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I Don't Have Time For People Who Don't Have Time For Me

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    I'm Not A Collector

    i am not one of the members here who just keep adding "friends". if i want ya in my circle its cuz i want to put in the time and effort to get to know you. and i have met some really wonderfull people here. people i can talk with and relate to. all because they care enough to...
    Devilonyashoulda Devilonyashoulda 46-50, M May 11, 2012

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    I love being there for people especially

    if they need me, but I will not waste my time on anyone who can't reciprocate what I give, it's only fair.I'm a good daughter,sister,aunt,cousin and friend, but I'm no door mate.
    SloanAvery SloanAvery 18-21, F Jun 13

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    Life

    Do you ever get the feeling your not good enough well i do and it sucks i hate it so i decided im not going to care about what othere people think i am my own person i have to start treating my self like that and not just change who i am because people dont like me who cares like...
    Feb 6, 2013

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    You Are Not Important To Me If I Am Not Worth Your Time

    People who don't respect me. They are saying to me i dont respect myself, therefore you have the right to dis me
    Webfanner Webfanner 31-35 Nov 22, 2012

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    Now I'm starting to worry. I just turned 15, and I still have no signs of puberty. No growth, no hair, no nothing. I've always been one of the smallest boys in my class, but it...
    zakkattakk zakkattakk 13-15, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Had to write this after reading a question, because it seems many people on EP say they don't have friends. Understandable, believable as we are on here and being social. Some of...
    dustypork dustypork 26-30, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Single and Loving It! When you don't have a boyfriend or a girlfriend (I'm being fair to everyone here) it gives you plenty of time for YOU. You can hang out with your friends all...
    FR3DR1CKA FR3DR1CKA 16-17, F Jun 24

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    I'm 20 and still don't have my driver's license. People usually get their permit when they're 15, I got mine at 17. I want my license before I turn 21 at least, though.
    sailorantares sailorantares 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    I moved to Vegas from Europe. I don't have a drivers license and nothing is within walking distance. My friends from home never writes to me anymore. I feel so lonely.
    Desertnight Desertnight 22-25, F Jul 2

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    I'm a very shy person and I don't have many friends. Of course I have my close friends, but other than that I don't have many friends. Maybe you don't mind but for me, friends are...
    HorseBeauty HorseBeauty 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    I don't have any physical friends I wish I had a bestie anyone in the New Jersey area
    lonelymami lonelymami 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I eat healthy... I work out... I don't have "Cheat" days. I have days that I allow myself to enjoy a burger or take a day off from the gym, but not "Cheat" days. When you refer to...
    biggun1122 biggun1122 36-40, M 1 day ago

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    I feel really bad that my children don't have a father. He and I were married for ten years before we had children. He was a recovering addict/alcoholic and had been sober for...
    glitterdahlia glitterdahlia 41-45 2 Responses Jun 29

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    Exchanging it for Experience project!. Seriously Facebook used to be great, First time It cam out and I started using it was when I was around 13-14, it was awesome for talking...
    MisssValentine MisssValentine 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Why do the people that don't even know me instantly see my kindness and sweet heart but the people that love with me instantly hate me and the kids at school who see me everyday...
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    I used to think I was adopted. I have 5 siblings, and they each have several thick photo albums from when they were kids. I have maybe two photos from when I was a kid, but no baby...
    Solfeggio Solfeggio 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    I'm so tired of being told how to feel. People are judging things they don't understand. If I want to be angry at the man who abandoned me, I'm allowed to. No one can tell me...
    reneeo11314 reneeo11314 18-21, F Jun 30

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    It's always the exciting people who don't ever make fools of themselves who get all the attention, on or offline.
    thisisausernametoo thisisausernametoo 18-21 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Yokes, who the hell wants ink poisoning? And honestly you want that on you saggy skin when you turn old? - Unless you remove it which is painful. There are people who feel in love...
    FunnyandNerdy FunnyandNerdy 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 23

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    I dated this guy my junior/senior year of high school. He was always super sweet and of course very cute. I was an idiot and broke it off because of something's people were saying...
    rie76 rie76 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    If you're already plus size and also healthy, then that's great. But I don't understand why people would want to force feed themselves and gain a bunch of weight. I think it's...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 16 hrs ago

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    I have had three people leave me. One came back to me but we are never as close as we were....the other two I don't know what happened. We told each other everything and I trusted...
    skylerGrace skylerGrace 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    Well it's all started when he randomly snap chatted me one day. I didn't know who he was but in the photo he looked cute so I replied. We continued sending pictures and talking and...
    imtoomuch imtoomuch 13-15, F Jul 12

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    Ok, i don't usually do this kind of things but my friend mentioned something about it. So, honey this is for you, i hope you enjoyWe are alone in the room. The nose of outside is...
    MayaMoonShadow MayaMoonShadow 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 26

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    Man I would slap and punch every stupid and fake girls that think they can look down on me cause I don't do make up or have long hair or dress up and show my skin or have super...
    FighterWolf FighterWolf 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    But now I need it. Just someone to listen I guess, I don't really know. I had a moral dilemma two nights ago. A friends cousin hit on me. I absolutely reveled in the attention...
    thetruthaboutthedollhouse thetruthaboutthedollhouse 26-30, F Jul 2

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    Dated a guy 4 1/2 years ago we been friends since we broke up we stop talking because he was hitting on me while in a relationship so I decided to send all our text message to his...
    chardia chardia 18-21, F Jul 11

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    I want one sooo much :( whenever I go to my aunties i don't leave Caspar the whippet alone.
    MollyMeggs MollyMeggs 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I don't care about bodies. Period. I like guys from nerdy and super smart guys, to bad boys, to sporty muscly guys, to really hilarious boys! I HAVE NO TYPE! 😃
    Tshoraga1 Tshoraga1 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    Hey again. I don't really get enough sleep. Especially for my age. We're supposed to have ten hours or so. I usually go to bed at 10:00 , 10:30 and don't fall asleep until at...
    Angel1509 Angel1509 13-15, F Jun 27

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    I've never known my Dad. All I know is that he took off when I was little. All I know of him is through photos and back talk from my mother's side of the family. I never really...
    Melodicwhisper Melodicwhisper 16-17, F Jul 6

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    I don't care if you are fat, skinny, attractive, ugly, black, white, have long hair, or have short hair. If you treat me good, I'll like you. It's as simple as that.
    SamLGirl SamLGirl 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    My dad left me and my family and he's an alcoholic. He doesn't do anything for us yet blames me for everything like I did something wrong when he's the one that left.
    isabellamancini isabellamancini 13-15, F Jul 5

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    As I watched the movie "Earthlings" (narrated by Joaquin Phoenix), I couldn't stop myself from crying. I actually bawled my eyes out. The things people do to animals worldwide is...
    TrailrunnerMN TrailrunnerMN 31-35, M Jul 2

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    People call it negativity I call it living in reality. I mean seriously! I'm not going to believe in what cannot happen!
    YLIhououin YLIhououin 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    But sometimes I have to there's a guy on ep that i blocked and he keeps making more accounts and messaging me this is the 3rd time I've had to block the same person
    jaynick15 jaynick15 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    I tend to drift away from people too many times, so I tend to find myself with a select few as friends.
    RoddyB7589 RoddyB7589 16-17, M Jul 2

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    why do people have to be like that?on one hand,these people act as if they are ur bestest of friends and nobody in the world can care for you more ...and on the other,u see them...
    happinesslieswithin happinesslieswithin 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    You would think that it bothers me, but it doesn't. People bring drama and I am too grown to deal with that.
    Katherinex13 Katherinex13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    Since I have moved to Portland 10 months ago, I haven't made any friends. I find most of the people here boring and superficial. I find people here in the Pacific Northwest very...
    derkosmonaut derkosmonaut 41-45, M 3 Responses Jul 3

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    So this was my last day of driving with my instructor. I've improved quite a lot. For the past three days, students were taking me home with the instructor. I would expect to have...
    Dapperness Dapperness 16-17, F Jul 3

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    16 years ago. It happened. I was born. By accident. Drugs, alcohol and carelessness made me. And then I was born. 16 years on A man i will never know nor my mother. Just those...
    ronronn ronronn 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 10

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    Due to my independent nature it's difficult for me to reach out for help. I found out that you have to depend on yourself, because people with good intentions tend to not want to...
    LillyPad80 LillyPad80 41-45, F a week ago

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    It's so frustrating. Everywhere I turn, whether it be my fathers side or mothers side of the family, there is no connections. What bothers me more is the lack of communication, the...
    Lifelover27 Lifelover27 18-21, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Maybe it was not clear when we met online - I was looking for someone to talk to , to have fun with. We were both adults. It was a simple proposition; we chat, we exchange pics...
    shydate shydate 66-70, M 1 Response Jun 22

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    I'm done with Facebook....no more War Commander. Full time in EP is good enough. :)
    ab2x2 ab2x2 41-45, M Jun 26

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    I've been independent for so long and it bothers me to have to ask for help. But people encourage me too I try to ask for help when I need it
    DepressedButWellDressed DepressedButWellDressed 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 8

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