I Dont Know How To Flirt

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 132 People

    I don't even now where to begin!

    I am shy when it comes to guys. Do I bat my eyelashes? Do I make myself sound sultry? Do I laugh at his jokes? Someone help!
    VirginalCuriousity VirginalCuriousity
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Sep 26, 2014

    So I've been taking some advice from my cousin,

    I moved in with him recently and he is a super bachelor. He has a beautiful girlfriend and many one nights stands with beautiful women. His advice isn't something I've never heard before and it's kinda out of character for me to follow it. I'm more of a one woman at a time type...
    OneHowlToTheMoon OneHowlToTheMoon
    26-30, M
    1 Response Sep 28, 2014

    Hey, did you fall from heaven?

    Because there's an angel in your eyes... Wait, that's not how it's supposed to go!
    DrowningInRed DrowningInRed
    1 Response Oct 20, 2015

    I am very shy when it comes to flirting with

    another girl. I am afraid I am going to say something wrong or freak them out. I'm lesbian so it is very hard for me ;(
    StuckinMind StuckinMind
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 21, 2014

    I'm and awkward person,

    I'm a bit shy and have never flirted with anyone. People tell me I'm oblivious, but I guess it's just how I am 🐙
    RandomColor RandomColor
    16-17, F
    Oct 31, 2014

    Explain to me how Calling a girl cute

    or complementing them, is flirting I don't consider that flirting, because I do it to girls all the time and my friends and family thinks I'm flirting when I'm not
    dominick6 dominick6
    18-21, M
    Oct 26, 2015

    Guess I'm too straight forward

    or just not interested. Depends on the man I suppose. Figured out during divorce therapy I "had too much communication." Wtc? Some men can't handle simplicity, like they EXPECT a puzzling woman. Eh.. I don't want to put in the effort to confuse anyone. I rather enjoy being...
    lackluster40 lackluster40
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Dec 1, 2014

    I don't even want to come across

    as a flirting type. And sometimes if maybe when I said something, I wonder if,to others, it could've been considered flirting. But just in case, I don't flirt with ANYONE. It's too weird and not my thing. I would literally want the ground to open and engulf me whenever I think...
    FunnyandNerdy FunnyandNerdy
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 26, 2014

    Is it weird that I'm 21

    and don't get the whole concept of flirting with girls? The thought of flirting to me is. Bit insane.
    SpirituralWonder SpirituralWonder
    22-25, M
    Jun 19, 2015

    I'm hopeless at this.

    . What am I even supposed to do?
    FatAlly FatAlly
    36-40, F
    Apr 11, 2014
    thequeen13 thequeen13
    16-17, F
    Feb 18, 2016
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