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I Don't Have a Valentine

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    So valentines day is coming up

    and I'm going to be snuggled up watching Netflix and eating pizza and drawing! hoorah! #singlelife#yoyoyo#netflix#2cool#pizza#cats
    Angieart15 Angieart15 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 10

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    Valentine.....my Own

    I am 30, the only time I thought I was remotely close to being special as a valentine was @ 23, I received a rose, and a card... I thought I was in love. Well after time, the holidays became hard for, I was like a scrooge-, but as I matured I realized I will not let the giving or...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 28, 2012

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    I may not have a valentine

    but I do have one thing. That is a family and friends who love me. I also have Jesus, the valentine I get to have everyday
    blondechick0130 blondechick0130 18-21, F Feb 14, 2014

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    All this Valentine's Day stuff is really

    getting on my nerves. *no offense to anyone*
    MissPeruvian MissPeruvian 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 8

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    Not Looking For the Traditional Martyr, Either!

    I do not have a SO (Significant Other) to share Valentines Day with this year.  I think I'll just spend the day with a good book!  ;-) I was thinking of sending Valentines day greetings out to married friends (that looks a little sad...), and single friends (but that...
    Yohanna Yohanna 36-40, F Feb 11, 2009

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    All of my friends have someone

    and I don't. I'm turning 21 in about a month and a half and I haven't even had my first kiss. I seriously think nobody will ever fall in love with me. Even if I didn't look like trash, nobody would want to date somebody who's inexperienced (i.e. has never been in a serious...
    vonniebeth vonniebeth 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 14

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    No One Loves Me

    Come to think of it, I don't think I've ever had one. Even when I had been dating someone I don't remember ever making plans to do anything or getting any gifts or cards. I guess, that shows the quality of my relationships. How sad.
    darlene darlene 41-45, F 6 Responses Feb 14, 2009

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    I Dont Need One!

    I'll just break my own heart instead...
    thesamwebb thesamwebb 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 11, 2009

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    Wish I Had One.

     I know, I'm young. But I really want someone to kiss. Someone that likes me and only me, and that I like him (or maybe even her) and only him/her.
    BrownEyedMystery BrownEyedMystery 18-21 1 Response Jan 26, 2010

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    My Dad Is the Only Male Who's Ever Loved Me...

    I've never had a boyfriend. The only time a guy was ever interested in me was when I was about 11, but I think he only said he did because he was dared by his mates, because he'd pretended to like another girl too. I hate it when all my friends are getting boyfriends and I'm...
    forgotten607 forgotten607 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 20, 2009

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    Nope

    no Valentine for me this year so I'll go buy myself some candy hearts and maybe send myself some flowers to the office just to drive my sister insane wondering who they're from hehe
    GoldieMtZion GoldieMtZion 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 3, 2008

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    I Don't Have A Valentine

    Never did, and probably never will...
    TheBestMeICanBe TheBestMeICanBe 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 28, 2012

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    Breaking the Record?

    Hmm...I think I might have broken the record for the longest time without having a Valentine!  I have officially been single for 20 consecutive years now!  Wºø†!
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 10 Responses Feb 14, 2009

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    Eh. Oh Well.

    my ex and i broke up not too long ago. and at the moment i'm not interested in dating anyone else. time to continue to heal i suppose... so no vday happiness for me. but it's okay. i'm not that upset. i have my friends and my family. : )    
    gypsysoul gypsysoul 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 11, 2009

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    MyLifeIsWithYou93 MyLifeIsWithYou93 18-21, F Feb 12

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    Crush Turned Me Down On Asking Her To Valatines Day Dance

    ok im in 7th grade and i have a crush on this girl ive liked her ever since 3rd grade so its been hard she knows i like her but she dose not care so yesterday was valatines day and i orderd her balloons and chocolates for a valatines day present i also wrote her a romantic note...
    marioandlink marioandlink 13-15, M Feb 15, 2013

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    Just Me..

    I dont have a Valentine this year..it is just me.  My little girls said they will be my Valentine, which makes me smile, but sometimes I wish I had a "real" valentine..a grown up one..and not for any gifts, just for a simple I love you and a romantic night...
    UnperfectAngel UnperfectAngel 26-30, F 13 Responses Feb 12, 2009

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    But the possibility of 1 is not happening cause

    I'm surrounded by scandalous inferior females with late riot motives n zero dollars... I'm done... If rather master ate n I'm gonna but company sounds nice
    loyal732 loyal732 31-35, M 1 Response Feb 8, 2014

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    I could have a date or guys to take me out on

    valentines day. But I'm just not interested I would prefer my own company. These are guys that would probably take me for a nice dinner then ask if they can come in. *yawn*
    Rhone123 Rhone123 22-25, F Jan 16, 2014

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    Lat Time I Had A Valentine

    Last time i had a valentine was in elementry school. yup elementry school and that was becasue we were forced to give out cards, so i dont think it really counts...................
    Silent20 Silent20 18-21, F Jan 28, 2012

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    And I'm fine with it.

    What is everyone else doing for Valentine's day?
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 12

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    Never Been a Valentine

    I have never celebrated Valentine's Day.  Oh, I've had relationships during said holiday, but something has always ruined the day. They'd pick a fight with me so we couldn't celebrate, or we'd break up just before Valentine's Day and make up afterwards. It's always something...
    JennyMcNeill JennyMcNeill 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 11, 2009

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    Valentine-less kid over here.

    Hahahahahaha. Hahaha. Ha. Ha. Ha...
    pauleen8 pauleen8 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    Valentines Day

    Ok, so I thought I had a Valentine.  She moved in with me the day before V-Day. I bought her roses, a cake, candy, and a card. That night, she kept getting calls from the same guy.. the same ring tone.  When I left the room, she was texting him, then shutting the...
    UncleDevilShow UncleDevilShow 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 12, 2008

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    Food is my valentine.

    Will always be there for me.
    hondurananonymous hondurananonymous 16-17, F Feb 14

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    We Broke Up Two Weeks Ago.. So No Valentine!!

    yup... we broke up after a long time as each others equals... now, i will have to buy myself some roses just not to remember last year when he made the special meal. arg. Anyone wanna swap? i'll buy you and you can buy me!!! :):)
    Ella06 Ella06 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 4, 2008

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    All the friends I had since childhood have been gone for 4 years now. I could hardly remember half of their names. There are some exceptions, but I still don't have any friends...
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    It's almost like the ones of us that don't have any are more the oddity than people who do. I like them on others. My husband has them. He loves that my skin is natural.
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    If someone else asks me if I have kiksterr account for hundredth time, I'm going to punch someone in the throat. I swear to the spaghetti monster. Holy heck. I don't have one...
    WhatTheFrenchToast WhatTheFrenchToast 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    It happened again: my husband basically told me to pick out my own holiday plans and he would pay for it. Dinner reservations? Nope - I'm making my own Valentine's dinner at...
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F 4 Responses Feb 14

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    I guess you could argue that I brought it on myself, that it's a choice. Then again, I still don't think there's anything wrong with being an idealist. Back in the day when I was...
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    Not that I'm going to do anything drastic because of it. But I don't believe anyone has a reason to live, there isn't one unless you make one. And even if you make one it isn't...
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    Lonely,hungry for your affection Sitting by the phone wishing for your attention I know you. Inside and out You make 10 calls a night to blow it all out Did my face cross your mind...
    OsageBetty OsageBetty 31-35, F Feb 9

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    Well this has been going on for a while, but my dad basically feels that I pushed him away, while he feels this way, he is a introvert, very bold about how he feels, and he has no...
    linkin15 linkin15 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 18

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