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I Don't Have a Valentine

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    We Broke Up Two Weeks Ago.. So No Valentine!!

    yup... we broke up after a long time as each others equals... now, i will have to buy myself some roses just not to remember last year when he made the special meal. arg. Anyone wanna swap? i'll buy you and you can buy me!!! :):)
    Ella06 Ella06 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 4, 2008

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    Just Me..

    I dont have a Valentine this year..it is just me.  My little girls said they will be my Valentine, which makes me smile, but sometimes I wish I had a "real" valentine..a grown up one..and not for any gifts, just for a simple I love you and a romantic night...
    UnperfectAngel UnperfectAngel 26-30, F 13 Responses Feb 12, 2009

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    I Dont Need One!

    I'll just break my own heart instead...
    thesamwebb thesamwebb 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 11, 2009

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    Wish I Had One.

     I know, I'm young. But I really want someone to kiss. Someone that likes me and only me, and that I like him (or maybe even her) and only him/her.
    BrownEyedMystery BrownEyedMystery 18-21 1 Response Jan 26, 2010

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    Breaking the Record?

    Hmm...I think I might have broken the record for the longest time without having a Valentine!  I have officially been single for 20 consecutive years now!  Wºø†!
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 10 Responses Feb 14, 2009

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    Valentines Day

    Ok, so I thought I had a Valentine.  She moved in with me the day before V-Day. I bought her roses, a cake, candy, and a card. That night, she kept getting calls from the same guy.. the same ring tone.  When I left the room, she was texting him, then shutting the...
    UncleDevilShow UncleDevilShow 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 12, 2008

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    Valentine.....my Own

    I am 30, the only time I thought I was remotely close to being special as a valentine was @ 23, I received a rose, and a card... I thought I was in love. Well after time, the holidays became hard for, I was like a scrooge-, but as I matured I realized I will not let the giving or...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 28, 2012

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    Nope

    no Valentine for me this year so I'll go buy myself some candy hearts and maybe send myself some flowers to the office just to drive my sister insane wondering who they're from hehe
    GoldieMtZion GoldieMtZion 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 3, 2008

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    Not Looking For the Traditional Martyr, Either!

    I do not have a SO (Significant Other) to share Valentines Day with this year.  I think I'll just spend the day with a good book!  ;-) I was thinking of sending Valentines day greetings out to married friends (that looks a little sad...), and single friends (but that...
    Yohanna Yohanna 36-40, F Feb 11, 2009

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    Never Been a Valentine

    I have never celebrated Valentine's Day.  Oh, I've had relationships during said holiday, but something has always ruined the day. They'd pick a fight with me so we couldn't celebrate, or we'd break up just before Valentine's Day and make up afterwards. It's always something...
    JennyMcNeill JennyMcNeill 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 11, 2009

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    Eh. Oh Well.

    my ex and i broke up not too long ago. and at the moment i'm not interested in dating anyone else. time to continue to heal i suppose... so no vday happiness for me. but it's okay. i'm not that upset. i have my friends and my family. : )    
    gypsysoul gypsysoul 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 11, 2009

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    But the possibility of 1 is not happening cause

    I'm surrounded by scandalous inferior females with late riot motives n zero dollars... I'm done... If rather master ate n I'm gonna but company sounds nice
    loyal732 loyal732 31-35, M 1 Response Feb 8

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    Valentine-less kid over here.

    Hahahahahaha. Hahaha. Ha. Ha. Ha...
    pauleen8 pauleen8 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 8

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    Crush Turned Me Down On Asking Her To Valatines Day Dance

    ok im in 7th grade and i have a crush on this girl ive liked her ever since 3rd grade so its been hard she knows i like her but she dose not care so yesterday was valatines day and i orderd her balloons and chocolates for a valatines day present i also wrote her a romantic note...
    marioandlink marioandlink 13-15, M Feb 15, 2013

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    Lat Time I Had A Valentine

    Last time i had a valentine was in elementry school. yup elementry school and that was becasue we were forced to give out cards, so i dont think it really counts...................
    Silent20 Silent20 18-21, F Jan 28, 2012

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    I may not have a valentine

    but I do have one thing. That is a family and friends who love me. I also have Jesus, the valentine I get to have everyday
    blondechick0130 blondechick0130 18-21, F Feb 14

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    No One Loves Me

    Come to think of it, I don't think I've ever had one. Even when I had been dating someone I don't remember ever making plans to do anything or getting any gifts or cards. I guess, that shows the quality of my relationships. How sad.
    darlene darlene 41-45, F 6 Responses Feb 14, 2009

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    I Don't Have A Valentine

    Never did, and probably never will...
    TheBestMeICanBe TheBestMeICanBe 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 28, 2012

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    I could have a date or guys to take me out on

    valentines day. But I'm just not interested I would prefer my own company. These are guys that would probably take me for a nice dinner then ask if they can come in. *yawn*
    Rhone123 Rhone123 22-25, F Jan 16

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    My Dad Is the Only Male Who's Ever Loved Me...

    I've never had a boyfriend. The only time a guy was ever interested in me was when I was about 11, but I think he only said he did because he was dared by his mates, because he'd pretended to like another girl too. I hate it when all my friends are getting boyfriends and I'm...
    forgotten607 forgotten607 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 20, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    Had to write this after reading a question, because it seems many people on EP say they don't have friends. Understandable, believable as we are on here and being social. Some of...
    dustypork dustypork 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 16

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    I'm a very shy person and I don't have many friends. Of course I have my close friends, but other than that I don't have many friends. Maybe you don't mind but for me, friends are...
    HorseBeauty HorseBeauty 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    I eat healthy... I work out... I don't have "Cheat" days. I have days that I allow myself to enjoy a burger or take a day off from the gym, but not "Cheat" days. When you refer to...
    biggun1122 biggun1122 36-40, M Jul 20

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    Now I'm starting to worry. I just turned 15, and I still have no signs of puberty. No growth, no hair, no nothing. I've always been one of the smallest boys in my class, but it...
    zakkattakk zakkattakk 13-15, M 3 Responses Jul 22

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    I moved to Vegas from Europe. I don't have a drivers license and nothing is within walking distance. My friends from home never writes to me anymore. I feel so lonely.
    Desertnight Desertnight 22-25, F Jul 2

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    I don't have any physical friends I wish I had a bestie anyone in the New Jersey area
    lonelymami lonelymami 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    I just don't have a reason to live. Anymore
    Idonthaveanameanymore Idonthaveanameanymore 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Don't have cable, no satellite, dish, nothing. Grew up without it & have never had it to this day! :o
    brunettebarbie14 brunettebarbie14 18-21, F 3 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Exchanging it for Experience project!. Seriously Facebook used to be great, First time It cam out and I started using it was when I was around 13-14, it was awesome for talking...
    MisssValentine MisssValentine 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    Well I don't really want to talk about it but any ways, I don't live with my dad. My mom raise me. n I lived with him n my mom for only 3 1/2 or 4 years then we couldn't take it...
    intellinerdgirl intellinerdgirl 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    I'm 18 and I still haven't gotten my period my doctor says I'm a late bloomer but find that hard to believe so I get really scared because I feel like until it comes I'll never be...
    Alisa54 Alisa54 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I'm so tired of being told how to feel. People are judging things they don't understand. If I want to be angry at the man who abandoned me, I'm allowed to. No one can tell me...
    reneeo11314 reneeo11314 18-21, F Jun 30

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    I've never known my Dad. All I know is that he took off when I was little. All I know of him is through photos and back talk from my mother's side of the family. I never really...
    Melodicwhisper Melodicwhisper 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    I want one sooo much :( whenever I go to my aunties i don't leave Caspar the whippet alone.
    MollyMeggs MollyMeggs 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I don't care if you are fat, skinny, attractive, ugly, black, white, have long hair, or have short hair. If you treat me good, I'll like you. It's as simple as that.
    SamLGirl SamLGirl 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I don't care about bodies. Period. I like guys from nerdy and super smart guys, to bad boys, to sporty muscly guys, to really hilarious boys! I HAVE NO TYPE! 😃
    Tshoraga1 Tshoraga1 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    It's always the exciting people who don't ever make fools of themselves who get all the attention, on or offline.
    thisisausernametoo thisisausernametoo 18-21 Jul 19

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    My parents don't believe in physical contact unless it's to spank me. The most I've had was when my dad shook my hand when I got good exam results. I hide everything about who I...
    marcusru marcusru 16-17, M 6 days ago

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    Sometimes guys just cant get what others women can, like little nuances that only occur between a woman and her friend. I mean, its not like you can eyeball a hot guy and then tell...
    MissusBrightside MissusBrightside 31-35, F 6 hrs ago

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    You would think that it bothers me, but it doesn't. People bring drama and I am too grown to deal with that.
    Katherinex13 Katherinex13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    If you didn't do anything to make me not trust you then there shouldn't be a problem
    dre07 dre07 18-21, M Jul 3

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    My dad left me and my family and he's an alcoholic. He doesn't do anything for us yet blames me for everything like I did something wrong when he's the one that left.
    isabellamancini isabellamancini 13-15, F Jul 5

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    If I like u....I like u I'm not gonna say I like u but u aren't my type 👒
    lavabug01 lavabug01 13-15, F Jul 7

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    Mine doesn't talk to me anymore.... he must be to good for me now. Oh wait....he has a gf now so I'm nothing: (
    theresa88 theresa88 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 9

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    Sure I have a few friends, but no good ones. No loyal ones. No friends I can relate with being that I am a weird person. And today, in life, it's difficult to find good friends...
    TacTaco TacTaco 22-25, M Jul 1

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    All of my friends have one or the other, or both. I have resisted the temptation and I am proud. There's nothing wrong with tattoos if you like them, I just think they are a...
    reelman4372 reelman4372 31-35, M Jul 1

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    Since I have moved to Portland 10 months ago, I haven't made any friends. I find most of the people here boring and superficial. I find people here in the Pacific Northwest very...
    derkosmonaut derkosmonaut 41-45, M 3 Responses Jul 3

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    So this was my last day of driving with my instructor. I've improved quite a lot. For the past three days, students were taking me home with the instructor. I would expect to have...
    Dapperness Dapperness 16-17, F Jul 3

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    That is correct for me through and through I used to have two friends they moved I made one or two friends but we grew apart because they thought I was "weird" and "secretive" and...
    MatildaBlack MatildaBlack 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 8

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