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I Dont Have Any Friends

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    Friends Are A Buck In Your Pocket

    Out of many of the enlightening experiences I have had in my short life, one of the most significant was when I was ganged up against in high school by most of my girlfriends. I had started dating and experimenting falling in love and some of them told me I was a bad friend for...
    cleargerman cleargerman 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 15, 2012

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    "friend" Is A Painful Word Now.

    "Friend" is a hard word to hear now, I have no friends (well duh, look at this group) and I discovered that all of the friends I had in the past where just there for ulterior motives. I'm a female who made friends whom where dudes because I click with them, unlike girls. The...
    Soarre Soarre 18-21, T 4 Responses Jan 10, 2011

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    somewhatbored somewhatbored 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 22

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    Sold And Humiliated

    I don't have or need friends. I have millions of free mason enemies and the rest of the illuminati enemies across the entire world and they labeled me as the anti-Christ. I'm the messiah. You got nothing on me Bush. I don't need friends. My whole town is here to spy and me...
    WhoisChaff WhoisChaff 26-30 1 Response Jul 10, 2013

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    I'm just done, I'm done trying to be the friend

    no matter how hard I try people continue to blow me off, I will ALWAYS be second to someone. I think I'm better off with just not talking UNTIL I'm spoke to since no one ever valued me in the first place, I can't even keep a friendship with a guy with out him getting just not...
    somewhatbored somewhatbored 16-17, F 2 Responses May 7

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    Feel Like I'm Doomed To Be Friendless

    It seems I only had one best friend as a child,and the friend broke my heart she stabbed me in the back,when she went to middle school she found a thousand friends; and never wanted to be friends with little old me again.In one of my jobs I hung out a few times with this girl who...
    maeviac13 maeviac13 22-25, F Aug 31, 2013

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    I've been a very introvert child.

    I guess I still am. That may be the reason that I still don't have any friend. I thought I had a few friends when I was in school. But in the senior year, I messed up my life because of an older guy. At that time when I needed my friends badly, I found them criticizing me behind...
    Rita099 Rita099 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    I Have No Friends.

      when i was in high school i had a lot of social friends.now that i have left high school i have no friends at all.i don't get along well with the people in my community.they just don't understand me.i have nobody to talk to these days.sometimes i feel so down and i...
    jamaican123 jamaican123 18-21, M Nov 15, 2010

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    I find it hard making new friends ever

    since I moved away from my hometown.
    yourrbrother yourrbrother 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 22

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    I feel like I can only make friends over the

    internet. Even then, most of them stop talking to me. I started thinking that there's something wrong with me and even got into a deep depression because of this. I feel like I'm a kind person and I care sooo much about people, but no one ever cares about me in return. I've...
    misstuffsy misstuffsy 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 4

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    M Too Jelous People With Friends

    i mooved from my own island to male for study purpose. i thought i can get better friends with home i can share my life but i was wrong i was always alone i didint get a close friend every one just lies and want use me. after completing my o level i join FHS to become a nurse. i...
    winglessbutterfly1992 winglessbutterfly1992 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 18, 2009

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    I have feelings but I don't show it.

    I am an honest person and keep to myself. I don't have a lot of friends. I'm out numbered cuz I have a kind personality and I'm always the one doing things for ppl. Than they turn their backs on me. It doesn't matter too me. I like it that way. No drama and nobody pinning their...
    Justadarkhole Justadarkhole 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 4

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    I Do But I Don'T

    I know quiet a few people but I don't call any of them a good friend. I work with other students and go to parties with them sometimes. But I always feel excluded or too shy to join in. There's no one who is like me. Talking to strangers or people I've just met is great but often...
    ThoughtfulFlower ThoughtfulFlower 18-21, F Oct 26, 2013

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    heyidontknow heyidontknow 16-17, M 1 Response Jun 11

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    And I LOVE it. It's true

    that hurtful experiences have made me not trust easily and that sometimes it's lonely. BUT. I'm bored to death when engaged in meaningless and stressful small talk (I like talking about concepts that can't just be thrown between weather talk and yesterday's night routine) so, I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 30

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    I have a hard time talking to people.

    I'll get to excited and talk too much or feel anxious and out of place and don't talk to anyone. I just want to be home but when I'm home I feel so lonely and depressed. I don't understand myself. Life sucks sometimes.
    at0114 at0114 31-35, F Feb 25

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    I actually don't. Well not friends in real life,

    I have some on the internet. Anyways, before I get too off topic, I always thought that if I were to lose y last friend, I wouldn't even know what to. But surprisingly, I'm relived. Is there something wrong with me?
    Ellyhi Ellyhi 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    Ever since I left the marine corps,

    finding worth while friends has taken it's toll in me. I need people that I can conversate with and actually be interested in what they have to say. I don't know if it's because i have walls up or if I just don't see eye to eye with anyone.
    richramz3413 richramz3413 22-25, M 2 Responses May 14

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    I Really Just Want A Friend.

    I mean, I have "friends" but it seems like I don't. What even is the definition of a friend? And why does it seem like everyone around me has great friendships but I'm here like I talk to my "best" friends once a month/every few months? I dont know. And I'm surrounded by church...
    kimberly8352 kimberly8352 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 29, 2013

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    Jealous About All the People With Friends

    Hey guys, My normel feelings are already dead. Only thing thats left is lonliness. I moved from another country to Canada. I though I will enjoy this place, but instead it led me to a meaningless life. Went to two different high school, and because of my weak communication...
    MrLoneliest MrLoneliest 18-21 7 Responses Apr 17, 2009

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    I honestly don't have alot of friends.

    I usually make friends by following them around until they notice me. I'm too shy to strike up a conversation with a stranger, due to my social anxiety. I only have one true friend, who is my best friend. When it comes to needing someone to talk to about my problems, I feel like...
    Hipstercatlover Hipstercatlover 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    I find myself always feeling depressed

    because of this. I am 16 and in 10th grade. I had many friends but over the past years I realized I been loosing them. I don't know if it's because of school work and trying to keep up the good grades and never finding time to hangout with them. But as I try to communicate with...
    ItsAguss ItsAguss 16-17, F Feb 24

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    Throughout high school I was very social.

    . And now? I have like no friends. I honestly think I forgot how to make friends!
    june1103 june1103 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    "No Friends."

    "No Friends." Everyone is fake.
    WhoisChaff WhoisChaff 26-30 5 Responses Jan 16, 2012

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    Whenever I See My Class Mates Make Plans

    i feel like such an outcast, they're always making plans on friday nights, to go to bars, go to some *******'s party and get  drunk and take advantage of the drunken chicks there and they dont even bother to aknowledge me in their convesations, it's like, there's a circle of...
    Vivec Vivec 22-25, M 5 Responses Sep 12, 2009

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    Friends -- Demon In Disguise

    All my "friends" are demon according to me , they are not true friend ., and jealous ... They are not good friends to others also according to me , bcoz  to me the definition of friend is different ......All are good , and behaved nicely , i also behaved very nicely , but never...
    richa12345678 richa12345678 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 22, 2011

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    Throughout highschool i was bullied

    and was solo. I had a few friends but always lost contact and/or got into an arguement. I have one bff that ive known for 6yrs, but sometimes she judges me when i tell het stuff. Now im a sophmore in college and i just hang with family and talk to ppl i met online. I had alot of...
    lovelybutterfly123 lovelybutterfly123 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 31

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    For the most part I don't have any friends.

    It's mainly because my life really doesn't align with the lives of others anymore. I'm just a gal tryna be on the right path but...everybody's out here doing crazy sh that I'm just not with so...I just stick to myself. I KNOW a ton of people. Friends with very few tho.
    pinkkcotton pinkkcotton 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 24

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    No Real Friends

    just acquaintances ........with their immaturity and bullshit ...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 28, 2013

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    No One To Talk To

    I'm 15 and have no friends. I have no one to talk to and end up talking to myself. I never have anything to do on the weekends and I was really excited for homecoming, but now I don't want to go because I have no date or no group of friends to go with. My life is so pathetic...
    bookworm36 bookworm36 16-17, F 10 Responses Sep 25, 2013

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    I Do Not Have Any Good Friends

    I do not have any good friends and would love to have lasting friendships with people who can help me in all aspects of life and i would like to help them back. Is anybody there?
    voox voox 41-45, M 3 Responses Jan 18, 2010

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    How Hapless I Am...

    Im no longer in my teenage years. Im now in my late 20's. Im hopeless and desperate enough to find best friend in my life. One is enough for me. No preferences in age, color, race or gender... Hope to find one in God's blessings... Tell me what to do with this life !!! Better...
    HappyguyinAbuDhabi HappyguyinAbuDhabi 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 27, 2012

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    and I like It that way.

    the way I see it its only drama. I hate being shy -__-
    hellhound44 hellhound44 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 6

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    before immigration to this country,

    i was having a lot of friends, all were from my university,school. i was a kind of guy who always been in company of friends. here in a new culture, its being more than a year and i dont make any friends, i do a job even at university there are lot of students, in the beginning...
    zoroleaks zoroleaks 26-30 1 Response Aug 6

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    No True Friends

    I'm a teenager its first year in high school I have no real friends.I have aqaintences but no REAL friends.I always feel sooo lonley.One of my "friends"from middle school goes 2 my new school too and he's made TONS of friends idk how.When I try to talk to my mom about it she...
    xoLaLaLovexox xoLaLaLovexox 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 3, 2013

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    Now I know why I don't have any friends -I'm

    stupid -I'm ugly -I'm boring -I'm garbage -I'm too shy -I'm not talkative -I have problems -I cut -I have social anxiety -I'm too fat -I'm not pretty or beautiful -I'm invisible -I don't matter -I'm judged and bullied everyday -just no one wants to be around me in general...
    Ki123 Ki123 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 13

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    Atleast 1? No.

    I wish I had atleast one person to be my constant companion, even when i did have, others would ****** them from me leaving me alone again. , I try to cheer myself up with positive thoughts but it doesnt work, Maybe being friendless is what im supposed to be -as much as i try to...
    QuietShadow15 QuietShadow15 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 12, 2013

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    I Want A Friend!

    I recently started college and am now living away from home. i feel so lonely here! people are nice, but i feel like the people i would want to be friends with or hang out with dont feel the same way. I am a pretty quiet person so it is hard for me to just go up to people and...
    kriten123 kriten123 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 31, 2009

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    I Can Never Seem To Get Close To People

    I don't belong to any peer groups. I'm a young woman with a young child who works either with people a lot younger than me (16-24 years) or older than me (35 and older). I'm a nerd, a child at heart, and yet I'm too old to get my younger co workers, and I'm deemed too young to...
    dfordragonfly dfordragonfly 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 25, 2013

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    I usually start to grow apart from my 'best

    friends' and it annoys me of how busy I get with absolutely nothing but watching fûcking Netflix, depression is ruining my life...
    hereismydumbusername hereismydumbusername 22-25, F Aug 6

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    The only friends I have

    now are those I know from my workplace. Yes, I've gotten closer to 1 or 2 but not as close as I'd like it to be. I used to be really close with three other girls and we were friends for more than 10 years. We made a pact to always be together. The four of us. It was perfect...
    IzWhite IzWhite 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 19, 2013

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    I Dont Have Any

    friends...  just acquaintances!
    cobram cobram 31-35, M 3 Responses Apr 16, 2012

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    High school ended and

    so did friendships.
    EmiTru EmiTru 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    Yeah!!!!! I am at the point where I am fine with not having a friend. I was 21 when I wanted to have friends,whateva. I like being by myself and I never have any problem going...
    Hannarose Hannarose 22-25, F Aug 1

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    I've never been the type to have a lot of friends, never more than 2 or 3, but now I have none. The only person who I would actually consider a friend is out of the country until...
    aj2456 aj2456 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 3

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    I actually prefer it this way. Sure, it's nice to have a friend, but why trust someone who can stab you in the back at anytime? I prefer to be alone. No one can stab you in the...
    BENDrowned BENDrowned 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    I used to talk to a lot of people everyday but we've drifted in the past year or so which is sad. I'd really love to talk to new people, so hello talk to me? haha, please keep in...
    raehmm raehmm 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    I live on a small island everyone is related I come from the largest families on this island but I seem to have trouble making friends I'm always considered the lame, the loner, or...
    alymo1 alymo1 16-17, F Aug 4

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    I don't have any friends, I have a girlfriend who makes fun of me with her friends and it's knocked my confidence
    Trionak1993 Trionak1993 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    So ever since I graduated highschool I haven't had any friends. I used to have a ton. Throughout middle-school I was a dweeb but during highschool everyone liked me and I had at...
    ifearsnowmen ifearsnowmen 18-21, M Aug 8

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    I have no friends . I had a lot of good and bad ones I guess you can say . I had plenty of great , motivating , positive friends freshman and sophmore year but I traded them for...
    MbVG MbVG 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    When I was in school I saw how my classmates were bullying weaker ones, I listened how they talked **** behind their own friends backs. And I always imagined what it feels like to...
    Gelezinis Gelezinis 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 16