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I Dont Have Friends

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    I Dont Have Any Friends

    i am 35, single....i dont have real friends; i am always friend to them but they are not; i was there when they are always in trouble; When they are in problem, i gave lot of ideas how to cope and come out of it. When i was in 18, i was in love with a gal, my friends conspired...
    lonlyplanet lonlyplanet 31-35, M 1 Response Dec 21, 2011

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    Very Alone & Lonely

    i have 3 grown kids and an x-husband that lives close to me, but I am treated like I have died, and I sit here every day; ALONE. I need a friend or 2. Is that even possible? I live in Orlando,Fl. is you need a friend also. TYVM
    tbpumpkin1 tbpumpkin1 56-60 1 Response Aug 26, 2012

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    I don't have friends.

    I just have people I know, not someone I can trust.
    FriscoWolf FriscoWolf 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 1

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    I don't have friends

    because I was friends with the wrong kind of people and I stopped talking to them. I'm back where I started. Alone during lunch. Man, it's a sad world.
    JessicaTacos JessicaTacos 16-17, F Dec 2, 2013

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    Yup Yup

    Yah, I'm just bad at making and keeping friends. Since day one I haven't learned the correct friendship protocol. It's a bit sad. Sometimes I wish I had someone to go and do the weird stuff i sometimes feel like doing. Like watching an unknown band perform at some dive. Things...
    NotApplicable NotApplicable 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 18, 2011

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    I Don'T Have Friends In High School

    Hi everyone, I don't know if anyone will actually read this but I'm just writing it to feel a little better. I recently entered into high school, this is mu second week, and I HATE it. I have always been very shy and very quiet and it's such a struggle for me to get friends, I...
    Zairali Zairali 18-21, F Aug 20, 2013

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    Anyone from the ages of 13-19,

    bi, les, gay, and beastly people, no discrimination here! (teens only tho) I welcome you cause I seriously have no friends and boredom always takes over.....
    Scarlet513 Scarlet513 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    Lonely

    i was married for 25 years so when i divorced three years ago i realised that all my freinds were married couples. I moved away and found that i ended up with no freinds at all. I have a partner that i see regularly but it is not enough when i am in my empty flat most nights. I...
    boggit boggit 56-60, M 3 Responses Oct 21, 2009

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    i dont have many friends in uk

    I moved to UK nearly 3 months ago to study at college.But I don't have many friends in here,it's not because i'm boring person and don't have any style in life,it's just because i live in small city Halifax and in my group all chinese people who cant proparly speak english and...
    yuliyaa yuliyaa 16-17, F 5 Responses Nov 11, 2009

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    Sh*t Just Got Real...

    Last Sunday, i got into a car accident. My car is ****** up...not totalled necessarily but its unmovable and i've sat and cried in my room for the past week. Some of the girlfriends TEXTd me, no calls. And what makes me more angry is that these bxtches are still making plans and...
    macy4 macy4 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 29, 2012

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    Someone In Person

    I don't have any real friends in person. I have friends on EP, but I don't have friends in real life. They all went away to college and I rotted here. Still rotting. I don't think I'll ever have friends again. I think my life is over. Oh well. This is the truth. This is...
    WhoisChaff WhoisChaff 26-30 1 Response Jan 14, 2012

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    I always had an unhappy life.

    I was always trying to get away from it. So, it's not surprising I clung to the wrong man to get away from it. I wasn't even out of high school yet. After 17 years of abuse, misery and loneliness I was abandoned by my husband with no food, no money, no way to get anywhere...
    KimBer8675309 KimBer8675309 31-35 Dec 8, 2013

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    I Really Dont Have Friends

    its been a long time since i had a real friend .. somone to talk to and not use you to just talk to you when they have guy problems and so on.. when i was in my 20's it seemed like i always had friends and they either moved or lost total contact with them.. i fear t i will never...
    lavona lavona 41-45 2 Responses Nov 9, 2011

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    I want to have a close group of girls

    that I can talk to and trust. In my past I've cut myself off from others, choosing unwisely the love of a guy instead of friendship. I would put all my energy in making my boyfriend(s) happy. Now that I've matured I long desperately to have a close friendship with someone. I...
    LuminousShadow LuminousShadow 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 6

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    Not One...

    I feel so alone...the one person that I thought was there for me has betrayed me...
    BloodyTale BloodyTale 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 9, 2013

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    Friends

    h there you say you have no friends well i am adult baby and i would like to be a friend so if you would like to talk i would like to talk to you as a pal i sade when you loss your mother you ave lost you best friend so if you would like to talk will you email me back mat all...
    glencoe2 glencoe2 61-65, M Mar 11, 2012

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    I Really Dont Have Friends

    its been a long time since i had a real friend .. somone to talk to and not use you to just talk to you when they have guy problems and so on.. when i was in my 20's it seemed like i always had friends and they either moved or lost total contact with them.. i fear t i will never...
    lavona lavona 41-45 Nov 9, 2011

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    It hurts when I have a terrible day,

    and I rely on the internet to get support
    ladychief13 ladychief13 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    Friends Don't Always Last

    I thought i found the perfect friend but it only took about one week for that to end I thought youweren't like the rest But like those, before you failed the test Friends tell you their secrets Friends are meant to share Friends are meant to cheer you up what happens when they're...
    Monoka14 Monoka14 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 10, 2012

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    None At All

    I would never thought I wouldnt have friends but I am 40 something and in real life I have no friends at all.. Just like on line I have no friends. I try to make friends but not a friend at all. Tited of talking to myself or going places by myself.
    sunsure sunsure 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 1, 2012

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    I Have Friends.. But Im Willing to Help.

    if anyone needs to talk, im here. just message me, no questions asked, ill be here to talk to, ill even just listen if thats what you really need. im not that good at adivice, but everyone needs a friend, i i guess im willing to be one. <3erica
    WannaBeCoolKid WannaBeCoolKid 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 1, 2009

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    My Story.....

    hi i am married have a child and am pregnant my family lives away from me...i have a dictator husband he lets me talk to them once in two months they usually come on skype and i am not allowed to go on skype and when i call them i talk under his supervision... his mom is a...
    ray786 ray786 22-25 1 Response Jan 14, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I feel the more friends I make, the lonelier I am. I don't understand why. I mean I feel like it's because I'm single, but I'd rather have friends and no partner than the other way...
    sammykins101 sammykins101 22-25, M Jul 5

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    Its pretty cool :) At first all you talk about is the culture and what its like in their country and your country but then you start talking like you'd talk with your friends :) I...
    WildFlowerChild19 WildFlowerChild19 18-21, F Jul 6

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    That is correct for me through and through I used to have two friends they moved I made one or two friends but we grew apart because they thought I was "weird" and "secretive" and...
    MatildaBlack MatildaBlack 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    I have a lot of friends online, but I want more friends in person.. and more people I'm close to. Part of it is that I miss being touched. My boyfriend doesn't like to snuggle or...
    audrig audrig 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I am a extremely secret person so I think I enjoy this site most of all because I have a place I can let things off my chest yet still be anonymous to some degree. Anyways; with...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 5 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    It is a friend with benefits rather than multiple like the title suggests. I have never done it before. Probably wouldn't do it again. But now I feel trapped and I think he does...
    starflower1 starflower1 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I was left with this guy alone while everyone was buying bud and we ended up having sex, then he asked me if I want to be fwb and I was down but yesterday was kinda awkward ... He...
    mariaababieexo mariaababieexo 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    I am an Indian TDH(Tall, Dark, Handsome) guy,inviting you to visit my country. There r so Many unique ancient sites n nature's beauty to explore in INDIA. So many National Park...
    activevirus activevirus 26-30, M 1 Response a week ago

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    But then I remember that all the people who have called themselves my friends over the years have turned their backs on me, thrown me under the bus, stabbed me in the back and used...
    marriedguy4fun marriedguy4fun 36-40, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I have had a fwb for a few months now, at first he was just a mate but now we literally speak everyday, as if we were dating. I feel as if he has caught stronger feelings than me...
    onlinebae onlinebae 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    Idk why, some just drifted away. zI tried my best to be nice snd friendly to the butI guess they just wanted a better person for them. I miss some terribly. The ones that mattered...
    Wewerethereinthattime Wewerethereinthattime 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I ran into a good friend that I haven't seen for several years. He went through a long drawn out divorce and dropped out of sight after that. He hasn't remarried and says he's...
    stillhavingfun123 stillhavingfun123 51-55, M 3 Responses Jul 2

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    Things have taken a different turn than I thought they would. Its felt like he was mad at me for a while. We kind of blew up the night before last. The other night he picked out...
    starflower1 starflower1 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    He was suppose to come over tonight but he hasn't texted me back in an hour ): .. Got ready for nothing 😒
    aaaxaaa aaaxaaa 18-21, F 23 Responses Jul 10

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    Yesssss. For decades. Some cant help. Most try. Why souwysiedal. Society aint run by them.
    converted converted 46-50, M Jul 14

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    I remember the first question you asked me, I remember when you walked me home and told me you were afraid of the sea, I remember how we told each other what we wanted to be, I...
    sv4894 sv4894 18-21, F Jul 18

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    It's always the exciting people who don't ever make fools of themselves who get all the attention, on or offline.
    thisisausernametoo thisisausernametoo 18-21 Jul 19

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    Jusssie punk.is done Lezzie hater 2 is done
    dexrerpunk46 dexrerpunk46 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    Tonight, a friend of mine was telling me about a chronic condition that he lives with, which causes him intense daily pain. This condition will likely not be cured, and will not...
    KatzeB KatzeB 41-45, F 1 day ago

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    I want to make friends I have friends i see on a day to day basis but I want friends who don't know me that well and who will be 100% honest to me and not try to sugar coat things...
    Xxanonymouso0 Xxanonymouso0 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 30

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    Had to write this after reading a question, because it seems many people on EP say they don't have friends. Understandable, believable as we are on here and being social. Some of...
    dustypork dustypork 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 16

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    I'm currently 23, and over my lifetime have had many many MANY different friends, from junior school to high school to college. I've been in many groups and slowly faded away from...
    slipdasystem slipdasystem 18-21, M Jun 29

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    I never did either, my so called family was nothing but a sick toxic disgusting heartache who some have died off and if anyone is alive I don't know and don't care where they are...
    JackNJ JackNJ 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 3

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    I'm 28 and I do have friends but I guess what I really want is a best friend. I'm not sure why I don't currently have one. I think maybe it's because I find it quite difficult to...
    ForeverBlueRain ForeverBlueRain 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 4

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    I cherish true Friendships, I have friends for many years and that is what True Cherished Friendship is all about, Would Like to have the same thing on here, so let's gets...
    sunnyday55 sunnyday55 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    I don't want to make friends anymore. So many of my friends have quit on me because of my recent diagnosis. I don't go out as much and medical bills leave me broke often. All of my...
    womandolin womandolin 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    I have Asperger's and socializing has always been a challenge for me. I have been trying to work on my social skills, and have found Meetup groups and other activities to meet...
    Shyguyinchi Shyguyinchi 31-35, M 4 Responses 6 days ago

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