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I Don't Have to Explain Myself to Anyone

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    Except - I Want to - Not everyone, I just want to explain the way I feel, what I need, and who I am to one special person. Will I ever be able to do that...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 2 Responses May 7, 2009

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    Think Again. - there are very few people in this world that i feel i have to explain myself to and people on the net, for the most part, are at the bottom of the list. i'm an adult...
    jerrica jerrica 41-45, F 5 Responses Jul 25, 2010

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    I Don't.... - I don't have to explain myself to anyone, if you don't like what you see, than leave. I am so sick of it all. I am sick of having to explain everything about myself...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 29, 2009

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    But I Do..........repeatedly - I can't seem to help myself. If I feel that anyone in anyway is disappointed in something I have said or done. Well, I either backpetal really fast...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 5, 2009

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    Unless I Want to That Is - If you don't understand me... just ask.  I don't mind explaining but whatever you do...don't assume and don't PLEASE don't try to make me...
    ichooselife ichooselife 36-40, F 12 Responses May 23, 2009

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    Not Anymore - Oh yes, there was a time when I would offer up all kinds of information that I really had no obligation to anyone to do so. I think in part my marriages were doomed...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 25, 2011

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    I Owe Them Nothing - I used to feel like I had to justify myself to everyone. If I wanted to be left alone, I felt like I had to explain why. If I didn't want to go do something I...
    FactoPlast98 FactoPlast98 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 22, 2009

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    Who Do You Think You Are - Who do you think you are,Asking me,To explain myself to you?Not on your life,You know why,Know what you've done,Confess,Or I'll find out!
    startinover1 startinover1 46-50 Apr 4, 2012

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    You are who you are!! You don't owe anyone an explanation for the thinks you do. ESPECIALLY if it doesn't affect anybody. As long as you understand why you are doing what you're...
    Addictivethickness Addictivethickness 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 22

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    But Yet.. - Here I am again, feeling the need to explain myself. I guess I'm on the site because it offers more outside perspective if people feel strongly enough to comment on any...
    ChocSwurl ChocSwurl 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 4, 2011

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    My Hubby Seems to Think I Should - In order to keep confusion down. For instance, the other day, his step-niece came over and was trying to call her dad on the phone. She asked me...
    Dimples87 Dimples87 22-25, F 2 Responses May 28, 2009

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    My Choice - I don't have to justify why I lead the life I do, I should be left to do as I please. BUT I will always appreciate good hearted advice, after all I am only a kid.
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 10, 2010

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    So What.. - So what if I am not like you...So what if I see things different. Who and what I am is nothing to do with you. The knowledge I keep hidden, the secrets I hold, they set...
    Akaia897 Akaia897 22-25, F Mar 12, 2011

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