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I Don't Know How to Help

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    I Am At a Loss

    I don't know what you are going through, and I don't know what will make it any better for you. I do know that I am here for you, and I want you support you. I have no clue how you must feel but I do know that I am all ears if you want to tell me. I...
    HisLady HisLady 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 23, 2009

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    I Suppose...

    I help others, just by being there...by listening, by responding to messages on here and elsewhere online.   BUT There are days like today when I know that two people in particular really need hugs, kisses and unwavering support from me....I can't. I can't touch them...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F May 14, 2010

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    Ok to make this brief, my husbands stepsister is the person who introduced us. When I actually started going out with him she did a complete U-turn and became quiet nasty. By the...
    hopingformiracles hopingformiracles 22-25 1 Response Aug 17

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    Hmmm there are so many things I really feel inadequate to deal with. stupidity being at the top of the list. I can't. I don't know how to. It's that simple. My passive aggressive...
    Lovinu0429 Lovinu0429 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    I don't know how to tell her that I like diapers . I am scared that when I tell her she will object to my choice . This is how it started when I was browsing the web I saw a video...
    thatkid123rt thatkid123rt 22-25, M Aug 15

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    The man who sexually assaulted my ex fiance when he was a young boy gave me a hug today. I DON'T KNOW HOW TO FEEL ABOUT THAT.
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 1 Response Aug 2

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    I really don't know how to flirt and reciprocate to flirt. any one good in that?
    Saarikaa Saarikaa 36-40, F 9 Responses 6 days ago

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    So my mom sent this(last message).. And I don't know how to feel/respond..
    akaShaun akaShaun 16-17, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I don't know how to flirt. Nor even do I want to Say what you mean, mean what you say is how I like to live.
    dontcareforlabels dontcareforlabels 41-45, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I want to help people but its hard. I can barely help myself. I have so many issues too. When I go to get some "me" time I end up leaving my friends to suffer alone. I feel so bad...
    ponycupcake ponycupcake 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 22

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    Honestly I need I girlfriend. I don't know why but the girls at my school always go for the douches while the actual popular people (im a part of) get none of them. Im nice, I care...
    GingaJustice GingaJustice 13-15, M Aug 21

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    I don't know if I should answer him "yes", because I don't know which is which, is it because I love him or pity him? I don't even know what should I feel about him right now...
    Misaki7590 Misaki7590 16-17, F Aug 22

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    My friend has probably forgotten about this, but she doesn't take me seriously. I was going through lots of stuff yesterday and she thought I was seeking for attention. I don't...
    Atraxiella Atraxiella 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    I'm such an awkward person! I literally don't know what to do! A guy will say I'm cute and I'll reply with "your face...I like that"
    lillylolz lillylolz 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 10

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    I think this experience thread is a little one sided and hypocritical. Firstly, every person has a limit of stress and pain that they can handle, which to them when pushed beyond...
    AnonR AnonR 70+, T 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    So this is a weird situation this is more of a question than a story but ok I'm only 13 I've never had a bf never had my first kiss nothing...my 11 year old friend has a 14 year...
    kathie2000 kathie2000 13-15, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I like Dylan so much. It's like were so compatible and I think he's cute and has a fun personality. I told him how I felt about him, about some previous relationships I have had...
    betweenlustandlove betweenlustandlove 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 13

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    I'm not even sure if I really really like him, but he's on my mind so much. But I don't want to make a move, because I don't want to give in to this temptation; I know the outcome...
    averagecomplicatedhuman averagecomplicatedhuman 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I really don't. Like someone will flirt with my and I'll do this weird nervous chuckle thing. It's not pretty in the slightest.
    anorganizedmess anorganizedmess 16-17, F Aug 10

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    I have no idea where to meet people on here or anything anymore, it always ends with someone trying to hook up with me. I probably have a total of 4 people I talk to on here that...
    GuuIsAwesome GuuIsAwesome 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 10

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    And what's worse is that they always claim that they are using logic correctly and that you are not. PLEASE take 10 minutes to look up 'Logical Fallacies' so you don't look like an...
    blargendee blargendee 26-30, M Aug 11

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    I do but I don't . I mean I can do it professionally if its beneficial to my wallet or my performance but if I like someone or think theyre attractive I lose all positive social...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F Aug 17

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    I get nervous when someone tells me a compliment. I just say "Thank you" without saying anything else. I do not like to show off or get any kind of attention about myself, so I...
    s4019t s4019t 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    I think my girlfriend likes to seduce her dad. He compliments her allot. She wears no bra when we are going to be around him and really short skirts or shorts with no panties on...
    MrSecretGuy MrSecretGuy 31-35, M Aug 22

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    Every time I talk with someone I feel so stupid.The conversation is always initiated by me or if not ,it soon turns out that I am asking questions and other person is answering...
    dwinewen dwinewen 16-17, F 1 hr ago

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    I want to make a difference but it's so hard when no one will accept help.
    taytayjohns taytayjohns 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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    I really need steps on how to let go of an ex. The relationship has become very addicting and I must let go before I overdose. I have lost myself in the process. I need help...
    kelyse2506 kelyse2506 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 4

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    I have no idea how to lose weight when I have chronic pain, fatigue and Low blood sugar. I'm also a very picky eater. I'm praying for knowledge, wisdom, patience and perseverance...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 22-25, F Aug 11

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    Well, whenever I come close to this point, Idk how to say (for. Example) I like you. ! I have tried saying that, but my contact just thought I'm not honest. 😭😢what can I do?
    Larten Larten 18-21, M Aug 15

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    I'm such a bad flirter with girls in real life, I never know what to say or do. Even when I know the other girl likes me already. And most times I'm scare that I could get caught...
    Quietguy1234 Quietguy1234 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 18

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    I never seem to think I'm good enough, and I am forever wishing I was someone else. I mean the answer is so simple if you want change, go for it! But going about it isn't simple at...
    Genesisandstuff Genesisandstuff 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    I have a lot of female friends, and usually others girl find me funny or cute when I'm trying to be funny without any interest in them. But once I try to flirt I feel like I can...
    ClassicGentleman ClassicGentleman 18-21, M Aug 10

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    Strange guy: Hey, you are cute. Me: Emmm.... Do we know each other? Strange guy: Eh... no... i just wanted to say that. Me: Why? In another situation...... Me: Oh my god, that...
    Mynameistooweird Mynameistooweird 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    People who are at ease in their own genders are so incredibly lucky, I've never felt at home in my own.
    Pandemonem Pandemonem 13-15, T 15 hrs ago

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    My individuality is seriously being curbed! It's like everything they say is law. I want to do good but their way, although not wrong, is just so old fashioned and would have...
    DallasB DallasB 26-30, M Aug 8

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    I've never had to flirt...so I'm kinda clueless
    Tami8161 Tami8161 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    Lol. Too true. Even my flattery is bad.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    it's so awkward when the person you're talking to is really good at it. Like all I could do was smile and nod and walk away
    sairaa sairaa 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    whenever someone compliments me, i find it hard to believe its true and i freak out.
    buttney buttney 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    When I'm around a good looking guy, I just laugh or blush or say something stupid. I'm totally not myself; I'm terrible at flirting and showing them I'm actually intelligent and...
    Seblett Seblett 13-15, F 7 Responses Aug 22

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    I'll see a chick, walk up to here after my knees stop shaking from nervousness, and then stare at her with a stupid or funny face. She and her friends either laugh, look disgusted...
    LeonardFinch LeonardFinch 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    "I'm fine" or "I'm okay" two words hiding a world of pain
    Kampion Kampion 18-21, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    So many lucky bipeds whine. Wish me could trade places with such.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 16 hrs ago

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    I'm 23 years old and graduated high school in 2009, I was always good in school and people always told me I would succeed in whatever I did. They were wrong. I went to college but...
    23andconfused 23andconfused 22-25, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I give amazing advice, yet I'm unable to follow my own. I know how to treat a woman with respect and dignity, yet I'm always single and alone. It seems like I want people that I...
    BigBlittleb123 BigBlittleb123 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 4

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    I have been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years. We met at university through a mutual friend. We don't live together as we live and work in different cities and I am still caring...
    MsRugbygirl19 MsRugbygirl19 22-25, F Aug 21

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    Yesterday, I went to a university to take a test with my review-mates. I had fun because I met a lot of people from other review centers and befriended them but I had this feeling...
    Misaki7590 Misaki7590 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 11

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