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I Dont Have Any Friends

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    I have a hard time talking to people.

    I'll get to excited and talk too much or feel anxious and out of place and don't talk to anyone. I just want to be home but when I'm home I feel so lonely and depressed. I don't understand myself. Life sucks sometimes.
    at0114 at0114 31-35, F Feb 25

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    For the most part I don't have any friends.

    It's mainly because my life really doesn't align with the lives of others anymore. I'm just a gal tryna be on the right path but...everybody's out here doing crazy sh that I'm just not with so...I just stick to myself. I KNOW a ton of people. Friends with very few tho.
    pinkkcotton pinkkcotton 26-30, F Feb 24

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    Everytime I Laugh Out Loud I Am Screaming In My Mind

    I hang out with them in college. I share rooms with them. We are one group living in one hostel. But there is never a 'group'. There are MANY political groups. The girls don't respect me. All my life I've been taken for granted. All my life I have never spoken up for myself...
    prisonbreaktempt prisonbreaktempt 18-21, F Jan 11, 2013

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    "No Friends."

    "No Friends." Everyone is fake.
    WhoisChaff WhoisChaff 26-30 5 Responses Jan 16, 2012

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    I Really Don't!

    Sometimes I think it's me, like I am too needy but I never ask anyone for anything. It is always other people wanting stuff from me...my opinions...a ride...money. I don't know why I don't have any friends but I think it is starting to get to me. I wonder if I am not nice enough...
    luvinbbygrl10 luvinbbygrl10 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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    All Are Selfish

    ALL MY FRIENDS MAKE FRIENDS 4 THEIR BENIFITS ;I DONT HAVE ANY FRIEND
    agentajith agentajith 18-21, M 2 Responses May 12, 2012

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    Now It's Not The 'case'

    I didn't have any Friends before. Since I'm on 'Experience Project' I have found my way. I only hope that things will go like that ....So, I'm sure you will find FRIENDS also. Good Luck. BenChell.
    BenChell BenChell 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 8, 2012

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    I find myself always feeling depressed

    because of this. I am 16 and in 10th grade. I had many friends but over the past years I realized I been loosing them. I don't know if it's because of school work and trying to keep up the good grades and never finding time to hangout with them. But as I try to communicate with...
    ItsAguss ItsAguss 16-17, F Feb 24

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    So What

    I dont have any friends.For some reason i think its better because i never have to go through the bs of having them let you down somehow or vice versa.Theres people im cool with and i appreciate but i just dont feel the need to have that emotional attatchment with them. It wasnt...
    lurkisa lurkisa 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 13, 2012

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    I've Tried

    well... so anytime I've tried to be friends with a another girl they always wind up giving me these little insults... recent morsels include: you're flat chested you have no a$$ you're so cute you don't know how to talk to guys, let me show you how hahaha... -_- I am not flat...
    Peanut300 Peanut300 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 19, 2012

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    I'm Damned In Friendship!!

    I never really had any true friends. I made a lot of friends, and thought they were my close and best friends. But with time I realized they only used me for their own reasons, and when I wasn't needed no more they never cared. I have been friends to people who have been...
    bluie19 bluie19 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 1, 2012

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    I Can Never Seem To Get Close To People

    I don't belong to any peer groups. I'm a young woman with a young child who works either with people a lot younger than me (16-24 years) or older than me (35 and older). I'm a nerd, a child at heart, and yet I'm too old to get my younger co workers, and I'm deemed too young to...
    dfordragonfly dfordragonfly 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 25, 2013

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    I Do Not Have Any Good Friends

    I do not have any good friends and would love to have lasting friendships with people who can help me in all aspects of life and i would like to help them back. Is anybody there?
    voox voox 41-45, M 3 Responses Jan 18, 2010

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    I Feel So Alone

    It makes about five years now that I have no friends. People surrounding me are colleagues, brothers and sisters. For me a friend is somebody with whom you can share everything in life. Unfortunately, I haven’t found anybody with whom to open my heart. My family is too near in...
    BenChell BenChell 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 7, 2012

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    I honestly don't have alot of friends.

    I usually make friends by following them around until they notice me. I'm too shy to strike up a conversation with a stranger, due to my social anxiety. I only have one true friend, who is my best friend. When it comes to needing someone to talk to about my problems, I feel like...
    Hipstercatlover Hipstercatlover 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    "friend" Is A Painful Word Now.

    "Friend" is a hard word to hear now, I have no friends (well duh, look at this group) and I discovered that all of the friends I had in the past where just there for ulterior motives. I'm a female who made friends whom where dudes because I click with them, unlike girls. The...
    Soarre Soarre 18-21, T 4 Responses Jan 10, 2011

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    Jealous About All the People With Friends

    Hey guys, My normel feelings are already dead. Only thing thats left is lonliness. I moved from another country to Canada. I though I will enjoy this place, but instead it led me to a meaningless life. Went to two different high school, and because of my weak communication...
    MrLoneliest MrLoneliest 18-21 7 Responses Apr 17, 2009

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    Friends -- Demon In Disguise

    All my "friends" are demon according to me , they are not true friend ., and jealous ... They are not good friends to others also according to me , bcoz  to me the definition of friend is different ......All are good , and behaved nicely , i also behaved very nicely , but never...
    richa12345678 richa12345678 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 22, 2011

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    Throughout highschool i was bullied

    and was solo. I had a few friends but always lost contact and/or got into an arguement. I have one bff that ive known for 6yrs, but sometimes she judges me when i tell het stuff. Now im a sophmore in college and i just hang with family and talk to ppl i met online. I had alot of...
    lovelybutterfly123 lovelybutterfly123 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 31

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    Atleast 1? No.

    I wish I had atleast one person to be my constant companion, even when i did have, others would ****** them from me leaving me alone again. , I try to cheer myself up with positive thoughts but it doesnt work, Maybe being friendless is what im supposed to be -as much as i try to...
    QuietShadow15 QuietShadow15 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 12, 2013

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    Sold And Humiliated

    I don't have or need friends. I have millions of free mason enemies and the rest of the illuminati enemies across the entire world and they labeled me as the anti-Christ. I'm the messiah. You got nothing on me Bush. I don't need friends. My whole town is here to spy and me...
    WhoisChaff WhoisChaff 26-30 Jul 10, 2013

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    Anyone wanna talk or be my friend

    and actually text me ?
    teenpariah teenpariah 16-17, F 10 hrs ago

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    I Have No Friends.

      when i was in high school i had a lot of social friends.now that i have left high school i have no friends at all.i don't get along well with the people in my community.they just don't understand me.i have nobody to talk to these days.sometimes i feel so down and i...
    jamaican123 jamaican123 18-21, M Nov 15, 2010

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    No One To Talk To

    I'm 15 and have no friends. I have no one to talk to and end up talking to myself. I never have anything to do on the weekends and I was really excited for homecoming, but now I don't want to go because I have no date or no group of friends to go with. My life is so pathetic...
    bookworm36 bookworm36 13-15, F 10 Responses Sep 25, 2013

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    Friends

    i am a 13 year old girl with no friends or boyfriedn i offten cut my self and i dont tell anyone exsept liviah who i think of as a friedn but shes not i have no escape root to getaway from my abusive dad and no friend sto tell eather and my life is a lie , a complete lie someone...
    katsykatastraphy katsykatastraphy 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 2, 2012

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    I find it hard making new friends ever

    since I moved away from my hometown.
    yourrbrother yourrbrother 18-21, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I Want A Friend!

    I recently started college and am now living away from home. i feel so lonely here! people are nice, but i feel like the people i would want to be friends with or hang out with dont feel the same way. I am a pretty quiet person so it is hard for me to just go up to people and...
    kriten123 kriten123 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 31, 2009

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    The only friends I have

    now are those I know from my workplace. Yes, I've gotten closer to 1 or 2 but not as close as I'd like it to be. I used to be really close with three other girls and we were friends for more than 10 years. We made a pact to always be together. The four of us. It was perfect...
    IzWhite IzWhite 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 19, 2013

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    Friends Are A Buck In Your Pocket

    Out of many of the enlightening experiences I have had in my short life, one of the most significant was when I was ganged up against in high school by most of my girlfriends. I had started dating and experimenting falling in love and some of them told me I was a bad friend for...
    cleargerman cleargerman 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 15, 2012

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    No True Friends

    I'm a teenager its first year in high school I have no real friends.I have aqaintences but no REAL friends.I always feel sooo lonley.One of my "friends"from middle school goes 2 my new school too and he's made TONS of friends idk how.When I try to talk to my mom about it she...
    xoLaLaLovexox xoLaLaLovexox 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 3, 2013

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    How Hapless I Am...

    Im no longer in my teenage years. Im now in my late 20's. Im hopeless and desperate enough to find best friend in my life. One is enough for me. No preferences in age, color, race or gender... Hope to find one in God's blessings... Tell me what to do with this life !!! Better...
    HappyguyinAbuDhabi HappyguyinAbuDhabi 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 27, 2012

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    Is It Worth To Suffer Fools? - Just To Feel That You Have Someone To Be With.

      I am a happily married guy with 3 kids. But I have no friends. I dont know whether it is me or is everyone I meet is from a different planet? I am a quiet guy. But I know I am a wonderful person who can be a great friend. This fact makes me more sad because I cant share...
    smile100 smile100 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 17, 2012

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    I Dont Have Any

    friends...  just acquaintances!
    cobram cobram 31-35, M 3 Responses Apr 16, 2012

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    Throughout high school I was very social.

    . And now? I have like no friends. I honestly think I forgot how to make friends!
    june1103 june1103 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 3

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    Whenever I See My Class Mates Make Plans

    i feel like such an outcast, they're always making plans on friday nights, to go to bars, go to some *******'s party and get  drunk and take advantage of the drunken chicks there and they dont even bother to aknowledge me in their convesations, it's like, there's a circle of...
    Vivec Vivec 22-25, M 5 Responses Sep 12, 2009

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    Feel Like I'm Doomed To Be Friendless

    It seems I only had one best friend as a child,and the friend broke my heart she stabbed me in the back,when she went to middle school she found a thousand friends; and never wanted to be friends with little old me again.In one of my jobs I hung out a few times with this girl who...
    maeviac13 maeviac13 22-25, F Aug 31, 2013

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    I Do But I Don'T

    I know quiet a few people but I don't call any of them a good friend. I work with other students and go to parties with them sometimes. But I always feel excluded or too shy to join in. There's no one who is like me. Talking to strangers or people I've just met is great but often...
    ThoughtfulFlower ThoughtfulFlower 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 26, 2013

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    I feel like I can only make friends over the

    internet. Even then, most of them stop talking to me. I started thinking that there's something wrong with me and even got into a deep depression because of this. I feel like I'm a kind person and I care sooo much about people, but no one ever cares about me in return. I've...
    misstuffsy misstuffsy 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 4

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    The Desire For Simple Human Interaction

    Night after night, I sit in my apartment, feeling more alone than the night before. As a college-student, society tells me that I am supposed to be out partying every bit of my self-dignity away, but that's a little difficult when I have no friends in this town. I would love to...
    bazinga05 bazinga05 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 6, 2012

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    I Agree With This Group

       So I just want a real relationship of some sort. I am not most people I am friendly open and energetic in public but one on one or in smaller more intimate groups I am more serious and direct.  I am not fake or anything just a bit different in public than with an inner...
    fyrestryke fyrestryke 26-30, M Jan 17, 2012

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    I Really Just Want A Friend.

    I mean, I have "friends" but it seems like I don't. What even is the definition of a friend? And why does it seem like everyone around me has great friendships but I'm here like I talk to my "best" friends once a month/every few months? I dont know. And I'm surrounded by church...
    kimberly8352 kimberly8352 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 29, 2013

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    At Least None That Are Deserving Of The Title

    I am so irrelevant to the group of people I socialize with that I might as well not even exist. It's funny how that works. It's funny that one can have a little social group but no friends. I am contemplating just not talking to them for a long period of time. Perhaps one of them...
    UnhappinessPersonified UnhappinessPersonified 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 26, 2011

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    No Real Friends

    just acquaintances ........with their immaturity and bullshit ...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 28, 2013

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    M Too Jelous People With Friends

    i mooved from my own island to male for study purpose. i thought i can get better friends with home i can share my life but i was wrong i was always alone i didint get a close friend every one just lies and want use me. after completing my o level i join FHS to become a nurse. i...
    winglessbutterfly1992 winglessbutterfly1992 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 18, 2009

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    I Feel So Alone

    It makes about five years now that I have no friends. People surrounding me are colleagues, brothers and sisters. For me a friend is somebody with whom you can share everything in life. Unfortunately, I haven’t found anybody with whom to open my heart. My family is too near in...
    BenChell BenChell 41-45, M Aug 7, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I don't have any friends. I used to. I actually had quite a lot when I was in high school. But that was 5 years ago, and I'm in college, have a boyfriend and a busy job. They all...
    RunningFree32 RunningFree32 18-21, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    I don't have anyone who i feel is truly my friend, but i will stay optimistic cause i believe that every one definitely has that one friend they can be with and i wait till that...
    xMisty xMisty 13-15 1 Response Mar 23

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    i know how people say they don't have friends and their all alone and no one cares. but they're just saying that so their 10+ friends will give them attention. well its like that...
    stupendouscat stupendouscat 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'll be someone's friends!!! I like talking to people and I don't care who you are I will listen to you and all your problems and be your friends! :)
    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    It is official...I went to the men's Sunday school class as usual today. All college educated, successful, wealthy and retired. I explained new career isn't working out and needed...
    1490wayb 1490wayb 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 30

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    So I guess it mostly all started when my best friend unexpectedly passed. We were fourteen. From then on it was just downhill. I still had my initial group of friends throughout...
    PassionEarth9 PassionEarth9 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I need a good friend. I feel so alone all the time and I am so depressed.
    princesszoe13 princesszoe13 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 28

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    I'm a high school freshman and I don't have any friends at all in school. I'm anti-social and I'm really shy. When I'm in school, I always skip lunch because I have no one to sit...
    SuperKitty99 SuperKitty99 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 12

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    I am able to accept that I don't have any friends. I have acquaintances. Sometimes I do wish I had people to go out with on my off days but other than that I am content. I am not...
    PinkDolphins PinkDolphins 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 30

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    its not like i dont have any friends, well only if i use the world's criteria of friend. a lot of people claim to be my friend. but for me they are just acquiantances. and i dont...
    mstud17 mstud17 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    The only one person that I thought would stay is gone to, I officially have no one. I want to cry but it's not worth it . Ugh it's like I have curse that pushes everyone away. I'm...
    teenpariah teenpariah 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago