I Don't Have Kids

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    I Don't Want Kids Until Three Things Happen.

    1.) the most important one... finish my college degree 2.) have a good job 3.)have a good amount of money saved
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 30, 2012

    and I kinda don't want any

    for a long while ... all of my friends or people I know are either on there first child or second or third which is crazy even thinking about it now and kids having kids is just pretty crazy to me and I know some don't get to choose but its still crazy to me .... haha man I'm...
    jynx1 jynx1
    22-25, F
    Jan 25, 2015

    I want to have a couple.

    ..someday...everyone i know has a family of their own and here i am...
    redphoenix02 redphoenix02
    26-30, F
    Jan 23, 2015

    Why Do People With Kids Try To Make People Without Feel Like Mutants?

    I am nearly 30, in a commited and happy relationship and we dont have kids. My feeling on that is THANK GOD, yet I am constantly having to justify my decision. People with kids seem so uncomfortable or even offended when I say that I dont intend to have children. They act...
    devilinthedetails devilinthedetails
    6 Responses Feb 21, 2010

    No Kiddies Here

    nothing against children - i love my nieces and hope to have a kid in the future but i currently don't and i think i'm one of a small majority here that doesn't. prove me wrong - i'd love to meet other people that haven't taken that big responsibility step yet.  cheers...
    isolatedkitty isolatedkitty
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 29, 2007

    Necessary Evil

    I know we need them. I am a woman and need to do my part to continue the race blah blah blah. To many children now, I'll wait my turn, whenever that is. Right now, no kids and loving it. Leave when I want, return when I want. Change my schedule when I want, kids get in the way...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jun 22, 2008


    Kids,Who wants 'em,Too much work,Ain't got the patience,I'll never 'ave 'em!
    cndrewdrvr8 cndrewdrvr8
    46-50, M
    Sep 3, 2011

    Don't Want Them.

    At least not for a long time.  There is one side of me that really wants them more than anything, but then the other side of me is like, I don't think so!  I will make the decision when I am at the appropriate age.
    BellasHappyPlace BellasHappyPlace
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 30, 2009

    Big Ben58

    I love sex and i love women with big ****
    hillkeith hillkeith
    51-55, M
    3 Responses Dec 6, 2009

    I Don't Have Kids...

    I don't have kids... and I feel I'm sort of a freak. Society is only prepare for families with children and women like me just don't fit. I'm very sad because of that.
    solomarianita solomarianita
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Aug 7, 2013

    Not Yet..

    Ahhhh... Breathe a sigh of relief... now dont get me wrong I love kids.. Absolutly love the innocence of youth.. And watching children learn, its amazing.. they truly are gifts of god.... I do have god children four to be exact and bout to be five in feb.. I love them more...
    AuThEnTiC AuThEnTiC
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 10, 2007

    None For Me Please!

    Never ever had the urge to punish myself that much!
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Nov 29, 2009

    No Kids Is Good Kids

    I hate kids They stink,cost money, destroy valuables,take up your time, are alot of work, if you dont take really good care of them you go to jail, and on top of all of that babysitters cost a shitload. Why do that to yourself? Why put a gun in your freedoms mouth especially...
    augustskies augustskies
    3 Responses Oct 6, 2008
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    Jun 2, 2015

    I don't have any kids I would like to have kids

    but I cant afford kids I have no money I don't even have a job
    jon200547 jon200547
    31-35, M
    Oct 4, 2014

    Not Quite Yet...

    One day I know I'll have some, but at the moment I reckon I'm not ready for them. I know I also want to have a steady relationship going so I'm not alone when I do give birth, and, of course, I don't want the baby to have a Dad that's abusive etc etc.
    Luangi Luangi
    18-21, F
    Nov 11, 2007

    I Get Sad That I Never Had Kids

    But I guess it just wasn't meant to be.  When I was married, I was in that category of perpetually not ready yet.  When I finally was ready, well health issues came up and then my husband left so that was that.  Sometimes I feel like that normal female urge to have...
    PrayerWhisperer PrayerWhisperer
    46-50, F
    1 Response Jan 27, 2008

    Never Appealed to Me.

    I've never been maternal, all my friends laugh at me and can;t believe how against having children I am. I do like children but I don't think I'll ever want any of my own. They are a lifetime commitment and I think a lot of people don't really think things through before having...
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Sep 27, 2007

    Never Interested

    I've never been interested in having kids.  I never even had a strong desire to get married.  I'd change my mind if I met the right person of course.  I always figured that if I did meet that right person I might change my mind about having kids.  My reason...
    Morgause Morgause
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jul 4, 2008
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