I Don't Know How to Flirt

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    I am a horrible flirt I dont think I make

    people feel good when I flirt it ends up being the opposite its weird
    bloodyscreams bloodyscreams
    16-17, F
    Feb 13, 2015

    I couldn't flirt if my life depended on it.

    .. I might flirt and I have no idea I am tho....
    kiwigirl2021 kiwigirl2021
    13-15, F
    5 Responses Nov 1, 2015

    Can I just flirt with my body lmao I can barely

    say a good pick up line without stuttering or hesitating. I'd rather act sensual with someone than speak about it.
    carazami carazami
    1 Response Oct 22, 2015

    When guys hit on me I feel like hiding.

    I usually come across as cold because I don't even try to flirt back, if I tried I would make a huge fool out of myself haha . Oh well, take it or leave it it's a part of my personality I guess.
    Rosaalie Rosaalie
    22-25, F
    Dec 8, 2014

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    emilyccaa emilyccaa
    26-30, F
    Dec 8, 2015

    Maybe it's the fact that not a lot of guys talk

    to me but I'm terrible at it. I've asked for people's help but they just tell me it should come naturally. If I try to flirt I bet I would look very stupid hehehe.
    alleycat888 alleycat888
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Jun 20, 2015
    ratnakar1104 ratnakar1104
    26-30, M
    Feb 10

    How normal people flirt: Hey sexy(; How I

    flirt: U have nice face muscles
    sixpackbookworm sixpackbookworm
    16-17, F
    8 Responses Nov 30, 2014

    I'll give you a potato.

    Because it lasts more than flowers. Am i doing this right?
    OrangeCaramel OrangeCaramel
    18-21, F
    3 Responses May 6, 2014
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 8

    I'm terrible at flirting,

    I went to a bar once with my friend and she's a natural at it...she giggles and guys eat that up. Me on the other hand gives one word responses like "uh...thanks.." and "wow its sure warm for being winter"...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Dec 8, 2014

    I may not know how to flirt

    but I definitely know how to be awkward 😁😳😆 lol
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 27, 2014

    I don't know how to flirts

    and also have no clue if someone is tryna flirt with me. I really feel sorry for whoever tries to flirt bc I am bad at it please just tell me u are flirting with me that way we all good😆
    naomithequeen naomithequeen
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 27

    Oh my god, I say the absolute dumbest things

    whenever someone tries to flirt with me.
    Ominousity Ominousity
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Dec 6, 2015

    I Don't Know How To Flirt

    Ever since I was young, I've had this social ineptitude.  I don't know how to flirt, and I don't know how to read the cues that a male likes me.   When I was in school, boys would pick on me or tease, make little suggestive comments or even steal my pencils. ...
    Vessa Vessa
    41-45, F
    27 Responses Nov 13, 2009

    "Hey... we can't keep EATing like this.

    .." "A lot of other gas smells..." "...was I talking about gas??" I was laughing hysterically, but yes - this is probably what happens whenever I try~
    JustLevlin JustLevlin
    36-40, M
    Nov 20, 2015

    Ok I just lied. What sucks is

    when you inadvertently flirt on someone. And jeez women stop it! I know I'm sort of pretty but come on! I'm talking to you! NO! don't hide my keys in your back pocket! I don't....seriously annoying
    Pride49 Pride49
    22-25, M
    Mar 22

    I had to pretend to flirt with a guy

    for a project when I was in high school. We filmed the whole thing. We didn't have any guys in our group so we recruited a random guy from our school. My "flirting" consisted of me touching his arm and asking him if he worked out. I cringe just thinking about it.
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Nov 1, 2015

    I went online to see

    if I could learn how to, but still come up short. I hope to find someone someday.
    asert12345678 asert12345678
    31-35, M
    1 Response Feb 21

    I'm probably the worst flirt this side of the

    Mississippi....wonder if there is a flirt webinar somewhere
    deleted deleted
    10 Responses Apr 3, 2015

    A guy once said "Hey There,

    pretty girl." I looked around. True story.
    RebekahWriter13 RebekahWriter13
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Feb 21

    biting and poking their nose is how i show

    someone i'm interested.. (not without consent, if course) i'm really, really not good at words. it's a ******* curse.
    cinnamontoastfox cinnamontoastfox
    16-17, T
    1 Response Oct 22, 2015

    I'm Awkward

    I never had many friends in grade school because I wasn't pretty enough to be popular, this made it very hard to indicate that I like someone(Flirt), I went through a change my freshman year to where I was the cute little blonde haired nerd girl that guys wanted, they would flirt...
    IvannaQuinn IvannaQuinn
    Dec 30, 2012

    I suck at this. Today I went shopping

    and at Pacsun this guy who was working there comes over to greet me. He talks to me about knowing me from Highschool. I kept looking at him, but I vaguely remembered him. He was really nice and good looking. He helped me around the store and sometimes would ask me if I was doing...
    steph986 steph986
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jan 14

    I'm literally so bad at flirting.

    .. I make it so awkward :/
    deleted deleted
    9 Responses Dec 1, 2014

    It's like a foreign language to me,

    I don't know how to do it and I can never really tell when it's happening to me.
    deleted deleted
    Feb 16

    I've been told I'm not a flirt.

    I hadn't cared for it growing up but now as an adult in a social world I find myself wishing I knew how to respond to flirting I receive from men. I draw blanks when men talk sweet to me.
    aLadywithoutaclue aLadywithoutaclue
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Feb 25

    idk what to say here.

    I just... I can't, guys. I just cant. let's just.. leave it at that
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Oct 22, 2015
    OrangeCaramel OrangeCaramel
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 11, 2014
    RachelDare RachelDare
    4 Responses Sep 1, 2015

    Do you remember that time we tried to go see a

    movie late one night but they had already locked the doors on us? We went to the pub down the street instead, where we chatted over a drink. You had a rum and coke, I had a beer. I must confess, I don't remember what we were even talking about that night. I remember looking...
    arailia03 arailia03
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Nov 27, 2015

    I really don't know how to flirt

    and reciprocate to flirt. any one good in that?
    Dangerpus Dangerpus
    18-21, F
    21 Responses Aug 26, 2014

    She's too innocent to know

    that telling me to come over and chill at 2 in the morning is booty call language...
    rodneyking719 rodneyking719
    22-25, M
    1 Response Sep 29, 2015

    Like everyone here, I don't know how to flirt,

    so I kind of use an alternative. Lately I'd been reading about random psychology ****, including body language, and it seemed a bit pretentious all the conclusions that could be drawn from it. Anyway, a tactic I really got interested in to build rapport was mirroring. And I mean...
    carmansoul carmansoul
    18-21, M
    1 Response Feb 15, 2015
    bokading bokading
    31-35, F
    Jan 15

    Um so nice weather we're having.

    Nice face. I like your shoes. Your butt looks good in those pants. Am I doing it right?
    DiamondAuthority DiamondAuthority
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 17

    I had this convo yesterday in my car

    and I didnt realize what was happening. The guy: How come I never see you? Me: its probably because I'm the invisible one in my family. A lot of people dont. The guy: *looks me in the eye* I do (myname). I see you. *smiles* after a while of talking he says: it so easy to talk...
    TheNewBatman TheNewBatman
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jul 22, 2015

    I am so terrible at flirting.

    If I can get up enough courage to talk to them in the first place, they just think I am being friendly like I am to everyone. And I just get so nervous to imply that I am attracted to them because I am worried that I will get an "ew" that I wimp out. Mind you, this is only if I...
    AutumnTea AutumnTea
    18-21, F
    Sep 23, 2015
    mother1983 mother1983
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Feb 21
    DiamondAuthority DiamondAuthority
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Dec 19, 2015

    So today in college I met this really cute guy!

    But I have social anxiety so I was a little nervous about it, so what was my ingenious plan to grab his attention? To write a little note saying "do you like me?" With a tick box for yes and one for no, sweet right?... So he ticked yes and we started chatting, it seemed to be...
    BlondeBatgirl BlondeBatgirl
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 22, 2015
    masonishere masonishere
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jul 17, 2014

    The Awkward One

    I have really low (justified) self esteem and when someone flirts with me I freak out cause it's such a rarity. I am also kinda socially awkward around guys I like and I tend to form loads of pally relationships where people like me because they thing I'm 'friendly' and 'nice...
    Person123x Person123x
    29 Responses Jun 11, 2013

    I can't flirt to save my life,

    I'm just too awkward or sometimes I just don't realize when a guy is flirting with me. Earlier this week a fairly good looking guy approached me, we started talking and I guess I got nervous so out of nowhere I blurted out " Yeah apples are niceee." Lmao we weren't even talking...
    Cleopatra05 Cleopatra05
    18-21, F
    20 Responses Nov 19, 2015

    Literally me. I'm just naturally awkward,

    especially with guys. I get nervous when cute boys talk to me and it makes me look like an idiot ugh forever alone
    possiblyali possiblyali
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Jul 25, 2014

    You are so damned fine.

    .. How's that?
    DiamondAuthority DiamondAuthority
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 8

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    bethccaa bethccaa
    26-30, F
    Feb 21

    Single and drinking on this beautiful

    Valentines day cause I'm a loser ! ;D who's with me!
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Feb 14, 2015

    I don't know. I mean I try to flirt,

    or in the name of flirting I just do something and it has always always always back fired! :P Any takers to teach some moves?? I'd gladly learn!
    Abi936 Abi936
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Nov 20, 2015

    You have a nice butt.

    I bet you take nice dumps
    DiamondAuthority DiamondAuthority
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Feb 21
    CoraIsAwesome CoraIsAwesome
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Nov 11, 2015
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