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I Don't Know If I Love My Husband

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    It's really my boyfriend.

    ..but best category right? Any ways...we've been together for 2 1/2 years. I fell in love with him before we even started dating...5 years before actually. Anyways, I'm not sure if I love him anymore. He's always miserable, always angry, never communicates, and I've maybe heard...
    KrystalClearView KrystalClearView 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 17, 2014

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    Today I Told My Husband That I Do Not Love Him.

    My husband and I have been married for going on 7 years, and we make great parents. Our children are happy and healthy and well cared for. They are, and have always been my main priority. My husband and I got got married pretty hastily. I was a single mother when I met him trying...
    HeMeUs HeMeUs 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 20, 2012

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    Divorce After Less Than One Year Of Marriage?

    I have been married for just over ten months. My husband and I have had our share of problems in the past. I knew marriage would never solve our problmes, but I believed we would be able to work through whatever came along. My husband can be quite aggressive and arrogant. Never...
    leetancredi leetancredi 26-30 1 Response Sep 19, 2010

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    On The Edge Of ?

    I have been married for 25yrs (married at 19) and I am not sure if I ever actually really loved my husband.  I mean the way you are supposed to love the person you marry.  I have served him, shown love to him, had children with him, loved his family and been a very kind...
    hcdsf hcdsf 41-45, F 6 Responses Nov 2, 2009

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    High School Sweethearts Tredging Through College

    Hey, so my boyfriend and I have been together nearly 5 years. We met in the 10th grade. It was what you may call 'love at first sight', he was the first and only boy i had a crush on at the new high school i just started at. Well, 4.5 years later we're still together, at separate...
    m1ch3ll3 m1ch3ll3 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 17, 2013

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    Not Sure I Love My Husband

    A year after we were married my husband cheated on me with his ex wife. We worked that out and spent the next 9 years happy or I thought. He came home one day and said he didn't want to be married said he loved me but felt like he was keeping me from my family they r in NY. Said...
    lifeisgood93 lifeisgood93 41-45 1 Response Nov 27, 2012

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    I Dont Know How To Love

    IM 21 YEARS OLD AND HAS A BOYFRIEND THAT TREATS AND SHOWS ME SO MUCH AFFECTION AND CARE AND LOVE IN EVERY WAY..AND I ALWAYS PUSH HIM AWAY CUZ I DONT KNOW HOW TO SHOW THE LOVE BACK.BUT I REALLY DO LOVE HIM...MY AGGRESSIVENESS AND ATTITUDE TENDS TO PUSH HIM AWAY.
    kchamberlain46 kchamberlain46 18-21 2 Responses Jun 12, 2011

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    Miss Being In Love

    After 23 yrs of marriage I am no longer "In Love" with my husband. Neither one of us is anything like we were in the first years. We see every thing differently and even though he's good to me and I care about him I no longer like being around him very much. He agitates...
    Bobbie1948 Bobbie1948 56-60, F 3 Responses Jul 22, 2007

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    He's Trying and I'm Not

    I have lost my feeling for my husband. I used to get excited to hear from him or to see him but now he has hurt me (not physically) but mentally that I don't care if he even comes home at all now. I don't hate him but I'm afraid I will start. He has made me feel like I...
    jodi0911 jodi0911 41-45, F 4 Responses Dec 31, 2007

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    Something Delicious And Delirious To Tantalize Your Senses.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=EuIuPaz5eMw
    trilo2 trilo2 18-21, M Jul 20, 2012

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    We Are So Different---why Did We Ever Marry?

    I've been married for 23 years now to my "kindergarten sweetheart" and don't think I can stand another day with him.  I don't think we ever should have married.  We are practically complete opposites!  I'm introverted, he's extremely extroverted. ...
    jesster jesster 41-45 4 Responses Aug 21, 2009

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    How Can I Love Him?

    It has been more than 4 years and I can say that I have been wasting 4 years of my life. He has never cared for me and never made me feel special. It's an horrible feeling. Never a nice word, never a flower, never "I love you". Only before...
    chantalfou chantalfou 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 27, 2009

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    I Don't Want To Be Unfair To Him

    My husband is a great guy who treats me so well - he is kind, supportive and caring. The problem is, I just don't know if I'm in love with him anymore. I have felt this way for years now - in fact I was a little unsure even before we got married - but I have been trying to ignore...
    wahiiba wahiiba 26-30 10 Responses Jul 6, 2010

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    Give Up

    Hiya really don't know where to start but basically my daughter left for uni and since then i've been lost without her and don't feel I want to stay in my marriage anymore.I suppose I've only stayed because she was still at home and acted like a buffer for us both.You may think I...
    bonkers20 bonkers20 36-40 Mar 29, 2012

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    I Am On a Different Path

    Almost 2 years ago I made a major change in my life, I started eating healthy and exercising.  This has been a wonderful experience for me and I have lost of ton of weight and feel so wonderful after being so down for 20 years.  I turned 40 in April and...
    projectingonothers projectingonothers 36-40 1 Response Jun 26, 2009

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    Complicated

    I fell in love with my first boyfriend at 14 and we was together for 4 years we had a baby together who is now nearly 6 we split up about 3 years ago. I am now married to someone else but i do not love him the way i should i am still in love with my ex who is also engaged t...
    Saucysecret Saucysecret 22-25 2 Responses Mar 4, 2013

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    It All Changed Once We Were Married

    I have been married to my husband for six months now and our relationship has done a complete 180 since that day. I have been dating my husband off and on for three years when we finally decided to get married. We never broke up for any reason except he is a marine and was moving...
    MilitarySpouse MilitarySpouse 22-25 3 Responses Sep 13, 2011

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    I Want Out, He Wants Me To Stay

    I really think it is a case of a fragile tropical plant that has not been watered in way too long.  My love for him has died and I can't get it back.  He admits to "checking out" of the marriage previously.  Of course this was at a time when I really needed him...
    ozietwin ozietwin 41-45 2 Responses Jun 3, 2010

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    When Do I Leave?

    I've been married for 6 years now, but I don't know why I got married in the first place. My husband has cheated on me a few times (1 time lasting almost a year). As a sort of revenge, I had a one-night stand that he did find out about. But in the past year, he has not cheated...
    heroatena heroatena 26-30 10 Responses Aug 26, 2009

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    I've been married for 4 years now and I'm so unhappy my husband would rather play video games and smoke pot can spend time with me. he sleeps in bed with me maybe 3 times a month...
    lonelyandconfusedwife2015 lonelyandconfusedwife2015 26-30, F 5 Responses May 6

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    So I have talked to my husband about feeling our marrige is in trouble, his reaction was, "I understand if you wanna leave. I am not a bad husband." He seems like he has started to...
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    My parents and I never had a very close relationship. I will admit that it is partially my fault, but it felt it necessary since I was little to put a distance between myself and...
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    Here is the background of our relationship: We are both at our early 30, now living together for the 8th months. I am a foreigner in his country, basically no family or friend...
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    Yesterday my fiancé asked me if I loved him, and I couldn't actually say thta I did. I don't know anymore, and he won't accept the wait and see response. If he forces me to make...
    Buttahcup Buttahcup 18-21, F May 13

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    I've been with my boyfriend for a year now but I did something and betrayed him and I ****** up badly. I haven't been honest with him lately and it has really hurt him. I love him...
    laxlife laxlife 18-21, F 2 Responses May 18

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    It feels like I have lived numerous different lives or that certain times in my life never really happened.. They were just figments of my imagination. Dreams. The relationships I...
    Peebsxx Peebsxx 18-21, F 2 Responses May 20

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    I am playing soccer, I steal the ball from a girl. I hope she doesn't start something .. again. she turns with fury in her eyes why is she so mad we r just playing a game. I don't...
    nellybear214 nellybear214 13-15, F 2 Responses May 20

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    It's harder to decide when I'm aware that I prolly might not have a chance to live. I'm too lost. I dunno if it's worth deciding at this point. I've had to leave to several other...
    PartyGuy21 PartyGuy21 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    I seem to know a lot, but I can't word it. I feel like everyone thinks I'm ignorant, and I just couldn't understand. I don't always show what I know, I make it seem like I don't...
    cheesecrackers99 cheesecrackers99 13-15, F May 3

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    Hi. I don't know how to start this, so I'll just jump right in. I live with a larger than average family with little to no income. I'm a 14 year old high school freshman. I...
    MaleekW MaleekW 13-15, M May 6

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    i have social anxiety so i find that having a conversation with anyone is difficult. even online, if i'm chatting to someone my heart always is beating very fast. i don't know why...
    KindKitty KindKitty 18-21, F 1 Response May 8

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    I have best friend who is everything to me. She's like sister to me. We have so much good times. She is from Russia, she has been here about two years. Two months ago she sad...
    Nalke2621 Nalke2621 18-21, F 1 Response May 10

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    this girl and I were really good friends back in middle school. I began to develop a crush on her, which now I fell in love with her. but she doesn't want anything to do with me...
    coliebearr coliebearr 16-17 May 10

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    Uhh I don't know where we stand, wether we are or aren't. I'm lost cause there's no logic to whats going on. She says all these things, I try and try to comfort her but she shoots...
    NomadAngel117 NomadAngel117 18-21, M 1 Response May 11

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    I mean, we see each other pretty much everyday because we're both studying the same thing at the same college and when I'm at home we talk through snapchat. He's a bit older...
    breathinghurts breathinghurts 16-17, F May 15

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    There is someone who I meet regularly who I don't know if he likes me. The reason I am questioning it is because, how could someone ever like me? I am too complicated and intense...
    anonymouslyafraid anonymouslyafraid 18-21, F 1 Response May 18

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    I'm 21 & I guess I'm just feeling lost. I have all these hopes & dreams but don't know where to begin with them, I haven't received my H.S diploma yet & I don't know what I would...
    HopelessWander HopelessWander 18-21, F 1 Response May 19

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    my mom treats me like ****, she's hurt me physically and emotionally. recently we went to go get a phone and she lied to me, she got in my face and spit on me. She treats my older...
    2anxious 2anxious 13-15, F 1 Response May 19

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    I don't know about so many things.. I could know.. but I don't.. maybe I don't feel like knowing. Don't be so rude or offensive............ well maybe I am rude or offensive...
    Denzebarrrn Denzebarrrn 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I don't know because I don't know entirely what determines what 'attractive' is.
    NocheSombra NocheSombra 18-21, F 1 Response May 10

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    Lately I don't know what has been happening to me. It's like my self worth has diminished. I start off eating right in the beginning of the day, then towards the middle/end I eat...
    FreeSpirit02 FreeSpirit02 18-21, F 1 Response May 13

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    I am a law school student, but I took a leave of absence in order to find a job. I needed a job because I got divorced and could no longer support myself and my daughter. I...
    smc92079 smc92079 31-35, F May 14

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