I Don't Have Any Friends

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    Well I always wanted friends

    but I don't know how it's hard to make them i tried so many times to but nope I don't have any
    winterblood winterblood
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Jul 18, 2015

    It's kinda sad how friends are lost

    so often when you get older that you don't even bother to try and make anymore. In my country you can't trust many people because they may stab you in the back or end up betraying you. I used to be a people person...and everyone and anything could be my friend if they were...
    Sometimesilence Sometimesilence
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jul 11, 2015

    The reason is because I don't need friends.

    I'm fine and can function without friends. I don't need friends in order to be happy. I don't care and it doesn't matter that I don't have any. I'm independent. I love my life with zero friends. Life without friends is the way I like it. I generate happiness, excitement, joy...
    joahola98wj joahola98wj
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 17

    Every time I get used to being around someone

    and think of them as a friend they stop talking to me for no reason.
    RainbowCrayon666 RainbowCrayon666
    16-17, F
    1 Response Dec 5, 2015

    Nobody is talking to me

    after I broke up with my boyfriend. He and I seem totally fine with each other, but all of his friends, and all of our mutual friends are going crazy saying I'm a horrible person for breaking up with him partly in email, and that I the reasons I gave made it sound like I'm...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 7, 2015

    I don't have friends.

    No one likes my personality or the things I'm in to. It's really horrible :(
    punkmabbitt punkmabbitt
    13-15, F
    Aug 5, 2015

    A very sad but true reality

    for me. What are friends, are they make believe?
    XwonderlustX XwonderlustX
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 15

    Not Sure How To Make Friends Anymore

    I'm 36 and I have no friends. There was a time that I had what I thought were friends, but as it turns out I was just a friend of convenience. That was 5 years ago, and it felt awful to have been treated that way for so long. I always felt like I was a good, fun, caring, and even...
    Frankenzombie Frankenzombie
    36-40, M
    Oct 14, 2013

    There's nobody in real life

    that I can relate to
    RainbowCrayon666 RainbowCrayon666
    16-17, F
    Jan 31

    I miss my cousin. I pushed him away

    when I war younger,because I was too "cool". Now I'm paying for it, he never seemshe never wants to hang out. He never answers my phone calls, or replies to text. It makes me cry on the inside, I love him so much. The nicest, most intelligent guy ever. Anyone have a idea how to...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jul 15, 2015

    I always end up pushing friends away

    for being too clingy or lose them by saying rude things to them while I've been drinking. The truth tends to come out on what I think of them when I've had a few too many. And it's usually because they won't be available when I want them to be. So as of right now I have zero...
    TainoPrincess84 TainoPrincess84
    31-35, F
    1 Response Feb 18

    I'm Not Sure Why...

    I am a 20-year-old female. I am extremely friendly, upbeat, empathetic and funny. I really don't think there is anything wrong with me, persay. I do not think people find me annoying at all. I am neither shy nor dull. So I don't know what the problem is... I have...
    OrangeSky44 OrangeSky44
    26-30, F
    40 Responses Sep 2, 2009

    I have a friend but not the kind i want,

    she is selfish arrogant and sometimes a b***h. and because of that i really feel like i have no friends. Before, i was prefere to be alone i enjoyed it, but now i have many things in my mind that i wanna share it with someone, i need friend that listens to me and gives me...
    manel2504 manel2504
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Dec 19, 2014

    Feeling So Alone.

    I am feeling particularly lonely tonight. You get those days where you are used to it and you can handle it, but then, you get those days where you feel it more then usual and you just need someone else to understand how it feels to have no one. It's Saturday night, it doesn't...
    ForestRain ForestRain
    31-35, F
    15 Responses Feb 18, 2012

    I Have No Real Friends

    My name is Jess, and I don't really have freinds. All my life I've been a disposable follower. Every "friendship" I've ever had ends up the same way no one tells me what's going on they just never talk to me again. It is like I don't belong anywhere. I'm not exactly a social...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jul 28, 2012

    I get attached to people far too easily,

    Then it truly freakin' hurts when I finally realise that I mean nothing to them.
    gh0st13 gh0st13
    18-21, F
    13 Responses Jun 7, 2014

    Daily Struggle

    I work at a place where everyone is ignoring me. Where if I make a mistake everyone see it but if someone else does its fine.no one offers me their freindship and when I turn my back every one is saying something bad about me or laughing at me.this is my every day.Plus I have...
    trisstess trisstess
    26-30
    5 Responses Mar 7, 2013

    When I was younger I was quite popular actually,

    but not anymore, for some reason everyone started to ignore me and I never knew why... :'( Somehow my sister knew about it and started to bully me at home which made me stop having confidence in my self and I ended up alone whiteout anyone to talk to... ;"(
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jun 22, 2015

    Where`S My Freinds Gone!

    It is funny I had about 30 friends I grew up with through public and high school , but then around turning 25, 30 everyone started to get married including myself I moved to QLD and just lost contact with everyone they are all pretty much in the same place,, I still hear from...
    TransLisa TransLisa
    46-50, T
    6 Responses Apr 5, 2013

    I seem to never fit in,

    I used to be friends with allot of people in the sixth grade, but not any more, through the years friends would hang, but eventually disappear. ... in the ninth grade I had no actual friends, just people in my class I talked to. ... I'm about to go into the tenth grade, and...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jul 7, 2015

    I Don'T Have Friends Anymore

    I guess I've always known this, but it was really only during junior and senior year of high school where I fully realized that I didn't have any real friends. I was always “popular” because I was nice and friends with everyone at school. Always tried to get to know people...
    TadaAsatoorian TadaAsatoorian
    22-25, M
    May 10, 2013

    I have like no one to talk to at all.

    Some times I feel like I'm drowning with all my sorrow. Just wish I had someone to really talk to.
    Soldiergirl3 Soldiergirl3
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jul 17, 2014

    it's not that i'm an introvert person

    or anything like that as a matter of fact i'm very social i just have a certain definition to that of a friend it's not just anyone u hang with or u stick around coz u don't wanna be alone u have to actually connect with that certain person otherwise it's just another...
    CynicalMaster CynicalMaster
    18-21, M
    3 Responses May 12, 2014

    People r mostly annoying.

    Besides I get bad anxiety when I'm around more than a few people.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Sep 24, 2015

    I Don't Have Any Friends.. But I Think I Know Why And That Gives Me Hope.

    I'm 32 year old male and I've found myself having drifted away from the people I was close to. The few that remain I can only spend so much time with before we have nothing left to say. And some friends that I should probably stop associating with. When I'm alone, it hits me...
    nx2059 nx2059
    31-35
    3 Responses Oct 30, 2011

    Friends ? What's That ?

    I'm 20 yrs old I will be 21 soon. I sometimes cannot believe that I do not have any true friends. I spend most of my time on the Computer playing games or trying to socialize on Facebook. But I have had no luck till now. I changed my city last year and I made some good friends...
    Tien101 Tien101
    22-25, M
    7 Responses May 2, 2011

    It Is Hard

    it is hard to watch everyone and be the solitary clown just smiling about with no reason to ... being brave is so overrated! i have not any friends. not friends that i can call on a whim and  talk to  about even the simple things. how hurtful. how damaging  but...
    mmjgg mmjgg
    31-35, M
    7 Responses May 21, 2010

    So i seriously never had a friend

    or a best buddy. Really sad tbh. The "friends" i had, are more into smoking, xtc a.k.a. drugs than hanging out with me. I met last summer lots of new people. But they don't care about me. Also they're ignoring me. I asked them today if some people wanted to skate tomorrow. I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 27, 2015

    I Wish I Have Best Friend

    Do you know this feeling when you see some other people having fun, then you look urself and you see one lonely freak. I feel that too ! * Looking some friends from NJ
    printsess printsess
    22-25
    8 Responses Jun 10, 2013

    Alone and Always Alone

    Hey I've read alot of your stories and I can relate. I've become severly deepressed because of the whole "not having friends" thing and you start to wonder if you are really important to other people...Well Here where I live Ancaster, Ontario Canada, besides the nice...
    VioletFinch VioletFinch
    16-17
    4 Responses Nov 26, 2008

    Never experienced the joy of having friends.

    The people i knew, all ******* leave me for drugs and stuff. I guess Smoking **** and xtc is more important than me.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 21, 2015

    I don't have any friend.

    O feel alone. Please anyone with the same condition send me ur whatsapp number so that I can atleast share my feelings with him...
    Dilpreet1997 Dilpreet1997
    16-17, M
    Feb 19

    I actually prefer it this way.

    Sure, it's nice to have a friend, but why trust someone who can stab you in the back at anytime? I prefer to be alone. No one can stab you in the back, yell at you, tell you how to live your life, tell whether or not you actually did something, etc. It's just an easier...
    BENDrowned BENDrowned
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 1, 2014
    ryanmona ryanmona
    18-21, M
    1 Response Feb 19

    Not Even One.

    Honestly, I prefer it this way. It isn't exactly that I'm alone. I have a fantastic family, and a loving boyfriend. But I've never felt like I needed a friend, since Asher died. No one could replace him. No one could measure up to a friendship like that one. So I guess I don't...
    ChemicalVision ChemicalVision
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 13, 2013

    As I got older I just grew out of my friends .

    . I didn't or couldn't relate to them anymore I didn't like how they lived thur lives or how they treated people & treated me .. I didn't want to be associated with any of my friends I couldn't trust .. Thur supposed to be my friend why do they talk to people I'm in odds with...
    missyluvsmissy4me missyluvsmissy4me
    41-45, F
    1 Response Mar 22

    and i am happy 100% without any friends

    and with friends i am 100% sad sad sad
    Thedepressedgirlatthewindow Thedepressedgirlatthewindow
    16-17, F
    Nov 3, 2015

    Well, technically I do.

    Many people would think I have quite a lot, but in reality I can't think of ONE person that's genuinely there for me. My friends don't know any of my problems, and if I told them it'd just turn into gossip. They're so immature it's like we're still in high school. My best...
    EverlyLeex EverlyLeex
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 9

    I haven't had a real friend

    since I graduated high school. Nowadays I spend time by myself at home not doing much and going to class not talking much to anyone. I'm in a ldr with someone who I only see 1-2 times a year and who doesn't really make as much effort as I do to talk to one another, because he...
    bornaverage bornaverage
    18-21, F
    Mar 15

    I don't have any friends

    and it sucks.
    calmbear calmbear
    26-30, F
    Mar 18

    I was on here before

    but left after 2 days. I regret my decision . I haven't had any friends in 6 years and I was overwhelmed, I was being a coward and a hypocrite and for that I am so ashamed of myself...😐
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response May 9, 2015

    I've never been the type to have a lot of

    friends, never more than 2 or 3, but now I have none. The only person who I would actually consider a friend is out of the country until school starts, and I know she doesn't consider me a good friend like I consider her. Since I graduated, I don't talk to or hang out with...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Aug 3, 2014

    People Are Just Scum

    You can't really trust anyone. People are vicious and nasty. They will smell weakness and exploit it mercilessly. I was bullied and beaten through the entirety of elementary and high school. I thought thinks get better in college. They don't. No one beats or bullies you...
    pyramidhead pyramidhead
    22-25, M
    12 Responses Apr 10, 2012

    it has been years since I've actually hung out

    with friends. honestly, I don't think anyone really wants to be around me.
    TheCroissant TheCroissant
    18-21, M
    Feb 19

    I'm 17 and I don't consider my acquaintances

    as friends either. A true meaning of a friend in my opinion is one who is willing to be there for you at any moment.
    iReallyLoveJorgie iReallyLoveJorgie
    16-17, F
    Apr 20

    Random Thoughts On Not Having Friends

    People have their established groups of friends and there just isn't room for more. I come to see that all the time. Even when I come to see two strangers becoming best friends by mid-semester. I truly believe I'm one of those people who is content without any friends and doesn't...
    beautyfulchaos beautyfulchaos
    22-25, F
    Nov 7, 2012

    Every time I want to hangout with them they say

    that they are busy but one time I asked one of them in private why can't we hangout he said that his father don't like his son hanging out with me because I have a divorced parents. I was like WTF Should I break my relationship with them ? I only walk with them at school and we...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Sep 15, 2014

    Self Doubt

    I feel like people who are notably intelligent sometimes have trouble making friends. Like I'm rather bright but I have questionable social skills. I don’t think, to look at me, most people would assume I am so shy and uncomfortable around strangers because I’m pretty...
    sara3sara sara3sara
    18-21
    8 Responses Jul 1, 2009

    I don't have any friends

    but I don't want any friends because I fear getting close to people because i think they will just eventually walk out of my life no matter how close we were
    iamsal iamsal
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Jan 13

    I'm very tired of having this kind of

    relationships. I'm the only one who cares, I'm always the one who helps everyone but at the end I end up by being alone. I'm very kind towards everyone but no one is kind to me. What's wrong with people ?
    Sempiternaldark Sempiternaldark
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 2, 2015

    Help me if u live in Japan.

    ..this is like destiny lol I don't even have any friends since 2013 and I have no friends for total 7 years...this life sucks as hell
    ggalaxyth ggalaxyth
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Jul 23, 2015

    I don't know why I really feel like I don't

    need any friends. Since I left uni 5 months ago, I cut off all connection with my university friends. Just spending a lot of time alone and with family. Everyone gonna say we need friends in life, but I don't feel like I wanna keep good friend. At the end of the day or if you're...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 11, 2015

    I'm too mean for friends.

    I'm too much of a loud mouth, I start to hate people if they disagree with me a lot (yes, I know it's wrong, but I can't help it. It makes me hate the person), I'm grouchy, I get annoyed by people easily, etc. Also, I don't have much in common with people my age. I always felt...
    MichaelMyers1 MichaelMyers1
    18-21, M
    1 Response May 29, 2015
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