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I Don't Know If I Love My Wife Anymore

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 47 People

    Starting To Dislike My Wife

    My story is so much like many other stories here. I just had to share. I've been married for 18 years and have 3 wonderful kids. But for at least the last 10 years I feel my marriage has been going down hill. I consider myself a good man, good husband, good father and a good...
    tee380sl tee380sl 51-55, M 7 Responses Sep 16, 2013

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    Don't Know If I Ever Really Did

    I don't know if I love my wife anymore. I am not sure if I ever really did. Never felt the goosebumps or felt or saw or heard the fireworks. We never had intercourse ,but did some heavy petting several b/js. I guess I felt if she would do that for me that I would grow to love her...
    bquick bquick 51-55, M 2 Responses Jan 22, 2008

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    Lost Love!

    I'm now finding more and more each day I don't love my wife. Yes, she's a smart beautiful woman and we have two wonderful boys. I just don't feel the love. As each day passes, I feel I'm drifting more and more apart! Sometimes I just feel that I should end it all because either...
    iwanttodietoday iwanttodietoday 51-55 2 Responses Feb 10, 2012

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    True Love Never Ends

    MARRIED OR NOT, YOU SHOULD READ THIS ... “When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But...
    Rahamaan Rahamaan 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 21, 2013

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    I'm Not Sure If I Love My Wife Anymore... Or If I Really Did...

    My wife and I have been married for coming up on 8 years now. I met her shortly after I left HS and thought she was gorgeous out going, and the most kind hearted woman I ever knew. At that time we both had different significant others, but quickly became friends. After we had...
    mensoid mensoid 31-35 3 Responses May 29, 2012

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    I No Longer Love My Wife....

    I am not sure how to write this. I met my wife and we got on great, had goosebumps each time she said I love you etc etc. In May 2008 she became ill and no one could work out what was wrong with her, lots of operations seeing various medical staff etc she became depressed whilst...
    ampay ampay 31-35 6 Responses Mar 10, 2011

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    What To Do...

    I have been married for 3 yrs now.  in total, weve been together for 11.  im not sure if i got married for the wrong reasons or what, but im in a situation now where i just dont think im in love with her anymore.  we just bought a house last year, and she has done...
    drums1078 drums1078 31-35, M 5 Responses Dec 28, 2009

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    Dont Feel Love For My Wife Anymore!

    When we started our relationship the first 2 years were great, then we had a gap where we were buying a flat together and it all changed, she no longer was fun or sexually interested and even when she was interested i was more concerned with getting back at her for being so...
    feelingnolove feelingnolove 31-35, M 7 Responses Mar 9, 2010

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    I have read the stories

    and it seems so much like my own. I really loved her so much but of late, I feel nothing at all. I really want this to work out, but, I'm just tired of the way things are going. We have 4 kids all under 13 and I want them to grow with both parents. She always undermines me, she...
    markfulton markfulton 41-45, M 3 Responses Mar 9, 2014

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    Trapped?

    Okay, been married 10 years, although we are both military and because of stationing have only actually lived together for the past 5 or so. We have two 6 year old twins with Autism, and a 6 month old baby (the "save the marriage" kid). I'm quite certain that I don't love my...
    gator26 gator26 31-35 8 Responses Jul 13, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    This is a recent development for me. For most of my life, I have had passions, interests, and a strong drive to pursue great experiences. However, I feel that, these days, my...
    curiouscallipso curiouscallipso 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    I don't know why I do, I get up to fall again ,maybe because I think it will get better and it dose for a second then leaves me to fall again
    loneleyboy loneleyboy 13-15, M 1 day ago

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    I feel like I have friends, but I don't care so much about them anymore. They're always busy and I'm always not. I feel like I'm always the one who has to contact them, and if it's...
    LucidLife11 LucidLife11 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    I don't know. I don't think I am. I've got long brown hair in a pony-tail, haven't shaved in a while...I sort of look like Kahl Drogo from Game of Thrones but WAY less buff...
    548mitch 548mitch 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Me and my twin brother have always been really close, ever since we were born. He calls me his "little sister" cause he was born a few minutes before me. We talked about everything...
    jmorgan27288 jmorgan27288 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I don't know if anyone else has this issue. My boyfriend constantly plays video games, it's progressed over the years. I like to play once in awhile, but I really don't like them...
    Worleybirdie Worleybirdie 22-25, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I met this guy a yr ago.. Internet messaging turned into texting phone call and face time. We met once and spent time together. We live in different states. He'd call me his girl...
    CJ0181 CJ0181 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Stay tuned for another episode of incessant rambling from a crazy woman! Every day I wake up as a different person with different views and different desires. One day I feel so...
    astateofdisarray astateofdisarray 18-21, F a week ago

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    I don't know why there are girls who send me nude photos after telling me I'm pretty... Every time I open my inbox, I always get surprises. haha!Not that I don't like women's...
    leztat leztat 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 28

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    Ok so I've been with this guy for 8 months now and I recently brought up that there's no depth to our relationship, It happened to be that time of the month and he asked "are u...
    AnnieLouisez AnnieLouisez 26-30, F 9 Responses Jun 28

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    i don't believe I will make it life. why? nothing means much to me...i know there are days when I have 'bliss' because of distractions, but in the end I can't find meaning in much...
    RedChaplin RedChaplin 18-21, M 4 Responses Jun 27

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    I just don't know what to do anymore we where happy but I never see her anymore and we hardly talk witch Is crazy becuse she used to text me every five seconds and I was ok with it...
    paulsmith345 paulsmith345 16-17, M Jun 27

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    I'm such a **** up, I can't continue on like this forever and I don't know what to do anymore. I have no future, I can't afford one.
    renlambert renlambert 13-15 Jun 26

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    I have been married for a little over 10 years and have been miserable for about 9 of it. I have 2 beautiful girls both under the age of 10 whom I love to the moon and back. After...
    laiken20 laiken20 36-40, F 4 Responses Jun 25

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    I live in Santa Ana California and I am very concerned about my niece. My niece lives with here mom in a car/Cheap Motels. Her loser dad which is my brother is in jail and her mom...
    Sublimegirl Sublimegirl 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    I know that I'm cute but that's not what men seem to want they want sexy you know And I know that I'm just a cute girl. I'm fit with a good body and I'm not only cute but pretty...
    bemmie bemmie 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 25

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    He's gone and I don't know how to breathe properly without him. He's gone and every sight, sound and word assaults my mind with thoughts of him. It didn't matter that his part was...
    forgedindarkness forgedindarkness 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    I'm 13, and weigh 108 lbs. My thighs feel fat, but my mom says they're "curves." nah. I just don't know.
    avreyyh avreyyh 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    I look at the sunset and inwardly smile. I know it's always going to be there for me. I look at the moon and worry. I don't know why I get so scared at night. I can feel the tiny...
    zax2 zax2 51-55, M Jun 24

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    I feel like I'm unlovable. People always say great things about me. My friends say I know a lot of people at school and they always say hi. But no one ever makes an effort to get...
    RileyRed RileyRed 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    Thats what the titles says....i really don't know anymore
    FourEyedLad FourEyedLad 36-40, M Jun 24

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    My first real best friend who turned out to be a *****, I don't know how to get her damned voice out of my head. The more I think about it, the more I'm realizing how I didn't...
    jacithepanda jacithepanda 13-15, F Jun 23

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    .. I feel homesick it was eversince I was young, but it didn't really bother me back then now I came into a realization that I want to go home but I don't know where It is, a while...
    franchezca franchezca 13-15, F Jun 22

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    My mother and father are so stupid. I am really smart. My whole life I have had to deal with morons that don't know how to spell, communicate with people correctly, or do anything...
    bjssoi bjssoi 31-35, F Jun 22

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    June 21, 2009 I never knew that day could end up being one that was burned in the back of my brain for ever. Well buddy it's been six years since mommy lost you. To top that off...
    forgottenheart forgottenheart 18-21, F Jun 21

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    I'm 24 years old. I have 2 useless degrees. I don't want to live in a city and work in an office and die there. I want to travel the world and meet people and do good. I don't know...
    yayaya24 yayaya24 26-30, F Jun 21

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    My husband gets infuriated when I don't see something the same way he does. Even if I do see it his way but also see it a different way, he gets incredibly upset about it. I don't...
    thatonecxnt thatonecxnt 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 21

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    well first I rarely get them. So when I do, it's pretty weird and I feel awkward somehow. So from that, I even don't know how to compliment others which suck. In my head I'd be...
    CallMeShayYeah CallMeShayYeah 16-17, F Jun 20

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    i don't want to leave my room and face reality but i know i have to. no matter how many times i tell everyone i'm fine everybody believes it.... no one sees the lie anymore. i...
    catsrule5678 catsrule5678 18-21, F Jun 20

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    I really don't know. I don't think so, but i can't tell.
    Nicodemus1223 Nicodemus1223 18-21, M Jun 19

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    I know who my name and such. I just don't know me or what I am supposed to be. I haven't found anything yet I like to really do or any close friends.
    idodger idodger 13-15, M Jun 19

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    Alot of times I just don't know what to say too people so I just avoid them sometimes in general. But don't get me wrong I actually have made some really good freinds who I no...
    vnon123 vnon123 16-17, M Jun 19

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