I Don't Have Friends

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 388 People

    Wishing Things Were Different.

    I look back at my childhood and I realized that I never had friends. I always had to pretend to be either "smarter" or "dumber" just to try to fit in. When I was sixteen I decided to stop pretending to be fake and I wondered why no one understood me or liked me. I didn't date...
    maddie1980 maddie1980
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 30, 2012
    StahpCopyingMyName StahpCopyingMyName
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 24, 2015

    I have a few friends

    although I can't see any of them but one. I'm a shy person so its hard to make friends although I want some it may seem I don't want any to others because of how I act. No one seems to be interested in getting to know me. I had a girlfriend who I spent all my time with for a...
    skinnycracker skinnycracker
    18-21
    1 Response Jan 15, 2014

    This is kinda hard to write about just

    because it is embarrassing. .. I mean what 18 year old doesn't have friends?? I try and I have tried my whole life but nothing seems to happen. I just don't understand. Ever since I was little I have not had friends. The "friends" I had lasted a year tops and now I don't...
    JaneEbony JaneEbony
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 27, 2015

    It's always the exciting people

    who don't ever make fools of themselves who get all the attention, on or offline.
    thisisausernametoo thisisausernametoo
    18-21
    Jul 19, 2014

    Maybe It's A Self Respect Thing.

    I have had a hard time making friends since I began high school, and it got worse in college.  By the time I graduated college, people (including my parents) made me feel so unlikeable, that I just assumed it was all my fault.  When I meet people now I wait for...
    velvethat velvethat
    36-40, F
    Sep 8, 2010

    So many people just stab me in the back

    and leave me . Why ? Is there some thing majorly wrong with me ? -___-
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Nov 29, 2015

    And Internet friends don't count.

    But it's honestly way better not having friends because who needs the pressure?
    Rhea03811 Rhea03811
    13-15, F
    1 Response Nov 24, 2015

    That is correct for me through

    and through I used to have two friends they moved I made one or two friends but we grew apart because they thought I was "weird" and "secretive" and that is the story of my friendships. I am completely alone
    MatildaBlack MatildaBlack
    16-17, F
    Jul 8, 2014

    Then When It All Comes Down To It

    I find it difficult to make friends in general. I could say my bf is my only friend, which is sad and makes me think that he may think something is wrong with me. I think this because what would you think of a female or even a guy who had no friends at all...
    emptyjars emptyjars
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Feb 22, 2010

    Most of the time, it's fine

    that I don't have friends. But not too long ago, I went through a period where I wished I had some. My last girlfriend had been my best friend, and I missed what we had as far as great conversations. I tried to make some online friends, and that didn't work out. After that, I...
    chickiebos chickiebos
    31-35, F
    1 Response Oct 24, 2014

    Well no true friends anyway.

    Just people that I talk to
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 24, 2015

    outside of EP. My days are spent in a perpetual

    monologue. I haven't had a close friend in the past decade.
    Chirieleison Chirieleison
    22-25, M
    Nov 24, 2015

    I try to fit in but no one likes me,

    I get called names just because I don't know some stuff, people don't know what I go through everyday, wish they would be me for a day and see what it feels like, try battling epilepsy, depression and memory loss and you will regret it
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 5
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 8

    Why doesn't anyone like me?

    They will always say they're my friend, but outside of school or any school-related activity, they act like they don't want to talk to me ever. I feel so alone all of the time. I never get invited to go anywhere and I'm starting to feel more and more like an outcast to these...
    drakex drakex
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Jan 26, 2014

    I don't have friends

    because i very recently discovered that a true friend doesn't exist where I'm from. The person i spent a good chunk of my life calling "best friend" Is the same person thats **** on my name more than anyone in my life. Everyone here is fake. Im slowly realizing this life without...
    LovelyyLexii18 LovelyyLexii18
    18-21, F
    Mar 5

    Nope

    despite that i find people so interesting i cant manage myself to have any why well i like to keep it personal basically i get along easy with people but also very easily dont get along i don't agree with most people i just cant manage to get past their beliefs those...
    kitten456izzy kitten456izzy
    13-15
    Dec 17, 2011

    I Try To Have Friends

    i have always tried making new and good friends but i always get unsuccessful to it, it hurts to stay alone in the classroom with no one to speak to!!! i am not a nerdy person at all to study or read something when idle, if i try to say something about myself people tend to...
    prada3 prada3
    18-21
    4 Responses Feb 12, 2012

    Alone

    i live in a small judgemental town and i feel alone with no one to talk to everyone in this town is mean and hateful
    jspancoley jspancoley
    36-40
    1 Response Jan 16, 2012

    Online Friends....

    Because I don't have friends, I tend to just go online for hours and hours to pass time and to keep me from negative thinking. Then yesterday this guy/girl just came into my rant/story about how immature people pi s s me off and then he goes and says that I should "grow some...
    New2ep New2ep
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Oct 8, 2008

    I left all my friends

    and I am in a whole new continent. It wouldn't be a problem if I wasn't such an introvert and did not know how to go through the making new friends phase again
    stephydonk stephydonk
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 5

    I Think I Really Don't Have Friends

    I never had much friends, always been the shy kid when I was younger. I have like 2 or 3 friends or such, but we barely talk now. I just talk with 1. One of them asks me if i go out with friends. I say I haven't, just with my boyfriend sometimes. She gets worried and kind of...
    CupcakesCake CupcakesCake
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 28, 2012

    What Is Wrong With Me?

    A few years ago I lost my best friend in an accident. She lived in the East coast, but we always managed to contact each other.  I have never really had any friends who I can call and ask to go out and do something.  I do have a sister and two adult daughters who tell me that...
    candles64 candles64
    46-50
    1 Response Dec 8, 2011

    Everyone hates me. People would

    rather tell me to just die than say nothing
    tonightsthenight tonightsthenight
    18-21, F
    Aug 15, 2014

    Is This Who I Really Am?

    Well, I do not have friends. Let me restate that- I only have like 3 people in my life that I can call friends. I guess that's why I'm the most boring person in the world. I don't know if its because of trust issues but I never want to become or befriend someone. I feel like I...
    betteralone betteralone
    13-15, F
    Jun 25, 2012

    the reason why i don't have friends is

    because i don't go 2 public school im home schooled online.
    crystallight101 crystallight101
    13-15, F
    1 Response Nov 25, 2015

    Yup! I don't and think it's going to be

    that way as long as I'm breathing. I'm not upset nor crying at night wondering why I don't have any. To be honest, I don't think I've ever had any desire to have friends or any type of relationship. I just don't see any point in building a relationship with anyone. Eventually it...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 4

    Are Other People Like Me?

    I have always been the different kid. I am not sure why. Every since high school, i would generally only have 1 good friend, and the rest (my "group") were more or less acquaintances... in their eyes. One of the girls i hung out with, a couple of years down the track told me she...
    vakker vakker
    18-21, F
    10 Responses Jun 4, 2011
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 4

    I really don't. I don't get called

    or texted, for so long that it now feels awkward otherwise.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 15, 2014

    Meh.

    When I got pregnant, I kind of dropped everyone I was friends with because I matured soo fast and I now realize how childish and immature they are. Since my baby passed away, I feel like I need a friend to hang out with but I have none now. I need to go out and meet new people...
    Alexandrasmom Alexandrasmom
    18-21
    2 Responses Nov 13, 2013

    I Am Alone...

    I want to make friends, because i am alone, i remember that once i made a lot of profiles on facebook, with boys and girls. because i am alone, ans i told everybody that they are my friends. I know it is stupid, but i wanted to feel like i have someone, that can understand me...
    lia98ray lia98ray
    13-15, F
    Jun 13, 2012

    I have been friendless for.

    .. more less 8 years? I don't mind being alone. Of course every now and then I get lonely but it passes. There are people whom I speak to but we are not friends. Then again how does a person count as a friend? Do they talk to you regularly? Or do they just have the same hobbys...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 16

    I have ppl who pretend to be my friend.

    found that out the hard way ....fa sho : (
    DixieLandDiva101 DixieLandDiva101
    36-40, F
    Nov 24, 2015

    I don't have a lot of friends ,

    just a few close ones but even they don't know me fully...I've never ever had a bff nor do I ever think I will...the close friends I have are too busy to spend time with me or put an effort into doing stuff that I like, but I on the other hand know what it feels like to feel...
    MariaGrace95 MariaGrace95
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 12, 2014

    I'm just that person,

    who doesn't have friends, and it's not because people don't like me, I just don't. I'm meant to be alone, and I'm completely fine with that. I had friends, but they always just... somehow got taken away, every single one. I haven't hung around with someone in several months, I...
    LikeICare13 LikeICare13
    13-15, F
    1 Response Dec 16, 2015

    I have some friends. Yesterday I didn't,

    today I do. Weird how things plan out.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 15
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