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I Don't Know If I Love My Wife Anymore

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 40 People

    I'm Not Sure If I Love My Wife Anymore... Or If I Really Did...

    My wife and I have been married for coming up on 8 years now. I met her shortly after I left HS and thought she was gorgeous out going, and the most kind hearted woman I ever knew. At that time we both had different significant others, but quickly became friends. After we had...
    mensoid mensoid 31-35 2 Responses May 29, 2012

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    Starting To Dislike My Wife

    My story is so much like many other stories here. I just had to share. I've been married for 18 years and have 3 wonderful kids. But for at least the last 10 years I feel my marriage has been going down hill. I consider myself a good man, good husband, good father and a good...
    tee380sl tee380sl 51-55, M 6 Responses Sep 16, 2013

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    True Love Never Ends

    MARRIED OR NOT, YOU SHOULD READ THIS ... “When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But...
    Rahamaan Rahamaan 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 21, 2013

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    Trapped?

    Okay, been married 10 years, although we are both military and because of stationing have only actually lived together for the past 5 or so. We have two 6 year old twins with Autism, and a 6 month old baby (the "save the marriage" kid). I'm quite certain that I don't love my...
    gator26 gator26 31-35 8 Responses Jul 13, 2012

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    Lost Love!

    I'm now finding more and more each day I don't love my wife. Yes, she's a smart beautiful woman and we have two wonderful boys. I just don't feel the love. As each day passes, I feel I'm drifting more and more apart! Sometimes I just feel that I should end it all because either...
    iwanttodietoday iwanttodietoday 51-55 2 Responses Feb 10, 2012

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    Don't Know If I Ever Really Did

    I don't know if I love my wife anymore. I am not sure if I ever really did. Never felt the goosebumps or felt or saw or heard the fireworks. We never had intercourse ,but did some heavy petting several b/js. I guess I felt if she would do that for me that I would grow to love her...
    bquick bquick 51-55, M 2 Responses Jan 22, 2008

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    I No Longer Love My Wife....

    I am not sure how to write this. I met my wife and we got on great, had goosebumps each time she said I love you etc etc. In May 2008 she became ill and no one could work out what was wrong with her, lots of operations seeing various medical staff etc she became depressed whilst...
    ampay ampay 31-35 5 Responses Mar 10, 2011

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    I have read the stories

    and it seems so much like my own. I really loved her so much but of late, I feel nothing at all. I really want this to work out, but, I'm just tired of the way things are going. We have 4 kids all under 13 and I want them to grow with both parents. She always undermines me, she...
    markfulton markfulton 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 9

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    What To Do...

    I have been married for 3 yrs now.  in total, weve been together for 11.  im not sure if i got married for the wrong reasons or what, but im in a situation now where i just dont think im in love with her anymore.  we just bought a house last year, and she has done...
    drums1078 drums1078 31-35, M 5 Responses Dec 28, 2009

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    Dont Feel Love For My Wife Anymore!

    When we started our relationship the first 2 years were great, then we had a gap where we were buying a flat together and it all changed, she no longer was fun or sexually interested and even when she was interested i was more concerned with getting back at her for being so...
    feelingnolove feelingnolove 31-35, M 7 Responses Mar 9, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    It has been over a year since my affair ended, and I have managed to work through the intense roller coaster ride of emotional ups and downs. Details are in my previous experience...
    inacloud inacloud 31-35, M 4 days ago

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    My daughter is so mean to me. She is 32yrs old and homeless, goes back and forth from our house to granddaughters dad or boyfriends. Blames her actions on me and her dad. Yells...
    olblu7777 olblu7777 51-55, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I love two people, I love one more even though I don't know her too well, but she lives in the USA, and one is my therapist and I know she loves me, I just don't know what to do.
    RazorToMySkin RazorToMySkin 16-17, M 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    I met a guy on a dating website. I am married, he is separated. It is a site for affairs. I really care for him and he cares for me. We are having an affair. He has has bad...
    jorobda1013 jorobda1013 46-50, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I've been working in an office for 2 years now. Early in this summer, I got a new boss. He is overly demanding and abusive. He always gives me unreasonable deadlines, and if I can...
    calmbear calmbear 22-25, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    I don’t know why I knocked on the door of my only friend when I hit rock bottom and was afraid to being alone. I don’t know why he took advantage of me, I was 17, and I didn...
    starchild3 starchild3 31-35, F 5 days ago

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    I just don't know anymore, nothing ever seems to go right for me. I just want to be loved properly instead of people pretending to love me. I hate everyday I wake up. I'm slowly...
    sademptynothing sademptynothing 13-15, F Sep 15

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    I'm fifteen years old. Fifteen. And I have absolutely zero idea who I am. It must be the "hormones"... Seriously, why do adults feel the need to blame it on hormones all of the...
    taintedanddainty taintedanddainty 13-15, F Sep 17

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    So the past year has been a lot of changes. 5 different jobs, homeless for 3 months, and finally settled into a new apartment. But I'm still just lost. Bouncing around, not knowing...
    Humming247 Humming247 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 6

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    Months ago i was full of happiness. I had achieved so much! Now i'm just full of hatred and anger. I look in the mirror and i don't see mysf anymore. I see a person abused by their...
    abc0924 abc0924 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 16

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    I have only been married a mere 4 months and already I am feeling out of my comfort zone. I'm 33 and have one child from a previous relationship but this is my first marriage. My...
    Piperlou Piperlou 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 17

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    Do I really have anything left now? My family doesn't talk to me as a person, only something that gets schoolwork done. Do I even have friends? I barely get to talk to one, another...
    YoureMyGlowstone YoureMyGlowstone 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 18

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    I don't know who I'm anymore or why I'm here, and I'm scared of becoming the monster I was running from.
    ruthm ruthm 18-21, F Sep 9

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    My partner of 4 years broke up with me a week ago. We were planning to be married next year. We are originally from India but currently live in the US. When I first met him, I was...
    mkist mkist 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 18

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    I am torn between my home countries. One in Europe, the other in the middle east. My father is one side the mother the other. My brothers divorced when my parents did. They took my...
    jesper9 jesper9 22-25 a week ago

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    (using google translate) I don't know what to say i try really hard it a lot to talk about, I will do my best to make a smile so people think I am happy.. but, I just give up, I am...
    Blazingdragon Blazingdragon 13-15, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'm 20 years old. I finish high school in December/2010 and back then I was really confused about career choices. I tried fashion, kinda liked it but not really. Then I thought I...
    carolbarth carolbarth 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    I know I don't want to be stuck in an office. I know I don't want to stagnate in one place for the rest of my life. I know I don't want to remain constant. But, I don't know what...
    CMInk2 CMInk2 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    I don't want to feel anymore... I hurt everyone and I feel so empty... I'm covered in scars, I am afraid to cry and I hate people so much.. Im constantly let down when I give my...
    Alwayslost11 Alwayslost11 31-35, F Sep 16

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    I use to care what people think of me, I used to care about school work, I used to worry about everything. Now, I honestly could care less. I'm not that concerned about it anymore...
    Maleahpage Maleahpage 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Living in SD for over 2 years now I'm not sure what I'm doing, I have blocked myself so much out of the world that I don't know how to make friends, I don't like to be social, and...
    blackskys blackskys 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 3

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    Things are so wonderful and so awful, I got with a girl 13 days ago, thing is that people keep talking bad about her. Today my cousin, my parabati (for those of you who don't get...
    geary97 geary97 16-17, M 4 Responses Sep 16

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    Two summers ago I moved in with my one of my older sisters. Ever since I moved in with her I have been watching her child for her while she worked. For the longest time I wasn't...
    MsHesitationsx3 MsHesitationsx3 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 19

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    Everyday just seems so grey to me. I don't think there's something to looked forward to and I don't think I'm interested in anything anymore. I keep blaming myself for the small...
    humairaaiman humairaaiman 13-15, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I just got into this argument with my grandma. She's seriously getting on my last nerve. She's trying to tell me that I should grow up, and I said, "That's not my problem." She...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 4

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    All I want, is to be the only one. Is that so much to ask? Why do you have to talk to other women, it hurts me, and frankly, I guess you don't give a F. I don't know what to do...
    lonelyStonerGirl lonelyStonerGirl 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 11

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    I love my boyfriend a lot, I know I'm young so save the talk lol, but I really do. But I really think I love him for the wrong reason. He took my virginity and was my first kiss...
    lonelygypsy lonelygypsy 13-15, F Sep 18

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    I'm not sure if I'm bi or not. But about a year ago, I started feeling really strongly for my (female) best friend. One of my other friends introduced me to her, and we got really...
    skywords skywords 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    New to all of this. Help please I feel like my marriage is falling apart and I don't know what to do. My husband and I have been married for 9 years and have been together for 10...
    hopeful1220 hopeful1220 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    So I accidentally browsed ur profile on the dating website and what you wrote just make me curious, this is how we know each other. We met in person in a very short term w/o...
    TaiwanSag TaiwanSag 26-30, F Sep 11

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    A sad fairy tale turned into a nightmare, gazing upon a beauty I've never seen, on the outside appearing to be sweet, caring, and a mystery. I wanted to know You and You, Me. I...
    Xenasdreams Xenasdreams 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 13

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    I'm 21 years old. I've always dated men. I cut my hair short (like Keira Knightley in Domino) when I was 13. I was called "dyke spikes" all through high school, even after my hair...
    NotaDisneyPrincess NotaDisneyPrincess 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I'm 23 years old and graduated high school in 2009, I was always good in school and people always told me I would succeed in whatever I did. They were wrong. I went to college but...
    23andconfused 23andconfused 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 1

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    she was so perfect.. everything was amazing! the way she made me feel was unreal, like when I held her the world stood still. I have had bad relationships in the past so I am very...
    josh8565 josh8565 22-25 2 Responses Sep 3

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    Don't know if it's from past heartbreaks or me just getting old, but I think I got boring. Found a lovely young man who adores me and here I go with let's wait a bit before we have...
    ibutterfly75 ibutterfly75 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    Honestly. I'm just going to vent for myself and my needs. If you want to read and write something below as advice or anything, thank you. But it's not necessary. Well, here goes...
    ImagineA ImagineA 16-17 1 Response Sep 7

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    My husband of 20+ years left to work 2 years ago and never returned. Everything seemed to be ok at the time but he decided to leave and tried to hide from us his family. We had...
    kikaaa kikaaa 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 11

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    Center of attention once again but you don't understand no you don't understand then they try to tell me who i am but they don't understand no...you want a perfect picture to...
    Yovanna Yovanna 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 11

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