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I Don't Have Time For People Who Don't Have Time For Me

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    I'm Not A Collector

    i am not one of the members here who just keep adding "friends". if i want ya in my circle its cuz i want to put in the time and effort to get to know you. and i have met some really wonderfull people here. people i can talk with and relate to. all because they care enough to...
    Devilonyashoulda Devilonyashoulda 46-50, M May 11, 2012

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    You Are Not Important To Me If I Am Not Worth Your Time

    People who don't respect me. They are saying to me i dont respect myself, therefore you have the right to dis me
    Webfanner Webfanner 31-35 Nov 22, 2012

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    Life

    Do you ever get the feeling your not good enough well i do and it sucks i hate it so i decided im not going to care about what othere people think i am my own person i have to start treating my self like that and not just change who i am because people dont like me who cares like...
    Feb 6, 2013

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    I love being there for people especially

    if they need me, but I will not waste my time on anyone who can't reciprocate what I give, it's only fair.I'm a good daughter,sister,aunt,cousin and friend, but I'm no door mate.
    SloanAvery SloanAvery 18-21, F Jun 13

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    Had to write this after reading a question, because it seems many people on EP say they don't have friends. Understandable, believable as we are on here and being social. Some of...
    dustypork dustypork 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 16

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    Don't Like It When People Are Fake
    michigan11 michigan11 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    Now I'm starting to worry. I just turned 15, and I still have no signs of puberty. No growth, no hair, no nothing. I've always been one of the smallest boys in my class, but it...
    zakkattakk zakkattakk 13-15, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    I moved to Vegas from Europe. I don't have a drivers license and nothing is within walking distance. My friends from home never writes to me anymore. I feel so lonely.
    Desertnight Desertnight 22-25, F Jul 2

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    I'm a very shy person and I don't have many friends. Of course I have my close friends, but other than that I don't have many friends. Maybe you don't mind but for me, friends are...
    HorseBeauty HorseBeauty 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    I don't have any physical friends I wish I had a bestie anyone in the New Jersey area
    lonelymami lonelymami 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    I eat healthy... I work out... I don't have "Cheat" days. I have days that I allow myself to enjoy a burger or take a day off from the gym, but not "Cheat" days. When you refer to...
    biggun1122 biggun1122 36-40, M Jul 20

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    I just don't have a reason to live. Anymore
    Idonthaveanameanymore Idonthaveanameanymore 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I feel really bad that my children don't have a father. He and I were married for ten years before we had children. He was a recovering addict/alcoholic and had been sober for...
    glitterdahlia glitterdahlia 41-45 2 Responses Jun 29

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    Exchanging it for Experience project!. Seriously Facebook used to be great, First time It cam out and I started using it was when I was around 13-14, it was awesome for talking...
    MisssValentine MisssValentine 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    Why do the people that don't even know me instantly see my kindness and sweet heart but the people that love with me instantly hate me and the kids at school who see me everyday...
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F Jul 19

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    I'm so tired of being told how to feel. People are judging things they don't understand. If I want to be angry at the man who abandoned me, I'm allowed to. No one can tell me...
    reneeo11314 reneeo11314 18-21, F Jun 30

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    It's always the exciting people who don't ever make fools of themselves who get all the attention, on or offline.
    thisisausernametoo thisisausernametoo 18-21 Jul 19

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    I dated this guy my junior/senior year of high school. He was always super sweet and of course very cute. I was an idiot and broke it off because of something's people were saying...
    PierceTheOvercastKid PierceTheOvercastKid 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    If you're already plus size and also healthy, then that's great. But I don't understand why people would want to force feed themselves and gain a bunch of weight. I think it's...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F a week ago

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    I have had three people leave me. One came back to me but we are never as close as we were....the other two I don't know what happened. We told each other everything and I trusted...
    skylerGrace skylerGrace 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    Well it's all started when he randomly snap chatted me one day. I didn't know who he was but in the photo he looked cute so I replied. We continued sending pictures and talking and...
    imtoomuch imtoomuch 13-15, F Jul 12

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    Of course. I am finally happy with Adam. Sure he lives 12 hours away, but still. Then, two days ago Tyler texted me. I don't understand him. He broke it off with his girlfriend...
    LittleMsGreenEyes LittleMsGreenEyes 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    All the people who think they are my friends are from school. All of them are religious and hate gays. So they are not my friends. I wish I had someone to talk to about things...
    marcusru marcusru 16-17, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Everyone should just be nice, if you don't like something you should say something nicely instead of shout and yell! The world is full of anger and violence.
    Charliee4 Charliee4 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I met this guy in my first year of college and we got really close, we sort of admitted our feelings to each other but nothing ever happened. Now we don't talk to each other...
    emmacla emmacla 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Yea I don't really like it because it's awkward and you really don't know what to say to the person you use to **** with in the past and the person might have change
    blackpower15 blackpower15 13-15, M 1 day ago

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    My parents don't believe in physical contact unless it's to spank me. The most I've had was when my dad shook my hand when I got good exam results. I hide everything about who I...
    marcusru marcusru 16-17, M 5 days ago

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    Well I don't really want to talk about it but any ways, I don't live with my dad. My mom raise me. n I lived with him n my mom for only 3 1/2 or 4 years then we couldn't take it...
    intellinerdgirl intellinerdgirl 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    But now I need it. Just someone to listen I guess, I don't really know. I had a moral dilemma two nights ago. A friends cousin hit on me. I absolutely reveled in the attention...
    thetruthaboutthedollhouse thetruthaboutthedollhouse 26-30, F Jul 2

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    Dated a guy 4 1/2 years ago we been friends since we broke up we stop talking because he was hitting on me while in a relationship so I decided to send all our text message to his...
    chardia chardia 18-21, F Jul 11

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    I want one sooo much :( whenever I go to my aunties i don't leave Caspar the whippet alone.
    MollyMeggs MollyMeggs 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I don't care if you are fat, skinny, attractive, ugly, black, white, have long hair, or have short hair. If you treat me good, I'll like you. It's as simple as that.
    SamLGirl SamLGirl 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I don't care about bodies. Period. I like guys from nerdy and super smart guys, to bad boys, to sporty muscly guys, to really hilarious boys! I HAVE NO TYPE! 😃
    Tshoraga1 Tshoraga1 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I'm 18 and I still haven't gotten my period my doctor says I'm a late bloomer but find that hard to believe so I get really scared because I feel like until it comes I'll never be...
    Alisa54 Alisa54 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I've never known my Dad. All I know is that he took off when I was little. All I know of him is through photos and back talk from my mother's side of the family. I never really...
    Melodicwhisper Melodicwhisper 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    My dad left me and my family and he's an alcoholic. He doesn't do anything for us yet blames me for everything like I did something wrong when he's the one that left.
    isabellamancini isabellamancini 13-15, F Jul 5

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    It's sad how you can walk past somebody who at one time meant the world to you.
    JMC92 JMC92 18-21, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    As I watched the movie "Earthlings" (narrated by Joaquin Phoenix), I couldn't stop myself from crying. I actually bawled my eyes out. The things people do to animals worldwide is...
    TrailrunnerMN TrailrunnerMN 31-35, M Jul 2

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    People call it negativity I call it living in reality. I mean seriously! I'm not going to believe in what cannot happen!
    YLIhououin YLIhououin 18-21, M Jul 19

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    I tend to drift away from people too many times, so I tend to find myself with a select few as friends.
    RoddyB7589 RoddyB7589 16-17, M Jul 2

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    why do people have to be like that?on one hand,these people act as if they are ur bestest of friends and nobody in the world can care for you more ...and on the other,u see them...
    happinesslieswithin happinesslieswithin 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    You would think that it bothers me, but it doesn't. People bring drama and I am too grown to deal with that.
    Katherinex13 Katherinex13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    Since I have moved to Portland 10 months ago, I haven't made any friends. I find most of the people here boring and superficial. I find people here in the Pacific Northwest very...
    derkosmonaut derkosmonaut 41-45, M 3 Responses Jul 3

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    Due to my independent nature it's difficult for me to reach out for help. I found out that you have to depend on yourself, because people with good intentions tend to not want to...
    LillyPad80 LillyPad80 41-45, F Jul 14

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    Tonight I ran into an ex I thought I was over but seeing them brought all the feelings back, I now can't stop thinking about them.
    JMC92 JMC92 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    So this was my last day of driving with my instructor. I've improved quite a lot. For the past three days, students were taking me home with the instructor. I would expect to have...
    Dapperness Dapperness 16-17, F Jul 3

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    16 years ago. It happened. I was born. By accident. Drugs, alcohol and carelessness made me. And then I was born. 16 years on A man i will never know nor my mother. Just those...
    ronronn ronronn 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 10

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