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I Don't Know How to Deal With It

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    Iraq

    the love of my life just left to iraq yesterday. i dropped him off at 1am, then he took a bus from camp pendleton to march airforce base. i was able to talk to him on the phone for a few minutes while he was there. he then flew from there to maine. again, he called me from there...
    mtaluv mtaluv 21-25, F 4 Responses Feb 22, 2007

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    How Do We Deal?

    He is 27 and we have dealt with his addiction for over 17 years now. Tonight he is high and drunk again got my dad ready to snap, my moms in tears and i got a booming headache and stomach is flipping. Called cops they came out told us to leave him alone and left. Now he is...
    thenewestdaughter thenewestdaughter 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 2, 2012

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    My Best Friend's Secret

    Ok, so, my best friend would kill me if she knew i was telling anyone this,even though im not saying her actual name. Anyway, she told me this really big secret about herself that makes me wanna cry just thinking about it. I cry almost every night because, she's like my...
    ilovemykitty94 ilovemykitty94 13-15, F Dec 29, 2009

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    I Get Mad, He Gets Mad.

    I know that there are ups and downs to every relationship. But i feel my downs are irrelvent. You see, if i get mad at my boyfriend, he then gets mad at me for getting mad. Whatt??.. yeahh i know. And i have always bin the one to give in and talk to him first. Idk, i feel...
    sweetsteph3 sweetsteph3 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 6, 2009

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    Here is Practical Explanation about Next Life,

    Purpose of Human Life, philosophical/religious facts, theories etc. ___________________________ *********** Practical Explanation ( For Example ) :- `1st of all can you tell me every single seconds detail from that time when you born ?? ( i need every seconds detail ?? that what...
    bolt0 bolt0 22-25, M Dec 8, 2013

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    Life

    Life,Sometimes wonder,Is it really worth it,The **** it deals,One thing, Wish I knew,How to deal with it,Perhaps then,I'd be happier.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 17, 2012

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    I Miss My Husband~

    It seems as though my husband and I have spent more of our relationship long distance than accually face to face. The first time i accually layed eyes on him he was playing basketball and it was my freshman year in high school and i was also a new kid. He was a Junior at the...
    MrsGibbs MrsGibbs 16-18, F 1 Response Sep 10, 2007

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    I Just Don't Know How To Deal With Life In General.

    I'm always so depressed now. I used to be this happy kid who made good grades and who had nice friends. Now I am almost failing, I have very few friends outside of the ones who exist on my computer, and I'm always so sad. I just feel like I'm disappointing everyone and that I...
    Silentcleartear Silentcleartear 13-15, F Mar 4, 2011

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    I don't know How to deal With how I am

    feeling Not in a healthy way Not in a way that I can Explain to people and not make me sound so ****** up :/
    AlyAngel AlyAngel 22-25, F Dec 5, 2013

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    I Don't Know How To Deal

    I was dignosed with pcos at the end of my this year... And I tell people I'm ok with it and that I didn't want kids anyway, and that I'm not bothered about my weight. But I'm lying.. All I think about is having kids. My sister has 4 kids and one on the way. One of my brothers has...
    marisha04 marisha04 18-21 Jul 2, 2012

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    Confused

    Lately, I've been so confused.  Confused about my life: how's it going to turn out in the future or how am going to live without no one.  I am 30 and single and have not been to a relationship for almost 3 years.  It's crazy how I survived when most of the people...
    WandaFull27 WandaFull27 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 16, 2008

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    My grandma is dying in the hospital,

    and I've never lost somebody close to me before.. How do you coup with death.. I'm glad she won't be suffering anymore... But I love her so much.
    BrookeLynn8994 BrookeLynn8994 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    Seperation

    I can't deal with me and my husband splitting up, I just can't. I know these things take time but I honestly feel that I'll never get over this, I'll never be strong again or stop loving him, and yet I hate him for making me feel this way - even though it was me that ended it! It...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 31, 2008

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    I'm 24 and the oldest of 3 girls. I'm in that age where people think I should be at the peak of my life, they say I should already have a stable job, so that I can help my family...
    gehanalyanna gehanalyanna 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    It's all just an unnecessarily awkward ordeal for me. Made awkward by myself of course. The worst thing I have been known to do in response to a compliment is to just say nothing...
    captainmerelycurious captainmerelycurious 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 26

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    Life is a roller-coaster right now i honestly don't know what to do. I feel pain mentally and physically, don't know who or what to turn to 😒
    k4m4r k4m4r 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    I'm so retarded I don't know why I did what I did today. I just started making real friends , pretty sure I lost her. All my moms calls me is a liar and say I do horrible things...
    loladdicted loladdicted 13-15, F Jun 30

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    I have a husband who loves me and three great kids that we spoil. But I don't have any friends. I am a stay-at-home Mom. I have low self-esteem, I guess. Sometimes. I don't know. I...
    Kryzta Kryzta 26-30, F Jul 5

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    Well I have a girlfriend and one day the kissing thing went up whem we talked. I told her that I will wait until she'll be ready. But the problem is that I am afraid that whem the...
    gu1mu gu1mu 13-15, M 5 days ago

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    I'm dating this new guy.He's really sweet.his job requires him to be gone for a month and back with me for a month on and off.my issue is that he doesn't trust me when He's gone...
    itsalwayspink itsalwayspink 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    With guys I don't know if I flirt, I just be myself I guess. With girls it's weird because I just realized I was bi not too long ago and I have this friend who I like and she likes...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 25

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    So after almost a week my grandfather died of internal hemorrhaging. They had him transferred to my grandmother's hospital and in to get room so they didn't the last few days off...
    TheWomanYouHate TheWomanYouHate 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Ive talked about my ex a few times here but not to long ago we broke up again. I have been refusing to move on since there still could be a chance with us even tho deep down I know...
    anb251999 anb251999 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    I'm not here for people to help me, I just want people to listen for once, I mean, I know that everyone has drama in their lives , heartache, pain, sadness, and hopelessness, and I...
    sommer02 sommer02 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 1

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    Ok so I'm in this relationship with a girl who I thought I really liked and she really likes me and we talk all the time and sometimes I think i like her but then sometimes I feel...
    protostar55 protostar55 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    It's not a bad feeling it's more of the fact that it was unexpected. My boyfriend owns his own landscaping business and he asked me to help him with some things. apparently I did a...
    JuBear424 JuBear424 18-21, F Jun 30

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    I am new to this. Not new to using the internet or observing social media, but new to actually interacting. I tend to fear what people will say or think to what I do or say in a...
    aimnor aimnor 36-40, M 1 Response Jun 30

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    I was always alone before him. He became my everything, and I sacrificed so much for him... He was the first love I have ever had. Then things fell apart, and I despised him for...
    walker13sl walker13sl 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    Still need some advice on this cheating thing. Please don't just tell me to leave him, clearly I want to make it work if I'm asking
    marieash marieash 22-25, F 27 Responses Jul 4

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    I am honestly so bad at flirting I don't even think it can be called that
    EssSmith EssSmith 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    So for the past 2 years, I would wake up for school and for some reason, id get a similar version of morning sickness, and need to vomit out my window. Idk, it changes colour...
    TaylaT21 TaylaT21 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 15

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    I'm depressed, I'll be the first to admit if. But it's not that bad anymore. It's a matter of getting over it. I was On and off with this British guy for a year and a half and I...
    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Well - I really am stuck. I have just accepted that I cannot stay in my current bad relationship any longer or make any further commitments (especially financial ones). But - I...
    Hazel7000 Hazel7000 56-60, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    I would beg My ex-husband to do things with me. Things such as a date night, movies, or just taking our kids and me to go watch Fireworks on the 4th of July. He always gave me an...
    readinglover readinglover 36-40, F Jun 30

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    How does it work? Oh, crap! I'm supposed to make my story longer, so i'll just sing a song: If i could spend the rest of my life with my people, i would do it over and over again...
    nickaoke nickaoke 22-25, M Jul 17

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    How I look when I try to flirt with girls 😝 I tried ok
    masonishere masonishere 16-17, M 1 Response a week ago

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    My boyfriend and I are taking a 'break' and for some reason I can't seem to do it. All I want to do it talk to him and be with him. He wants some time to just figure himself out...
    Nitsirk7 Nitsirk7 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I know you have let go, and I haven't. We're best friends, even though our love relationship is over. You love me, but differently than my love for you. You are the love of my life...
    bethrichards bethrichards 46-50, F 1 day ago

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    Sorry about posting this again but I need someone to reply and help me with this Met this girl on a work night out a few months ago we got on well halfway through the night she...
    Dynamite500 Dynamite500 18-21, M Jun 25

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    Nothing has been going well for me, losing friends, not sure if I'm ever going to get my life back on track, can't seem to find the right person for me,because when I think I do...
    jacobsme jacobsme 18-21, M Jun 27

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    That silly "I'll seduce you with my awkwardness" phrase totally applies to me. I never realize when I'm being hit on either... Whoops!
    dolceharajuku dolceharajuku 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    I'm 26 and never been kissed. Not like i haven't had the oppurtunity. Just always shied away from it.
    fpdee11 fpdee11 26-30, F 4 Responses 5 days ago