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I Don't Know How to Deal With It

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    i don't know how to deal with a break up,

    after 2 years of putting everything in. I miss him and love him... I'm hurting so much.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 2, 2014

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    I Just Don't Know How To Deal With Life In General.

    I'm always so depressed now. I used to be this happy kid who made good grades and who had nice friends. Now I am almost failing, I have very few friends outside of the ones who exist on my computer, and I'm always so sad. I just feel like I'm disappointing everyone and that I...
    Silentcleartear Silentcleartear 13-15, F Mar 4, 2011

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    Iraq

    the love of my life just left to iraq yesterday. i dropped him off at 1am, then he took a bus from camp pendleton to march airforce base. i was able to talk to him on the phone for a few minutes while he was there. he then flew from there to maine. again, he called me from there...
    mtaluv mtaluv 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 22, 2007

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    Confused

    Lately, I've been so confused.  Confused about my life: how's it going to turn out in the future or how am going to live without no one.  I am 30 and single and have not been to a relationship for almost 3 years.  It's crazy how I survived when most of the people...
    WandaFull27 WandaFull27 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 16, 2008

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    Seperation

    I can't deal with me and my husband splitting up, I just can't. I know these things take time but I honestly feel that I'll never get over this, I'll never be strong again or stop loving him, and yet I hate him for making me feel this way - even though it was me that ended it! It...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 31, 2008

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    I Don't Know How To Deal

    I was dignosed with pcos at the end of my this year... And I tell people I'm ok with it and that I didn't want kids anyway, and that I'm not bothered about my weight. But I'm lying.. All I think about is having kids. My sister has 4 kids and one on the way. One of my brothers has...
    marisha04 marisha04 18-21 Jul 2, 2012

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    My grandma is dying in the hospital,

    and I've never lost somebody close to me before.. How do you coup with death.. I'm glad she won't be suffering anymore... But I love her so much.
    BrookeLynn8994 BrookeLynn8994 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 25, 2014

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    Hmmm there are so many things I really feel

    inadequate to deal with. stupidity being at the top of the list. I can't. I don't know how to. It's that simple. My passive aggressive and oh so stupid husband refuses to sign the separation papers I gave him... Refuses to talk to me... Listen to me... Acknowledge me... Sex? He...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 6, 2014

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    Here is Practical Explanation about Next Life,

    Purpose of Human Life, philosophical/religious facts, theories etc. ___________________________ *********** Practical Explanation ( For Example ) :- `1st of all can you tell me every single seconds detail from that time when you born ?? ( i need every seconds detail ?? that what...
    bolt0 bolt0 22-25, M Dec 8, 2013

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    How Do We Deal?

    He is 27 and we have dealt with his addiction for over 17 years now. Tonight he is high and drunk again got my dad ready to snap, my moms in tears and i got a booming headache and stomach is flipping. Called cops they came out told us to leave him alone and left. Now he is...
    thenewestdaughter thenewestdaughter 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 2, 2012

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    My Best Friend's Secret

    Ok, so, my best friend would kill me if she knew i was telling anyone this,even though im not saying her actual name. Anyway, she told me this really big secret about herself that makes me wanna cry just thinking about it. I cry almost every night because, she's like my...
    ilovemykitty94 ilovemykitty94 13-15, F Dec 29, 2009

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    Life

    Life,Sometimes wonder,Is it really worth it,The **** it deals,One thing, Wish I knew,How to deal with it,Perhaps then,I'd be happier.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 17, 2012

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    I Get Mad, He Gets Mad.

    I know that there are ups and downs to every relationship. But i feel my downs are irrelvent. You see, if i get mad at my boyfriend, he then gets mad at me for getting mad. Whatt??.. yeahh i know. And i have always bin the one to give in and talk to him first. Idk, i feel...
    sweetsteph3 sweetsteph3 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 6, 2009

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    I Miss My Husband~

    It seems as though my husband and I have spent more of our relationship long distance than accually face to face. The first time i accually layed eyes on him he was playing basketball and it was my freshman year in high school and i was also a new kid. He was a Junior at the...
    MrsGibbs MrsGibbs 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 10, 2007

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    I'm going to end up beating the **** out of my

    boyfriends best friend's girlfriend. How do you deal with someone you're forced to hang out with and all you want to do is rip their face off? We are complete opposites and she doesn't get the point that I don't like her and I basically have to be nice to her. We've gotten in...
    Indomitable6811 Indomitable6811 18-21, F May 19

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