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I Don't Know If I Love My Wife Anymore

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    Trapped? - Okay, been married 10 years, although we are both military and because of stationing have only actually lived together for the past 5 or so. We have two 6 year old...
    gator26 gator26 31-35 8 Responses Jul 13, 2012

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    I'm Not Sure If I Love My Wife Anymore... Or If I Really Did... - My wife and I have been married for coming up on 8 years now. I met her shortly after I left HS and thought she...
    mensoid mensoid 31-35 3 Responses May 29, 2012

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    Dont Feel Love For My Wife Anymore! - When we started our relationship the first 2 years were great, then we had a gap where we were buying a flat together and it all changed...
    feelingnolove feelingnolove 31-35, M 8 Responses Mar 9, 2010

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    What To Do... - I have been married for 3 yrs now.  in total, weve been together for 11.  im not sure if i got married for the wrong reasons or what, but im in a...
    drums1078 drums1078 31-35, M 5 Responses Dec 28, 2009

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    I have read the stories and it seems so much like my own. I really loved her so much but of late, I feel nothing at all. I really want this to work out, but, I'm just tired of the...
    markfulton markfulton 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 9

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    Starting To Dislike My Wife - My story is so much like many other stories here. I just had to share. I've been married for 18 years and have 3 wonderful kids. But for at least the...
    tee380sl tee380sl 51-55, M 5 Responses Sep 16, 2013

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    Lost Love! - I'm now finding more and more each day I don't love my wife. Yes, she's a smart beautiful woman and we have two wonderful boys. I just don't feel the love. As each day...
    iwanttodietoday iwanttodietoday 51-55 2 Responses Feb 10, 2012

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    Don't Know If I Ever Really Did - I don't know if I love my wife anymore. I am not sure if I ever really did. Never felt the goosebumps or felt or saw or heard the fireworks. We...
    bquick bquick 51-55, M 3 Responses Jan 22, 2008

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    I No Longer Love My Wife.... - I am not sure how to write this. I met my wife and we got on great, had goosebumps each time she said I love you etc etc. In May 2008 she became ill...
    ampay ampay 31-35 5 Responses Mar 10, 2011

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    ....tell me what I should do. Please please please is there a way to fix this?.....Is there a way.....to keep from ending everything?..... .....I hurt you if I stay, I hurt you if...
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    I don't know what it is about me, but people just institutionally turn against me for reasons I never find out, if the person ever actually knows why they hate me. Every time. I...
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    I'm a 16 year old girl. My whole life I have been trying to make my parents proud, but I've never been able to socialize properly with kids my age, I was always numb or upset...
    AGirlSearchingForAnswers AGirlSearchingForAnswers 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    alaskanrose90 alaskanrose90 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    randomgrl randomgrl 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    Most of my childhood others have told me how to feel, what to think, what to say, do this, do that. The one's who claimed to love me, controlled every aspect of me. I thought when...
    BEYMMXIII BEYMMXIII 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 20

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    I don't know what I'm doing with my life. And that scares the hell out of me. I am told constantly to be better in every area of life, yet I can't be. I can't be perfect...
    monsterchic monsterchic 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    There is one person that my whole life seems to revolve around... there really isn't much more in my life besides work. We are in separate countries and even though we are 5000...
    ballen0420 ballen0420 36-40, M Mar 24

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    SylenaEverlasting SylenaEverlasting 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 18

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    Okay. It sounds sort of child like when you say "I don't know what I want to be when I grow up" especially when I'm 17. I mean I have a few ideas in my head, but haven't settled on...
    jasminepage jasminepage 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 19

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