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I Don't Have Any Local Friends

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    Not In There Clic

     i have lived here in this small town for ten years.and at first the people were nice.i would help them,and do things for them.but after my second surgery,i was told i could not do those things.i do not know if they thought i was mad at them or what,but they stopped talking...
    ghostofmyself ghostofmyself 36-40 1 Response Nov 2, 2009

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    FRIENDS Dissapeared

    AFTER MY CAR CRASH MY FRIENDS AND GIRL FRIEND ALL DISSAPEARED BUT WHERE YOU LOOSE SOMETHINGS YOU WILL GAIN OTHERS THAT IS BETTER THEN BEFORE. WELL SEEING IS BELIEVING FOR ME SOFAR
    MEGAVIC2 MEGAVIC2 26-30, M Aug 31, 2009

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    Friends??? What Friends?????

    I kid you not when I tell you I don't have a single friend that I live around. In fact, the only friend I actually have in person and not on the internet (other than my husband of course he is my best friend) is my husband's sister and her friend LOL. Other than that all my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 17, 2012

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    Why Am I Back Here?

    I moved back to my hometown in March of last year, and I wish I hadn't.  I slowly redeveloped friendships with a few people I had went to high school with, but most of the truly good people had left years ago, just like I did. I ended up nurturing 2 friendships more...
    bripeace bripeace 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 15, 2009

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    Hobo Blues

    So I was recently deported from the USA to Canada after many years of riding. RXR my prison tattoo done with a piece of razor wire from the yard and ink made from a mix of pencil and pen. Sharpened on the floor. Concrete. Staph infection in my wrist. Not my brightest moment...
    budrik666 budrik666 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 28, 2013

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    I Never Had Friends

    I am not liked much in my town and I am not positive why.  I never had real friends. People are just too judgemental these days.  I don't have any...
    BBUDS BBUDS 18-21, F Dec 19, 2009

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    Local

    When I was young and in my teens, I've always had friends. After high shool, we parted for different reasons. Between 2003  and 2008 - a few have wanted for us to get back together.   Ok fine!  lol  ... one was rude from day one and I still stuck around out of respect...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 30, 2012

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    Back On The West, But Northwest This Time

    Recently moved to Washington, I have my Fam & bff out here which is great but I have no one else. Would like to make some male friends.
    ThaFlyGurl ThaFlyGurl 41-45, F Nov 11, 2013

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    In A New Place

    I moved to a new state about a year ago. I have tried a few things to make friends but just haven't met anyone that I want in my life. I am starting new classes in the spring an hope that brings new friends! I want friends who will lift me up and support me, people who truly...
    jengoose89 jengoose89 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 2, 2012

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    Stranger In A Strange Land...

    I grew up in S.F and when I was of age moved to Washington State  where I lived for 15 years and now refer to as home. When I got sick and had to leave my job 5 yrs ago I wound up in Southern Illinois in a very rural farming area in a town/village of 300 people. I have...
    zillaron zillaron 51-55, M Nov 19, 2009

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    No....

    I don't have any local friends. I don't have anyone I can call and say, you wanna hang out, or just someone to just hang out with. Someone to just help get my mind off of things. the only friends I have, is my boyfriend, and my friends on Ep, that is really about it, and it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Aug 19, 2009

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    Don't Have Anyone Close Enough To Tell My Story Face To Face, To Share Joy Or Let Loose.

    Just found this website after a brief argument with the wife. I was so angry but I don't really have anyone I can share my story or anger with. I'm over it now but times like these are when I wish I could walk over to a buddy's house and just let loose. Me and the wife are...
    Jeusislife Jeusislife 41-45, M Jul 21, 2012

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    In A Way It's Liberating

    Because when I did in Orlando I always had to deal with the regional preferences of people around me and It was frustrating because I am a soul that has traveled around the country quiet a large bit and my taste in music and ...hobbies... Let's just say the interesting...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M 5 Responses Nov 24, 2009

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    Believe In Them, and Watch How Fast They Forget About You...

    Earlier today I put in another weak attempt to "re-connect" with the people I used to go to school with and whatnot, I felt like an idiot afterwards when half of them replied back asking who it was. I know it's partially my fault for falling out of the loop with these...
    bloodpromise bloodpromise 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 22, 2009

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    No One to Talk To.

    I guess I have brought this on my self but I am tired of it. I have worked long hard hours most of my life. Raised a family with a husband that I thought loved me. I put every thing into making sure they were all happy and didn't think of myself. I never took the time to...
    jane2710 jane2710 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 26, 2009

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    Lacking A Heart To Heart Connection

    I don't really have local friends for a variety of reasons. One being that my reputation of being this happy, go lucky celebrity/clown is impossible to get rid of and as a result - no-one takes me seriously. I also don't drink or smoke or support casual sex which in an Ivy League...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Nov 18, 2009

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    If I Did?

    I wouldn't be on here, well I use to think of that way but I don't know why it really matters anymore?
    NoLifeOnEP NoLifeOnEP 22-25, M Aug 30, 2011

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    I Don'T But I Hope Too

    Since graduating college I have moved a lot, lived and worked in many different places. Which I would not change for the world, they were amazing experiences. I have a few friends, I met over the years not really close but we chat via the phone but recently (being the last 2...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 26, 2013

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    Way Out Of The Way

    I live 30 miles from town and have no car, I have lived here for 6 years and have never been to alother persons house, the people here have always lived here and are totaly closed off to "outsiders", as I am considered. It was not bad when my kids were smaller and running...
    SoFarSad SoFarSad 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 14, 2010

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    And Then There Was One.

    I had one friend. She stayed with me for five years, she was a great person. I almost fell in love with her. If not for the fact she was a lesbian, I would have fallen for her most likely. She and I joked a lot, we had closely similar senses of humour. We liked a lot of the same...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 22, 2012

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    Sometimes Lonely

    I guess I isolated myself during my marriage of 10 years, which is entirely my fault and I accept that.  It is hard for me to meet and make friends with people around here.  Sometimes I want to go with a group or just one other person, but I don't know anyone...
    dharma77 dharma77 41-45, F 4 Responses Aug 31, 2009

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    Dont Have Any Friends

    I am a great hostess I can get a big party together but I dont have any friends, no one is really interested in talking to me, I do have one friend but she never visits me or invites me any where or makes the effort to so I dont really count her as a friend too. the only people...
    KandiGirl KandiGirl 18-21, F 12 Responses Oct 16, 2009

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    Maybe One Or Two.

    I'm different from most of you. I have a physical disability and a Traumatic brain injury.That does not mean I cannot do anything for myself it just means I have difficulty in remembering some things.What those things are I do not know. I have forgotten. lol
    Snookybear Snookybear 36-40, M Mar 21, 2011

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    My Boyfriend'S 1000 Miles Away And My "Friends" Aren'T Really Friends

    The closest thing I have to friends here is a guy I used to hang out with in high school who works full time and I can only see on Saurday evenings, if he's not too tired or hanging out with someone else, the girls at the homeless shelter I'm staying at (who I don't really have...
    halfbloodprincess halfbloodprincess 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2013

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    Talk About Isolated.....

                     ~ I live in a tiny village. Less than 500 people easy. Most are retired farmers, fishermen, or have moved here from the cities. Neither mom nor I drive. When we first moved here, my...
    Wynhaven Wynhaven 36-40, F 9 Responses Aug 18, 2009

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    Simple Reason

    I don't go out and socialize--simple explanation.  I wish the act of actually DOING this was as simple.  The only friends or people I consider acquaintances or friends are from my job, which isn't bad because I don't need a whole group of people to be friends and be...
    filthydieseltech filthydieseltech 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 13, 2010

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    I don't have any piercings or tattoos. I don't think I will ever have any. I don't like them at all and find them a turn off. They can ruin a nice body.
    Danceofhours Danceofhours 36-40, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I don't have anyone to hold me or console me when I'm frightened, sad, not feeling well. I miss that dearly. :( I hope to find that again one day.
    Saram1985 Saram1985 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Life is getting me down. I know I shouldn't complain and that I'm very lucky in a lot of ways but working and studying is taking up all my time. It upsets me that I don't have time...
    Ver24 Ver24 18-21, F 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    Mostly because I'm scared of how my mother is going to judge them, i'm a people pleaser because i grew up with a narcissistic mother and I'm still living with her (about to move...
    TheGuiltTripGirl TheGuiltTripGirl 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    Every time I want to hangout with them they say that they are busy but one time I asked one of them in private why can't we hangout he said that his father don't like his son...
    agent268 agent268 16-17, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I actually do have pube hair. But I know plenty of boys who don't yet. Some of my 13-15 friends don't yet... It's all ok. You'll get there and there's a down side to all that pube...
    gayandproud13 gayandproud13 13-15, M Aug 26

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    i have a few friends but usually they have they're own stuff goin on..so i always find myself alone
    humandisguise humandisguise 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    I'm getting ready to be in a pageant I'm freaking out my mom hasn't coached me all that much and I don't know what color eyeshadow to wear or in what way to put it on I have a pic...
    Khaleesi1Regan Khaleesi1Regan 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    Really no one. I wish my mom would say something to me, I wish she would tell me how much she hates me again. She hasn't said anything to me lately, she hasn't even been here.
    KidAgony KidAgony 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I was just thinking.. not having friends ... means we cant forgive people over small things and then one day there is noone left who has not done anything wrong?
    ShadowlessSoul ShadowlessSoul 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 10

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    Because I cant make friends. I lack basic social skills and the thought of just having to be around people, nevermind talking to them freaks me out :P
    SilenceInBlackAndWhite SilenceInBlackAndWhite 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    The most frustrating thing ever is trying to explain or express what you're going through to someone whose never been through it, they always seem to belittle the situation or make...
    Dauntlesssmile Dauntlesssmile 18-21, F Aug 30

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    Buy me one!! I need this pinnnnnnn
    KittyKatLuvsYhu KittyKatLuvsYhu 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    mskellie36 mskellie36 36-40, F 6 days ago

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    so I don't have gf but I have friends is more good then gf and bf
    hmkspain hmkspain 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 30

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    I have no social life, no feelings for anyone and It feels good. If I loved someone I would be worried the whole time. It's better that I don't have a gf. My sister talks about her...
    Justadarkhole Justadarkhole 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    I just don't know anymore, nothing ever seems to go right for me. I just want to be loved properly instead of people pretending to love me. I hate everyday I wake up. I'm slowly...
    sademptynothing sademptynothing 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    I am 20 years old and I don't have my license or permit. Usually when people turn 16 they are so set on driving and get their permit and license right away. I am not in any kind of...
    Samhopexo Samhopexo 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 8

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    I always knew I was different from other little girls. I hated baby dolls, I never wanted to play "mommy" and when I heard babies in restaurants screaming their heads off I wanted...
    missbellelettres missbellelettres 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 10

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    I'm going to make this short and sweet. I don't have to explain myself to anybody. Nobody is perfect and nobody has the right to judge me. If you're going to be my friend, then be...
    ChristiBoo2014 ChristiBoo2014 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    I know that i am existing and not living and that is a real thing. It hurts a s i know but what i can do as for my health situation and for being trapped in a lot of issues that...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 22

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    He left us right after my younger sister was born, and my younger sister was born when I wasn't even a year old yet. Which means that I grew up without a father, without knowing a...
    Celal Celal 18-21, F Aug 22

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    Never was interested in getting my license. When I was going into high school, the standards were changed, saying that students aren't forced to take driver's class which meant for...
    deadlyrose88 deadlyrose88 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 11

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    I Don't Have A Boyfriend Since Birth.. So Can U Be?
    TheRealYhan TheRealYhan 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 31

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