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I Dont Have Any Friends

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    I Really Just Want A Friend.

    I mean, I have "friends" but it seems like I don't. What even is the definition of a friend? And why does it seem like everyone around me has great friendships but I'm here like I talk to my "best" friends once a month/every few months? I dont know. And I'm surrounded by church...
    kimberly8352 kimberly8352 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 29, 2013

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    All Are Selfish

    ALL MY FRIENDS MAKE FRIENDS 4 THEIR BENIFITS ;I DONT HAVE ANY FRIEND
    agentajith agentajith 18-21, M 2 Responses May 12, 2012

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    I Really Don't!

    Sometimes I think it's me, like I am too needy but I never ask anyone for anything. It is always other people wanting stuff from me...my opinions...a ride...money. I don't know why I don't have any friends but I think it is starting to get to me. I wonder if I am not nice enough...
    luvinbbygrl10 luvinbbygrl10 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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    Ever since I left the marine corps,

    finding worth while friends has taken it's toll in me. I need people that I can conversate with and actually be interested in what they have to say. I don't know if it's because i have walls up or if I just don't see eye to eye with anyone.
    richramz3413 richramz3413 22-25, M 2 Responses May 14

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    I find it hard making new friends ever

    since I moved away from my hometown.
    yourrbrother yourrbrother 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 22

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    No Real Friends

    just acquaintances ........with their immaturity and bullshit ...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 28, 2013

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    The Desire For Simple Human Interaction

    Night after night, I sit in my apartment, feeling more alone than the night before. As a college-student, society tells me that I am supposed to be out partying every bit of my self-dignity away, but that's a little difficult when I have no friends in this town. I would love to...
    bazinga05 bazinga05 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 6, 2012

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    I find myself always feeling depressed

    because of this. I am 16 and in 10th grade. I had many friends but over the past years I realized I been loosing them. I don't know if it's because of school work and trying to keep up the good grades and never finding time to hangout with them. But as I try to communicate with...
    ItsAguss ItsAguss 16-17, F Feb 24

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    I'm just done, I'm done trying to be the friend

    no matter how hard I try people continue to blow me off, I will ALWAYS be second to someone. I think I'm better off with just not talking UNTIL I'm spoke to since no one ever valued me in the first place, I can't even keep a friendship with a guy with out him getting just not...
    somewhatbored somewhatbored 16-17, F 2 Responses May 7

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    I have a hard time talking to people.

    I'll get to excited and talk too much or feel anxious and out of place and don't talk to anyone. I just want to be home but when I'm home I feel so lonely and depressed. I don't understand myself. Life sucks sometimes.
    at0114 at0114 31-35, F Feb 25

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    I Have No Friends.

      when i was in high school i had a lot of social friends.now that i have left high school i have no friends at all.i don't get along well with the people in my community.they just don't understand me.i have nobody to talk to these days.sometimes i feel so down and i...
    jamaican123 jamaican123 18-21, M Nov 15, 2010

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    So What

    I dont have any friends.For some reason i think its better because i never have to go through the bs of having them let you down somehow or vice versa.Theres people im cool with and i appreciate but i just dont feel the need to have that emotional attatchment with them. It wasnt...
    lurkisa lurkisa 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 13, 2012

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    Everytime I Laugh Out Loud I Am Screaming In My Mind

    I hang out with them in college. I share rooms with them. We are one group living in one hostel. But there is never a 'group'. There are MANY political groups. The girls don't respect me. All my life I've been taken for granted. All my life I have never spoken up for myself...
    prisonbreaktempt prisonbreaktempt 18-21, F Jan 11, 2013

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    I've Tried

    well... so anytime I've tried to be friends with a another girl they always wind up giving me these little insults... recent morsels include: you're flat chested you have no a$$ you're so cute you don't know how to talk to guys, let me show you how hahaha... -_- I am not flat...
    Peanut300 Peanut300 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 19, 2012

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    I Do Not Have Any Good Friends

    I do not have any good friends and would love to have lasting friendships with people who can help me in all aspects of life and i would like to help them back. Is anybody there?
    voox voox 41-45, M 3 Responses Jan 18, 2010

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    Atleast 1? No.

    I wish I had atleast one person to be my constant companion, even when i did have, others would ****** them from me leaving me alone again. , I try to cheer myself up with positive thoughts but it doesnt work, Maybe being friendless is what im supposed to be -as much as i try to...
    QuietShadow15 QuietShadow15 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 12, 2013

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    No True Friends

    I'm a teenager its first year in high school I have no real friends.I have aqaintences but no REAL friends.I always feel sooo lonley.One of my "friends"from middle school goes 2 my new school too and he's made TONS of friends idk how.When I try to talk to my mom about it she...
    xoLaLaLovexox xoLaLaLovexox 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 3, 2013

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    For the most part I don't have any friends.

    It's mainly because my life really doesn't align with the lives of others anymore. I'm just a gal tryna be on the right path but...everybody's out here doing crazy sh that I'm just not with so...I just stick to myself. I KNOW a ton of people. Friends with very few tho.
    pinkkcotton pinkkcotton 26-30, F Feb 24

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    M Too Jelous People With Friends

    i mooved from my own island to male for study purpose. i thought i can get better friends with home i can share my life but i was wrong i was always alone i didint get a close friend every one just lies and want use me. after completing my o level i join FHS to become a nurse. i...
    winglessbutterfly1992 winglessbutterfly1992 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 18, 2009

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    Whenever I See My Class Mates Make Plans

    i feel like such an outcast, they're always making plans on friday nights, to go to bars, go to some *******'s party and get  drunk and take advantage of the drunken chicks there and they dont even bother to aknowledge me in their convesations, it's like, there's a circle of...
    Vivec Vivec 22-25, M 5 Responses Sep 12, 2009

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    Friends -- Demon In Disguise

    All my "friends" are demon according to me , they are not true friend ., and jealous ... They are not good friends to others also according to me , bcoz  to me the definition of friend is different ......All are good , and behaved nicely , i also behaved very nicely , but never...
    richa12345678 richa12345678 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 22, 2011

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    I have feelings but I don't show it.

    I am an honest person and keep to myself. I don't have a lot of friends. I'm out numbered cuz I have a kind personality and I'm always the one doing things for ppl. Than they turn their backs on me. It doesn't matter too me. I like it that way. No drama and nobody pinning their...
    Justadarkhole Justadarkhole 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 4

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    I Can Never Seem To Get Close To People

    I don't belong to any peer groups. I'm a young woman with a young child who works either with people a lot younger than me (16-24 years) or older than me (35 and older). I'm a nerd, a child at heart, and yet I'm too old to get my younger co workers, and I'm deemed too young to...
    dfordragonfly dfordragonfly 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 25, 2013

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    Sold And Humiliated

    I don't have or need friends. I have millions of free mason enemies and the rest of the illuminati enemies across the entire world and they labeled me as the anti-Christ. I'm the messiah. You got nothing on me Bush. I don't need friends. My whole town is here to spy and me...
    WhoisChaff WhoisChaff 26-30 1 Response Jul 10, 2013

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    somewhatbored somewhatbored 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 22

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    And I LOVE it. It's true

    that hurtful experiences have made me not trust easily and that sometimes it's lonely. BUT. I'm bored to death when engaged in meaningless and stressful small talk (I like talking about concepts that can't just be thrown between weather talk and yesterday's night routine) so, I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 30

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    Now I know why I don't have any friends -I'm

    stupid -I'm ugly -I'm boring -I'm garbage -I'm too shy -I'm not talkative -I have problems -I cut -I have social anxiety -I'm too fat -I'm not pretty or beautiful -I'm invisible -I don't matter -I'm judged and bullied everyday -just no one wants to be around me in general...
    Ki123 Ki123 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 13

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    At Least None That Are Deserving Of The Title

    I am so irrelevant to the group of people I socialize with that I might as well not even exist. It's funny how that works. It's funny that one can have a little social group but no friends. I am contemplating just not talking to them for a long period of time. Perhaps one of them...
    UnhappinessPersonified UnhappinessPersonified 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 26, 2011

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    How Hapless I Am...

    Im no longer in my teenage years. Im now in my late 20's. Im hopeless and desperate enough to find best friend in my life. One is enough for me. No preferences in age, color, race or gender... Hope to find one in God's blessings... Tell me what to do with this life !!! Better...
    HappyguyinAbuDhabi HappyguyinAbuDhabi 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 27, 2012

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    "friend" Is A Painful Word Now.

    "Friend" is a hard word to hear now, I have no friends (well duh, look at this group) and I discovered that all of the friends I had in the past where just there for ulterior motives. I'm a female who made friends whom where dudes because I click with them, unlike girls. The...
    Soarre Soarre 18-21, T 4 Responses Jan 10, 2011

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    "No Friends."

    "No Friends." Everyone is fake.
    WhoisChaff WhoisChaff 26-30 5 Responses Jan 16, 2012

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    I Want A Friend!

    I recently started college and am now living away from home. i feel so lonely here! people are nice, but i feel like the people i would want to be friends with or hang out with dont feel the same way. I am a pretty quiet person so it is hard for me to just go up to people and...
    kriten123 kriten123 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 31, 2009

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    I Dont Have Any

    friends...  just acquaintances!
    cobram cobram 31-35, M 3 Responses Apr 16, 2012

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    Throughout high school I was very social.

    . And now? I have like no friends. I honestly think I forgot how to make friends!
    june1103 june1103 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    I'm Damned In Friendship!!

    I never really had any true friends. I made a lot of friends, and thought they were my close and best friends. But with time I realized they only used me for their own reasons, and when I wasn't needed no more they never cared. I have been friends to people who have been...
    bluie19 bluie19 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 1, 2012

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    heyidontknow heyidontknow 16-17, M Jun 11

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    I Do But I Don'T

    I know quiet a few people but I don't call any of them a good friend. I work with other students and go to parties with them sometimes. But I always feel excluded or too shy to join in. There's no one who is like me. Talking to strangers or people I've just met is great but often...
    ThoughtfulFlower ThoughtfulFlower 18-21, F Oct 26, 2013

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    I feel like I can only make friends over the

    internet. Even then, most of them stop talking to me. I started thinking that there's something wrong with me and even got into a deep depression because of this. I feel like I'm a kind person and I care sooo much about people, but no one ever cares about me in return. I've...
    misstuffsy misstuffsy 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 4

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    Jealous About All the People With Friends

    Hey guys, My normel feelings are already dead. Only thing thats left is lonliness. I moved from another country to Canada. I though I will enjoy this place, but instead it led me to a meaningless life. Went to two different high school, and because of my weak communication...
    MrLoneliest MrLoneliest 18-21 7 Responses Apr 17, 2009

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    The only friends I have

    now are those I know from my workplace. Yes, I've gotten closer to 1 or 2 but not as close as I'd like it to be. I used to be really close with three other girls and we were friends for more than 10 years. We made a pact to always be together. The four of us. It was perfect...
    IzWhite IzWhite 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 19, 2013

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    I honestly don't have alot of friends.

    I usually make friends by following them around until they notice me. I'm too shy to strike up a conversation with a stranger, due to my social anxiety. I only have one true friend, who is my best friend. When it comes to needing someone to talk to about my problems, I feel like...
    Hipstercatlover Hipstercatlover 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    No One To Talk To

    I'm 15 and have no friends. I have no one to talk to and end up talking to myself. I never have anything to do on the weekends and I was really excited for homecoming, but now I don't want to go because I have no date or no group of friends to go with. My life is so pathetic...
    bookworm36 bookworm36 16-17, F 10 Responses Sep 25, 2013

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    Throughout highschool i was bullied

    and was solo. I had a few friends but always lost contact and/or got into an arguement. I have one bff that ive known for 6yrs, but sometimes she judges me when i tell het stuff. Now im a sophmore in college and i just hang with family and talk to ppl i met online. I had alot of...
    lovelybutterfly123 lovelybutterfly123 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 31

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    Feel Like I'm Doomed To Be Friendless

    It seems I only had one best friend as a child,and the friend broke my heart she stabbed me in the back,when she went to middle school she found a thousand friends; and never wanted to be friends with little old me again.In one of my jobs I hung out a few times with this girl who...
    maeviac13 maeviac13 22-25, F Aug 31, 2013

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    Friends Are A Buck In Your Pocket

    Out of many of the enlightening experiences I have had in my short life, one of the most significant was when I was ganged up against in high school by most of my girlfriends. I had started dating and experimenting falling in love and some of them told me I was a bad friend for...
    cleargerman cleargerman 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 15, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Had to write this after reading a question, because it seems many people on EP say they don't have friends. Understandable, believable as we are on here and being social. Some of...
    dustypork dustypork 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 16

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    Since I have moved to Portland 10 months ago, I haven't made any friends. I find most of the people here boring and superficial. I find people here in the Pacific Northwest very...
    derkosmonaut derkosmonaut 41-45, M 3 Responses Jul 3

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    I don't have any physical friends I wish I had a bestie anyone in the New Jersey area
    lonelymami lonelymami 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    because of shyness, even though I really am interested in people and have a desire to socialize. This is the sole reason I joined this site. Bit of a novel, I'm sorry. I've come...
    yyz1 yyz1 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 29

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    I moved to Vegas from Europe. I don't have a drivers license and nothing is within walking distance. My friends from home never writes to me anymore. I feel so lonely.
    Desertnight Desertnight 22-25, F Jul 2

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    All the people who think they are my friends are from school. All of them are religious and hate gays. So they are not my friends. I wish I had someone to talk to about things...
    marcusru marcusru 16-17, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I tend to drift away from people too many times, so I tend to find myself with a select few as friends.
    RoddyB7589 RoddyB7589 16-17, M Jul 2

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