I Don't Have Many Female Friends

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    Yearning For A True Girlfriend.

    ..I have been yearning soo much, for at least one true female friend,..who will be there and whom I can always count on!I have had my share of fake girlfriends! Generally I am a very timid person, so some, or rather most of them took advantage of that. Always bullying and bossing...
    CarrieBets CarrieBets
    26-30, F
    Jul 6, 2012

    Because They Annoy Me!

    At first glance i guess i look like a standard female with the done up hair, little bit of make-up, semi-fashionable clothes.... but on the inside i feel so different. I watch how girls interact, what they talk about it, how the act in relationships... i've seen and heard it...
    SammyCymru SammyCymru
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 4, 2010

    Is It Even Possible?

    It would be wonderful to have a close relationship with another female. Trouble is, the only ones I ever come across have only one line of thinking. They can't ever begin a sentence without the word she or her, follwed by: " . . . thinks she's all that" " . . . needs to go...
    CrushedDandyLioness CrushedDandyLioness
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jun 26, 2012

    Sometimes guys just cant get what others women

    can, like little nuances that only occur between a woman and her friend. I mean, its not like you can eyeball a hot guy and then tell your guy friend about him, unless said guy friend is gay. If he's straight: "I dont wanna hear it" because it threatens his 'masculinity' or its...
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum
    36-40, F
    Jul 30, 2014

    New State And No Female Friends

    I absolutely adore the female friends that I do have. The problem is that they're so limited. First off, females generally don't like me. The sad part is that I try so hard. Sometimes I wonder why I try so hard and the conclusion I've come to is that it's actually embarassing to...
    MizzouGirl MizzouGirl
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Oct 21, 2009

    I Need More Female Friends.

    I wish I had more female friends. I only have a few girl buddies and only one I hang out with regularly. The problem is that I find many girls to be bitchy, judgemental and fickle. I have had girlfriends team up and edge me out of the circle and another girlfriend suddenly...
    Louey Louey
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Oct 5, 2007

    Women Can Be So Cruel

    Even in kindergarten my best friends were boys, and I wasn't even boyish girl but just a normal girl. When I went to school all of my bullies were girls. I learned to be careful, and not to trust girls. And even nowadays I find it very hard to be friends with females of my own...
    Fennella Fennella
    31-35, F
    1 Response May 5, 2008
    Spideroh1 Spideroh1
    22-25, M
    1 Response Aug 21, 2015

    Most of the girls I knew were really bitchy.

    So I never really hung out with them. What do girls even talk about?
    DiamondAuthority DiamondAuthority
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 25, 2016


    Women are too complicated to have intellectual conversations with. Which is not to say that women don't have the capacity for such things. I myself am a woman. I only think, that when two or more women are together, they feel more of a 'girlish' bonding than a chance for...
    ainje ainje
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 9, 2007

    I Hate Chicks

    .... now to be fair, i don't hate women. I make a distinction between the 2.... but I'm almost certain you know what i mean- i get along with women who don't really care for your average woman.. i just don't see any point in spending hours talking about something useless, or...
    Shierke Shierke
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Oct 31, 2007

    someone to talk about art with,

    guys/ s*x, someone who is pretty much crazy and fun to be around XD and open
    froofykittenxoxo froofykittenxoxo
    16-17, F
    1 Response Aug 20, 2015

    I really miss having girlfriends.

    I have had some good female friends in the past but now we all live in the different countries and its hard to stay in touch. I myself had moved last year and its not easy to make new friends. Especially female friends for some reason. I think we girls often treat each other...
    littleayeaye littleayeaye
    26-30, F
    Jan 21, 2014

    I Dont Have Any Female Friends Myself

    I dont have men to be friends either they rarely want that mainly I guess im my own best friend sad but true
    passionflower750 passionflower750
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jul 20, 2012

    I Don't Get It??

    If I could even find one close girlfriend I would be amazed...I find making friends in general is really difficult...I mean most people meet each other in high school or college and just remain friends (and good for them)...I have a couple of co-workers that I consider...
    TimeforT TimeforT
    31-35, F
    15 Responses May 4, 2008

    Friends Come And Friends Go

    I truly think that men make better friends, they don't judge you and they are loyal. There is something missing in friendships with women. I have had many female friends while growing up and in high school. I was popular in high school and a lot of men wanted to date me. I was...
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    1 Response Jul 15, 2012
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    Feb 25, 2016

    This is still a mystery

    for me.. I don't have any close female friends. Somehow they tend to leave me and forget about me after I help them and they act like strangers even if I still can see them on social media. I've been betrayed many times by female friends, since highschool.. But I keep trying to...
    heartandbrain heartandbrain
    26-30, F
    Nov 12, 2015
    edwarduk72 edwarduk72
    41-45, M
    Feb 27, 2016

    Friends Do Come And Go

    as much as possible i don't really to have girl friends because many of them are not true person. girls are much insecure through themselves.
    sexymurderedwife sexymurderedwife
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 17, 2012

    I want more! ESP ones I can talk

    and relate to about addiction , ED's, insecuritys . Just be females and discuss Things
    Narik94 Narik94
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 5, 2014

    My "best friends" whom lived right down the

    street from me since elementary school betrayed me in high school. They blamed me for "starting a rumor" about one of them sleeping with some other girls' boyfriend at some party. I had no idea of this at all until I was being shoved in the hallway by a girl who I know could...
    bhappym024 bhappym024
    22-25, F
    Feb 20, 2014

    Hangin With the Guys

    I have always found it so much easier to hang out with guys. Not sure if its because of the cattiness of some woman and back stabbibg that I have dealt with  or because I just relate more to guys. I have only 2 really close girlfriends.
    allyKat allyKat
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Jul 17, 2007

    i don't have any. i had some in middle school.

    i never fit in with them. they never really accepted me. i've always wanted a loyal best friend for life i could talk about stuff i can't tell my boyfriend, sisters, or mother. i always wanted a female companion i could just chill with. do illegal **** with, dye our hair, shave...
    enemyinthemirror enemyinthemirror
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 3, 2014

    So being in late 20s in noticed

    that I have not had close female friends since middle school. It's not for lake.of trying it just never sticks. Many people have told me that other females are threaten by me because of my looks,confidence, smarts and many diffrent skills. Growing up most of my closest friends...
    Sassychick06 Sassychick06
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Sep 1, 2015

    Females Just Do Not Like Me

    When I look at my life, I barely see me having any guy friends much less female friends. During my life I have only ever had one female who was not just my buddy in class, at work, or in a club. Just one, and she is gone. Females have never liked me. I am not sure why.. I can...
    ForgottenMale ForgottenMale
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Apr 26, 2012

    Not Here On Ep

    I don't know why..  I have 5 brothers.. and two brother in laws.. not a solitary sister in the mix.. but I do have some great girlfriends.. and several best friends.. which I'm lucky enough.. some of those are my cousins as well..  I have a couple of girlfriends that...
    Awakening Awakening
    31-35, F
    21 Responses May 15, 2008

    I don't have really many.

    ..... but would like more! :)
    OkamiLeilah OkamiLeilah
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Aug 20, 2015

    I have one friend who's a girl.

    .. but I mean we herded cattle for fun yesterday so does that even count...
    sidneyw24 sidneyw24
    1 Response Aug 20, 2015

    But I Want Some :c

    I have not had a single female friend in about three years - which sucks. I love my guy friends, don't get me wrong, but there's just certain things that are so much easier to share with girls. I can't really fawn over the men I find attractive, I have nobody to talk to about...
    jaimelannister jaimelannister
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Mar 29, 2012

    Hardly Any Female Friends

    It's not like I haven't tried to make friends with girls. I used to have many but as our personalities grew they became more feminine and I did not. I enjoy video games and rock music and do not like gossiping or spending forever on my appearance. I get along great with guys...
    jmoraacdc jmoraacdc
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 7, 2012

    Not many want to hear what I did on the farm,

    or how many fish I caught. Never mind hearing me talk about NASCAR...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Feb 24, 2016

    I Don't Have Many Female Friends So Am Looking For A Female For A Loving Anr Or Abf Relationship In Tampa Bay, Fl.

    I am a Single White Male Searching For Open Minded Female In Tampa Bay, Fl . I am a single white male age 58 searching for an open minded female in Tampa Bay, Florida. If you are out there give me a buzz so that we can chat?
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Nov 28, 2013

    And That's Okay... I Think!

    I do have a few female friends on EP. They're awesome! But I have triple that amount of friends who are male. That's fine with me! I feel more comfortable around guys, for many reasons. But the most important reason is, I am still tom-boyish! =p So, while most...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Feb 14, 2009

    Pretty much the biggest issue with my social

    life. I'm a cautious, polite, considerate guy, and I struggle to communicate appropriately to women, through no wrongdoing. I'm just worried that I'l be rejected because of something I said or asked, and I hate to be seen as a rude pig, after seeing many events when friends of...
    DJMonstaaMasher DJMonstaaMasher
    Mar 9, 2016

    I really would like to find a girl friend

    that's into Spirituality, Meditation, Opening your 3rd eye, trying DMT, Eating healthy (LoL Basically into the things I'm into) I want this person to be able to relate to being on a spiritual path to finding there soul purpose. That can experience Astral Projection with me...
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 19, 2015

    Would love to have a 'best friend'

    that I could tell anything to, do everything with and that I could trust! my best friend drifted, need a real friend that'll stick around no matter what!
    ells97xo ells97xo
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 5, 2014

    I'm sitting here on the couch next to my

    husband. He's watching Netflix and I am trying to watch with him. Somehow, I have gotten myself embroiled in a text-based war of some kind between a few of my acquaintances. All female. They're all losing their ****. All of them are so far passed logical it's cartoony. I'm...
    ungreyme ungreyme
    36-40, F
    Aug 19, 2015

    I find it nice to talk to females they are nice

    and easy to talk to at least most of them are. and I wish I had female friends. yet I can't seem to make any female friends and keep the friendship
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Dec 7, 2015

    As For Me

    Personally, growing up I have always been treated like a boy, taught to play with tonka trucks and cars in the dirt, running around barefooted, rebelling against brushing my hair or changing out of my school clothes before rushing to play outside, learning to box and fight...
    ThaLonelyStoner ThaLonelyStoner
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Apr 6, 2009

    Tons of Guy Friends

    i have tons of guy friends, very few girlfriends and 2 close friends(guys), who knows all my dirty little secrets.... i find it more comfortable to speak and share with my close guy friends than girls. i find that they under stand me better than girls, they give better advice...
    nicorley nicorley
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Oct 2, 2007

    I don't have more than 4 close friends,

    and only one is female. there is a girl at work I'm trying to be friends with, though!
    gingerru gingerru
    22-25, F
    Aug 20, 2015

    I think its very important

    for women to have platonic loving relationships with each other <3 i really do need girlfriends
    CloudPrince CloudPrince
    22-25, T
    Aug 19, 2015

    I miss having my girlfriends to talk to about

    anything, and to be there for me when I needed them as well as me for them. Everything's ok and then before you know it everything's a mess. Life's a b*tch.
    DarkGoddesss DarkGoddesss
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 19, 2014

    Now I Got Nearly No Female Friends !

    Well until highschool i was popular and what is called now a "pimp". After getting seperated from almost all people and entering another division i got stuck with very dull boring and ugly girls and i couldnt stand coming near anyone of them although they tried alot. Now im in...
    hamada259 hamada259
    18-21, M
    Aug 15, 2012
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