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I Don't Know If I Love My Wife Anymore

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 43 People

    Trapped?

    Okay, been married 10 years, although we are both military and because of stationing have only actually lived together for the past 5 or so. We have two 6 year old twins with Autism, and a 6 month old baby (the "save the marriage" kid). I'm quite certain that I don't love my...
    gator26 gator26 31-35 8 Responses Jul 13, 2012

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    Starting To Dislike My Wife

    My story is so much like many other stories here. I just had to share. I've been married for 18 years and have 3 wonderful kids. But for at least the last 10 years I feel my marriage has been going down hill. I consider myself a good man, good husband, good father and a good...
    tee380sl tee380sl 51-55, M 6 Responses Sep 16, 2013

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    I have read the stories

    and it seems so much like my own. I really loved her so much but of late, I feel nothing at all. I really want this to work out, but, I'm just tired of the way things are going. We have 4 kids all under 13 and I want them to grow with both parents. She always undermines me, she...
    markfulton markfulton 36-40, M 3 Responses Mar 9, 2014

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    What To Do...

    I have been married for 3 yrs now.  in total, weve been together for 11.  im not sure if i got married for the wrong reasons or what, but im in a situation now where i just dont think im in love with her anymore.  we just bought a house last year, and she has done...
    drums1078 drums1078 31-35, M 5 Responses Dec 28, 2009

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    I No Longer Love My Wife....

    I am not sure how to write this. I met my wife and we got on great, had goosebumps each time she said I love you etc etc. In May 2008 she became ill and no one could work out what was wrong with her, lots of operations seeing various medical staff etc she became depressed whilst...
    ampay ampay 31-35 5 Responses Mar 10, 2011

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    Dont Feel Love For My Wife Anymore!

    When we started our relationship the first 2 years were great, then we had a gap where we were buying a flat together and it all changed, she no longer was fun or sexually interested and even when she was interested i was more concerned with getting back at her for being so...
    feelingnolove feelingnolove 31-35, M 7 Responses Mar 9, 2010

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    True Love Never Ends

    MARRIED OR NOT, YOU SHOULD READ THIS ... “When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But...
    Rahamaan Rahamaan 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 21, 2013

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    Lost Love!

    I'm now finding more and more each day I don't love my wife. Yes, she's a smart beautiful woman and we have two wonderful boys. I just don't feel the love. As each day passes, I feel I'm drifting more and more apart! Sometimes I just feel that I should end it all because either...
    iwanttodietoday iwanttodietoday 51-55 2 Responses Feb 10, 2012

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    I'm Not Sure If I Love My Wife Anymore... Or If I Really Did...

    My wife and I have been married for coming up on 8 years now. I met her shortly after I left HS and thought she was gorgeous out going, and the most kind hearted woman I ever knew. At that time we both had different significant others, but quickly became friends. After we had...
    mensoid mensoid 31-35 2 Responses May 29, 2012

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    Don't Know If I Ever Really Did

    I don't know if I love my wife anymore. I am not sure if I ever really did. Never felt the goosebumps or felt or saw or heard the fireworks. We never had intercourse ,but did some heavy petting several b/js. I guess I felt if she would do that for me that I would grow to love her...
    bquick bquick 51-55, M 2 Responses Jan 22, 2008

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    I've been with a partner for nearly the years. We live together with his mum. We live in a very small flat and have done for 18 months. Prior to that, we lived in a family home...
    rebeccadb1 rebeccadb1 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    I hope you guys would take time to read my story, and I'd really appreciate if you could maybe leave some comments below. So my ex-boyfriend and I were together for more than a...
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    I come home from work after my fiance telling me that he doesn't want his ex and can't stand her...day after day lately...to him talking to her the entire time that I am gone. I...
    Pumpkiin Pumpkiin 22-25, F Jan 19

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    I really don't know what I want any more. What I want changes so constantly it's like I'm a different person each time. My boss already got on to me for not telling him what my...
    Kckiss88 Kckiss88 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Can someone give me advice please :( my bf told me he doesn't want a relationship anymore because he is in love with his ex.... I love him so much and it hurt so bad but I'm not...
    babygirlxxxo babygirlxxxo 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 18

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    I'm 30, single with friends that are all married who don't hang out anymore I'm broke saving up money looking for apartments and just got out of a long relationship and just want...
    Darkne55 Darkne55 26-30, F Jan 1

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    I've never posted anything on here before, but at this point I simply don't know what to do. My boyfriend and I have been together for around 2.5 years now, and both of us are in...
    makitath makitath 18-21, F Jan 14

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    I don't know if my life is relevant anymore. I try to make it relevant. I don't really do much to help humanity. I haven't volunteered for over a month at a place I usually...
    obscureriddle obscureriddle 22-25, F a week ago

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    I think I'm in love with a friend of mine. But our relationship is really strange. At first we started off as being really good friends, but last year I had a boyfriend who hated...
    andreatam andreatam 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    There was a time when I knew exactly who I was, what I was, and all that entailed. However, recently that sense of identity has escaped me. There used to be this clear-cut line of...
    LaSouris LaSouris 16-17, T 1 Response 1 day ago

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    A complete silence in my head, decisions i can't make, it's gone. I want you, but i want you every single day. I could just settle with this another, you know that and i'm the one...
    Badeendje Badeendje 18-21, F Jan 14

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    I'm a freshman in college right now and I'm starting my second quarter in two days, but I honestly have no idea what I'm doing with my life. I don't know what I want to do for a...
    dangar3669 dangar3669 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 3

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    Ok well I've been married going on 5 years and for the past 2 it seems that we have lost our connection. I try to do different things to rekindle the fire like have date nights or...
    ThatGuy0120 ThatGuy0120 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 3

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    I want to travel, that's about all I know for sure right now. I got fired for going to my cousin's funeral and I'm losing my house. I want to break up with my ex and we aren't even...
    Karmickitten Karmickitten 22-25, F Jan 3

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    I have this feeling of just rage and complete anger like I could just rip your head off look at you and through away and not think twice about it. Yeah I have issues but so do you...
    Rhykker Rhykker 16-17, M 3 Responses Jan 8

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    I believe in every kind of love except for romance love!!! I don't know why I have parents that are together and they say they love each other... They have never done things that...
    isabel16 isabel16 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 10

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    Am I the only one that doesn't want to feel happy? Most of the time i'm just 'not the in the mood' to act happy, especially around my family. And I know that sounds stupid but i'm...
    ImYourLady ImYourLady 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 1

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    As most of you know, I am dating a girl on here. She is a wonderful person and I couldn't have asked God for a more perfect girlfriend. But I have a weird feeling, like abandonment...
    Sierra1993 Sierra1993 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    I'm the most useless person who ever lived. I've never had to survive on my own, I've always been supported. No matter what, I always had a foundation to stand on. But in recent...
    IDidntWantToSignUp IDidntWantToSignUp 18-21 3 Responses Jan 10

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    i don't know what i want to do with my life. i feel like the only way for me to keep moving forward is to go somewhere completely foreign and start again. the life i have here...
    msr1122 msr1122 18-21, F Jan 5

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    I don't want to see I don't want to hear I don't want to feel They all go too deep. My senses are shaper than knives. I don't want them. I don't want to be me. I don't like the me...
    TheShadowedGirl TheShadowedGirl 36-40 1 Response Jan 18

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    i don't know if i'm supposed to be monogamous. no matter how much i like the idea of a husband, two kids, some pets, and a house, i always get bored with my current partner and...
    iridescenteyes iridescenteyes 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I don't know what to do...my life is crumbling apart and I have no idea what to do to fix it. My best friend/sister doesn't trust me and I can sorta understand why considering all...
    snowolf13 snowolf13 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    I feel like all the stress and frustration is all thrown at me. Like I don't know what else my mom wants me to do. I feel like she tells me the same thing everytime and I don't...
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 4

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    did I spell that right? Yeah I know it sound kind of absurd but some how I can't be bothered to do anything Yeah I have passion. More like dead end ones. Like art and theatre (I...
    hollowboxies hollowboxies 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 5

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    I have a younger sister that is 12 years old, which makes her three years younger than me. We moved two years ago to a different country. Me and my siblings didn't really have a...
    NevaAmethyst NevaAmethyst 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 5

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    My husband and I just married in April 2014. I didn't even want to get married, but he did, so we did. Now I'm at the perfect time and age to have children. I'm almost 28 (will be...
    raziel1687 raziel1687 22-25, F Jan 6

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    As a kid I've always been bullied for my looks and brought down. Although as I've gotten older and told I'm good looking I don't know if it's true, all because of when I was...
    TayCon321 TayCon321 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 10

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    I'm living in a loveless marriage and don't know how I'm going to continue for 9 more years. I can't be without my kids so divorce isn't an option. She has turned so sour on me...
    sparksearcher sparksearcher 41-45, M 3 Responses Jan 15

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    I feel like I'm in limbo... I can never get involved in anything for more than a day. I don't have any friends, and my family isn't much... I feel like I'm not good at anything, so...
    dinorap1 dinorap1 13-15, F Jan 18

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    I don't know why being in love is causing me to be more moody than I usually am
    Princeofnothing Princeofnothing 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 18

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    I don't know why people are so judgemental. I can't stand it. People pick on other people just because of their appearance. I mean the world we live in now is so not like what God...
    lizzielazylove97 lizzielazylove97 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    I don't know why I'm so alone. I don't know why people's judge me all the time, I don't know why I'm never good enough, I don't know why life is so hard. I dunno...
    imjustmex33 imjustmex33 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    I have a really bad situation. One of my friends is suffering a lot of stuff and her parents don't seem to care. I really want to help her but don't know how to. I talk to her...
    chasetheweirdo8 chasetheweirdo8 13-15, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    My dad died 5 months before I was born in a car accident, and I never got to meet him. I know that he was an amazing man. My mom was widowed for 8 years, with 4 children at home...
    chloeangela chloeangela 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Um, hi world. Ok, I don't know if you've shared your real name, so hello betruetoyourself14. You left the window open on the computer when you left to get your medication and...
    betruetoyourself14 betruetoyourself14 13-15, F 5 days ago

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