am not alone. ??i love...
    xxbiRitch xxbiRitch 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 10

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    Music makes everything okay. It both evokes every emotion and eases every emotion. It mimics experiences that I've never had. It mimics experiences that I've had but are long gone...
    SheSaidx SheSaidx 22-25, F Jan 12

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    I do have a camera on my phone but it's broken
    GassGirl03 GassGirl03 22-25, F Jan 18

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    Most people only like me when its convenient or beneficial for them to do so. I'm used to it, I have a few friends and they care. Thats all that really matters .-.
    CanYouHearTheSilence CanYouHearTheSilence 13-15, T 1 Response Jan 19

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    I want to have a couple...someday...everyone i know has a family of their own and here i am...
    redphoenix02 redphoenix02 22-25, F Jan 23

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    My story is an odd one im sure. I was conceived via an anonymous ***** donor who is my biological father, so someone i have never met and can never meet. My mom had me this way...
    samboooo samboooo 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    My dad died in a fight when he was drunk when i was 3 . haha. Damn guy. The guy who killed him had knucklebusters like a punch bltch. Too much blood rushed to his brain. I barely...
    YungKhroniK YungKhroniK 13-15, M 1 day ago

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    I spend a good portion of each day lost in fantasy. I have a friend that I can have sexy conversations with. This usually leads me to writing a new erotic story or creating a new...
    RC4blue RC4blue 46-50, M 1 day ago

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    I just like to be smooth and clean!
    Jessica99x Jessica99x 13-15, F 8 hrs ago