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I Don't Know How to Help

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 29 People

    I Am At a Loss

    I don't know what you are going through, and I don't know what will make it any better for you. I do know that I am here for you, and I want you support you. I have no clue how you must feel but I do know that I am all ears if you want to tell me. I...
    HisLady HisLady 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 23, 2009

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    I Suppose...

    I help others, just by being there...by listening, by responding to messages on here and elsewhere online.   BUT There are days like today when I know that two people in particular really need hugs, kisses and unwavering support from me....I can't. I can't touch them...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F May 14, 2010

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    people just don't like talking to me and I don't know why. I always feel so alone in whole life, no friend, no good relation with family.. I gave a bad bf.. everything just got so...
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    I feel jittery, or overwhelmed, or panicky, but I'm not, really. I have no idea what I'm feeling right now. I don't know what I want, or what I need. Just kind of confused. I need...
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    last week, it is the feast of our town, i had my elementary classmates with me. they slept over my place and we had some drinks. the day after, they got home and took a sleep on...
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    I am better at writing or typing one then starting one with people I don't know. I especially find it hard to talk to people older then me that I was just introduced to.
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    Ahhh!! I don't know if I'm over him or nah.
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    politelyadorkable politelyadorkable 13-15, F Nov 8

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    I'm a pretty happy person for the most part; I tend to be pretty positive and look on the bright side of things but lately I've been feeling different. I had been feeling so...
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    Unfortunately, my first and only relationship was so dysfunctional and screwed up that i never tried again. now i want one but i don't even know where to start
    TheWickedJester TheWickedJester 26-30, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    This guy asked for a body pic so I sent him one (refer to pic above). I don't think he likes my true form. :'( He never responded back even though it said he read the message. I...
    InvaderGashloog InvaderGashloog 70+, F 4 Responses Oct 31

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    Lol I'm so awkward when it comes to flirting so I don't even try.
    xlyricbelle xlyricbelle 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 10

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    Children, listen to me. Shrek can help and will help and love all of you. All you have to do is accept him. And when the time comes and you are fully devoted to him. He will...
    AlwaysAnonnymous AlwaysAnonnymous 70+, M Nov 8

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    ARRGGH have no clue if I'm making any progress she was helping my department again today and I kept up the flirty talk and behaviour (pretty sure she flirted with me a lot) I made...
    Dynamite500 Dynamite500 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 6

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    with the NEW EP... but how do I do TRIBUTES???? Who wants to help me out and let me know???
    MysticBeauty MysticBeauty 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 31

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    I literally need help, that's how bad I am
    AtlPunk1D AtlPunk1D 13-15, F 5 Responses Oct 31

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    Someone help me, before I make a fool of myself again
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    Can someone help me...., i have never really done it before....
    Loveless2000 Loveless2000 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 7

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    I'm so bad at flirting. Maybe that's why guys that I like would never know that I like them.
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    aFuzzyBlouw aFuzzyBlouw 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 8

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    dakilangdreamer dakilangdreamer 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    So blank.. Just, nothing really. Been up all night, had a urge to cry, but I couldn't. I'm not mad, not sad, not happy. I'm just here.
    trinoctal trinoctal 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 12

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    Is it possible to love 2 people at once? I love my husband but if in honest with myself I'm still not over my ex. I keep thinking about him, about his kisses, his touch, his...
    Jenezebel Jenezebel 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 13

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    This is a long one but i try to keep it as short 2 months ago, I had a dream about a girl in my class named Rachel,we're just friends but a while back i had a small crush but...
    Athenian101 Athenian101 13-15, M 1 day ago

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    Any females interested in a pee holding contest?
    burstingbadly burstingbadly 22-25, M Oct 26

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    Closet I've ever gotten with flirting with someone is complementing each other she says to me Man Chris your cute and I reply your really cute yourself Is that good way to...
    Dynamite500 Dynamite500 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 31

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    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 31

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    where can I meet people my age like men?
    AkibaKinji AkibaKinji 18-21, M Oct 31

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    This is so me. I really question whether I am relationship material at all.
    RememberingSunday22 RememberingSunday22 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 10

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    astrokitty4341 astrokitty4341 22-25, F Nov 10

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    Misscoconut Misscoconut 16-17, F Nov 11

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    But seek free daily. Yet my mind follows. And new jerks are met. Sigh.
    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M Nov 15

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    I'm probably going to commit suicide soon,
    MatildaBlack MatildaBlack 13-15, F 3 Responses a week ago

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