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I Dont Have Friends

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    I Really Dont Have Friends

    its been a long time since i had a real friend .. somone to talk to and not use you to just talk to you when they have guy problems and so on.. when i was in my 20's it seemed like i always had friends and they either moved or lost total contact with them.. i fear t i will never...
    lavona lavona 41-45 Nov 9, 2011

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    I always had an unhappy life.

    I was always trying to get away from it. So, it's not surprising I clung to the wrong man to get away from it. I wasn't even out of high school yet. After 17 years of abuse, misery and loneliness I was abandoned by my husband with no food, no money, no way to get anywhere...
    KimBer8675309 KimBer8675309 31-35 Dec 8, 2013

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    Lonely

    i was married for 25 years so when i divorced three years ago i realised that all my freinds were married couples. I moved away and found that i ended up with no freinds at all. I have a partner that i see regularly but it is not enough when i am in my empty flat most nights. I...
    boggit boggit 56-60, M 3 Responses Oct 21, 2009

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    Not One...

    I feel so alone...the one person that I thought was there for me has betrayed me...
    BloodyTale BloodyTale 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 9, 2013

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    Someone In Person

    I don't have any real friends in person. I have friends on EP, but I don't have friends in real life. They all went away to college and I rotted here. Still rotting. I don't think I'll ever have friends again. I think my life is over. Oh well. This is the truth. This is...
    WhoisChaff WhoisChaff 26-30 1 Response Jan 14, 2012

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    Sh*t Just Got Real...

    Last Sunday, i got into a car accident. My car is ****** up...not totalled necessarily but its unmovable and i've sat and cried in my room for the past week. Some of the girlfriends TEXTd me, no calls. And what makes me more angry is that these bxtches are still making plans and...
    macy4 macy4 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 29, 2012

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    It hurts when I have a terrible day,

    and I rely on the internet to get support
    ladychief13 ladychief13 16-17, F Jul 6

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    At least not on ep. I have

    yet to meet someone who I would like to get to know more about and who genuinely wants to know more about me.
    iiArial iiArial 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    I Really Dont Have Friends

    its been a long time since i had a real friend .. somone to talk to and not use you to just talk to you when they have guy problems and so on.. when i was in my 20's it seemed like i always had friends and they either moved or lost total contact with them.. i fear t i will never...
    lavona lavona 41-45 2 Responses Nov 9, 2011

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    Yup Yup

    Yah, I'm just bad at making and keeping friends. Since day one I haven't learned the correct friendship protocol. It's a bit sad. Sometimes I wish I had someone to go and do the weird stuff i sometimes feel like doing. Like watching an unknown band perform at some dive. Things...
    NotApplicable NotApplicable 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 18, 2011

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    I Dont Have Any Friends

    i am 35, single....i dont have real friends; i am always friend to them but they are not; i was there when they are always in trouble; When they are in problem, i gave lot of ideas how to cope and come out of it. When i was in 18, i was in love with a gal, my friends conspired...
    lonlyplanet lonlyplanet 31-35, M 1 Response Dec 21, 2011

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    I want to have a close group of girls

    that I can talk to and trust. In my past I've cut myself off from others, choosing unwisely the love of a guy instead of friendship. I would put all my energy in making my boyfriend(s) happy. Now that I've matured I long desperately to have a close friendship with someone. I...
    LuminousShadow LuminousShadow 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 6

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    Very Alone & Lonely

    i have 3 grown kids and an x-husband that lives close to me, but I am treated like I have died, and I sit here every day; ALONE. I need a friend or 2. Is that even possible? I live in Orlando,Fl. is you need a friend also. TYVM
    tbpumpkin1 tbpumpkin1 56-60 1 Response Aug 26, 2012

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    On top of school, work,

    and some breather room for myself, as well as a roof over my head, money for clothes and food to eat, it'd be nice to have friends to share my day with....having $1 million dollars would be nice too
    tempe100 tempe100 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    i dont have many friends in uk

    I moved to UK nearly 3 months ago to study at college.But I don't have many friends in here,it's not because i'm boring person and don't have any style in life,it's just because i live in small city Halifax and in my group all chinese people who cant proparly speak english and...
    yuliyaa yuliyaa 16-17, F 5 Responses Nov 11, 2009

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    I don't have friends.

    I just have people I know, not someone I can trust.
    FriscoWolf FriscoWolf 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 1

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    I Don'T Have Friends In High School

    Hi everyone, I don't know if anyone will actually read this but I'm just writing it to feel a little better. I recently entered into high school, this is mu second week, and I HATE it. I have always been very shy and very quiet and it's such a struggle for me to get friends, I...
    Zairali Zairali 18-21, F Aug 20, 2013

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    Anyone from the ages of 13-19,

    bi, les, gay, and beastly people, no discrimination here! (teens only tho) I welcome you cause I seriously have no friends and boredom always takes over.....
    Scarlet513 Scarlet513 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    My Story.....

    hi i am married have a child and am pregnant my family lives away from me...i have a dictator husband he lets me talk to them once in two months they usually come on skype and i am not allowed to go on skype and when i call them i talk under his supervision... his mom is a...
    ray786 ray786 22-25 1 Response Jan 14, 2012

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    I don't have friends

    because I was friends with the wrong kind of people and I stopped talking to them. I'm back where I started. Alone during lunch. Man, it's a sad world.
    JessicaTacos JessicaTacos 16-17, F Dec 2, 2013

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    None At All

    I would never thought I wouldnt have friends but I am 40 something and in real life I have no friends at all.. Just like on line I have no friends. I try to make friends but not a friend at all. Tited of talking to myself or going places by myself.
    sunsure sunsure 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 1, 2012

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    Friends

    h there you say you have no friends well i am adult baby and i would like to be a friend so if you would like to talk i would like to talk to you as a pal i sade when you loss your mother you ave lost you best friend so if you would like to talk will you email me back mat all...
    glencoe2 glencoe2 61-65, M Mar 11, 2012

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    I Have Friends.. But Im Willing to Help.

    if anyone needs to talk, im here. just message me, no questions asked, ill be here to talk to, ill even just listen if thats what you really need. im not that good at adivice, but everyone needs a friend, i i guess im willing to be one. <3erica
    WannaBeCoolKid WannaBeCoolKid 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 1, 2009

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    Friends Don't Always Last

    I thought i found the perfect friend but it only took about one week for that to end I thought youweren't like the rest But like those, before you failed the test Friends tell you their secrets Friends are meant to share Friends are meant to cheer you up what happens when they're...
    Monoka14 Monoka14 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 10, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Friends. Those companions you speak of are only friends during those fun, yet unimportant times. When painful times come, they won’t be your ally.
    SmileyFace1014 SmileyFace1014 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    Hehehehehe, I have 4 right now! One is super close and treats me like a girlfriend for all intents and purposes. He knows about the others, and is fine. We just don't talk about...
    HippyDippyTrippy HippyDippyTrippy 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 25

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    I have had many women I have dated and especially two that became friends with benefits. I was more serious on my end with these two and was contemplating initiating the "L" &"M...
    xmannos xmannos 36-40, M Aug 29

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    I have had the same fwb for two years now. We grew up together, our mothers were bestfriends, now we see each other every time we both come in from college. I love what we are, but...
    smalltowngirl12 smalltowngirl12 18-21, F Sep 1

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    Another experience i have had was fingering a girl in a movie theatre! It was so much fun!
    smallguy18 smallguy18 16-17, M Sep 3

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    We were really close a while back but now it seems like we're just drifting away. Well. It seems like I'm drifting away from them. I hate being alone so knowing this makes me...
    musicislifeandlove musicislifeandlove 13-15, F Aug 23

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    For all of you fighting this, I'm one of you, I write a blog, on how I fight my everyday life.. How I cope with being a full time student and at the same time fighting depression...
    Lily449 Lily449 18-21, F Sep 12

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    I wish I had friends who are more loyal to me, more thoughtful, more genuine. Right now I have friends that treat me like I don't exist sometimes.
    Ennevi Ennevi 18-21, F 5 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I've lived by this my whole live (close friends over many acquaintances), but I'm starting to wonder if I'd be happier with many fake friends? I mean, don't they seem happier? I've...
    Tory102 Tory102 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    I have friends, but I want new friends! Friends who are up for anything, but still be responsible at the same time I want friends who like experiencing new stuff. Not friends who...
    emilytello emilytello 16-17, F 10 Responses Aug 25

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    The first thing you should know about me is that I am an outsider. Yes, I have friends. Yes, we hang out. Once a month. That's about it. Those are my friends. That's my social life...
    hunniebunney hunniebunney 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    There were some people I met in my life that if I knew now, I'd love to be around. I'm a different person. I want to engage. I wish I had maintained relationships with certain...
    shameinnoshame shameinnoshame 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    The other day in spanish I just suddenly started crying. It was when everyone had left and I was the only one left in the classroom. My teacher got me to sit down and talk to her...
    hermione118 hermione118 13-15, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    When I was younger, friends took advantage of things I had. Wether it was my snacks, or my intelligence. Now, I have friends, but... I don't feel that we are close. That I can tell...
    DashedStars DashedStars 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 24

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    I just want to make friends I don't want girlfriend or boyfriend I'm good single and I love my all friends they're so cool it cool to have friends :* if your good be my friend
    hmkspain hmkspain 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 29

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    I'm so so so blessed. Like I never thought that I would be so lucky to have the people that I have. I have never had any good friends. I did think I had a best friend but when she...
    LoveisBeautiful5013 LoveisBeautiful5013 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    Finding good friends is extremely hard! Sure, I have "friends" and people I know I can rely on and I am forever grateful to them. I just wish I could have more and hopefully make...
    Mang0Tree Mang0Tree 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 5

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    I dont really have that many friends. When I do have friends its mostly girls. I would like more straight or gay friends my age or near it.
    GARLITH GARLITH 18-21, M Sep 5

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    I just wanna have friends here in EP. Just A good friend but not to entertain pervert people no offense meant please. I like many friends, the more the merrier. lol I hope I...
    smjuap21 smjuap21 22-25, F 8 Responses Sep 12

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    I have friends online, but no friends in person. I lost them all. I dunno what happened ): I miss my friends ):
    NegativePulse NegativePulse 18-21, M 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    At the moment, I don't have any at all. It's strange, because I have friends. And we hangout daily, since we are all college students. But it just isn't as deep as I would like it...
    Truthseeker18 Truthseeker18 18-21, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I want to make friends but I am very shy I used to have friends but now they don't even talk to me any of them
    anestacia anestacia 16-17, F 6 Responses Aug 30

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    I live 2 hours from any of my friends and I am a complete hermit. I don't even know HOW to have friends lately. I'm married with dogs. I am afraid of the phone. I'm socially...
    rainallthedays rainallthedays 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 4

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    I first met my best friend/soul sis in first grade. We studied together in nursery and KG but I would usually stay at home so I didn't really have friends. I have a lot of cousins...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 12

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    I can't believe that as I get older I can't have friends. Friends are very important for me, they help me grow and made my serious life bearable.
    nonichecliche nonichecliche 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    in my home town. Here. In real life. I hate that I went to a football game by myself last night. And that I'm going to dance in another town by myself tonight. And that I'm going...
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 3 Responses a week ago