I Don't Have Friends

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 391 People

    I really don't. I don't get called

    or texted, for so long that it now feels awkward otherwise.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 15, 2014

    Alone

    i live in a small judgemental town and i feel alone with no one to talk to everyone in this town is mean and hateful
    jspancoley jspancoley
    36-40
    1 Response Jan 16, 2012

    I have been friendless for.

    .. more less 8 years? I don't mind being alone. Of course every now and then I get lonely but it passes. There are people whom I speak to but we are not friends. Then again how does a person count as a friend? Do they talk to you regularly? Or do they just have the same hobbys...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 16

    I have ppl who pretend to be my friend.

    found that out the hard way ....fa sho : (
    DixieLandDiva101 DixieLandDiva101
    36-40, F
    Nov 24, 2015

    Nope

    despite that i find people so interesting i cant manage myself to have any why well i like to keep it personal basically i get along easy with people but also very easily dont get along i don't agree with most people i just cant manage to get past their beliefs those...
    kitten456izzy kitten456izzy
    13-15
    Dec 17, 2011

    Everyone hates me. People would

    rather tell me to just die than say nothing
    tonightsthenight tonightsthenight
    18-21, F
    Aug 15, 2014

    Are Other People Like Me?

    I have always been the different kid. I am not sure why. Every since high school, i would generally only have 1 good friend, and the rest (my "group") were more or less acquaintances... in their eyes. One of the girls i hung out with, a couple of years down the track told me she...
    vakker vakker
    18-21, F
    10 Responses Jun 4, 2011

    I Think I Really Don't Have Friends

    I never had much friends, always been the shy kid when I was younger. I have like 2 or 3 friends or such, but we barely talk now. I just talk with 1. One of them asks me if i go out with friends. I say I haven't, just with my boyfriend sometimes. She gets worried and kind of...
    CupcakesCake CupcakesCake
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 28, 2012

    the reason why i don't have friends is

    because i don't go 2 public school im home schooled online.
    crystallight101 crystallight101
    13-15, F
    1 Response Nov 25, 2015
    StahpCopyingMyName StahpCopyingMyName
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 24, 2015

    I try to fit in but no one likes me,

    I get called names just because I don't know some stuff, people don't know what I go through everyday, wish they would be me for a day and see what it feels like, try battling epilepsy, depression and memory loss and you will regret it
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 5

    I Try To Have Friends

    i have always tried making new and good friends but i always get unsuccessful to it, it hurts to stay alone in the classroom with no one to speak to!!! i am not a nerdy person at all to study or read something when idle, if i try to say something about myself people tend to...
    prada3 prada3
    18-21
    4 Responses Feb 12, 2012
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 8

    And Internet friends don't count.

    But it's honestly way better not having friends because who needs the pressure?
    Rhea03811 Rhea03811
    13-15, F
    1 Response Nov 24, 2015

    Meh.

    When I got pregnant, I kind of dropped everyone I was friends with because I matured soo fast and I now realize how childish and immature they are. Since my baby passed away, I feel like I need a friend to hang out with but I have none now. I need to go out and meet new people...
    Alexandrasmom Alexandrasmom
    18-21
    2 Responses Nov 13, 2013

    That is correct for me through

    and through I used to have two friends they moved I made one or two friends but we grew apart because they thought I was "weird" and "secretive" and that is the story of my friendships. I am completely alone
    MatildaBlack MatildaBlack
    13-15, F
    Jul 8, 2014

    I don't have friends

    because i very recently discovered that a true friend doesn't exist where I'm from. The person i spent a good chunk of my life calling "best friend" Is the same person thats **** on my name more than anyone in my life. Everyone here is fake. Im slowly realizing this life without...
    LovelyyLexii18 LovelyyLexii18
    18-21, F
    Mar 5

    So many people just stab me in the back

    and leave me . Why ? Is there some thing majorly wrong with me ? -___-
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Nov 29, 2015

    What Is Wrong With Me?

    A few years ago I lost my best friend in an accident. She lived in the East coast, but we always managed to contact each other.  I have never really had any friends who I can call and ask to go out and do something.  I do have a sister and two adult daughters who tell me that...
    candles64 candles64
    46-50
    1 Response Dec 8, 2011

    Why doesn't anyone like me?

    They will always say they're my friend, but outside of school or any school-related activity, they act like they don't want to talk to me ever. I feel so alone all of the time. I never get invited to go anywhere and I'm starting to feel more and more like an outcast to these...
    drakex drakex
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Jan 26, 2014

    Then When It All Comes Down To It

    I find it difficult to make friends in general. I could say my bf is my only friend, which is sad and makes me think that he may think something is wrong with me. I think this because what would you think of a female or even a guy who had no friends at all...
    emptyjars emptyjars
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Feb 22, 2010

    Wishing Things Were Different.

    I look back at my childhood and I realized that I never had friends. I always had to pretend to be either "smarter" or "dumber" just to try to fit in. When I was sixteen I decided to stop pretending to be fake and I wondered why no one understood me or liked me. I didn't date...
    maddie1980 maddie1980
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 30, 2012

    I Am Alone...

    I want to make friends, because i am alone, i remember that once i made a lot of profiles on facebook, with boys and girls. because i am alone, ans i told everybody that they are my friends. I know it is stupid, but i wanted to feel like i have someone, that can understand me...
    lia98ray lia98ray
    13-15, F
    Jun 13, 2012

    This is kinda hard to write about just

    because it is embarrassing. .. I mean what 18 year old doesn't have friends?? I try and I have tried my whole life but nothing seems to happen. I just don't understand. Ever since I was little I have not had friends. The "friends" I had lasted a year tops and now I don't...
    JaneEbony JaneEbony
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 27, 2015

    Yup! I don't and think it's going to be

    that way as long as I'm breathing. I'm not upset nor crying at night wondering why I don't have any. To be honest, I don't think I've ever had any desire to have friends or any type of relationship. I just don't see any point in building a relationship with anyone. Eventually it...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 4

    I'm just that person,

    who doesn't have friends, and it's not because people don't like me, I just don't. I'm meant to be alone, and I'm completely fine with that. I had friends, but they always just... somehow got taken away, every single one. I haven't hung around with someone in several months, I...
    LikeICare13 LikeICare13
    13-15, F
    1 Response Dec 16, 2015

    outside of EP. My days are spent in a perpetual

    monologue. I haven't had a close friend in the past decade.
    Chirieleison Chirieleison
    22-25, M
    Nov 24, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 4

    Is This Who I Really Am?

    Well, I do not have friends. Let me restate that- I only have like 3 people in my life that I can call friends. I guess that's why I'm the most boring person in the world. I don't know if its because of trust issues but I never want to become or befriend someone. I feel like I...
    betteralone betteralone
    13-15, F
    Jun 25, 2012

    It's always the exciting people

    who don't ever make fools of themselves who get all the attention, on or offline.
    thisisausernametoo thisisausernametoo
    18-21
    Jul 19, 2014

    I moved to a new country

    where I can only sort of speak the language(castellano es dificil). I'm fairly introverted to begin with. I've been told I'm approachable so I've made some nice aquaintances, but they all already have friend groups so I end up spending breaks reading in the library, doing...
    offthebugspray offthebugspray
    18-21, F
    Mar 5

    I don't have a lot of friends ,

    just a few close ones but even they don't know me fully...I've never ever had a bff nor do I ever think I will...the close friends I have are too busy to spend time with me or put an effort into doing stuff that I like, but I on the other hand know what it feels like to feel...
    MariaGrace95 MariaGrace95
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 12, 2014

    Most of the time, it's fine

    that I don't have friends. But not too long ago, I went through a period where I wished I had some. My last girlfriend had been my best friend, and I missed what we had as far as great conversations. I tried to make some online friends, and that didn't work out. After that, I...
    chickiebos chickiebos
    31-35, F
    1 Response Oct 24, 2014

    Well no true friends anyway.

    Just people that I talk to
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 24, 2015

    I have a few friends

    although I can't see any of them but one. I'm a shy person so its hard to make friends although I want some it may seem I don't want any to others because of how I act. No one seems to be interested in getting to know me. I had a girlfriend who I spent all my time with for a...
    skinnycracker skinnycracker
    16-17
    1 Response Jan 15, 2014

    Maybe It's A Self Respect Thing.

    I have had a hard time making friends since I began high school, and it got worse in college.  By the time I graduated college, people (including my parents) made me feel so unlikeable, that I just assumed it was all my fault.  When I meet people now I wait for...
    velvethat velvethat
    36-40, F
    Sep 8, 2010

    I have some friends. Yesterday I didn't,

    today I do. Weird how things plan out.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 15

    I left all my friends

    and I am in a whole new continent. It wouldn't be a problem if I wasn't such an introvert and did not know how to go through the making new friends phase again
    stephydonk stephydonk
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 5

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