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I Don't Have Anyone to Talk to

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    I Don't

    The person who usually talks to me the most doesn't ever want to talk about what's bothering me, but it's ok. I want to watch spongebob now.
    musared musared 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2009

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    Antisocial Agoraphobic

    buttom of my pit , shovel in hand, it seems in my 20's I was loved by most all who know me now I have no friends, afraid most of the time to even open my door. i seem to have lost any social or coping skills my love left me five years past &I still cant find a way to fully trust...
    bugjuice42 bugjuice42 31-35 1 Response Apr 28, 2012

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    I Moved To Europe For Love/A Job/And A New Life ... And I Am So Lonely Now

    This is mainly because most of the girlfriends I made here have stopping enjoying my company for whatever reason or I have cut off contact with them because of a bad attitude/situation etc. I had 1 best friend in The States that passed away a few years ago - which was a terrible...
    bella8933 bella8933 46-50, F Jun 27, 2013

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    naifan12 naifan12 13-15, M 1 Response Jun 12

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    Story Of My Life

    I used to keep wondering where it all went wrong. Until about five years ago in high school , I was this relaxed, arrogant, impulsive bully with a lot of friends. Now I'm this lonely, stressed, anti-social freak university graduate with zero close friends and flirting with...
    LaDefense LaDefense 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 2, 2012

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    So I Write On Ep

    There are people I could talk to (friends and family) when I'm feeling discouraged or upset or hopeless, but they don't want to know. I used to talk to them, and a couple of times I got the, "Stop bringing me down" line. Right. I really was sorry about that. It's kind of...
    Sinaname Sinaname 26-30 Nov 1, 2012

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    A Lone

    i wake up alone and then i got to bed alone .... give me free beer if you can
    veghta veghta 26-30 3 Responses Aug 12, 2012

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    Noone Wants To Hear It Anymore

     I am a 47 year old total screw up who's drunk boy friend left her again. I cannot talk to anyone because they all hate him and noone wants to hear anything about it. (including all of you I suspect) In reality he has no redeeming characteristics as far as having a stable...
    erroneous erroneous 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 8, 2009

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    Stuckk

    I'm stuck in a hole that i can't seem to get out. I try all the time to talk to people but i seem so distant from everyone around me, i can't find anyone to talk to. I have so many thoughts and problems but no one to talk to, I wish there was someone who i could just talk to. It...
    misternobrain misternobrain 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 18, 2011

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    Another Night With No One To Talk To.

    Man, I'm getting tired of not having anybody to talk to. I'm nineteen, I should be out all the time, doing things with friends, in a relationship, preparing for my carreer, but instead I'm sitting at home 7 days a week. No one texts, calls, emails or messages me. Ever. They've...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    Like A Broken Record

    These questions keep churning over and over, like a broken record in my head. Sometimes I just feel the need to write because I don't have others to share my thoughts with. Once I tried keeping a private journal but it never felt right. If I'm writing I need to take the time...
    briefclatter briefclatter 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 12, 2013

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    I Feel So Alone

    i'm depressed and just need someone to talk too, i feel as if no matter who i talk too whether its my boyfriend, parents or friends no-one understands. recently i've had suicidal thoughts. i feel as if no-one would care and no-one would notice. but its getting serious for me now...
    1 Response Jan 9, 2013

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    EllenSingh EllenSingh 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 12

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    Heavy Talk... Opening Up...

    I don't talk to my parents cause I think they will not listen.. they're not my bestfriends or anything.. If you'll see most of my old friends parents they are not the type to have a talk to their child.. probably because of the 9-5 thing and undying respect..   I have no...
    amejad amejad 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 29, 2010

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    I have no real friends.

    I hate how in movies there are always a close group of four girls that are best friends forever. I hate how they can share everything with each other and always rely on each other to be there. I hate how it makes me feel unaccomplished because I don't have anybody to rely...
    Niftee Niftee 22-25, F 16 Responses Jul 7, 2009

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    Trapped and Alone In So Many Ways

    Hi, I'm a 23 year old gay guy, and I just graduated from college and moved to Atlanta with my boyfriend.  I am so bored here; working all the time at an entry level job is killing me.  I chose to double major in college with the intention of going to law school. ...
    downandinatlanta downandinatlanta 22-25 3 Responses Aug 21, 2009

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    Isolated

    I feel extremely isolated and lonely because honestly, I don't really have anyone to talk to anymore. The only two people I ever felt comfortable sharing things with are both gone now, and I don't know what to do...
    gorejussxpsycho gorejussxpsycho 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 23, 2013

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    Alone

    I like to be left alone. But when people don't notice I'm absent, it hurts. And I know it's my own fault for becoming invisible, for isolating myself. But just once I want someone to notice. I want someone to truly notice and care.
    delilaahx delilaahx 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 13, 2013

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    Filling Lonely

    So I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. And it's been a very crazy and bumpy ride! In the past year I have graduated college and he finally got his teaching certificate. And I am ready to get married and have kids. I would love to have kids before I'm 30. But he already let...
    Mgomez21 Mgomez21 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 18, 2013

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    When You Can't Share Happy News With Your Friends :/

    I've recently been hanging out with a guy and it's been a while since someone's had an interest in me or vice versa. I want to share with my friends how exciting it is and how he makes me feel warm and happy, but I can't. I've always been the listener in my group, and I've liked...
    capulet4440 capulet4440 18-21 Nov 12, 2012

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    Three days ago I had two best friends.

    a boy and a girl. I loved them both more than I can say. The girl knew that no matter how I tried I was in unrequited love with the boy. Three days ago I found out that they had been seeing each other secretly. I confronted the boy and he got mad and ended our friendship. The...
    omega8 omega8 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 21

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our

    school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my mind I was thinking "you know what, I'm gonna try to talk to her, I need to man up, I need to know how to talk to a girl and here's my first...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 6

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    When I was 15 I met my first boyfriend.

    He was shy, nice and attractive and also charmed everyone who met him including me. You would think that I would know better. I was a strong girl, had plans for a future, and had heard plenty of stories about abuse from friends and family ans always told myself i would never...
    mik2047 mik2047 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    Very Upset With Grown Daughter

    I have been in tears all night. I keep my grandchildren every weekend and when they are out of school.  We are very close. My daughter treats them so bad, allot of verbal abuse. (they are great kids),  When I try to talk to her about it, she gets irate and starts...
    dddnga dddnga 51-55, F 3 Responses Aug 2, 2009

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    Feeling Lonely

    i am a bit shy and that may be the reason why i am not good at communicating with people.i try this all the time to be friendly with others, but somehow it doesnt work. having completed my studies i should be busy with a job probably.but thats not the case, instead i am always at...
    smartbenny smartbenny 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 13, 2013

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    I feel like all my friends will judge me

    when I tell them about my life, they reassure me that they're not judgemental people but I've seen them judge others. When I need advice, say for boys as an example, I can't talk to my sisters or family because they disapprove, and my friends are supposed to be there, I've given...
    Freethinking5 Freethinking5 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 12

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    A Little Sad

    I used to have this huge group of friends, but now I don't look at any of those people as friends. I guess people change, we grow up, meet new people. I feel so detached from everything. I feel lost, like don't know my 'friends' anymore. I look at them and see shallow people. I...
    sapphirecinder sapphirecinder 16-17, F Sep 13, 2013

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    So Sad And Very Lonely

    i am 47year old lady i have not family and i have never had any friends, IM SO LONELY my life is the same everyday i go to bed in the evening pray i never wake up . i have joining groups , going to differant places , but everyone seams to ignore me . i am so tied and fed up. I...
    misslexus misslexus 41-45, F 11 Responses Mar 25, 2012

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    And It's Better That Way.

    I've learnt (a thousand times, stupid forgetful me) that talking to people does no good whatsoever. It puts you in a very vulnerable position where upon finishing your plea for advice and pouring your heart out, you realize you really should have kept your bloody mouth shut...
    newmurderer newmurderer 70+ 2 Responses Mar 31, 2010

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    Miss Understood!!

    So I'm not sure what category this falls under but I picked this one! I'm a 25 ish female. And for as long as I can remember I have had problems with girls. I have never really had friends that are girls. I'm not sure why! Well I work in the medical field and so I'm around girls...
    Mgomez21 Mgomez21 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 25, 2013

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    Sucessful And So Sad And Lonely...can I Go On :(

    I am a prof engineer, studied hard,worked hard,got married... But never was happy...its like i go thru more sadness than Hapiness... My story, after marriage i was offered a job abroad, i accepted.. My wife and son at the time came up with me....after a year n a half She...
    Nextlife Nextlife 31-35 2 Responses Feb 2, 2012

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    A Life Worthwhile?

    Ever since I was a little kid I always struggled with depression... I am akward and I have no friends and life just seems stupid. I guess I am sending this message thing because I just want someone to talk too and life can get just so lonely... I am extremely socially akward I...
    matthewnew matthewnew 18-21 1 Response Sep 20, 2013

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    I Am The Definition Of Alone

    Hi. I literally have no one to talk to. It wasn't always this way. But now it is and has been for a while. I had this one girl whom I married. She was my best friend, my lover my everything. But I lost her because I didn't know how to manage my temper. Now I do. But it doesn't...
    LoveIsSoDangerous LoveIsSoDangerous 26-30 3 Responses Jan 1, 2012

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    Lifetime Punishment Of Lonliness

    I feel like I have been banished an emotionally isolated island. I have never felt like anyone truly understood me. At times I literally feel like the words coming out of my mouth are of some unknown language. I know people love me, they say they do, they show they do but I can...
    Strangefruittree Strangefruittree 26-30, F 14 Responses Mar 23, 2010

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    Alone In The Dark

    Since the first day, I have been alone. At one point, in the midst of my first year in homeschooling, I thought a lot on relationships, friendships, the lot. I didn't know anyone. Before homeschooling, I didn't even know anyone. Though, I did have one friend. Her name was...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 22, 2012

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    Ignorance : Is It Really Bliss?

    I've been told I speak to lightly, but sometimes it feels like I'm screaming and no one even looks. They don't turn to me or even bat an eye. My boyfriend tells me he can't hear me when I ask him some things, my best friend tells me to start speaking up, and my mom just says it's...
    XsilentXriniX XsilentXriniX 18-21, F 1 Response May 28, 2013

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    I Don't Have Anyone So..

    During school I find that I'm completely fine with having no "close friends" and I really only depend on myself. But when it's summer time and I'm at home with nothing to do, that's when loneliness hits me. Once things go bad and I start feeling emotional I realize that I don't...
    delilaahx delilaahx 18-21, F Aug 12, 2013

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    How Could I Forget?

    It was during a "camping" at school when I suddenly got homesick. I didn't feel comfortable sleeping in a tent in the field. I couldn't sleep and felt like crying. So, I went out and woke up my teacher. I told her, "I feel sick, Miss. I want to go home." I texted my dad, and...
    PuzzlingPiece PuzzlingPiece 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 28, 2013

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    I Am Sad Because Of That Now...

    I don't know why, I'm feeling awful and I don't have anyone to talk to... Someone to listen to me, a good conversation. It could be something stupid, but I wanted someone just to say something nice and polite... Whatever, just saying bla bla bla. I'm not runk, just tired, it was...
    Allaloneandpoisoned Allaloneandpoisoned 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 25, 2013

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    Endometriosis

    Once upon a time I had a normal body with absolutely nothing wrong with it. Out of the blue, I started getting a weird pain which was over my right ovary and I was worried. Prompted by my then-boyfriend, I went to the doctor's where they didn't really know what it was and advised...
    charliosborne charliosborne 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 26, 2013

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    I'm 26 have a husband,

    a beautiful two year old & plenty of acquaintances and feel completely alone. I've always had few friends and felt like the odd one out growing up. Seemed to only have friends because they felt bad for me (not sure why). In college I did finally find two friends who I considered...
    prayforpeace87 prayforpeace87 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    For the past 2 years,

    I have been non-stop thinking about this girl. She is all I ever think about. But she just rejected me, and I just don't know what to do. The only friends that I have are just sick of talking to me. One thinks if she ignores me I'll feel better. And the other has his own...
    TTScene TTScene 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 7

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    I'd like to have more people to talk to (*_*) I

    find sometimes people that I can relate to and be comfortable talking to But sometimes my convorsations die out with some..
    DaftPnk DaftPnk 18-21, M Apr 6

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    I'm 20 and still don't have my driver's license. People usually get their permit when they're 15, I got mine at 17. I want my license before I turn 21 at least, though.
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