I Don't Have a Valentine

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 339 People

    I've been divorced since 2009,

    I am just now ready to not be single... I had plenty of years to work on me and love being alone with myself but now I'm ready to share my life
    Aprildawnmarie Aprildawnmarie
    41-45, F
    Feb 2
    PromegleKing PromegleKing
    16-17, M
    1 Response Feb 8

    I wish I had a Valentine

    and a date. But that's life, right?
    Monse2021 Monse2021
    13-15, F
    Feb 10

    it's OK not to have a Valentine.

    .. I have faith and hope that this is my year to find my best friend and future husband
    Aprildawnmarie Aprildawnmarie
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Feb 2

    All of my friends have someone

    and I don't. I'm turning 21 in about a month and a half and I haven't even had my first kiss. I seriously think nobody will ever fall in love with me. Even if I didn't look like trash, nobody would want to date somebody who's inexperienced (i.e. has never been in a serious...
    vonniebeth vonniebeth
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 14, 2015
    GummiBr GummiBr
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Feb 6

    My Dad Is the Only Male Who's Ever Loved Me...

    I've never had a boyfriend. The only time a guy was ever interested in me was when I was about 11, but I think he only said he did because he was dared by his mates, because he'd pretended to like another girl too. I hate it when all my friends are getting boyfriends and I'm...
    forgotten607 forgotten607
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 20, 2009

    It's my 17th Valentines day

    but I'm still single and happy :) it's better not to in relationship rather than in fake relationship. Hopefully I will get my Valentin soon :D just best wishes
    Srey24 Srey24
    16-17, M
    Feb 10
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    13 Responses Feb 3

    I asked this cute guy at work to be my valentine

    and he said yes. I think he thought I was kidding though
    DiamondAuthority DiamondAuthority
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 2

    And I'm fine with it.

    What is everyone else doing for Valentine's day?
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 12, 2015

    I'm actually okay with not having a Valentine

    to be honest. Yeah I wont be showered w/ gifts or anything but hey, It's just another day.
    StrangeMusings StrangeMusings
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 3

    I never had, makes me feel a little rebellious

    actually to the whole invention of this day
    Cocrispy Cocrispy
    22-25, M
    1 Response Feb 3

    I don't have a Valentine's yet.

    But I will wait and see what happens. I don't have a girlfriend yet either , but I will wait for that special person to come in to my life when ever the time is right
    Anthony2400 Anthony2400
    22-25, M
    Feb 2

    Sometimes I wish I had someone on Valentine's

    Day so they can buy me candy. But I can do that myself so I get over it
    DiamondAuthority DiamondAuthority
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 18

    Food is my valentine.

    Will always be there for me.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 14, 2015

    **** valentines day I'm always alone

    for valentines day, my friends call me the bitter critter XD
    ghostflannel ghostflannel
    16-17, F
    1 Response Feb 4

    I Don't Have A Valentine

    Never did, and probably never will...
    TheBestMeICanBe TheBestMeICanBe
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 28, 2012

    Eh. Oh Well.

    my ex and i broke up not too long ago. and at the moment i'm not interested in dating anyone else. time to continue to heal i suppose... so no vday happiness for me. but it's okay. i'm not that upset. i have my friends and my family. : )    
    gypsysoul gypsysoul
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Feb 11, 2009

    I need an ep valentine.

    ..any takers?......nope okay.
    LeanMamii LeanMamii
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Feb 3

    I would love a Valentine I have never had one

    in 17 years I have been living would anyone like to be my Valentine
    fatbellylover88 fatbellylover88
    16-17, M
    Feb 3

    Yet, Valentine's Day is my favorite day

    even though I don't have a Valentine. So much drama happens. It's so entertaining. 😂
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Feb 3

    I don't ever have a valentine

    because honestly, what's the point of Valentines day? So for one day everyone can pretend they are all happy and have good relationships and are popular? Not for me, I have lost hope. Forget that fake lovey-dovey Valentine crap. I am sick of it. Sock of pretending to be happy.
    Woofmow Woofmow
    13-15, F
    Feb 10

    any one out there want a straight cross dresser

    as a Valentine... nope didn't think so.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 2

    I've never had one so I don't like valentine's

    day because I think it's stupid
    Niceguy890 Niceguy890
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Feb 3

    I guess Im gonna be lonely again on Valentines

    day😞😣 Anyone else?
    MyLifeIsWithYou93 MyLifeIsWithYou93
    22-25, F
    Feb 12, 2015

    Don't let your kids read this.

    Valentines is not real. It's all a lie just like Justin Bieber's hair. seriously There's a dead animal sleep on his head.
    ZardaF5 ZardaF5
    26-30, M
    1 Response Feb 2

    Ive had them and can.

    .but all the fake doesnt mean **** if its not the right person. .youre just as alone..I can,do anything with the right one and real love is every day...24/7 not just an indicated day for the ingenuine.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 3

    Lat Time I Had A Valentine

    Last time i had a valentine was in elementry school. yup elementry school and that was becasue we were forced to give out cards, so i dont think it really counts...................
    Silent20 Silent20
    18-21, F
    Jan 28, 2012

    My favorite thing about Valentine's Day is the

    day after Valentine's Day. I like to go around to drugstores and grocery stores and buy up unsold chocolate for 75% off. It's the exact same stuff they're turning around and selling for Easter, just packaged differently.
    chronicmisfit chronicmisfit
    41-45, M
    1 Response Feb 3

    I kind of wish I did

    but it is ok because I will live
    HANNAH2314 HANNAH2314
    13-15, F
    1 Response Feb 9

    By "Happy Valentine's Day",

    people really mean "Happy Half Price Chocolate Eve", right?
    DenialLife DenialLife
    18-21, M
    Feb 2

    Valentine's is overrated.

    I'd rather spend it with my dog with a bottle of wine and a box of chocolates I bought for myself.
    minadoesntbite minadoesntbite
    26-30, F
    Feb 8

    Valentine-less kid over here.

    Hahahahahaha. Hahaha. Ha. Ha. Ha...
    pauleen8 pauleen8
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 8, 2014

    well it happens.. it's fine though.

    I am not depressed over it
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 2

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