I "don't Judge A Book By Its Cover"

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    By this saying i'am describing You Stranger.

    I mean one cannot simply judge a person by the way he/she looks, their body appearance or their personality, those are just physical enhancements, every human being has got few negatives & positives in them and it attracts everyone, i'm not denying that, physical appearance is...
    Tryingtofixthingsnow Tryingtofixthingsnow
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jun 21, 2015

    I don't judge book by its cover the same thing

    I do with people. I don't judge them by how they look.
    NikkiCOCO NikkiCOCO
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 19, 2015

    I judge the content of the book

    or maybe reviews. ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†
    wonderfulgrayce wonderfulgrayce
    31-35, F
    Jun 19, 2015

    There is definitely no point,

    the real thing is buried in the pages. It applies to everything. Even the nature of one dog of a similar breed is different than another from the same breed. All books by a certain author maybe well written but we cannot write a review about all of them by just reading one. We...
    airliner2111 airliner2111
    51-55, M
    1 Response Jun 2, 2015

    Today, some guy judged me

    for being gay/pansexual. He didn't even try to get to know me, he just judged me for my sexuality. I stood up to him, and he blocked me. Again, some guy judged me for what I look like. So, I told him to F off and I blocked him. I can't stand people who judge other's like...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses May 31, 2015

    I "don't judge a book by its cover".

    To me I like you for your personality. I don't care what you look like. I care if you are nice and sweet to me. So if you are the ugly and no one likes u. I will be there for you because no one like me as it is because I am fat and not as pretty as other girls. So if you need...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses May 29, 2015

    People see me a they see a fifth grader.

    I'm really almost 15 and I'm going into 11th grade.
    pardax pardax
    16-17, M
    May 29, 2015

    Just put me back on the shelf.

    Read me, because you cannot live my story. You must save yourself from the trauma. Read me like a book, then close it up and replace to the shelf. That is what is best for you. Why? Because I will destroy any faith in tomorrow you thought you ever had. You believe it is me who...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses May 27, 2015

    it's simple to judge book by its cover,

    to judge what happens in your life without knowing deeply the situation. It's easy to judge others when you don't know anything about them It's easy, it's lazy, it's stupid
    Enjoyyourlife Enjoyyourlife
    26-30, M
    1 Response May 26, 2015

    Its always nice to make someone's day,

    I sat with a girl at lunch who was literally alone at this table, and it was because people thought she was weird... I mush be weird as well because we actually have a lot in common and became good friends. Do something good today.
    CaptnMyah15 CaptnMyah15
    18-21, F
    May 19, 2015

    I once saw a book that had a comedian on the

    front cover and the title read "My autobiography". I still have no idea what that book was about.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 17, 2015

    I give it at least three chapters within the

    expected time frame of my thirst for all things of interest. Then, if it does not capture my mind and place it upon the fine lines inserted between and nestled within its written words, then I will judge it. I do however place my own opinionated smartassities within the...
    PrettyOldSoul PrettyOldSoul
    46-50, F
    4 Responses May 17, 2015

    Alright, well firstly,

    people like this hurt me. 90% of people now ONLY care about how someone's body looks, girls are constantly getting surgery JUST because a guy they like don't "accept" the way they are now. In my personal opinion, you should just be yourself, because THAT is what's going to...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses May 12, 2015

    I really don't; but sometimes

    when you end up having a bad book, you feel like 'why on this earth have I chosen it? Perhaps I should have judged it earlier. Such a waste of time.'
    hiddentears hiddentears
    26-30, F
    May 8, 2015

    People are so driven by looks,

    body structure...the pretty face.... One doesn't know what is going on that face, whether she is super pretty, looking at her...she takes a lot of time doing herself up....maybe she has a confidence issue, or maybe she just likes to look that way.... I am a Care aid, I have...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Apr 23, 2015

    I've spent a full day messing here on ep

    and I'm quite astounded at the amount of frauds an fakes ...... Do you you want me to name you or would it be easier if you just blocked me ... You know who you are so do it or I will
    Wellshaved64 Wellshaved64
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Apr 13, 2015

    But when you know the book,

    and never seen it's cover... It's an odd thing. Update: My friend that wants to marry me settled down. He understands now that he could not just drop that on me. And on Easter, he helped my daughter's friend's family. What can I say? He knows my soft spots. So, he wanted me...
    Stickwithmebaby Stickwithmebaby
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Apr 11, 2015

    But lately I've developed a serious thing

    for blond man with wavy longish hair. If they also have a beard... Wow. <3
    ElizabethRives ElizabethRives
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 8, 2015

    Peoples voices are the creation of the town we

    live in today. We only listen to the things we want to hear. The expanding and growth of a lie makes only the smallest yet spoken truth. We feed off of the weak to succeed in our own home but yet stay absent in their own eyes. It's more than fear that travels through small...
    JohnsonJess JohnsonJess
    22-25, F
    Apr 4, 2015

    Give people the benefit of the doubt,

    even people of whom you might have bad frist impression. Everyone is fighting a big fight. Assume they have good reassion for being the way they are, doing what they do, and believing what they believe.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Mar 30, 2015

    When you're younger..

    .you very much look just on the outside of a person. If they don't look a certain way or whatever, then you don't want to get to know them further than that. I wasn't popular when I was in school, was overweight even then (not as much as I am now), but people used to judge me...
    RubyLane RubyLane
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Mar 26, 2015

    I have learned that although most are attracted

    to the physical look, including me. I find that those with less in the "looks" department are usually the better person inside. This is a study that's in progress so present yourself to,be studied.
    handymann4u handymann4u
    51-55, M
    1 Response Mar 26, 2015

    I think I am a fairly easy going guy

    who doesnt judge others and gets on with other people .
    nakednudist nakednudist
    46-50, M
    Mar 25, 2015

    May be some body know how to prove this

    but some are not they said bad things after you talk to theme so I don't agree to this๐Ÿ™…
    verlaidamendoza28 verlaidamendoza28
    61-65, F
    1 Response Mar 15, 2015

    My friends laugh at me

    for this, but I don't judge a book by its cover when it comes to people, but I will judge a real book by its cover. If the cover catches my attention, I will most likely pick it up and read it.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Mar 11, 2015

    I am hoping there is more to each one of us

    than just our looks. Yes, there are people absorbed by their looks. They usually try out as movies stars. There are some so into themselves that the rest of the world doesn't exist! It is a sound reasoning, don't just a book by its cover!
    Astrucbmt Astrucbmt
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 10, 2015

    The flesh shall always rot

    but the spirit will always linger!In other words,I don't hate race,I hate ********!;)
    Spitbak Spitbak
    46-50, M
    Mar 6, 2015

    well a lot of people say this

    and we mean well... but at times we all do
    marinerob marinerob
    51-55, M
    3 Responses Mar 1, 2015

    It's a very simplistic mentality to have

    towards people. The human psyche is still not completely understold, therefore, passing judgement on someone prior to first having a conversation with them is at the very least shallow. It's ludicrous and displays your lack of intelligence to be honest. This is all.
    MysticalUnicorn14 MysticalUnicorn14
    26-30, F
    Feb 26, 2015

    Yes this is true cuz

    when we meet some people but first they always angry but try to connect theme then time will prove they have a good heart. I always prove it in many times. Just tryyyyyyy๐Ÿ‘๐ŸŒน๐ŸŒน๐ŸŒน๐ŸŒน๐ŸŒน
    verlaidamendoza28 verlaidamendoza28
    61-65, F
    1 Response Feb 21, 2015

    When people look at me,

    they see what I put out there for them to see. I hope they see a smart, driven and sensible person who treats people with respect, and expects only the same from them. I have high standards, good values and morals, and I project this to others. I get on well with my colleagues...
    Saintlysinner Saintlysinner
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Feb 12, 2015

    Often when I pick up a book,

    I barely glance the cover before I am onto the first page trying to decide whether it takes my interest. I read a few pages, get a feel for it, see if the spark is there before I commit to delving into the entire thing and reading to the end. I am the same with people. I like...
    Saintlysinner Saintlysinner
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Feb 9, 2015

    I don't do that at all.

    I don't care what you look like on the outside. I care about whats on the inside. What we talk about. Your personality. Whether you are nice or sweet or you're funny. I don't judge people based on what they look like. Your mind and heart are what I really care about
    Raptax231 Raptax231
    22-25, M
    1 Response Feb 1, 2015

    On the outside I look like a future trouble

    maker , but on the inside I'm so much more
    Iamalostcause Iamalostcause
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Jan 26, 2015

    That could be the one person

    that changes your life forever..for better or for worse
    Lat3night Lat3night
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 21, 2015

    I work, study, work out,

    go to church and have a comfortable home. I wear nice clothes, keep my hair neat and I smile. Don't think from this costume that I've have had an easy life or I'm privileged or naive. When I take my shirt off you see the scars, stretch marks, burn holes and tattoos. Look at my...
    amwolf amwolf
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Jan 19, 2015

    I left EP last year but

    now I'm back. The thing I like about this site is being able to talk to people from all walks of life that I'd never be exposed to offline. Deep down we're all the same.
    amwolf amwolf
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Jan 18, 2015

    i look like a boy because i feel like a guy

    inside. people find it weird, do you find it weird?
    dragonshine dragonshine
    22-25, T
    3 Responses Jan 18, 2015

    We all present different versions of ourselves

    to the world. One version at work. One version to family. One version to friends. And so on. Just because you look a certain way at any given time, doesn't mean that defines who you are !!
    picklebobble picklebobble
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Jan 9, 2015

    I'm not as I seem and I feel like others are

    the same way I meet them first
    savigirl14 savigirl14
    18-21, F
    Jan 3, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 1, 2015

    and I don't judge people by appearance.

    ..it freaks me out when looks are the basis for forming of a opinion...
    AmarieOfTheVanyar AmarieOfTheVanyar
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 1, 2015

    The adventure, the story,

    the joy, the pain, the trust, and the love story does not lay in the cover of the book, but is in each of the pages underneath. :)
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 30, 2014

    I try not to judge people

    but over the Internet I find it easier to judge especilly when people are rude and ignorant. In the real world I don't judge but I find that people judge me without knowing me.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Dec 30, 2014

    I met many people who often made their opinion

    about something or somebody before they talked to him ir her or before they imformed themselves about it. I think that is sad and often the reason why people don't get along with each other.
    Nickgermany Nickgermany
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Dec 19, 2014

    i think books are to be judged by its content

    not by its cover bcs we only relate to the matter present in it some of my fav. are the sleepover series, hetan bhagat , gerenomo stilton and many more after all books are man's best friends no complaints and no demands
    Ahaanaa Ahaanaa
    16-17, F
    Dec 18, 2014

    I am not perfect and I don't claim to be

    and I don't have all the answers. But this whole thing going on with race and color and it's like what century are we living in 2014 or 1814. I do my best not to judge others on appearance because I know what it is like to be judged so I have no right. Color or race isn't a...
    mlcockrell mlcockrell
    41-45, M
    1 Response Dec 11, 2014

    How come society makes us feel bad

    for thinking out the box when all the time it's made up to control us. Come play at secreterotica . com it's sexy, fun the groups and library are wicked and no BS censorship either.
    YouKnowItMakesSense YouKnowItMakesSense
    31-35, M
    Nov 28, 2014

    How come society makes us feel bad

    for thinking out the box when all the time it's made up to control us. Come play at secreterotica . com it's sexy, fun the groups and library are wicked and no BS censorship either.
    YouKnowItMakesSense YouKnowItMakesSense
    31-35, M
    Nov 28, 2014

    โ€œI have come to accept the feeling of not

    knowing where I am going. And I have trained myself to love it. Because it is only when we are suspended in mid-air with no landing in sight, that we force our wings to unravel and alas begin our flight. And as we fly, we still may not know where we are going to. But the miracle...
    greatestfear greatestfear
    31-35, F
    Nov 22, 2014

    ......but I have been trained to avoid

    pedophiles and pervs. Just leave me alone!
    caterpillarwaiting caterpillarwaiting
    18-21, F
    Nov 17, 2014

    Boy: hey i think we should take our

    relationship up a step Girl: awe do u need me to wall u back down there? Boy:wtf? Back to whee? Girl: that mother fckn friendzone u just tried to escape from ๐Ÿ˜‚
    Time4kush Time4kush
    26-30, M
    4 Responses Nov 14, 2014

    โ€œEvery man has his secret sorrows

    which the world knows not; and often times we call a man cold when he is only sad.โ€ โ€• Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
    greatestfear greatestfear
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Nov 12, 2014

    as much as I want to accept

    that , there is some hippocrasy in my intentention and I'm not to be blamed for that completely. our society has prioritized looks to the extent that many of us are suffering from insecurities. myself included. I admit when a good looking guy flirts with me I would like it...
    tensai420 tensai420
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 10, 2014

    I never judge... because nobody is perfect.

    There's always another side of the story.
    greatestfear greatestfear
    31-35, F
    1 Response Nov 10, 2014

    I'm a very unique person myself.

    I never judge a book by its cover because you never know that persons story or what they've been through.
    WhySoSerious14 WhySoSerious14
    26-30, M
    Nov 8, 2014

    i might be impressed by the cover n looks

    but i always wanna dwell deeper into things...wanna know the true self of things n people...wanna dig the hidden truths....i wish i find someone pure inside..someone to understand what purity is....sometimes to dig deeper u have to be unafraid of getting ur hands dirty but it...
    sincerehuman sincerehuman
    26-30, F
    Oct 29, 2014

    No I don't. Especially

    because you never know who you are going to meet. The Universe truly doesn't care when it comes to bringing spirits together. Why would it? To the Universe everything is energy and frequency. Clothes and occupation don't effect that beyond your mood and feelings in a...
    Aiyana77 Aiyana77
    36-40, T
    3 Responses Oct 19, 2014

    Many people feel they lack the intelligence to

    find the higher way, but this is merely a misunderstanding. Intelligence has nothing to do with college degrees or public fame or even the reading of many books. Authentic intelligence is the willingness to exchange fancy for fact, to exchange imaginary self-pictures for healthy...
    CrystalRainsPearls CrystalRainsPearls
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Oct 18, 2014

    I don't judge anyone

    unless they give me a good reason to. I think speaking untruthfully of others is unacceptable. Unless it is true, then leave it to them for their own problems to solve. Although, it comes naturally to humans, it should always be to yourself
    alugaaq alugaaq
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 15, 2014
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