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I Don't Have Any Female Friends

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    I've Almost Always Preferred The Company Of A Man

    I have always had a steady boyfriend or husband since I was in my mid teens but the only time I had female friends was when I was unhappy in my heterosexual relationship (or in between relationships with men) and my female friend was unhappy in hers too.   When I was a kid, I...
    FoxyLady47 FoxyLady47 61-65, F Jan 2, 2012

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    Have Never Had Female Friends

    I don't really know why. I have a wonderful husband, but other women treat me like I have "pariah" written on my forehead. It's always been this way. I had a couple friends for short periods of time who dropped me without explanation, and there are...
    UnaTheDragon UnaTheDragon 26-30 6 Responses Jul 13, 2009

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    I Avoid Women At All Cost They React Very Extremelyt O Me.

    It has been like this all my life. I was kind of a tom boy as a pre teen. Maybe because I was raised by a mother who was extravagantly lovely and with high IQ.She never had a coffee clutch and wasn"t one for idle chatter with 'the girls...
    Wigstand Wigstand 51-55 3 Responses Aug 18, 2009

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    No Future Bridesmaids?

    I'm new to the site, found it by googling actually.  I'm as girly as they come, fashion and shopping are two words always associated with me, I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and although I'm super quiet I've never been the type to not talk to anyone that starts...
    Stilettos Stilettos 26-30, F Sep 18, 2009

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    Girl Friends

    I have never really had a lot of GIRL friends.  Maybe because I am a tom-boy, maybe because I am bi-sexual and have feared the end of the friendship when I've developed a crush that wasn't reciprocated.  Or maybe because I am not the most social person and can be quite...
    hippieheart hippieheart 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 6, 2007

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    All the friends I had since childhood have been gone for 4 years now. I could hardly remember half of their names. There are some exceptions, but I still don't have any friends...
    BloodFanatic BloodFanatic 18-21, M a week ago

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    I don't have any friends In my area. I wish I had that way I can hang out and stay close. I hate riding the bus and train. I don't mind traveling but I can't stand the bus and...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Any females from essex? Or Romford in specific? x
    essexlad1 essexlad1 26-30, M Feb 21

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    I sit alone at lunch, a senior in high school and no friends whatsoever. Plus I live in a town with like 20,000 people so even though we are on the map, I won't find any people...
    natalie243 natalie243 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Strange experience: So I do have a large group of friends, the problem is they all live in the USA while I live in the UK. I have been here for 3 years and I about to graduate but...
    Hereforlols Hereforlols 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 22

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    Anyone in Chelmsford or Colchester
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 22

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    Lived in my town for 4 years. Still haven't spoken to anyone including neighbors. Never been approched. I'm not one to reach out or initiate though.
    Averageguy41074 Averageguy41074 36-40, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I don't have any real friends (besides my boyfriend). I feel bad because people are always trying to hang out with me, but I just don't want to put forth the effort of maintaining...
    lilymegami lilymegami 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I know that I'm partly, if not wholly, to blame for not doing my part to keep in touch (they never really tried either) but by the end of school I was so damned closed off from...
    PsychicRed PsychicRed 26-30 Feb 20

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    I've been feeling terrible for a year. I have depression. I go to school, I can't do things, it's hard to study because of it, I can't put myself into pieces and I've ruined almost...
    lilysthoughts lilysthoughts 16-17, F Feb 19

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    I wish I had a friend I could play guitar with. I haven't had any friend's in over 10 years.
    mitchmiller1969 mitchmiller1969 41-45, M 6 hrs ago

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    My best friend is honestly my only friend and I think he's gonna get tired of me sooner or later and we live together which doesn't help my loner status at all. He says I need my...
    spicegirlsfan808 spicegirlsfan808 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    And I never really seek them out. The only relationship I've ever really put any value into has been one with a girlfriend. But right now I have nothing because while I was in a...
    idontknow2658 idontknow2658 18-21, M Feb 21

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    I don't know why. people dislike me. I have nothing in common with them.
    cycffuff cycffuff 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 13

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    My problem is that I just push people away and I don't want them to get to know me.
    Mindofanintrovert Mindofanintrovert 16-17, F Feb 20

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    But I know it's partially my fault. I chose to enroll in home school, and I am too socially awkward to ever soak to anyone I don't know. I have surrounded my whole world around my...
    makaelaf3 makaelaf3 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 21

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    I have many good acquaintances but very few friends.
    gish1897 gish1897 13-15, F Feb 13

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    Well I have 1 friend... my best friend...
    Mindofanintrovert Mindofanintrovert 16-17, F Feb 20

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    the smaller your circle, the better.
    sel27 sel27 16-17, M Feb 2

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    start randomly asking my questions!
    peddyvamp2 peddyvamp2 16-17, F Feb 15

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    I consider myself to be a movie aficionado, but I don't have friends who enjoy films like I do. I love really any kind of film, from silent films to cult-classics to modern day...
    Fighting4Freedom Fighting4Freedom 16-17, F Feb 8

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    It's almost like the ones of us that don't have any are more the oddity than people who do. I like them on others. My husband has them. He loves that my skin is natural.
    tornadowinds tornadowinds 46-50, F 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    When I was younger I like the idea of becoming a mother until my nephew became a Father for the first time and his drama mama ex girlfriend keeps calling my mother to babysit so...
    FrostyElsie FrostyElsie 22-25, F Feb 8

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    You notice I never gave up on you even though all you care about is yourself. I know it’s all about you, other people's thoughts and emotions don’t matter to you, right? Why...
    Johnviolinist823 Johnviolinist823 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 2

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    I don't know what to think about God anymore!!! I mean still believe In him I just don't know if I want to serve him. I'm just tired of praying over and over again..... I'm lost, I...
    isabel16 isabel16 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 18

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    I don't belong anymore, no anywhere i have tried to keep strong so i can help others, but i just can't, i just don't belong anymore no anywhere :'(
    nathchalk97 nathchalk97 18-21, M Feb 21

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    I've been screwed over...a few times in relationships. I now think I'm broken. I'm numb to the idea of opening up to anyone in a new relationship. I've currently started dating a...
    brokenpetal brokenpetal 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    Not that I'm going to do anything drastic because of it. But I don't believe anyone has a reason to live, there isn't one unless you make one. And even if you make one it isn't...
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    I tried two cigarettes. Both in my early teen years, trying to impress some girls. It didn't work. I don't smoke anything now. I love the smell of certain pipe tobacco but j can't...
    cdbrez cdbrez 46-50, M Feb 8

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    I don't have a boyfriend. Am I sad? No. Am I jealous of people who do? No. I don't need a boyfriend. I don't need someone telling me I'm pretty, because I know I am. I don't need...
    BrokenCorpse BrokenCorpse 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 3

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    There is a reason why we call the past as past. Yet, some people especially family seem to equate it with the present. I understand that at some point we get to "reminisce" old...
    spinsteronthemove spinsteronthemove 36-40 Feb 9

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    I don't have a physical type, age has never mattered. it's always been about being able to have fun and being to make each other smile, and feel good and confident
    Techtonic Techtonic 26-30, M 4 days ago

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    Do we keep a part of selves hidden for fear of rejection and getting hurt? Why is it so hard to just put myself out there for all to see? Naked and vulnerable. Even here on EP...
    dancingWATERz dancingWATERz 51-55, F 13 Responses Feb 10

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    I fifteen,I just entered highschool. I can't find my place in any group. I watched how my friends changed during this few months... I don't like it ,they are mean now. I was felt...
    Vicky47 Vicky47 13-15, F Feb 21

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    everytime a holiday comes up, like today, i feel more and more lonelier. i'm suppose to have a family, but the government took that away. my boyfriend is with his family. hes mad...
    everythingisfallingapart everythingisfallingapart 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 19

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    All of my friends have someone and I don't. I'm turning 21 in about a month and a half and I haven't even had my first kiss. I seriously think nobody will ever fall in love with me...
    vonniebeth vonniebeth 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 14

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    iv never liked kids...even when I was a child other kids were playing with baby dolls and i couldn't stand them...I would rather play with barbies and video games. from the time i...
    phinixmak phinixmak 26-30 Feb 19

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    I guess you could argue that I brought it on myself, that it's a choice. Then again, I still don't think there's anything wrong with being an idealist. Back in the day when I was...
    SpaceTurtle SpaceTurtle 31-35, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I have no relationship with my father...he left when I Was six...he told me he was just going to do a job...then he left and only came back every other day. Those visits became...
    ChrisLN99 ChrisLN99 13-15, M Feb 2

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    I really don't,since no one ever did anything good to me and I will always try to do good for others. ,cause im not like others .
    Johnnystha Johnnystha 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 8

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    my father has depression but he doesn't want to accept it my mom says that. he spend all his time on surfing the net he is absolutely addicted to it . i think he even hasnt been...
    h4ppyf4ce h4ppyf4ce 18-21, F Feb 9