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I Don't Have Time For People Who Don't Have Time For Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 76 People

    I love being there for people especially

    if they need me, but I will not waste my time on anyone who can't reciprocate what I give, it's only fair.I'm a good daughter,sister,aunt,cousin and friend, but I'm no door mate.
    SloanAvery SloanAvery 18-21, F Jun 13, 2014

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    You Are Not Important To Me If I Am Not Worth Your Time

    People who don't respect me. They are saying to me i dont respect myself, therefore you have the right to dis me
    Webfanner Webfanner 31-35 Nov 22, 2012

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    I'm Not A Collector

    i am not one of the members here who just keep adding "friends". if i want ya in my circle its cuz i want to put in the time and effort to get to know you. and i have met some really wonderfull people here. people i can talk with and relate to. all because they care enough to...
    Devilonyashoulda Devilonyashoulda 46-50, M May 11, 2012

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