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I Don't Know If I Love My Husband

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    How Can I Love Him?

    It has been more than 4 years and I can say that I have been wasting 4 years of my life. He has never cared for me and never made me feel special. It's an horrible feeling. Never a nice word, never a flower, never "I love you". Only before...
    chantalfou chantalfou 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 27, 2009

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    High School Sweethearts Tredging Through College

    Hey, so my boyfriend and I have been together nearly 5 years. We met in the 10th grade. It was what you may call 'love at first sight', he was the first and only boy i had a crush on at the new high school i just started at. Well, 4.5 years later we're still together, at separate...
    m1ch3ll3 m1ch3ll3 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 17, 2013

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    Give Up

    Hiya really don't know where to start but basically my daughter left for uni and since then i've been lost without her and don't feel I want to stay in my marriage anymore.I suppose I've only stayed because she was still at home and acted like a buffer for us both.You may think I...
    bonkers20 bonkers20 36-40 Mar 29, 2012

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    Divorce After Less Than One Year Of Marriage?

    I have been married for just over ten months. My husband and I have had our share of problems in the past. I knew marriage would never solve our problmes, but I believed we would be able to work through whatever came along. My husband can be quite aggressive and arrogant. Never...
    leetancredi leetancredi 26-30 1 Response Sep 19, 2010

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    When Do I Leave?

    I've been married for 6 years now, but I don't know why I got married in the first place. My husband has cheated on me a few times (1 time lasting almost a year). As a sort of revenge, I had a one-night stand that he did find out about. But in the past year, he has not cheated...
    heroatena heroatena 26-30 10 Responses Aug 26, 2009

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    Something Delicious And Delirious To Tantalize Your Senses.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=EuIuPaz5eMw
    trilo2 trilo2 18-21, M Jul 20, 2012

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    He's Trying and I'm Not

    I have lost my feeling for my husband. I used to get excited to hear from him or to see him but now he has hurt me (not physically) but mentally that I don't care if he even comes home at all now. I don't hate him but I'm afraid I will start. He has made me feel like I...
    jodi0911 jodi0911 41-45, F 4 Responses Dec 31, 2007

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    I Want Out, He Wants Me To Stay

    I really think it is a case of a fragile tropical plant that has not been watered in way too long.  My love for him has died and I can't get it back.  He admits to "checking out" of the marriage previously.  Of course this was at a time when I really needed him...
    ozietwin ozietwin 41-45 2 Responses Jun 3, 2010

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    I Dont Know How To Love

    IM 21 YEARS OLD AND HAS A BOYFRIEND THAT TREATS AND SHOWS ME SO MUCH AFFECTION AND CARE AND LOVE IN EVERY WAY..AND I ALWAYS PUSH HIM AWAY CUZ I DONT KNOW HOW TO SHOW THE LOVE BACK.BUT I REALLY DO LOVE HIM...MY AGGRESSIVENESS AND ATTITUDE TENDS TO PUSH HIM AWAY.
    kchamberlain46 kchamberlain46 18-21 2 Responses Jun 12, 2011

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    Not Sure I Love My Husband

    A year after we were married my husband cheated on me with his ex wife. We worked that out and spent the next 9 years happy or I thought. He came home one day and said he didn't want to be married said he loved me but felt like he was keeping me from my family they r in NY. Said...
    lifeisgood93 lifeisgood93 41-45 1 Response Nov 27, 2012

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    I Am On a Different Path

    Almost 2 years ago I made a major change in my life, I started eating healthy and exercising.  This has been a wonderful experience for me and I have lost of ton of weight and feel so wonderful after being so down for 20 years.  I turned 40 in April and...
    projectingonothers projectingonothers 36-40 1 Response Jun 26, 2009

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    Miss Being In Love

    After 23 yrs of marriage I am no longer "In Love" with my husband. Neither one of us is anything like we were in the first years. We see every thing differently and even though he's good to me and I care about him I no longer like being around him very much. He agitates...
    Bobbie1948 Bobbie1948 56-60, F 3 Responses Jul 22, 2007

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    Complicated

    I fell in love with my first boyfriend at 14 and we was together for 4 years we had a baby together who is now nearly 6 we split up about 3 years ago. I am now married to someone else but i do not love him the way i should i am still in love with my ex who is also engaged t...
    Saucysecret Saucysecret 22-25 2 Responses Mar 4, 2013

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    On The Edge Of ?

    I have been married for 25yrs (married at 19) and I am not sure if I ever actually really loved my husband.  I mean the way you are supposed to love the person you marry.  I have served him, shown love to him, had children with him, loved his family and been a very kind...
    hcdsf hcdsf 41-45, F 6 Responses Nov 2, 2009

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    I Don't Want To Be Unfair To Him

    My husband is a great guy who treats me so well - he is kind, supportive and caring. The problem is, I just don't know if I'm in love with him anymore. I have felt this way for years now - in fact I was a little unsure even before we got married - but I have been trying to ignore...
    wahiiba wahiiba 26-30 10 Responses Jul 6, 2010

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    We Are So Different---why Did We Ever Marry?

    I've been married for 23 years now to my "kindergarten sweetheart" and don't think I can stand another day with him.  I don't think we ever should have married.  We are practically complete opposites!  I'm introverted, he's extremely extroverted. ...
    jesster jesster 41-45 4 Responses Aug 21, 2009

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    It's really my boyfriend.

    ..but best category right? Any ways...we've been together for 2 1/2 years. I fell in love with him before we even started dating...5 years before actually. Anyways, I'm not sure if I love him anymore. He's always miserable, always angry, never communicates, and I've maybe heard...
    KrystalClearView KrystalClearView 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 17

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    It All Changed Once We Were Married

    I have been married to my husband for six months now and our relationship has done a complete 180 since that day. I have been dating my husband off and on for three years when we finally decided to get married. We never broke up for any reason except he is a marine and was moving...
    MilitarySpouse MilitarySpouse 22-25 3 Responses Sep 13, 2011

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    Today I Told My Husband That I Do Not Love Him.

    My husband and I have been married for going on 7 years, and we make great parents. Our children are happy and healthy and well cared for. They are, and have always been my main priority. My husband and I got got married pretty hastily. I was a single mother when I met him trying...
    HeMeUs HeMeUs 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 20, 2012

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    I have been married for the past 5 years. We have 2 kids 3 and 1 years old. I am with my kids all the time. Can't wait to leave work to see them. My husband on the other hand...
    carol723 carol723 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 17

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    Well, i don't know what is this felling should be called... Met this young tall good looking guy in a meeting. Known him for almost a year. From the first time i saw him, i said...
    fitflop fitflop 31-35 13 hrs ago

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    I am so very scared. I don't know which way turn anymore. I have managed to royally **** up my life....again. I feel completely worthless. I don't know what I want anymore. On the...
    onebirdinacage onebirdinacage 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 16

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    I have been with my husband for 6 years. Nothing was ever normal. He is a recovering alcoholic for the past year. Once he stopped drinking many smaller issues started sprouting...
    emotionalshreds emotionalshreds 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 14

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    I'm seriously contemplating divorce. I have 3 kids. He doesn't talk to me, do things with me, or have sex with me. I signed up for a husband, not a roommate. What will this do to...
    MLH205 MLH205 41-45, F 6 Responses Oct 17

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    First things first, a guy told me he kinda likes me, and I kind of like him, but I don't know what to do about it. Also, I moved recently, as most of you know, and the new...
    PercyJacksonisAWESOME PercyJacksonisAWESOME 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    I'm feeling really worthless. I'm not very good at anything, I can't hold a job because I'm not very good at even waitressing. How complicated is waitressing even and yet I'm never...
    mc020130 mc020130 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 16

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    Am I kind? Am I heartless? Am I purely seductive? Am I sensitive? Can I love? Am I crazy? Sadly I don't know. I have so many roles that I have used to protect myself. I think the...
    butterflyhearts17 butterflyhearts17 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Why is he making it hard for me? ;~; I can't tell my childhood friend about this matter because he'll just make me feel bad about this... I don't know whose shoulder I could cry...
    Misaki7590 Misaki7590 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 1

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    My boyfriend is currently in basic training for the United States Marines. He's been gone for almost a month and a half, which means he's almost half done. Now I don't get anyone...
    kaylafitz kaylafitz 18-21, F Oct 13

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    I'm in a constant state of unrest. At any given moment I feel as though I am either about to explode violently or will break down and begin hyperventilating. This is my life and...
    Tantalustay Tantalustay 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 16

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    I feel like saying sorry, but I don't even know what for. The past few days have just been blurry. I don't know what to think. My boyfriend seems to be hurting quite a bit n I feel...
    TallyO TallyO 13-15, F Oct 18

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    (Any comments/help are really appreciated) I have a best friend, who is a girl, named holly. She's 5'4, very slim as she's a dancer, beautiful brown hair and eyes. She has an...
    megboundyx megboundyx 16-17, F 6 Responses Oct 1

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    Sorry for everyone who thinks this is an update. That guy I mentioned before? He told me actually does like me, and we've talked a lot, but the thing is, I don't know if I like him...
    PercyJacksonisAWESOME PercyJacksonisAWESOME 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 8

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    Not sure where to start this my second marriage we been together 10 years now it seems to always be a battle She 6 children from prev marriages I have two boys grown and gone from...
    firefighter39m firefighter39m 51-55, M 1 Response Oct 10

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    I don't know what's wrong with me. I'm 16 and in the 12th grade, and I've skipped so many classes that I could have to do another year. But that would honestly be devastating...
    dickdurk dickdurk 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 10

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    I've been away from home for 6 months, to a country where I could escape from the troubles in life. I felt like there was nothing to worry about and above all enjoyed the FREEDOM...
    hopefaithtrust hopefaithtrust 18-21, F Oct 11

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    I do love my parents, they are fighting.. as in Right now! I'm not used to it.. I feel broken seeing them fighting..I really don't know what to do.. They don't even think what...
    Kyouko05 Kyouko05 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 12

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    I love wicca and himduism. The thing is that I can't chose a religion I'm in love with a million different ones. I'm raised a Christian but I don't fell. I don't know the word...
    Ginnylove Ginnylove 13-15, F Oct 13

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    I love wicca and himduism. The thing is that I can't chose a religion I'm in love with a million different ones. I'm raised a Christian but I don't fell. I don't know the word...
    Ginnylove Ginnylove 13-15, F Oct 13

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    I love wicca and himduism. The thing is that I can't chose a religion I'm in love with a million different ones. I'm raised a Christian but I don't fell. I don't know the word...
    Ginnylove Ginnylove 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 13

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    I'm very lost and don't know what to do next. I feel so bored of life that a lot of times I wonder if death would be better you know. I don't know what to do in order to keep my...
    Zoned1 Zoned1 22-25, M 2 Responses Oct 14

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    This is a problem for me. I don't know how to ask for help. There were times when I could've solved all my problems just by asking for help. There were willing people, I remember...
    migs1910 migs1910 26-30, M Oct 17

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    I’ve been talking to this guy/boy/man that I met online around a year ago. He is older than me. I’m 21 and he’s 26. He has a secure and successful career, went to school on...
    lookingatstars lookingatstars 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 22

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    If somebody ever asked me about my life, I will always refer to you. It will always start with the day I first saw your face, and how everything seemed to change. I will continue...
    Darkthoughtsallover Darkthoughtsallover 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    I am almost 25 and I just don't know what is wrong with me. Sometimes I am high, (like I was stoned or something, but I don't do drugs, don't even smoke...) sleep only for a few...
    girlwithrunes girlwithrunes 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I go to school 6 days a week including language school, i used to be an straight A student, but what happened to me since I start yr7?! My parents didn't mind at first, and I...
    sohee25 sohee25 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I'll probably delete this after a while because I don't like talking about about such things. Anyways, I've been in a couple online relationships over long distance. I haven't a...
    aFuzzyBlouw aFuzzyBlouw 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I have lost many people and I haven't been able to let anyone into my life for many years now. I don't know if I can ever fall in love again. I feel really lonely sometimes but I...
    xosiobhan xosiobhan 18-21, F 2 days ago

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