I Dont Have Any Friends

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    Throughout highschool i was bullied

    and was solo. I had a few friends but always lost contact and/or got into an arguement. I have one bff that ive known for 6yrs, but sometimes she judges me when i tell het stuff. Now im a sophmore in college and i just hang with family and talk to ppl i met online. I had alot of...
    A1Csladiie A1Csladiie
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 31, 2014

    i feel like a total **** up i dont have any

    friends i live in the middle of nowhere i just want to put a .38 to my head and kill myself nobody would care i mean i have no one that cares about me:(
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jan 22, 2015

    haven't hung out with a friend in years.

    my reality is I only had one friend and she lived 2 hrs away but we grew apart. I never made any friends because I don't have anything in common with most of the people I meet. my only friend right now is my boyfriend and I'm sure that's not healthy but that's how I always been...
    taylercm taylercm
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 10, 2015

    and I like It that way.

    the way I see it its only drama. I hate being shy -__-
    Omegawolf11 Omegawolf11
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Aug 6, 2014

    I've been a very introvert child.

    I guess I still am. That may be the reason that I still don't have any friend. I thought I had a few friends when I was in school. But in the senior year, I messed up my life because of an older guy. At that time when I needed my friends badly, I found them criticizing me behind...
    Rita099 Rita099
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 15, 2014

    meh I feel so lame posting this

    but I don't know where else to let off these feelings especially when i feel them so intensely (close to getting my period lol) I guess i had some friends growing up but looking back i was always a weird kid maybe because of my parents maybe just because i dont know then from...
    idkkk25 idkkk25
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 23, 2015

    I do prefer it that way.

    Because then I don't hurt anyone. And no one else hurts them either. I'm more of a lone wolf than whatever the hell else is the other choice.
    thinisgoodana thinisgoodana
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Feb 10, 2015

    I find myself always feeling depressed

    because of this. I am 16 and in 10th grade. I had many friends but over the past years I realized I been loosing them. I don't know if it's because of school work and trying to keep up the good grades and never finding time to hangout with them. But as I try to communicate with...
    ItsAguss ItsAguss
    18-21, F
    Feb 24, 2014
    butterflybaby123 butterflybaby123
    13-15, F
    1 Response Jul 30, 2015

    True enough! Oh I have the odd blast from the

    past via Facebook. But other than one or two regular correspondents on EP, that's about it!
    picklebobble picklebobble
    51-55, M
    Aug 30, 2015

    I used to have friends,

    I don't know what happened
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 27

    thank god I live to fight another day,

    for how long, well nobody knows really!
    Ineedoutofthishellhole Ineedoutofthishellhole
    22-25, M
    1 Response Aug 30, 2015

    I actually don't. Well not friends in real life,

    I have some on the internet. Anyways, before I get too off topic, I always thought that if I were to lose y last friend, I wouldn't even know what to. But surprisingly, I'm relived. Is there something wrong with me?
    sighselly sighselly
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Aug 8, 2014

    Life gets unbearable especially at times

    when you feel like no one cares about you and youre alone in this world. My name's Claire :), Youre most welcome to chat to me through skype : live:clairesekgobela :) no pervs please. Just here to help
    QuietShadow15 QuietShadow15
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 10, 2015

    How do you guys deal with this

    because I'm giving in
    ihatemyself22 ihatemyself22
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 20, 2015
    ThatGuyEveryoneHates ThatGuyEveryoneHates
    18-21, M
    1 Response Dec 7, 2014

    I have feelings but I don't show it.

    I am an honest person and keep to myself. I don't have a lot of friends. I'm out numbered cuz I have a kind personality and I'm always the one doing things for ppl. Than they turn their backs on me. It doesn't matter too me. I like it that way. No drama and nobody pinning their...
    YourSecretAdmire22 YourSecretAdmire22
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jul 4, 2014

    I dont have any friends.

    .. im not really that shy but i guess i dont have a fun or interesting personality. Today my boyfriend and i were talking about if we got married who would we invite.. Now i cant stop thinking that i had no one.
    Emiiii Emiiii
    18-21, F
    Aug 26, 2015

    I have family that loves me,

    i consider myself really lucky.. But people my age dont like me, my own friends are avoiding me now, they dont text or call me, never ask "how are you", we all used to be goodfriends but, idk they just stopped talking to me
    oneeyedswordsmen oneeyedswordsmen
    18-21, M
    1 Response May 3, 2015

    since i came to n.y or in my country i had no

    friends it was really lonely i sat down alone in lunch everybody would mock me and say bad things to me so i was lonely i wished that when i have a friends i would share everything but that was only a wish so that's how my life went i don't know whats wrong with me i wish when...
    gamergirlo gamergirlo
    16-17, F
    1 Response Feb 25, 2015

    Well real once at least.

    I have those people to talk to to keep a person sane. other than that No. I trust people and it screws me up, so I have stopped trying.
    MustYouTry MustYouTry
    13-15, M
    3 Responses Feb 10, 2015
    BloodEpiphone BloodEpiphone
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Feb 11, 2015

    I do actually have friends.

    But there's plenty of times when that doesn't feel true. I say **** it. I'm living life happily on my own currently working as a technician something I've wanted to do for a long time and I'm still in college for Automotive Technologies. I have a full 7 day a week schedule. I...
    Devilscar Devilscar
    22-25, M
    1 Response Nov 6, 2015

    In real life i have like 1

    or 2 so ya im super lonly
    Moonpawsrabbitofthemoon Moonpawsrabbitofthemoon
    16-17, T
    1 Response Dec 7, 2014

    Throughout high school I was very social.

    . And now? I have like no friends. I honestly think I forgot how to make friends!
    june1103 june1103
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 3, 2014

    After a breakup, i was hoping my girlfriend,

    my best friend and only friend, would be able to still be friends with me. After 5 days of recovery, and not hearing anything from her at all, she calls me. She either wanted me to get back together with her, or we would go our separate ways. Sge was the one who started the...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 13, 2015

    I have no real friends I feel like something is

    wrong with me nobody likes me and if I meet somebody they end up turning on me
    waterdrop15 waterdrop15
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 4, 2015

    I have apd, I want to make friends

    but I just... can't...
    xForgottenOne xForgottenOne
    18-21, F
    Feb 10, 2015

    "No Friends."

    "No Friends." Everyone is fake.
    WhoisChaff WhoisChaff
    26-30
    5 Responses Jan 16, 2012

    I never made any friends in school

    and I'm almost 20 and I still don't have any friends. I'm so sad and alone all the time.
    disasterland disasterland
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 27, 2015

    I don't have any friends.

    I know sometimes people say that, and they really have friends. but I actually have no friends and its kinda pathetic. I am a junior and I wanted to do online high schooling this year because I have no friends but my dad said no because he thinks that I need to socialize more...
    UnusualArtist UnusualArtist
    16-17, F
    5 Responses Nov 16, 2015

    how am I supposed to have friends

    if I Cant invite them to my dads house . and hangout . I mean I did it with my guy friend . but my dad was telling me to tell him to leave already . it hurts my feelings . especially my dads a Christian . and im not a Christian yet . so whats the point of me having "friends...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 19

    believe it or not, I don't have any friends.

    it's all good in the hood though. hopefully I'll make some when I start college :) majority of the time they would end the friendships. I would try being the best friend I could possibly be. I was a genuine friend but apparently that wasn't enough. oh well lol.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    7 Responses Nov 6, 2015

    and I´m always lonely in real life.

    It pains so much! :-(
    Loretta78 Loretta78
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Sep 17, 2015

    I am a 19 years old girl

    and dont have a social life! I am really close to my family and I love that, but sometimes I feel the need of having a close friend to talk to... Like going out with them and do crazy stuff... But I dont 😔
    ohevelin ohevelin
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 13, 2014

    And I LOVE it. It's true

    that hurtful experiences have made me not trust easily and that sometimes it's lonely. BUT. I'm bored to death when engaged in meaningless and stressful small talk (I like talking about concepts that can't just be thrown between weather talk and yesterday's night routine) so, I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jun 30, 2014

    Everyone I know is pregnant.

    ..except one person. She's been my best friend since sophomore year in high school. We had a lot of things in common. We ended up catching feelings for each other and kissed. We've talked about going on dates and hanging out more.....every time I ask her to hang out she'll blow...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 26, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 31, 2015

    im different from everyone else.

    i just simply dont fit in. i feel like i have to put on an act for people socially to fit in.
    nebulaX nebulaX
    16-17, M
    Aug 30, 2015

    The only friends I have

    now are those I know from my workplace. Yes, I've gotten closer to 1 or 2 but not as close as I'd like it to be. I used to be really close with three other girls and we were friends for more than 10 years. We made a pact to always be together. The four of us. It was perfect...
    IzWhite IzWhite
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Dec 19, 2013

    I'm afraid to get close to people

    because I've been left so many times in the past. Am I crazy?
    Mhaydon Mhaydon
    18-21
    3 Responses Feb 10, 2015
    LanniLette LanniLette
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Dec 7, 2014

    I was homeschooled, so the only friends I had

    growing up were neighbors. As I got older in my teen years and branched out I just found I couldn't relate to most girls, so I didn't really try too hard to be friends with them. But I've always craved a lot of love and someone to love. So a boyfriend has pretty much been all I...
    taliahood taliahood
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 12, 2015

    I dont have friends because im shy.

    When people talk to me I dont know what to respond or how to express myself. I think im a very boring person. My english its not perfect and when i speak it I have an accent. I know im not a boring person because I have much to tell if a person has a conversation with me, but I...
    abdel300 abdel300
    16-17, M
    2 Responses Aug 9, 2015
    lmaowut lmaowut
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 16, 2014

    High school ended and

    so did friendships.
    EmiTru EmiTru
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 8, 2014
    MacKiiY MacKiiY
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jul 29, 2015

    I've lost them All one by one in the past 3

    years. I feel So alone but my pride Won't let me crawl back to them. I just want some new friends.
    VerucaRose VerucaRose
    26-30, F
    Aug 29, 2015

    I never had a ton of friends

    but since I got married and had kids, they all kinda went away and I no longer have any really good, close friends.
    jefferyrocket jefferyrocket
    36-40, M
    1 Response Feb 7

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