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I Don't Know If I Love My Husband

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    It All Changed Once We Were Married

    I have been married to my husband for six months now and our relationship has done a complete 180 since that day. I have been dating my husband off and on for three years when we finally decided to get married. We never broke up for any reason except he is a marine and was moving...
    MilitarySpouse MilitarySpouse 22-25 3 Responses Sep 13, 2011

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    Divorce After Less Than One Year Of Marriage?

    I have been married for just over ten months. My husband and I have had our share of problems in the past. I knew marriage would never solve our problmes, but I believed we would be able to work through whatever came along. My husband can be quite aggressive and arrogant. Never...
    leetancredi leetancredi 26-30 1 Response Sep 19, 2010

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    When Do I Leave?

    I've been married for 6 years now, but I don't know why I got married in the first place. My husband has cheated on me a few times (1 time lasting almost a year). As a sort of revenge, I had a one-night stand that he did find out about. But in the past year, he has not cheated...
    heroatena heroatena 26-30 10 Responses Aug 26, 2009

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    Not Sure I Love My Husband

    A year after we were married my husband cheated on me with his ex wife. We worked that out and spent the next 9 years happy or I thought. He came home one day and said he didn't want to be married said he loved me but felt like he was keeping me from my family they r in NY. Said...
    lifeisgood93 lifeisgood93 41-45 1 Response Nov 27, 2012

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    On The Edge Of ?

    I have been married for 25yrs (married at 19) and I am not sure if I ever actually really loved my husband.  I mean the way you are supposed to love the person you marry.  I have served him, shown love to him, had children with him, loved his family and been a very kind...
    hcdsf hcdsf 41-45, F 6 Responses Nov 2, 2009

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    I Want Out, He Wants Me To Stay

    I really think it is a case of a fragile tropical plant that has not been watered in way too long.  My love for him has died and I can't get it back.  He admits to "checking out" of the marriage previously.  Of course this was at a time when I really needed him...
    ozietwin ozietwin 41-45 2 Responses Jun 3, 2010

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    Today I Told My Husband That I Do Not Love Him.

    My husband and I have been married for going on 7 years, and we make great parents. Our children are happy and healthy and well cared for. They are, and have always been my main priority. My husband and I got got married pretty hastily. I was a single mother when I met him trying...
    HeMeUs HeMeUs 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 20, 2012

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    Something Delicious And Delirious To Tantalize Your Senses.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=EuIuPaz5eMw
    trilo2 trilo2 18-21, M Jul 20, 2012

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    I Don't Want To Be Unfair To Him

    My husband is a great guy who treats me so well - he is kind, supportive and caring. The problem is, I just don't know if I'm in love with him anymore. I have felt this way for years now - in fact I was a little unsure even before we got married - but I have been trying to ignore...
    wahiiba wahiiba 26-30 10 Responses Jul 6, 2010

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    I Am On a Different Path

    Almost 2 years ago I made a major change in my life, I started eating healthy and exercising.  This has been a wonderful experience for me and I have lost of ton of weight and feel so wonderful after being so down for 20 years.  I turned 40 in April and...
    projectingonothers projectingonothers 36-40 1 Response Jun 26, 2009

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    He's Trying and I'm Not

    I have lost my feeling for my husband. I used to get excited to hear from him or to see him but now he has hurt me (not physically) but mentally that I don't care if he even comes home at all now. I don't hate him but I'm afraid I will start. He has made me feel like I...
    jodi0911 jodi0911 41-45, F 4 Responses Dec 31, 2007

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    It's really my boyfriend.

    ..but best category right? Any ways...we've been together for 2 1/2 years. I fell in love with him before we even started dating...5 years before actually. Anyways, I'm not sure if I love him anymore. He's always miserable, always angry, never communicates, and I've maybe heard...
    KrystalClearView KrystalClearView 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 17

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    I Dont Know How To Love

    IM 21 YEARS OLD AND HAS A BOYFRIEND THAT TREATS AND SHOWS ME SO MUCH AFFECTION AND CARE AND LOVE IN EVERY WAY..AND I ALWAYS PUSH HIM AWAY CUZ I DONT KNOW HOW TO SHOW THE LOVE BACK.BUT I REALLY DO LOVE HIM...MY AGGRESSIVENESS AND ATTITUDE TENDS TO PUSH HIM AWAY.
    kchamberlain46 kchamberlain46 18-21 2 Responses Jun 12, 2011

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    We Are So Different---why Did We Ever Marry?

    I've been married for 23 years now to my "kindergarten sweetheart" and don't think I can stand another day with him.  I don't think we ever should have married.  We are practically complete opposites!  I'm introverted, he's extremely extroverted. ...
    jesster jesster 41-45 4 Responses Aug 21, 2009

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    How Can I Love Him?

    It has been more than 4 years and I can say that I have been wasting 4 years of my life. He has never cared for me and never made me feel special. It's an horrible feeling. Never a nice word, never a flower, never "I love you". Only before...
    chantalfou chantalfou 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 27, 2009

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    High School Sweethearts Tredging Through College

    Hey, so my boyfriend and I have been together nearly 5 years. We met in the 10th grade. It was what you may call 'love at first sight', he was the first and only boy i had a crush on at the new high school i just started at. Well, 4.5 years later we're still together, at separate...
    m1ch3ll3 m1ch3ll3 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 17, 2013

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    Give Up

    Hiya really don't know where to start but basically my daughter left for uni and since then i've been lost without her and don't feel I want to stay in my marriage anymore.I suppose I've only stayed because she was still at home and acted like a buffer for us both.You may think I...
    bonkers20 bonkers20 36-40 Mar 29, 2012

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    Miss Being In Love

    After 23 yrs of marriage I am no longer "In Love" with my husband. Neither one of us is anything like we were in the first years. We see every thing differently and even though he's good to me and I care about him I no longer like being around him very much. He agitates...
    Bobbie1948 Bobbie1948 56-60, F 3 Responses Jul 22, 2007

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    Complicated

    I fell in love with my first boyfriend at 14 and we was together for 4 years we had a baby together who is now nearly 6 we split up about 3 years ago. I am now married to someone else but i do not love him the way i should i am still in love with my ex who is also engaged t...
    Saucysecret Saucysecret 22-25 2 Responses Mar 4, 2013

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    I am in pain..emotional pain..I feel lost and alone.. Yet I have a good hard working husband, and four beautiful healthy children, a house, cars, big back yard, a pool...etc.. Not...
    Sorrentina Sorrentina 41-45, F 9 Responses Nov 28

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    i got pregnant out of wedlock, our parents decided that we should get married right away... although we both decided to take of the needs of our baby first, then we get married if...
    keitel11 keitel11 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    I have finally gotten on meds to help with my anxiety and stress levels. but after years of emotional abuse, there is a lot more within myself that needs to be fixed. my husband is...
    emotionalshreds emotionalshreds 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 4

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    After watching "If I stay" all teary eyed and sulking. Reflecting on the fact that I myself could have been a great pianist. Then again I could have been a great anything I did...
    pinknotiq pinknotiq 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 21

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    I don't know why I don't trust men. I don't know why I think men aren't capable of being caring, compassionate, and faithful. I don't know why I want to be in a relationship but...
    MysteriousRose MysteriousRose 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I am 21 years old. I have a good GPA am involved with clubs at my community college, and have been attending this school for over two years now. I feel so lost- I don't know what...
    Schwarzwalderkirschtorte Schwarzwalderkirschtorte 18-21, F Nov 21

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    I have this friend of mine. sometimes I really don't know how to describe her. I did so much but come to this point of time. I feel that she don't appreciate it? everytime when I...
    AnnxJoy AnnxJoy 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 30

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    I'm only 16.. 3 years ago I cut myself and I have been doing it on and off since then. I don't understand what's wrong with me. I'd be out with my friends, enjoying my time. Then...
    Aly262 Aly262 16-17 1 Response Dec 1

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    I love my fiance, father of my son. I don't want to leave him even though he can be a major pain in the ***. But I often think about whether I should break up with him or not... I...
    ElledaDreamer ElledaDreamer 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm fourteen years old, going on fifteen in approximately two months. I do not know what religion I classify myself as being apart of. I grew up with my family being Christian, but...
    losingNemo losingNemo 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 28

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    I really don't. Wake up every day, so tired and defeated that have to live another day, and that‘s even if I do sleep, which is extremely rare anymore. Have to force myself to...
    GhostOfGrey GhostOfGrey 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 30

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    I really don't have any idea who I am or where I want to go in life. I'm on high school and am constantly questioned as to my goals in life. But I don't have any. I don't know what...
    Kylie2432 Kylie2432 16-17, T Dec 4

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    I think, no...I know, I've spent the last 15 years trying to convince someone that I'm good enough to love and deserve the truth. There's no point in going on about all the things...
    IstyBisty IstyBisty 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 10

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    I feel so stupid.. Maybe it's because I don't want to be alone, I feel bad for him, I met the right person at the wrong time or we just weren't meant to be. I've been with my...
    phantom44a phantom44a 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    So today Dylan and I started out… lets just say, “not conected”. So, I was late to spanish class. Dylan was just staring at me out the door. I opened it and closed it quietly...
    GoldMarine GoldMarine 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    why do I love you? I ask myself when I look at my knees. This is defiantly not the first time you've done this.. But this time I cannot come back to you. & that's the part that...
    ZenDoll ZenDoll 18-21, F 19 hrs ago

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    I know I don't know everything. I love learning though :) I love when I'm told a super random fact.
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 4 Responses Nov 24

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    I'm so tired, I can't do this anymore... I have nobody, to listen to me, to love me for Me for who I am.. I feel like nobody is happy to see me, nobody wants to see me.. I don't...
    rachel2604 rachel2604 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 25

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    Everyone thinks they have everything figured out and that they have the entire picture. No one does and no one in this family really understands me and really listens. They just...
    nomadventurist nomadventurist 18-21, F Nov 29

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    I got with my bf 2013 but I had split with him june this year. I had enough he and live quite far apart. But thought being in touch by phone this be fine. Wemmeet at his place on...
    stupid28 stupid28 31-35, F Nov 29

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    Hey, I want to take this off my chest as soon as possible, it's consuming me. I don't know if there is something wrong with me, if I look like an absolute freak or if I just look...
    tempusfugittt tempusfugittt 18-21 Dec 2

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    I don't know how much longer I can persevere with it. 5 years we've been together. It's so hard right now. Intimacy is so important to me and it's not there. I feel like I make a...
    friendlygent friendlygent 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 8

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    coworker flirting or LIKES me I have been working at this new job for about 6 months and I have noticed this coworker has 'grown on me' and I am attracted to him. The thing...
    tee13gee tee13gee 41-45, F Dec 11

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    I am increasingly unsatisfied sexually, and I just don't know what to do. He does nothing to get me turned on (he just says "play with yourself" or "get it wet") and I just feel...
    missstarrysky missstarrysky 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I used to be so sure of myself. I knew exactly what I wanted with my life. I still want these things, but now I don't see a point. It's not like I'm depressed in any way, I just...
    dreamdove dreamdove 18-21, F 15 hrs ago

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    Love... we think about it, we sing about it, dream about it, lose sleep worrying about it. When we don't have it we search for it; when we discover it, we don't know what do to...
    Moonembracingthesun Moonembracingthesun 18-21, F 11 hrs ago

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    I found myself in a difficult situation. I am 4 months pregnant in a city where I don't know anyone. After I had my first child,my boyfriend asked me to move to another state where...
    dalila1985 dalila1985 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 20

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    I feel jittery, or overwhelmed, or panicky, but I'm not, really. I have no idea what I'm feeling right now. I don't know what I want, or what I need. Just kind of confused. I need...
    jaisikae jaisikae 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 24

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