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I Don't Have Any Children

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    I Don't Want Children

    It's not that I don't like children, they're just not for me. Even when I was a child I was never in to baby dolls or anything like that. I kind of feel like i have a different purpose on earth. I try to live a more spiritual path and feel if i had a child i would be giving part...
    lotsofheart lotsofheart 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 28, 2009

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    When I'm Asked........how Do I Answer?

    Wow, all of these stories hit home to me in one way or another. My story is so unbelievable that I was not even sure what group to tell it to.I got married late, thus my clock was clicking very fast. When I fell in love and got engaged my finance and I agreed we would have at...
    Poppitt Poppitt 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 7, 2010

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    Not Sure If Kids Are For Us.

    My husband and I have been married just under a year, but were together for 6 years before we married. We both enjoy the freedom of not being tied down to kids financially and responsibility-wise. In fact, I just had an abortion this month because we found out I was pregnant...
    jlk2 jlk2 26-30, F Aug 17, 2012

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    I Never Want Any Kids.

    There are to many kids who arent being raised right. i know people who come right out and say if they had it to do again they wouldnt bother with the kids. if i ever settle down with one man i want to take the time to enjoy him and our time together without some kid screaming all...
    myaahwavesgoodbye myaahwavesgoodbye 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 30, 2012

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    No Children

    Don't have any children of my own but I have a niece. And I'm a pseudo uncle to several boys of dear friends of mine. Two boys are fraternal twins.
    jml2000 jml2000 56-60, M Jun 17, 2013

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    I've never been in love with anyone and have never been in a real relationship before. I've also met alot of guys who have hurt me in the past, but I'm over that as well. I"m glad...
    texaschic35 texaschic35 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    I've never been the type to have a lot of friends, never more than 2 or 3, but now I have none. The only person who I would actually consider a friend is out of the country until...
    aj2456 aj2456 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 3

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    It's summer and I haven't talked to anyone from high school since it ended (about 2 months ago) just one girl who anyway always tries to push me away.She says she likes me but I...
    Leraluna Leraluna 16-17, F Jul 31

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    Hi, I'm Corey. I'm 15. I think most everyone here knows me. I'm the bottom half of "The Jay and Corey Show." I have late puberty. I never joined this group before, because I think...
    moltencorey moltencorey 13-15, M Aug 13

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    I actually do have pube hair. But I know plenty of boys who don't yet. Some of my 13-15 friends don't yet... It's all ok. You'll get there and there's a down side to all that pube...
    gayandproud13 gayandproud13 13-15, M 1 day ago

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    I'm getting ready to be in a pageant I'm freaking out my mom hasn't coached me all that much and I don't know what color eyeshadow to wear or in what way to put it on I have a pic...
    Khaleesi1Regan Khaleesi1Regan 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Yeah!!!!! I am at the point where I am fine with not having a friend. I was 21 when I wanted to have friends,whateva. I like being by myself and I never have any problem going...
    Hannarose Hannarose 22-25, F Aug 1

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    I actually prefer it this way. Sure, it's nice to have a friend, but why trust someone who can stab you in the back at anytime? I prefer to be alone. No one can stab you in the...
    BENDrowned BENDrowned 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    I used to talk to a lot of people everyday but we've drifted in the past year or so which is sad. I'd really love to talk to new people, so hello talk to me? haha, please keep in...
    raehmm raehmm 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    I have 0 real friends and i don't have any problem with having no friends, cause i have internet :D
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M Aug 15

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    I'm not completely sure why I even signed up on this site, yet alone posting a story. At the end of the day, I know that this will not improve nor will it change anything about my...
    LilMsUnknown LilMsUnknown 36-40, F Aug 13

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    I find no use in meeting people as very few turn out to be helpful, they just pretend to be friends but apparently they are not.I do know that I am in secured in terms of trust but...
    darkheart93 darkheart93 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 30

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    I'm going to make this short and sweet. I don't have to explain myself to anybody. Nobody is perfect and nobody has the right to judge me. If you're going to be my friend, then be...
    ChristiBoo2014 ChristiBoo2014 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I know that i am existing and not living and that is a real thing. It hurts a s i know but what i can do as for my health situation and for being trapped in a lot of issues that...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    He left us right after my younger sister was born, and my younger sister was born when I wasn't even a year old yet. Which means that I grew up without a father, without knowing a...
    Celal Celal 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I only have 2 real friends, and i m crushing on one of them...I don't have many friends...People always tell me to make more friends, but I think I am picky in making friends...don...
    RainbowSpectrum RainbowSpectrum 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 7

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    I don't have a lot of friends ,just a few close ones but even they don't know me fully...I've never ever had a bff nor do I ever think I will...the close friends I have are too...
    MariaGrace95 MariaGrace95 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    Don't have cable, no satellite, dish, nothing. Grew up without it & have never had it to this day! :o
    brunettebarbie14 brunettebarbie14 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    I don't have the technology to gain access to such "apps" :-(
    queerinthehead queerinthehead 41-45, M Aug 17

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    I don't know why, but I don't like them, and actually, I'm afraid of having children with disabilities...
    kripunova kripunova 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 27

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    Well I don't really want to talk about it but any ways, I don't live with my dad. My mom raise me. n I lived with him n my mom for only 3 1/2 or 4 years then we couldn't take it...
    intellinerdgirl intellinerdgirl 13-15, F Jul 27

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    I don't take **** from anyone. I will speak up if needed. I don't like liars or *** holes.
    xoxokendyl xoxokendyl 16-17, F Aug 2

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    I don't like doing anything anymore. I have no friends and don't even want to make any friends. I am a creative person and like crafts and home projects... I buy the supplies and...
    Clumsy25 Clumsy25 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    If we talk, that's fine, but I really don't need you to survive, don't expect open arms and holy raptures
    nakedicecreamwars nakedicecreamwars 18-21, M Jul 28

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    I'm too young to retire and too old to be hired. No one wants what I've gained in a lifetime of experience and knowledge. I get turned down for job after job that I know I could do...
    ForcedFloridian ForcedFloridian 61-65 2 Responses Aug 4

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    I'm pretty simple, I'm a down to earth kinda chic. People don't see what's beneath the outer layer, sure men pretend to want to get to know me but the fact is finding someone who...
    shimmersandsparkles shimmersandsparkles 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    I don't think smoking is bad or disgusting at all, but my brother does. He hates it so much that he completely disowns family over it. I've been curious about smoking, and the...
    LeonardFinch LeonardFinch 16-17, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I don't hate them, I just think they're annoying and I have low patience. I hate when people say "you were a kid once" and "just wait until you have some" because I thought kids...
    WhatTheFrenchToast WhatTheFrenchToast 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 4

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    I'm stupid.... I promised I wouldn't make anymore but what did I except?
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 6

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    Age 31, my periods began to flow on their own. My periods have been fairly regular since. I'm wanting to get pregnant! I hope I can now. My last 2 ultrasounds didn't show anymore...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Aug 7

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    I'm 18 and I still haven't gotten my period my doctor says I'm a late bloomer but find that hard to believe so I get really scared because I feel like until it comes I'll never be...
    Alisa54 Alisa54 18-21, F Jul 27

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    Where am I going with my life, I had it all planned out I thought, but plans change, I served in the ARMY, planned using my training and experience to get a decent paying job,buy...
    fire1019 fire1019 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 30

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    I really don't. I don't get called or texted, for so long that it now feels awkward otherwise.
    SecretsOut14 SecretsOut14 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    I really am tired of everything. I don't want to commit suicide. I just hate living, everything hurts. I can't bare this feeling.
    ohida ohida 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    I've got only one brother. were just two. my brother hates me. Coz i don't give money to him. why? coz he's a womanizer. He's a bad brother. One night he shouted at me and he said...
    yodatheching yodatheching 22-25, F Aug 3

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    Like wow... My mother had actually gave me a birthday hug today. It wasn't even that awkward either. She even gave me a birthday card. Well, it was a week earlier, but that was...
    CharleeLuv CharleeLuv 18-21, F Aug 12

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    After reading all the posts I was extremely relieved that I wasn't alone. It did however make me face the mirror of fear staring back at me to motivate me to stay on this path...
    earleone93 earleone93 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    I'm pretty young to be making the decision to have kids or not. Personally, I HATE children and would never willingly have them. How could you love something so sticky and loud...
    Raven1313 Raven1313 18-21, F Aug 16

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    I grew up in a dysfunctional family and also wanted the close knit bonds I saw on the Walton's, the Brady Bunch, or Partridge family so I thought I could just create it but found...
    lllewyd lllewyd 56-60, F 45 mins ago

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    I had a friend who was murdered by her ex-boyfriend. He was the father of both of her children. Her son was 5 and her daughter was 3. He shot his ex-girlfriend and his own 3yr old...
    LilMsUnknown LilMsUnknown 36-40, F Aug 13

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    Who hasn't? Anyone who hasn't at least applied a stereotype to someone are either too young to reason or are lying. It's what makes us human, picking on someone else's differences...
    OneFive OneFive 22-25, M Jul 28

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