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I Don't Know How to Break Down My Defensive Wall

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    Here is Practical Explanation about Next Life,

    Purpose of Human Life, philosophical/religious facts, theories etc. ___________________________ *********** Practical Explanation ( For Example ) :- `1st of all can you tell me every single seconds detail from that time when you born ?? ( i need every seconds detail ?? that what...
    bolt0 bolt0 22-25, M Dec 8, 2013

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    Cold Dark Mask :D

    i hid my emotions. i never let it out. because if i did she wouldn't tell me how she was feeling. i was down but still more stable then she was. i now really struggle to get rid of my emotion . i can express it but i bottle it up and up and just cant get rid of it ! >.<...
    MiskaMaskedOne MiskaMaskedOne 18-21 Sep 26, 2013

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    At Long Last

    I fell in love with my current boyfriend back when I was 12.  We never dated through out high school, and later in life he broke my heart.   I've since created a wall around my heart.  For the first time, we actually started a relationship with each other. ...
    NoOneOfConsequence NoOneOfConsequence 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 20, 2008

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    Instincts

    I do not know how to tear down walls that have been built by unconscious processes. In all honesty, I don't think I would want to break down my walls.  They are there for a reason.  They are there to protect me.  They are the result of time and of lessons learned.  No longer...
    permafrost21 permafrost21 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 22, 2012

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    Life After Abuse

    I was also abused in a 11 year marriage and have two great kids from that time. I have been hiding behind my kids, work, college. I managed to get my bachelor's degree with an online university. I've been divorced for over 6 years. A few nice men have asked me out, but I...
    michlhi michlhi 41-45 1 Response Aug 11, 2010

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    I Just Don't Know How To Fix It

    Hey, I'm in a relationship with this guy who loves me and I live him back, but I can't give him or anyone in my life my complete love because it's guarded by a wall. This wall is so strong, it sometimes feels like it's phycically there. History:  I haven't always been...
    Lyssmix Lyssmix 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 27, 2010

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    How Do You Trust Enough, and How Do I Handle the Pain That Is Bound to Come?

    Every time my wall comes down, I end up getting hurt ... and I don't mean just a little hurt, no, the real thing When I let people in, I really let them in, and more often then not, I get the sand kicked in my eyes.
    kinkitty kinkitty 36-40, F 50 Responses Apr 27, 2008

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    Looking For a Job

    I hate being a teenager looking for a job. I walk into a store that looks promising, a store that looks as though it is hiring, with head held up high. But then I walk inside the store itself and boom! It's like all my self-confidence has flown into the ionosphere. I don't...
    rustyguy rustyguy 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 3, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    Hmmm there are so many things I really feel inadequate to deal with. stupidity being at the top of the list. I can't. I don't know how to. It's that simple. My passive aggressive...
    Lovinu0429 Lovinu0429 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    I don't know how to tell her that I like diapers . I am scared that when I tell her she will object to my choice . This is how it started when I was browsing the web I saw a video...
    thatkid123rt thatkid123rt 22-25, M Aug 15

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    Ok to make this brief, my husbands stepsister is the person who introduced us. When I actually started going out with him she did a complete U-turn and became quiet nasty. By the...
    hopingformiracles hopingformiracles 22-25 Aug 17

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    The man who sexually assaulted my ex fiance when he was a young boy gave me a hug today. I DON'T KNOW HOW TO FEEL ABOUT THAT.
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 1 Response Aug 2

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    I really don't know how to flirt and reciprocate to flirt. any one good in that?
    Saarikaa Saarikaa 36-40, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    So my mom sent this(last message).. And I don't know how to feel/respond..
    akaShaun akaShaun 16-17, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I don't know if I should answer him "yes", because I don't know which is which, is it because I love him or pity him? I don't even know what should I feel about him right now...
    Misaki7590 Misaki7590 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    I want to help people but its hard. I can barely help myself. I have so many issues too. When I go to get some "me" time I end up leaving my friends to suffer alone. I feel so bad...
    ponycupcake ponycupcake 18-21, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    I guess it's because I've never really had people compliment me, other than my parents and friends? Whenever someone compliments me, which is rare but not unheard of, I always...
    Sasha0827 Sasha0827 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    If someone says "I love you" and you don't know what to say, say "I love YouTube" really fast and make a hasty exit.
    NarutoShippudenFanGirl NarutoShippudenFanGirl 16-17, F Jul 29

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    My friend has probably forgotten about this, but she doesn't take me seriously. I was going through lots of stuff yesterday and she thought I was seeking for attention. I don't...
    Atraxiella Atraxiella 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    I'm such an awkward person! I literally don't know what to do! A guy will say I'm cute and I'll reply with "your face...I like that"
    lillylolz lillylolz 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 10

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    Honestly I need I girlfriend. I don't know why but the girls at my school always go for the douches while the actual popular people (im a part of) get none of them. Im nice, I care...
    GingaJustice GingaJustice 13-15, M a week ago

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    I do but I don't . I mean I can do it professionally if its beneficial to my wallet or my performance but if I like someone or think theyre attractive I lose all positive social...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F Aug 17

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    I like Dylan so much. It's like were so compatible and I think he's cute and has a fun personality. I told him how I felt about him, about some previous relationships I have had...
    betweenlustandlove betweenlustandlove 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 13

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    I'm going through a hard moment in my life. I have a little brother, and I'm lost about how to make him happy. He told me I hurt him all the time, and sadly it is true. I want to...
    vinniciusshnider vinniciusshnider 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 29

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    So this is a weird situation this is more of a question than a story but ok I'm only 13 I've never had a bf never had my first kiss nothing...my 11 year old friend has a 14 year...
    kathie2000 kathie2000 13-15, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    This would have to be one of the hardest things for me to do. Sometimes when people give me compliments, I think they're lying. It's not their fault, it's just somethingI have to...
    Dreamprojector Dreamprojector 18-21, F Jul 30

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    I really don't. Like someone will flirt with my and I'll do this weird nervous chuckle thing. It's not pretty in the slightest.
    anorganizedmess anorganizedmess 16-17, F Aug 10

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    I have no idea where to meet people on here or anything anymore, it always ends with someone trying to hook up with me. I probably have a total of 4 people I talk to on here that...
    GuuIsAwesome GuuIsAwesome 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 10

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    And what's worse is that they always claim that they are using logic correctly and that you are not. PLEASE take 10 minutes to look up 'Logical Fallacies' so you don't look like an...
    blargendee blargendee 26-30, M Aug 11

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    I get nervous when someone tells me a compliment. I just say "Thank you" without saying anything else. I do not like to show off or get any kind of attention about myself, so I...
    s4019t s4019t 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    I think my girlfriend likes to seduce her dad. He compliments her allot. She wears no bra when we are going to be around him and really short skirts or shorts with no panties on...
    MrSecretGuy MrSecretGuy 31-35, M 6 days ago

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    I finally stopped saying Oh? and I know when people call me pretty. Now I giggle and say thank you
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    I really need steps on how to let go of an ex. The relationship has become very addicting and I must let go before I overdose. I have lost myself in the process. I need help...
    kelyse2506 kelyse2506 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 4

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    I have no idea how to lose weight when I have chronic pain, fatigue and Low blood sugar. I'm also a very picky eater. I'm praying for knowledge, wisdom, patience and perseverance...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 22-25, F Aug 11

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    Well, whenever I come close to this point, Idk how to say (for. Example) I like you. ! I have tried saying that, but my contact just thought I'm not honest. 😭😢what can I do?
    Larten Larten 18-21, M Aug 15

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    Strange guy: Hey, you are cute. Me: Emmm.... Do we know each other? Strange guy: Eh... no... i just wanted to say that. Me: Why? In another situation...... Me: Oh my god, that...
    Mynameistooweird Mynameistooweird 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    I'm such a bad flirter with girls in real life, I never know what to say or do. Even when I know the other girl likes me already. And most times I'm scare that I could get caught...
    Quietguy1234 Quietguy1234 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 18

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    I never seem to think I'm good enough, and I am forever wishing I was someone else. I mean the answer is so simple if you want change, go for it! But going about it isn't simple at...
    Genesisandstuff Genesisandstuff 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    I have a lot of female friends, and usually others girl find me funny or cute when I'm trying to be funny without any interest in them. But once I try to flirt I feel like I can...
    ClassicGentleman ClassicGentleman 18-21, M Aug 10

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    Everyone walks out on my life that I care about.
    Levi1 Levi1 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 28

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    My individuality is seriously being curbed! It's like everything they say is law. I want to do good but their way, although not wrong, is just so old fashioned and would have...
    DallasB DallasB 26-30, M Aug 8

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    I've never had to flirt...so I'm kinda clueless
    Tami8161 Tami8161 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    Lol. Too true. Even my flattery is bad.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    it's so awkward when the person you're talking to is really good at it. Like all I could do was smile and nod and walk away
    sairaa sairaa 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    whenever someone compliments me, i find it hard to believe its true and i freak out.
    buttney buttney 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    When I'm around a good looking guy, I just laugh or blush or say something stupid. I'm totally not myself; I'm terrible at flirting and showing them I'm actually intelligent and...
    Seblett Seblett 13-15, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    I want to make a difference but it's so hard when no one will accept help.
    taytayjohns taytayjohns 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'll see a chick, walk up to here after my knees stop shaking from nervousness, and then stare at her with a stupid or funny face. She and her friends either laugh, look disgusted...
    LeonardFinch LeonardFinch 16-17, M 1 Response 4 days ago