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I Don't Know If I Love My Wife Anymore

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 44 People

    True Love Never Ends

    MARRIED OR NOT, YOU SHOULD READ THIS ... “When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But...
    Rahamaan Rahamaan 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 21, 2013

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    Lost Love!

    I'm now finding more and more each day I don't love my wife. Yes, she's a smart beautiful woman and we have two wonderful boys. I just don't feel the love. As each day passes, I feel I'm drifting more and more apart! Sometimes I just feel that I should end it all because either...
    iwanttodietoday iwanttodietoday 51-55 2 Responses Feb 10, 2012

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    Don't Know If I Ever Really Did

    I don't know if I love my wife anymore. I am not sure if I ever really did. Never felt the goosebumps or felt or saw or heard the fireworks. We never had intercourse ,but did some heavy petting several b/js. I guess I felt if she would do that for me that I would grow to love her...
    bquick bquick 51-55, M 2 Responses Jan 22, 2008

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    I'm Not Sure If I Love My Wife Anymore... Or If I Really Did...

    My wife and I have been married for coming up on 8 years now. I met her shortly after I left HS and thought she was gorgeous out going, and the most kind hearted woman I ever knew. At that time we both had different significant others, but quickly became friends. After we had...
    mensoid mensoid 31-35 2 Responses May 29, 2012

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    Starting To Dislike My Wife

    My story is so much like many other stories here. I just had to share. I've been married for 18 years and have 3 wonderful kids. But for at least the last 10 years I feel my marriage has been going down hill. I consider myself a good man, good husband, good father and a good...
    tee380sl tee380sl 51-55, M 6 Responses Sep 16, 2013

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    I No Longer Love My Wife....

    I am not sure how to write this. I met my wife and we got on great, had goosebumps each time she said I love you etc etc. In May 2008 she became ill and no one could work out what was wrong with her, lots of operations seeing various medical staff etc she became depressed whilst...
    ampay ampay 31-35 6 Responses Mar 10, 2011

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    Trapped?

    Okay, been married 10 years, although we are both military and because of stationing have only actually lived together for the past 5 or so. We have two 6 year old twins with Autism, and a 6 month old baby (the "save the marriage" kid). I'm quite certain that I don't love my...
    gator26 gator26 31-35 8 Responses Jul 13, 2012

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    I have read the stories

    and it seems so much like my own. I really loved her so much but of late, I feel nothing at all. I really want this to work out, but, I'm just tired of the way things are going. We have 4 kids all under 13 and I want them to grow with both parents. She always undermines me, she...
    markfulton markfulton 36-40, M 3 Responses Mar 9, 2014

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    Dont Feel Love For My Wife Anymore!

    When we started our relationship the first 2 years were great, then we had a gap where we were buying a flat together and it all changed, she no longer was fun or sexually interested and even when she was interested i was more concerned with getting back at her for being so...
    feelingnolove feelingnolove 31-35, M 7 Responses Mar 9, 2010

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    What To Do...

    I have been married for 3 yrs now.  in total, weve been together for 11.  im not sure if i got married for the wrong reasons or what, but im in a situation now where i just dont think im in love with her anymore.  we just bought a house last year, and she has done...
    drums1078 drums1078 31-35, M 5 Responses Dec 28, 2009

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