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I Don't Know If I Love My Husband

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    I Don't Want To Be Unfair To Him

    My husband is a great guy who treats me so well - he is kind, supportive and caring. The problem is, I just don't know if I'm in love with him anymore. I have felt this way for years now - in fact I was a little unsure even before we got married - but I have been trying to ignore...
    wahiiba wahiiba 26-30 10 Responses Jul 6, 2010

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    We Are So Different---why Did We Ever Marry?

    I've been married for 23 years now to my "kindergarten sweetheart" and don't think I can stand another day with him.  I don't think we ever should have married.  We are practically complete opposites!  I'm introverted, he's extremely extroverted. ...
    jesster jesster 41-45 4 Responses Aug 21, 2009

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    Not Sure I Love My Husband

    A year after we were married my husband cheated on me with his ex wife. We worked that out and spent the next 9 years happy or I thought. He came home one day and said he didn't want to be married said he loved me but felt like he was keeping me from my family they r in NY. Said...
    lifeisgood93 lifeisgood93 41-45 1 Response Nov 27, 2012

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    I Am On a Different Path

    Almost 2 years ago I made a major change in my life, I started eating healthy and exercising.  This has been a wonderful experience for me and I have lost of ton of weight and feel so wonderful after being so down for 20 years.  I turned 40 in April and...
    projectingonothers projectingonothers 36-40 1 Response Jun 26, 2009

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    How Can I Love Him?

    It has been more than 4 years and I can say that I have been wasting 4 years of my life. He has never cared for me and never made me feel special. It's an horrible feeling. Never a nice word, never a flower, never "I love you". Only before...
    chantalfou chantalfou 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 27, 2009

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    When Do I Leave?

    I've been married for 6 years now, but I don't know why I got married in the first place. My husband has cheated on me a few times (1 time lasting almost a year). As a sort of revenge, I had a one-night stand that he did find out about. But in the past year, he has not cheated...
    heroatena heroatena 26-30 10 Responses Aug 26, 2009

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    He's Trying and I'm Not

    I have lost my feeling for my husband. I used to get excited to hear from him or to see him but now he has hurt me (not physically) but mentally that I don't care if he even comes home at all now. I don't hate him but I'm afraid I will start. He has made me feel like I...
    jodi0911 jodi0911 41-45, F 4 Responses Dec 31, 2007

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    Something Delicious And Delirious To Tantalize Your Senses.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=EuIuPaz5eMw
    trilo2 trilo2 18-21, M Jul 20, 2012

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    It's really my boyfriend.

    ..but best category right? Any ways...we've been together for 2 1/2 years. I fell in love with him before we even started dating...5 years before actually. Anyways, I'm not sure if I love him anymore. He's always miserable, always angry, never communicates, and I've maybe heard...
    KrystalClearView KrystalClearView 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 17

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    On The Edge Of ?

    I have been married for 25yrs (married at 19) and I am not sure if I ever actually really loved my husband.  I mean the way you are supposed to love the person you marry.  I have served him, shown love to him, had children with him, loved his family and been a very kind...
    hcdsf hcdsf 41-45, F 6 Responses Nov 2, 2009

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    I Want Out, He Wants Me To Stay

    I really think it is a case of a fragile tropical plant that has not been watered in way too long.  My love for him has died and I can't get it back.  He admits to "checking out" of the marriage previously.  Of course this was at a time when I really needed him...
    ozietwin ozietwin 41-45 2 Responses Jun 3, 2010

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    Miss Being In Love

    After 23 yrs of marriage I am no longer "In Love" with my husband. Neither one of us is anything like we were in the first years. We see every thing differently and even though he's good to me and I care about him I no longer like being around him very much. He agitates...
    Bobbie1948 Bobbie1948 56-60, F 3 Responses Jul 22, 2007

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    High School Sweethearts Tredging Through College

    Hey, so my boyfriend and I have been together nearly 5 years. We met in the 10th grade. It was what you may call 'love at first sight', he was the first and only boy i had a crush on at the new high school i just started at. Well, 4.5 years later we're still together, at separate...
    m1ch3ll3 m1ch3ll3 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 17, 2013

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    Divorce After Less Than One Year Of Marriage?

    I have been married for just over ten months. My husband and I have had our share of problems in the past. I knew marriage would never solve our problmes, but I believed we would be able to work through whatever came along. My husband can be quite aggressive and arrogant. Never...
    leetancredi leetancredi 26-30 1 Response Sep 19, 2010

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    Complicated

    I fell in love with my first boyfriend at 14 and we was together for 4 years we had a baby together who is now nearly 6 we split up about 3 years ago. I am now married to someone else but i do not love him the way i should i am still in love with my ex who is also engaged t...
    Saucysecret Saucysecret 22-25 2 Responses Mar 4, 2013

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    Today I Told My Husband That I Do Not Love Him.

    My husband and I have been married for going on 7 years, and we make great parents. Our children are happy and healthy and well cared for. They are, and have always been my main priority. My husband and I got got married pretty hastily. I was a single mother when I met him trying...
    HeMeUs HeMeUs 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 20, 2012

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    It All Changed Once We Were Married

    I have been married to my husband for six months now and our relationship has done a complete 180 since that day. I have been dating my husband off and on for three years when we finally decided to get married. We never broke up for any reason except he is a marine and was moving...
    MilitarySpouse MilitarySpouse 22-25 3 Responses Sep 13, 2011

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    Give Up

    Hiya really don't know where to start but basically my daughter left for uni and since then i've been lost without her and don't feel I want to stay in my marriage anymore.I suppose I've only stayed because she was still at home and acted like a buffer for us both.You may think I...
    bonkers20 bonkers20 36-40 Mar 29, 2012

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    I Dont Know How To Love

    IM 21 YEARS OLD AND HAS A BOYFRIEND THAT TREATS AND SHOWS ME SO MUCH AFFECTION AND CARE AND LOVE IN EVERY WAY..AND I ALWAYS PUSH HIM AWAY CUZ I DONT KNOW HOW TO SHOW THE LOVE BACK.BUT I REALLY DO LOVE HIM...MY AGGRESSIVENESS AND ATTITUDE TENDS TO PUSH HIM AWAY.
    kchamberlain46 kchamberlain46 18-21 2 Responses Jun 12, 2011

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