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I Don't Know How to Deal With It

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    Hmmm there are so many things I really feel

    inadequate to deal with. stupidity being at the top of the list. I can't. I don't know how to. It's that simple. My passive aggressive and oh so stupid husband refuses to sign the separation papers I gave him... Refuses to talk to me... Listen to me... Acknowledge me... Sex? He...
    Lovinu0429 Lovinu0429 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    My grandma is dying in the hospital,

    and I've never lost somebody close to me before.. How do you coup with death.. I'm glad she won't be suffering anymore... But I love her so much.
    BrookeLynn8994 BrookeLynn8994 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    I Don't Know How To Deal

    I was dignosed with pcos at the end of my this year... And I tell people I'm ok with it and that I didn't want kids anyway, and that I'm not bothered about my weight. But I'm lying.. All I think about is having kids. My sister has 4 kids and one on the way. One of my brothers has...
    marisha04 marisha04 18-21 Jul 2, 2012

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    Iraq

    the love of my life just left to iraq yesterday. i dropped him off at 1am, then he took a bus from camp pendleton to march airforce base. i was able to talk to him on the phone for a few minutes while he was there. he then flew from there to maine. again, he called me from there...
    mtaluv mtaluv 21-25, F 4 Responses Feb 22, 2007

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    I Just Don't Know How To Deal With Life In General.

    I'm always so depressed now. I used to be this happy kid who made good grades and who had nice friends. Now I am almost failing, I have very few friends outside of the ones who exist on my computer, and I'm always so sad. I just feel like I'm disappointing everyone and that I...
    Silentcleartear Silentcleartear 13-15, F Mar 4, 2011

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    How Do We Deal?

    He is 27 and we have dealt with his addiction for over 17 years now. Tonight he is high and drunk again got my dad ready to snap, my moms in tears and i got a booming headache and stomach is flipping. Called cops they came out told us to leave him alone and left. Now he is...
    thenewestdaughter thenewestdaughter 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 2, 2012

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    I Get Mad, He Gets Mad.

    I know that there are ups and downs to every relationship. But i feel my downs are irrelvent. You see, if i get mad at my boyfriend, he then gets mad at me for getting mad. Whatt??.. yeahh i know. And i have always bin the one to give in and talk to him first. Idk, i feel...
    sweetsteph3 sweetsteph3 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 6, 2009

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    Here is Practical Explanation about Next Life,

    Purpose of Human Life, philosophical/religious facts, theories etc. ___________________________ *********** Practical Explanation ( For Example ) :- `1st of all can you tell me every single seconds detail from that time when you born ?? ( i need every seconds detail ?? that what...
    bolt0 bolt0 22-25, M Dec 8, 2013

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    Confused

    Lately, I've been so confused.  Confused about my life: how's it going to turn out in the future or how am going to live without no one.  I am 30 and single and have not been to a relationship for almost 3 years.  It's crazy how I survived when most of the people...
    WandaFull27 WandaFull27 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 16, 2008

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    Seperation

    I can't deal with me and my husband splitting up, I just can't. I know these things take time but I honestly feel that I'll never get over this, I'll never be strong again or stop loving him, and yet I hate him for making me feel this way - even though it was me that ended it! It...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 31, 2008

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    My Best Friend's Secret

    Ok, so, my best friend would kill me if she knew i was telling anyone this,even though im not saying her actual name. Anyway, she told me this really big secret about herself that makes me wanna cry just thinking about it. I cry almost every night because, she's like my...
    ilovemykitty94 ilovemykitty94 13-15, F Dec 29, 2009

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    Life

    Life,Sometimes wonder,Is it really worth it,The **** it deals,One thing, Wish I knew,How to deal with it,Perhaps then,I'd be happier.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 17, 2012

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    I don't know How to deal With how I am

    feeling Not in a healthy way Not in a way that I can Explain to people and not make me sound so ****** up :/
    AlyAngel AlyAngel 22-25, F Dec 5, 2013

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    I Miss My Husband~

    It seems as though my husband and I have spent more of our relationship long distance than accually face to face. The first time i accually layed eyes on him he was playing basketball and it was my freshman year in high school and i was also a new kid. He was a Junior at the...
    MrsGibbs MrsGibbs 16-18, F 1 Response Sep 10, 2007

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    Ok to make this brief, my husbands stepsister is the person who introduced us. When I actually started going out with him she did a complete U-turn and became quiet nasty. By the...
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    My friend has probably forgotten about this, but she doesn't take me seriously. I was going through lots of stuff yesterday and she thought I was seeking for attention. I don't...
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    I don't know if I should answer him "yes", because I don't know which is which, is it because I love him or pity him? I don't even know what should I feel about him right now...
    Misaki7590 Misaki7590 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    I want to help people but its hard. I can barely help myself. I have so many issues too. When I go to get some "me" time I end up leaving my friends to suffer alone. I feel so bad...
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    So after almost a week my grandfather died of internal hemorrhaging. They had him transferred to my grandmother's hospital and in to get room so they didn't the last few days off...
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    I feel as if I truly don't have a personality, or I don't know who I am. What makes me, me? What is so different or special about myself that differentiates me from others. Who am...
    Genesisandstuff Genesisandstuff 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 26

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    If someone says "I love you" and you don't know what to say, say "I love YouTube" really fast and make a hasty exit.
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    I guess it's because I've never really had people compliment me, other than my parents and friends? Whenever someone compliments me, which is rare but not unheard of, I always...
    Sasha0827 Sasha0827 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    GingaJustice GingaJustice 13-15, M 2 days ago

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    I'm such an awkward person! I literally don't know what to do! A guy will say I'm cute and I'll reply with "your face...I like that"
    lillylolz lillylolz 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 10

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    This would have to be one of the hardest things for me to do. Sometimes when people give me compliments, I think they're lying. It's not their fault, it's just somethingI have to...
    Dreamprojector Dreamprojector 18-21, F Jul 30

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    I like Dylan so much. It's like were so compatible and I think he's cute and has a fun personality. I told him how I felt about him, about some previous relationships I have had...
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    I really don't. Like someone will flirt with my and I'll do this weird nervous chuckle thing. It's not pretty in the slightest.
    anorganizedmess anorganizedmess 16-17, F Aug 10

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    I have no idea where to meet people on here or anything anymore, it always ends with someone trying to hook up with me. I probably have a total of 4 people I talk to on here that...
    GuuIsAwesome GuuIsAwesome 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 10

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    And what's worse is that they always claim that they are using logic correctly and that you are not. PLEASE take 10 minutes to look up 'Logical Fallacies' so you don't look like an...
    blargendee blargendee 26-30, M Aug 11

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    "Hey, I like your face but I don't like mine and that's perfectly fine!" ~ me flirting with a person This is why I don't attempt flirting with people.
    PrincessAphrodite PrincessAphrodite 13-15, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I do but I don't . I mean I can do it professionally if its beneficial to my wallet or my performance but if I like someone or think theyre attractive I lose all positive social...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    I get nervous when someone tells me a compliment. I just say "Thank you" without saying anything else. I do not like to show off or get any kind of attention about myself, so I...
    s4019t s4019t 26-30, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I think my girlfriend likes to seduce her dad. He compliments her allot. She wears no bra when we are going to be around him and really short skirts or shorts with no panties on...
    MrSecretGuy MrSecretGuy 31-35, M 1 day ago

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    I have no idea how to lose weight when I have chronic pain, fatigue and Low blood sugar. I'm also a very picky eater. I'm praying for knowledge, wisdom, patience and perseverance...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 22-25, F Aug 11

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    My boyfriend and I are taking a 'break' and for some reason I can't seem to do it. All I want to do it talk to him and be with him. He wants some time to just figure himself out...
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    I know you have let go, and I haven't. We're best friends, even though our love relationship is over. You love me, but differently than my love for you. You are the love of my life...
    bethrichards bethrichards 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 24

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    I always smile when im with people but when im alone i feel annoyed or frustrated... I feel like I have to be nice ...its ok to be nice but. Once im bored I wish i could just walk...
    wahoo1990 wahoo1990 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 26

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    I really need steps on how to let go of an ex. The relationship has become very addicting and I must let go before I overdose. I have lost myself in the process. I need help...
    kelyse2506 kelyse2506 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 4

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    Well, whenever I come close to this point, Idk how to say (for. Example) I like you. ! I have tried saying that, but my contact just thought I'm not honest. 😭😢what can I do?
    Larten Larten 18-21, M Aug 15

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    I'm such a bad flirter with girls in real life, I never know what to say or do. Even when I know the other girl likes me already. And most times I'm scare that I could get caught...
    Quietguy1234 Quietguy1234 18-21, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Literally me. I'm just naturally awkward, especially with guys. I get nervous when cute boys talk to me and it makes me look like an idiot ugh forever alone
    msmika msmika 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 25

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    Woke up to the sound of pouring rain The wind would whisper and I'd think of you And all the tears you cried – they called my name And when you needed me I came through Paint a...
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    I finally stopped saying Oh? and I know when people call me pretty. Now I giggle and say thank you
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