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I Dont Have Many Friends

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    It's almost 10pm. My sister

    and I have got 5 unlimited rides passes to a little carnival on the boardwalk. She invites her three friends, which is okay for me because I like most of them. She said I could invite one of my friends. Which one of my friends? I invite my best (guy) friend. He was excited...
    ISellCrackForTheCIA ISellCrackForTheCIA 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2013

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    I Am Just Not a Good Friend...

    I like people. I enjoy their company. Unfortunately, I don't spend much time thinking about them when they are not around. I have one true friend and thats my wife. I would love to have another friend, but even when I try it doesn't happen. Most people are too wrapped up...
    Lionroot Lionroot 41-45, M 3 Responses May 5, 2008

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    Making Friends Is So Tiring..

    I have never been popular or had many friends. I have always had one friend that I was really closed to but it seems that i have always been the one that caters and cares more about the friendship. My bestfriends always end up moving on to I guess more interesting people? I don't...
    lunarcy lunarcy 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 23, 2012

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    Replacement Mother

    When i was little, around 11, my life stopped completely. My little brother, whom i love very much, is disabled. Although he can walk and hear and function normally he has something that doctors cant even figure out i guess. He cannot speak but he can say mom and dad and bye...
    DavesDaughter DavesDaughter 18-21, F 11 Responses Jul 28, 2009

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    Not Much Friends.

    I had lots of friends till I was 16 in 10th grade. No one really talked to me anymore cause I was pregnant the only time they did was when they wanted to feel the baby kick. They called me lots of names that hurt me. I had my boyfriend by my side (: but he was a senior. I was...
    jadebigfan jadebigfan 18-21, F Aug 5, 2013

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    Old Friend

    i used to have a best friend from 6th grade and we hung out everyday at school then came 9th grade and she barly ever came to school but we still hung out when she came and everything was cool but then she moved at the end of 9th grade and ever since barly anyone talks to me and...
    amybrewer amybrewer 16-17 3 Responses May 25, 2009

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    Never Really Thought About It Much..

    When I was a kid I din't have alot of friends, I was picked on alot in school and when we had to relocate often for about two years I sort of became a bit of a shut in . Although I dont like to point fingers I believe it was something I inherited from my mom. When my parents...
    tsunami77 tsunami77 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 4, 2009

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    I Have This Wall Built Up

    i have battled depression and drug addiction. within these past couple years i have realized that no one really cares about another being. the human species is selfish and impatient. humans are magnificent liars. we naturally take the most valuable things for granted. we repulse...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 17, 2012

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    No More Buddy

    i used to have one good buddy.. every weekend we will planing and hang out together before she met some one.. We have known each other for about 11 years.. and recently she met someone (her 1st love) and every things has changed.. no longer outing together .. and she stop...
    physalisred physalisred 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 17, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    It is pretty hard for me to make friends. I am very shy and indecisive. I enjoy staying home often and lazing around and am not a big fan of loud and crowded places like parties...
    Kingme1234 Kingme1234 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 20

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    I didn't know I had so many friends until my senior year spring break of HS (this year)... Nobody ever really invited me to do things... but I have a bunch of different friends (or...
    BlueIce612 BlueIce612 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    Well not that I don't have any, i do have a number of friends I'm close to. It's just that it's really hard for me to get close to someone. I try to be sincerely nice all the time...
    littlederps littlederps 18-21, F Apr 7

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    not knowing how to express yourself is the biggest hurdle in making friends. unluckily for me, expressing myself has never been a skill of mine.
    maggieee5086 maggieee5086 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    Actually, I WANT more friends that are heteroflexible.
    333justme 333justme 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 27

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    Ever since highschool I can Remeber sophomore and freshman year I had this little krew but they were losers not in sports or academically gifted we just smoked a lot of pot. (I...
    Danielle1995195 Danielle1995195 18-21, F Mar 25

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    Whats wrong with me. i talk to myself alot, i don't have many friends, no girlfriend. Stay at home alone. Everytime i walk to the kitchen and talk to myself, like have real...
    Gus1996 Gus1996 16-17, M Mar 18

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    Well... Here it goes! I have no friends. It has always been like that besides the ocational that i took on because he/ she was even sader then myself. Needles to say i got used...
    anchespa33 anchespa33 31-35, F Mar 22

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    I am a freshman at my dream school. Everything is going well. I have great grades, and I already got accepted into my program of studies. While that's all great and exciting, it's...
    Jenbean Jenbean 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    I'm a high school freshman and I don't have any friends at all in school. I'm anti-social and I'm really shy. When I'm in school, I always skip lunch because I have no one to sit...
    SuperKitty99 SuperKitty99 13-15, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I don't have any friends. I used to. I actually had quite a lot when I was in high school. But that was 5 years ago, and I'm in college, have a boyfriend and a busy job. They all...
    RunningFree32 RunningFree32 18-21, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    I actually only have 2 friends max all the rest back stab me, use me and leave me like i was a piece of **** but then again i just stand there like.... "hey. im used to it anyways...
    Callmedarvi Callmedarvi 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    I have no friends but I have a couple but we never hangout I'm always alone n **** n it sucks I stay in my room alone away from my parents I hardly leave the house bc I never get...
    sillygirl008 sillygirl008 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    I am able to accept that I don't have any friends. I have acquaintances. Sometimes I do wish I had people to go out with on my off days but other than that I am content. I am not...
    PinkDolphins PinkDolphins 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 30

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    its not like i dont have any friends, well only if i use the world's criteria of friend. a lot of people claim to be my friend. but for me they are just acquiantances. and i dont...
    mstud17 mstud17 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    I mainly have guy friends. We had a school dance on Friday and he slow danced with me. It was really sweet. He just kept pulling me closer. Then when I got home he texted me and...
    Kenzie5567 Kenzie5567 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I don't have any friends. But I have my girlfriend that I love very much.
    goodvibes813 goodvibes813 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    I don't understand why I literally have zero friends. I'm chill, not a snitch, nice, funny, love music, and I'm really easy to get along with. Yet I am still friendless.
    klewis09 klewis09 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 9

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    I'm almost 51 and have no friends. I'm not involved in any activities, don't go to the bar anymore and have chronic pain so I don't work. I do crafts and household things. This is...
    natjk natjk 46-50, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    Hi all, well so new to this site, I thought I'd just get this off my chest and see where it takes me. I'm a 48 yr old guy from Brisbane Australia and I have a few tales to tell...
    grayarea66 grayarea66 46-50, M 3 hrs ago

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    I have a confession to make. I am having an affair. Yes, it's true. I have two lovers. One is the undeniably successful, practical, reasonable, and ever-attractive science...
    shannonymous shannonymous 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Has anyone ever felt like they are in a place where no one understands them ?where whatever they do is misconstrued and twisted by opportunists into a lie..a lie that has the...
    imp2 imp2 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    Girls scare me. At this age, so many of them are nasty and will gossip about you. But the boys my age tend to be more fun and forgiving, so I've found befriending boys much easier...
    reversi reversi 13-15, F Mar 20

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    Everyday I sit alone at lunch, well I stopped going to lunch halfway through my freshmen year I just sit in the library and draw or go eat in the bathroom if my stomach can't take...
    FrozenBlueberries FrozenBlueberries 16-17, M 7 Responses Mar 31

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    I'm that happy girl you see sitting at the lunch table with her friends laughing and having a really good time. I can make anyone smile and make them feel important. I do good in...
    olivias78 olivias78 13-15, F Mar 25

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    Honestly I don't have any. All my friends have left me ..
    sammylynn333 sammylynn333 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 26

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    I have 5 that I can name Julia, jasmine Sahdia Sidorela Alvi
    Nchikkala Nchikkala 16-17, F Mar 29

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    Let's work from top to bottom. My arms have crap from selfharm. Not very recent, though. Last one was probably like February. The ones are my stomach are also self harm. I have one...
    PanicAtTheDiscount PanicAtTheDiscount 13-15, F a week ago

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    My best friend all through elementary recently moved away. She wasn't the kind of friend you talk to, though, she was just fun to be around. We had the same sense of silly, non...
    Marvilles Marvilles 13-15, F Mar 24

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    Got no friends no best friends no wants to be friends with me it's depressing I act like I'm okay with it in front of my family and at work but deep down I'm not
    Dynamite500 Dynamite500 18-21, M 4 Responses Mar 31

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    I'm getting so annoyed! I have friends, and they're very sweet respectful and loyal ... But they lack one thing I'm looking for.. And that's availability! Like wtf, I would LOVE...
    addictedtoashx3 addictedtoashx3 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    I feel so pathetic always posting about having no friends. But it really does suck having no one just to mess around with. Don't get me wrong family is great but they aren't the...
    vampireforever vampireforever 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I have sacroiliac join pain and back pain controled with a spinal cord stimulator. I had to quit work and can not walk very far without a cane or scooter. All my friends have...
    dede55 dede55 61-65, F Mar 23

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    I'm completely over having friends. Why are my friends fake to me. I just wish they care for me as much as I care for them. Why am I so nice about things and why do they overlook...
    Electricsmile Electricsmile 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    I honestly don't have alot of friends. I usually make friends by following them around until they notice me. I'm too shy to strike up a conversation with a stranger, due to my...
    Hipstercatlover Hipstercatlover 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    Because its nice to be around people who are like you. They understand you and love you for you. Not that straight friends aren't but when your not straight and you have non...
    skitbrownie skitbrownie 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    I remember my first best friend in 4th grade. He introduced me to one of my favorite animes and at the end of the school year he moved away. I've met people growing up and at some...
    RadicalEd4 RadicalEd4 22-25, M Mar 23

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    I feel like I suck at socializing sometimes, like I'm a really cool and nice person, really easy to talk to and a good friend, but I can't seem to make friends or keep them around...
    Experiencezzzz Experiencezzzz 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    Right so I've been talking to this guy for about two months now may be longer he has helped me so much as I was having such a hard time .... He doesn't live near me he's a couple...
    RaniFkayy RaniFkayy 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    I'll be someone's friends!!! I like talking to people and I don't care who you are I will listen to you and all your problems and be your friends! :)
    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    It is official...I went to the men's Sunday school class as usual today. All college educated, successful, wealthy and retired. I explained new career isn't working out and needed...
    1490wayb 1490wayb 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 30

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    I have friends that treat me like crap because I am crazy and I help them with problems but they don't return the favor and if I unfriend them then their is no one else to be...
    nmhusker11 nmhusker11 18-21, M Mar 30

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    Oh well. Life goes on! Friends come and go like the change in seasons. I say **** everyone unless their providing help or some kind of service to you, and or trying to get you to...
    miracle98 miracle98 18-21, F 1 Response