Post
Experience Project iOS Android Apps | Download EP for your Mobile Device

I Don't Know How to Help

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 34 People

    I Am At a Loss

    I don't know what you are going through, and I don't know what will make it any better for you. I do know that I am here for you, and I want you support you. I have no clue how you must feel but I do know that I am all ears if you want to tell me. I...
    HisLady HisLady 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 23, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My best friend lives in a different country

    than I do. Yes, we met in real life, and no, not online. He's been my best friend for nearly two years. He's been going through a really tough spot in his life, and when he was here, he would always come to me for help and advice, but now that he's gone, he feels alone and...
    disneyalltheway disneyalltheway 18-21, F Feb 1

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Suppose...

    I help others, just by being there...by listening, by responding to messages on here and elsewhere online.   BUT There are days like today when I know that two people in particular really need hugs, kisses and unwavering support from me....I can't. I can't touch them...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F May 14, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    I don't know how to swim! I cant remember the incident perfectly, but I think this what has happened. So, that one time we went on a trip, my friend said she is going to try and...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    First post. Hello. I am 22 and I'm a uni student with an over-zealous mother. And by over-zealous I mean 'constantly interfering with my life and making me feel worse about myself...
    iNeedSpace iNeedSpace 18-21, M Mar 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm always sad and down but no one notices and i don't know how to change that and be happy again
    whoreallyami whoreallyami 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Lmfao I can't flirt at all. I've actually tried before with my male friend and he said I sucked xD I don't know how people flirt, like I get super awkward out of no where.
    drunkpunker drunkpunker 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 5

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Well, I just don't know how to start any kind of conversation. The friends I have are mostly the ones that starts them... I'd just blurt out a random / stupid thought.
    jellyfishz jellyfishz 13-15, T a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Since I have never been in one xD But I still don't know how and all that and I'm afraid that, soon, all my friends will be in a relationship and I'm just sitting on my couch...
    jellyfishz jellyfishz 13-15, T 2 Responses a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    i am so tired of trying to understand. I don't know what to do nor do I feel like I care.
    lovebites86 lovebites86 26-30, F 6 Responses Apr 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I remember being good at writing. Decent at drawing as well. I grew up being told I was "wise beyond your years..." and could hold a conversation with any group of adults. Scores...
    Demise Demise 22-25, F 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've been in an on and off again relationship with a man in the military for two years. Due to his overseas deployment, I only get to actually see him once every several months...
    cecemar cecemar 31-35, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    There are still many pages that are blank and must be written... But I don't want this story to be boring. How can I prevent that? Oh, right. Stop thinking, start doing
    jellyfishz jellyfishz 13-15, T a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    37 hours 44 minutes deep into this hold! My boyfriend is doing what he can to prolong my hold but I'm so full. I'm in so much pain it's getting hard to breath or even see. I can...
    36hourholds 36hourholds 36-40, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I feel silly doing this but I REALLY need your help and input. I've reached my mental limits and honesty suicide crosses my mind. I cannot tell if there is any REAL in my...
    ScaredButterfly75 ScaredButterfly75 36-40, F Mar 26

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am a constantly uncertain about myself. They say your own worst enemy is yourself and i can see why. I tell myself lies that stop me from moving on and i hate that. How can i...
    Alonso1996 Alonso1996 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 16

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Got drunk last night and repeatedly told my bf how much I like him. He never once said he liked me, too, but he did make fun of me for it today.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I honestly can't do it. It just doesn't work. I'd like to learn though.
    TrackStackz TrackStackz 13-15, M Mar 26

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I haven't found mine yet :/
    angeldelinkwent angeldelinkwent 22-25, F Mar 31

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Trying to get me to accept a compliment is like trying to get a vending machine to accept your wrinkled cash. You can try as many times as you want, it isn't going to work and it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 13

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm pretty sure, no you can't see my lady parts isn't the appropriate response to wow you're beautiful!
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Ugh! I've heard one of his friend say that he likes me, but I'm not sure if it's true!! There's also another friend of mine that likes him and I'd usually give up on someone very...
    jellyfishz jellyfishz 13-15, T a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm more of a scooter girl anyways.
    OneWithTheSkies OneWithTheSkies 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 26

    Your Response

    Cancel
    is beaty needed when you flirt? or charm? or dirty talks? or similar interests,?
    lachrymosejessa lachrymosejessa 16-17, F Apr 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm probably the worst flirt this side of the Mississippi....wonder if there is a flirt webinar somewhere
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 15 Responses Apr 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It seems like no one wants to have a deep and meaningful conversation with me, Im always there for others but they never return the gesture.
    AlisonAnnAbby AlisonAnnAbby 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 5

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Am one. But pain ruins it. Got to town to mail cards. Had cards. Had charger for phone. But the address was in phone back at camp. So. I go shop. And try to...
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M Apr 6

    Your Response

    Cancel
    And me hears proof. http://youtu.be/UtBsl3j0YRQ
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M Apr 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am numb and getting sick if it. why me? it's hard living life when you feel no love or no emotion.
    Ang012685 Ang012685 26-30, F Apr 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    its 1:59, im tired but cant sleep, and i have this 3:00 dead-hour thingy i heard repeating in my head, its frusturating.
    petramullins petramullins 13-15, F Apr 13

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's been so long I've forgotten hahaha
    Fierrrrce Fierrrrce 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've learned to say thank you, but feel awkward when people compliment me.
    Platana2100 Platana2100 31-35, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't know how to help him when I can't even help myself. I've been so depressed lately, well I have been for a very long time, and he's not happy now. He doesn't know why and I...
    wishingforrecovery wishingforrecovery 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 5

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I honestly don't know how much I can take. Yea, no. I'm not gonna kill myself. I've been dealing with so much pressure, stress, and anxiety that I don't know how much longer I can...
    cuterthxnyou cuterthxnyou 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 16

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So there are times like tonight...where I'm trying to get my life back together but I just don't know how or let alone where to start. And things became so ill-placed I'm...
    GeekyGangstaGirl GeekyGangstaGirl 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I screwed something up (in hindsight, the culmination of a long series of screwups) and my GF (of 2 years) is very upset. Like "we're seeing a relationship counselor" upset. Like...
    OneIsTheLoneliestNbr OneIsTheLoneliestNbr 51-55, M Apr 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    every day goes by and something changes. i think about how i used to be, and how i wanted to be, and how both of those people would be ashamed of who i am today... i don't like it...
    anata1 anata1 22-25, F Mar 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    How did you find great husband? I'm lost, I don't know how to live anymore. I hate myself.
    27girl 27girl 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 31

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't know how to tell my professor that I don't want anything related with her because she is the cause of my trauma, stress, anxiety and panic attacks. If you speak spanish...
    AndreaCulea AndreaCulea 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 1

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've been dating my first ever BF for almost 6 months, and at first it was great. But lately I've just been feeling really torn by all the little things that have slowly started...
    SimpleShares SimpleShares 22-25, F 5 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    10 Daily Habits That Will Give You Incredible Willpower: “We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, therefore, is not an act, but a habit.” – Aristotle. Success is a lot of...
    IamnotCharlieSheen IamnotCharlieSheen 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 8

    Your Response

    Please respond with