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I Don't Have a Valentine

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    Not Looking For the Traditional Martyr, Either!

    I do not have a SO (Significant Other) to share Valentines Day with this year.  I think I'll just spend the day with a good book!  ;-) I was thinking of sending Valentines day greetings out to married friends (that looks a little sad...), and single friends (but that...
    Yohanna Yohanna 36-40, F Feb 11, 2009

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    Breaking the Record?

    Hmm...I think I might have broken the record for the longest time without having a Valentine!  I have officially been single for 20 consecutive years now!  Wºø†!
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 10 Responses Feb 14, 2009

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    I Don't Have A Valentine

    Never did, and probably never will...
    TheBestMeICanBe TheBestMeICanBe 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 28, 2012

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    We Broke Up Two Weeks Ago.. So No Valentine!!

    yup... we broke up after a long time as each others equals... now, i will have to buy myself some roses just not to remember last year when he made the special meal. arg. Anyone wanna swap? i'll buy you and you can buy me!!! :):)
    Ella06 Ella06 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 4, 2008

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    Crush Turned Me Down On Asking Her To Valatines Day Dance

    ok im in 7th grade and i have a crush on this girl ive liked her ever since 3rd grade so its been hard she knows i like her but she dose not care so yesterday was valatines day and i orderd her balloons and chocolates for a valatines day present i also wrote her a romantic note...
    marioandlink marioandlink 13-15, M Feb 15, 2013

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    Eh. Oh Well.

    my ex and i broke up not too long ago. and at the moment i'm not interested in dating anyone else. time to continue to heal i suppose... so no vday happiness for me. but it's okay. i'm not that upset. i have my friends and my family. : )    
    gypsysoul gypsysoul 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 11, 2009

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    Just Me..

    I dont have a Valentine this year..it is just me.  My little girls said they will be my Valentine, which makes me smile, but sometimes I wish I had a "real" valentine..a grown up one..and not for any gifts, just for a simple I love you and a romantic night...
    UnperfectAngel UnperfectAngel 26-30, F 13 Responses Feb 12, 2009

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    I could have a date or guys to take me out on

    valentines day. But I'm just not interested I would prefer my own company. These are guys that would probably take me for a nice dinner then ask if they can come in. *yawn*
    Rhone123 Rhone123 22-25, F Jan 16

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    Never Been a Valentine

    I have never celebrated Valentine's Day.  Oh, I've had relationships during said holiday, but something has always ruined the day. They'd pick a fight with me so we couldn't celebrate, or we'd break up just before Valentine's Day and make up afterwards. It's always something...
    JennyMcNeill JennyMcNeill 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 11, 2009

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    I Dont Need One!

    I'll just break my own heart instead...
    thesamwebb thesamwebb 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 11, 2009

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    My Dad Is the Only Male Who's Ever Loved Me...

    I've never had a boyfriend. The only time a guy was ever interested in me was when I was about 11, but I think he only said he did because he was dared by his mates, because he'd pretended to like another girl too. I hate it when all my friends are getting boyfriends and I'm...
    forgotten607 forgotten607 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 20, 2009

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    Wish I Had One.

     I know, I'm young. But I really want someone to kiss. Someone that likes me and only me, and that I like him (or maybe even her) and only him/her.
    BrownEyedMystery BrownEyedMystery 18-21 1 Response Jan 26, 2010

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    No One Loves Me

    Come to think of it, I don't think I've ever had one. Even when I had been dating someone I don't remember ever making plans to do anything or getting any gifts or cards. I guess, that shows the quality of my relationships. How sad.
    darlene darlene 41-45, F 6 Responses Feb 14, 2009

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    But the possibility of 1 is not happening cause

    I'm surrounded by scandalous inferior females with late riot motives n zero dollars... I'm done... If rather master ate n I'm gonna but company sounds nice
    loyal732 loyal732 31-35, M 1 Response Feb 8

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    Nope

    no Valentine for me this year so I'll go buy myself some candy hearts and maybe send myself some flowers to the office just to drive my sister insane wondering who they're from hehe
    GoldieMtZion GoldieMtZion 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 3, 2008

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    Valentine.....my Own

    I am 30, the only time I thought I was remotely close to being special as a valentine was @ 23, I received a rose, and a card... I thought I was in love. Well after time, the holidays became hard for, I was like a scrooge-, but as I matured I realized I will not let the giving or...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 28, 2012

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    Lat Time I Had A Valentine

    Last time i had a valentine was in elementry school. yup elementry school and that was becasue we were forced to give out cards, so i dont think it really counts...................
    Silent20 Silent20 18-21, F Jan 28, 2012

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    I may not have a valentine

    but I do have one thing. That is a family and friends who love me. I also have Jesus, the valentine I get to have everyday
    blondechick0130 blondechick0130 18-21, F Feb 14

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    Valentines Day

    Ok, so I thought I had a Valentine.  She moved in with me the day before V-Day. I bought her roses, a cake, candy, and a card. That night, she kept getting calls from the same guy.. the same ring tone.  When I left the room, she was texting him, then shutting the...
    UncleDevilShow UncleDevilShow 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 12, 2008

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    Valentine-less kid over here.

    Hahahahahaha. Hahaha. Ha. Ha. Ha...
    pauleen8 pauleen8 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 8

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    I don't have a lot of friends ,just a few close ones but even they don't know me fully...I've never ever had a bff nor do I ever think I will...the close friends I have are too...
    MariaGrace95 MariaGrace95 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    Don't have cable, no satellite, dish, nothing. Grew up without it & have never had it to this day! :o
    brunettebarbie14 brunettebarbie14 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    I've never been in love with anyone and have never been in a real relationship before. I've also met alot of guys who have hurt me in the past, but I'm over that as well. I"m glad...
    texaschic35 texaschic35 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    I have 0 real friends and i don't have any problem with having no friends, cause i have internet :D
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M Aug 15

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    I don't have the technology to gain access to such "apps" :-(
    queerinthehead queerinthehead 41-45, M Aug 17

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    I'm going to make this short and sweet. I don't have to explain myself to anybody. Nobody is perfect and nobody has the right to judge me. If you're going to be my friend, then be...
    ChristiBoo2014 ChristiBoo2014 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I've never been the type to have a lot of friends, never more than 2 or 3, but now I have none. The only person who I would actually consider a friend is out of the country until...
    aj2456 aj2456 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 3

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    I'm not completely sure why I even signed up on this site, yet alone posting a story. At the end of the day, I know that this will not improve nor will it change anything about my...
    LilMsUnknown LilMsUnknown 36-40, F Aug 13

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    It's summer and I haven't talked to anyone from high school since it ended (about 2 months ago) just one girl who anyway always tries to push me away.She says she likes me but I...
    Leraluna Leraluna 16-17, F Jul 31

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    I don't take **** from anyone. I will speak up if needed. I don't like liars or *** holes.
    xoxokendyl xoxokendyl 16-17, F Aug 2

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    Hi, I'm Corey. I'm 15. I think most everyone here knows me. I'm the bottom half of "The Jay and Corey Show." I have late puberty. I never joined this group before, because I think...
    moltencorey moltencorey 13-15, M Aug 13

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    I really don't. I don't get called or texted, for so long that it now feels awkward otherwise.
    SecretsOut14 SecretsOut14 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    I actually do have pube hair. But I know plenty of boys who don't yet. Some of my 13-15 friends don't yet... It's all ok. You'll get there and there's a down side to all that pube...
    gayandproud13 gayandproud13 13-15, M 3 days ago

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    I really am tired of everything. I don't want to commit suicide. I just hate living, everything hurts. I can't bare this feeling.
    ohida ohida 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    I've got only one brother. were just two. my brother hates me. Coz i don't give money to him. why? coz he's a womanizer. He's a bad brother. One night he shouted at me and he said...
    yodatheching yodatheching 22-25, F Aug 3

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    Like wow... My mother had actually gave me a birthday hug today. It wasn't even that awkward either. She even gave me a birthday card. Well, it was a week earlier, but that was...
    CharleeLuv CharleeLuv 18-21, F Aug 12

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    I'm getting ready to be in a pageant I'm freaking out my mom hasn't coached me all that much and I don't know what color eyeshadow to wear or in what way to put it on I have a pic...
    Khaleesi1Regan Khaleesi1Regan 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I know that i am existing and not living and that is a real thing. It hurts a s i know but what i can do as for my health situation and for being trapped in a lot of issues that...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    He left us right after my younger sister was born, and my younger sister was born when I wasn't even a year old yet. Which means that I grew up without a father, without knowing a...
    Celal Celal 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    After reading all the posts I was extremely relieved that I wasn't alone. It did however make me face the mirror of fear staring back at me to motivate me to stay on this path...
    earleone93 earleone93 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    Sometimes guys just cant get what others women can, like little nuances that only occur between a woman and her friend. I mean, its not like you can eyeball a hot guy and then tell...
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum 31-35, F Jul 30

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    Age 31, my periods began to flow on their own. My periods have been fairly regular since. I'm wanting to get pregnant! I hope I can now. My last 2 ultrasounds didn't show anymore...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Aug 7

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    Mainly because I'm worried people will judge. I wouldn't mind people seeing me naked if they wanted too (though it is a little presumptuous to post naked pics without people asking...
    experience1388 experience1388 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 12

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    I've had a lot of friends throughout my life, but none of them have really stuck around or I found they weren't really my friend after all. So for a long time I sort of just set...
    HillyHana HillyHana 18-21, F Aug 19

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    All I ever watch on television (sometimes) is the local news or an occasional movie on the weekends; I do not watch a lot of television. I can keep myself entertained with other...
    s4019t s4019t 26-30, M Jul 29

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    I actually prefer it this way. Sure, it's nice to have a friend, but why trust someone who can stab you in the back at anytime? I prefer to be alone. No one can stab you in the...
    BENDrowned BENDrowned 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    Yeah!!!!! I am at the point where I am fine with not having a friend. I was 21 when I wanted to have friends,whateva. I like being by myself and I never have any problem going...
    Hannarose Hannarose 22-25, F Aug 1

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    Yes any girls that have it add me
    Daddylicksyou Daddylicksyou 61-65, M Aug 4

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